FabSwingers.com forum: Social only

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Fuck that for a game of soldiers

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Yes. I used to do lot of coffee meets that where only ever going to be socials. It got me out the house and meeting new people

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Ah the old coffee only...

It's sweet some people want to socially meet me I guess but if I want to have sex with them and they've already decided that would never happen...Rex's comment

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Of course. I have. I would definitely do so again. I’m interest in many different people for many different reasons x

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I have met several people for a social meet with no attraction involved.We either stayed friends.Or moved on.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It wouldn't be a waste of time for me, no. I love meeting people socially, whether there's chemistry or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. I used to do lot of coffee meets that where only ever going to be socials. It got me out the house and meeting new people"

Was it mostly forum people?

(Glad to see you back, hope you're doing ok.)

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Of course… as long as it is crystal clear that it won’t go any further than a platonic friendship.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

I’d do it to help people out that needed veris. I’ve actually got a meet up now for a social tomorrow so I’ll advertise that here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have a social only if it was to get to k ow each other and see if I’m the flesh the attraction was there

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Yes absolutely. It would be great to put faces to names and at least we'd know we had something in common to chat about. I think both parties would have to be clear about where it wasn't heading right from the start though.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Yes. I used to do lot of coffee meets that where only ever going to be socials. It got me out the house and meeting new people

Was it mostly forum people?

(Glad to see you back, hope you're doing ok.)"
No it wasn't forum people at all. I did it to help guys get verified

. I'm not to bad thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, If there’s a connection there, even if it isn’t sexual. I could use a few more friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Yes I would. It's a potential platonic friendship and at the least a day/night out and they could be someone you either.....

Set the world's to rights with

Have an utter scream with

Share some common ground with and just enjoy

Or just let loose with knowing you get along enough to do so.

Probably more so with same sex than opposite though on here.

I've had women approach for platonic friendships when I asked for a female club buddy where I didn't want to get naked with them in the process

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A waste of fucking time or a waste of fucking. time. ?

If meet someone for just a social, happily

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

"I could use a few more friends

This! ^^^^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A waste of fucking time or a waste of fucking. time. ?

If meet someone for just a social, happily

A waste of Fucking Time.

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Why would it be a wste of time ?? we've always regarded this site and other's like it as social sites just as much as strictly lets get some parts wet site ?? and a social is a good way for some people to meet up with out any pressure ? but seems that of you are happy to do just a social you are looked own upon and the BUT BUT BUT it's a sex site site lot start ??

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

Always, especially if it’s in a bar because I get better looking the more you drink!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"A waste of fucking time or a waste of fucking. time. ?

If meet someone for just a social, happily

A waste of Fucking Time.

We'll I'd meet you Mrs O. There are quite a few people I'd love to meet socially. Probably I'd waste their fucking time

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Yep. Have done before. Will do again.

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Yup, why on earth not.

Just because we don't want to shag doesn't mean we can't enjoy each others company......

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

People are just people.

Done it many times.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I like meeting people from Fab just to have a drink and a chat. Sometimes I fancy them. Sometimes I don’t. But chatting and laughing together about Fab stuff and sex stuff out in a bar or a coffeeshop is always fun and I’m always up for it.

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Yes. I used to do lot of coffee meets that where only ever going to be socials. It got me out the house and meeting new people"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! I have done and would again.

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By *aldyreynoldsMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

Enjoy a social meet, if anything develops then great, if not then no worries.

Think a social is more of a problem for the married ones.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends, if I genuinely enjoyed chatting to them then yeah why not.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Enjoy a social meet, if anything develops then great, if not then no worries.

Think a social is more of a problem for the married ones."

The point is that there's no possibility of anything developing. Would you meet socially under those circumstances?

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Eh?

That sounds normal to me.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

^ First time I met that one it was just a social. There were pints involved.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"^ First time I met that one it was just a social. There were pints involved."

Alright, maybe a bit of snogging as well.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"^ First time I met that one it was just a social. There were pints involved.

Alright, maybe a bit of snogging as well."

And a nipple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Yes. There are a number of Fabsters I meet socially. Some for walks, some for picnics, some for waffles. I find people interesting.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Yep I have done so on a few occasions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , I’ve got a good friend from a social coffee, we get on really well and chat , but then I’ve done a social and the spark wasn’t there and when said just happy for socials only I’ve said no …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!

I think it’s not that easy to make friends as an adult, so whatever helps me getting out and being more sociable

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I’d consider a no sex naked snuggle meet

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By *isterE ManMan
over a year ago

Taunton

Sounds like making a friend who knows, to me.

