FabSwingers.com forum: How do I serve a Woman, as a woman.

By *anniellaBiTS OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

I have yet to serve a Woman as a (trans) woman. I did numerous times though when I wrongly identified as a male (shudder).

This has got me thinking.

Does a Domme want different things from a sub who is a (trans) woman? Though I know what every Domme wants is going to be different and individual to Her.

I know my thoughts, but they are probably influenced by porn and selfish desires and maybe completely different from reality.

I want to serve a Domme, or maybe a Trans Domme.

I know for my own subbie mind that I'm curious to be trained to only enjoy play whilst in chastity as it really helps my dysphoria, and makes my mind extra submissive.

Through a mix of dysphoria and selfishness I'm curious about being trained to only climax in chastity with a magic wand. Or maybe anal too.

I'm curious about pain. About being spanked, possibly whipped. I don't know.

I know I enjoy being penerated much more than penetrating.

I think I need a mentor.

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Hire a Mistress maybe ...

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By *anniellaBiTS OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

"Hire a Mistress maybe ...

I have worked as a Pro Domme. But it's not an hour fix I need.

All the best connections I have made during intimate play are in relationships. So im looking for a swinging partner or fwb.

A girl can but try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female dominants are a difficult bunch to reach. Submissive men are often do me subs and it gets tiring.

Approach them like people, not kink first. Starting with Mistress is not a good idea unless her profile specifically asks for that.

Each Domme has different things they want from a sub, so as keen as you are to try and get a jump, maybe waiting until you've found someone you wish to serve.

Maybe try some generic training, while your seeking. Kneeling. Positions. Keeping fit. Growing a collection of toys etc. Interchangeable skills that many Dommes use at some point.

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By *anniellaBiTS OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Thank you and all good points

And you are definitely correct on how to approach.

I have been on the fetish scene of just shy of 20 years. As a male sub, male Dom, trans Pro Domme. This is my 1st time as a trans sub though. It shouldn't be any different, but for some reason it feels it.

I know and have had all the training, have a large flight bag full of standard sex toys and a big bag full of BDSM equipment.

I will have to be patient but will take your advice on board.

Thank you.

"Female dominants are a difficult bunch to reach. Submissive men are often do me subs and it gets tiring.

Approach them like people, not kink first. Starting with Mistress is not a good idea unless her profile specifically asks for that.

Each Domme has different things they want from a sub, so as keen as you are to try and get a jump, maybe waiting until you've found someone you wish to serve.

Maybe try some generic training, while your seeking. Kneeling. Positions. Keeping fit. Growing a collection of toys etc. Interchangeable skills that many Dommes use at some point. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I serve her with whipped cream

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By *anniellaBiTS OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

"I serve her with whipped cream

Lol. X

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