I am always up for social!

Someone to go have a laugh with. I dont have to fuck everyone!! Could even be a more beneficial friendship in the long run.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I absolutely would

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

If local, then yes.

I can speak with women I don't fancy easier about anything.

I feel pressure to compliment or not to say anything stupid with women I fancy.

I can speak freely without pressure, if I had a sign it's mutual.

If we get to the sex part, then I'm like a porn star with absolute confidence.

Light up like I'm opening the best Christmas present ever.

Well, I used to be a good shag (apparently), but not sure where I stand now.

The only complaint I've ever got from a girlfriend is:

" I love it when you f*ck me hard, but I wouldn't mind to make love sometimes."

I said: "Errr Sorry, I will try."

We tried that for 2 minutes, then she said: " F*ck me!"

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Yes I would. It's a potential platonic friendship and at the least a day/night out and they could be someone you either.....

Set the world's to rights with

Have an utter scream with

Share some common ground with and just enjoy

Or just let loose with knowing you get along enough to do so.

Probably more so with same sex than opposite though on here.

I've had women approach for platonic friendships when I asked for a female club buddy where I didn't want to get naked with them in the process

We never did make it to the cinema all those years ago x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

It’s all I do here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a woman? No

With a guy? Sure why not

Don’t really need woman friends in my life

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Yep!

I think it’s not that easy to make friends as an adult, so whatever helps me getting out and being more sociable

This

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Why not? It's always good to meet new people. I'd be very happy to have social meets.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Yes and I have done

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Yes I have done a few times and stayed friends with them afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

It depends, if a coffee meet for both was the expectation and it was a chance to catch up in person/meet in real life etc etc sure. As it doesn't mean it'll just stop there, once meeting it could develope into more. You don't know?!

But looking at this at face value, yes I would. As I'd only agree to meet someone I found I really get on with or are hilarious etc. Why would I want to miss out on that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, no.

I've had this before, guys wanting to meet just for a coffee because we "get on".

If I have no desire to have your penis in me, I just aren't that interested.

I have enough friends. I want the sex.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Have done in the past and would happily do it again.

Sadly however I think my age may be a deterrent now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

I would, might be a good night out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah of course. People are more than just sex partners, I might meet good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and have done so.

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By *GermanInLondonMan
over a year ago

London

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Yes, always great to get to know new people. Easier the more common interests are shared.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Used to do that a few times a week for morning cuppa socials, met some very interesting people. Then I went back to work full time

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

If we've developed a relationship of some kind then I'm happy to meet a Fab friend for a drink or tea.

It would be quite nice to have some people to talk to about Fab stuff.

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By *Cups32Woman
over a year ago

Colne

Yes, I have some great fab friends who I'd meet for a social only.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes. It's the best reason to meet. As there is usually coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. It's the best reason to meet. As there is usually coffee

I was invited to one meet by a lovely lady where we had cake - it was purely for a social, cos her preference is for a different colour, but it was a really pleasant afternoon to natter (and the cake was great)

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have met a few people knowing beforehand that it would never go beyond a coffee or social meet.

I don't have expectations of having sex with everyone I chat to on here and I never meet without a social anyway.

I chat for weeks or even months before any meet takes place and some people were interesting in a non sexual way.

This was long before I started using the forums so they weren't people I planned on being friends with.

I don't see any of that as a waste of time just as I don't see conversations that fizzle out and never reach that stage as a waste either.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Unlikely, unless it was a woman.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

My god… I’d go for a drink and a chat with anyone….

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

I have friends I’ve met in person on the club scene I’m friends with but don’t fuck.

However I wouldn’t purposely arrange this. I have friends in the real world so don’t see the need for it on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No harm in being social. It would be wise to socialise to see if suited for a walk on the wild side or no thanks.

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes, why not? I like socialising

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Absolutely!

Tea, cake and a good laugh. It’s good for you

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By *ixiePoisonWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Yes why not? It’s great to meet new people

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By *tephanie63Woman
over a year ago

BRIDGWATER

I would be happy to do social meets to make new platonic friends....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

People who think social is a waste of fucking time don’t get much fucking time I’d suggest

I’m very sociable do like socials.

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By *andadbodMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Done plenty of them with my wife when meeting other couples, was just nice to socialise and chat about past experiences with no agenda or pressure of having to take things further, we still keep in touch with a few of the couples we became close friends with.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Yes.

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

If they were/are local, or we happened to be in a mutually convenient area, then yes sure. You can never have enough friends right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials, are they then dates?

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By *MattyMan
over a year ago

Naked coffee house near you - Wiltshire - Swindon

Yes, many a coffee meet have stayed at just that but the conversation and giggles were good, just not enough to go further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah of course I would! It would be nice to get out of the house for something fresh to do, might even discover new places to eat/drink that are really good!

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I absolutely would

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Should be a good laugh, if nothing else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not.

U never know.

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat

I enjoy the social side of meeting people so yes I would but would make it very clear that I am not looking for anything sexual. They can either back out or meet on a platonic basis

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By *andy BarSteward73Man
over a year ago

Sandwell

Certainly, still good to socialise with like-minded individuals, besides I don't judge a person based on a few profile pics, and hope they don't on mine.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Meh... I've done a few socials where I know I have zero attraction to them and honestly it does feel like a bit of a waste of time

I know I don't want anything from them.

I know nothing is going to happen.

It's just spending time with a stranger.

If we have things in common and can have a decent chat that's one thing.

But meeting people through fab (or other such sites) who I have little in common with and feel no physical attraction towards just seems pointless to me.

You're just wasting each others time

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Had a very nice one recently

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I enjoy chatting to people. I usually have a social as a first stage and then we both decide if there is any spark there and if we'll meet again, or leave things there.

It gets me out of the house

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By *ilver2000Man
over a year ago

South West

I would always do a social coffee meet up first before I would consider letting anyone come to my place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have, it was lovely - we met, had coffee.. I gazed into his stunning blue eyes, he sated his desire to meet me. We parted and occasionally checked in on each other for the next year as friends

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I think there are two different things being talked about in this thread, as it’s grown longer.

There’s the idea of socials as a taster. As a potential prelude to taking things further. A social to see if there’s a spark. That’s a date really, isn’t it? Meeting up to see if you fancy each other.

Then there’s the idea of just a social. Not a date. Just meeting for drinks, for chat. As mates. Totally platonic.

I think Outsider was talking about the latter kind, when she started the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think there are two different things being talked about in this thread, as it’s grown longer.

Then there’s the idea of just a social. Not a date. Just meeting for drinks, for chat. As mates. Totally platonic.

I think Outsider was talking about the latter kind, when she started the thread."

Which one would you want with me

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Which one would you want with me

The one with the flirting and those eyelash emojis, please. When you’re next free.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Which one would you want with me

The one with the flirting and those eyelash emojis, please. When you’re next free.

Can I have a do over

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Inspired me to book a pure social for when I’m down Coventry way at the weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have friends I’ve met in person on the club scene I’m friends with but don’t fuck.

However I wouldn’t purposely arrange this. I have friends in the real world so don’t see the need for it on here

Same. If I want a coffee and a chat, I'll see a friend. I have many I never get enough time with, and I'm constantly meeting new interesting people through my work, volunteering, and social life.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends how chatty they were (and how local). I’m painfully shy in person so they’d have to be quite outgoing themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends how chatty they were (and how local). I’m painfully shy in person so they’d have to be quite outgoing themselves.

I could sit and babble complete nonsense while my eyes took in every inch of your delectable appearance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

Depends on the people. We’ve met people socially only and became good friends and had some great nights out.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

I have lots of them. As long as you both agree it's strictly social and you think you would get on then why the hell not

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Social only 100% would, its good to chat to new people and not have them assume you want to touch their bits!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I suppose i could consider it but initially i would have to be attracted

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Its not something I have done in the past, but after reading the above comments, I think I'm going to start doing this.

No harm making new acquaintances/friends

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

If I had no plans on the day & we had got on at a banter/ casual chit chat level then yeah could meet. It would be like just meeting a friend as I don’t fuck all my female friends haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done group socials but I don't think I could do a one to one social with someone I fancied if I knew it wasn't going anywhere but I absolutely would if it was platonic

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By *ddie1966Man
over a year ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Absolutely.

Love a good chinwag.

Maybe I'm not normal, but I feel OK.

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By *red and daphneCouple
over a year ago

in the middle

We love socials. We have made some amazing friends without anything sexual being suggested

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

"Would you ever consider a social only meet? With someone who you have no sexual desire for (and they have none for you)?

Or would that be a waste of fucking time?

I think that’s what exes are for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think there are two different things being talked about in this thread, as it’s grown longer.

Then there’s the idea of just a social. Not a date. Just meeting for drinks, for chat. As mates. Totally platonic.

I think Outsider was talking about the latter kind, when she started the thread."

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