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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville

can you be arsed contacting them!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope i tend not to meet people too close to home

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville

does that mean regional, town or nearest city?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wont meet anyone who lives close to me, if theres a chance i could see them while out shopping i dont meet

Ive got a guy at the monet mailing me keep asking me to meet but he lives less than a mile away and even tho hes a nice guy and good looking i just feel its to close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ive had mail asking me to meet local people but i won't.

And for me its within about 30 mins of where i live.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"i wont meet anyone who lives close to me, if theres a chance i could see them while out shopping i dont meet

Ive got a guy at the monet mailing me keep asking me to meet but he lives less than a mile away and even tho hes a nice guy and good looking i just feel its to close"

I'm the same. But the guy who keeps messaging me isn't good looking lol.

But Im wary about meeting people too close x

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

def notttttt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wont meet anyone who lives close to me, if theres a chance i could see them while out shopping i dont meet

Ive got a guy at the monet mailing me keep asking me to meet but he lives less than a mile away and even tho hes a nice guy and good looking i just feel its to close

I'm the same. But the guy who keeps messaging me isn't good looking lol.

But Im wary about meeting people too close x"

i think it would be good while things where going ok, but it only takes someone to take the huff if you told them you didnt want to meet anymore and all the locals could know your buisness, not everyones as bothered about keeping this side of their life to themselves as others are

As my old Nan used to say....dont shit on your own door step lol

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville

only reason I ask is the people on my updates page are either mute, not my type (for the most) or picturelss.

*Might change my postcode area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes ive had mail asking me to meet local people but i won't.

And for me its within about 30 mins of where i live. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've worked out that someone I really fancy getting in touch with actually lives less than a mile up the road...

No way am I ever taking the chance!

If something went wrong - my life could be made hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never really thought about it but wouldn't be in a rush to meet someone within walking distance on the off chance it all went wrong.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Wouldn't bother me, though all the local single guys that have contacted me (i.e. from my town itself) are actually married so I won't go there with them; whilst I have no problems playing with married guys from away, I do know the neighbours would notice Jane Smith's husband coming to mine and prefer not to shit on own doorstep in that case

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"can you be arsed contacting them!

lol"
Nope, about 30 miles minimum - dont want to stand in the Lidl queue behind them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do say

"never crap on your own doorstep" for a reason....I just think its nice when things are ok but if something goes wrong and you fall out....they ...or you .? may have a field day telling tales

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I don't care - I have no secrets. And if they out me then they are outing themselves at the same time. Two-way street.

I feel no shame in what I am doing so if I did meet someone and then bumped into them in the supermarket it would not be a problem for me (though they may find it a problem). I would be quite happy to pass the time of day.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"They do say

"never crap on your own doorstep" for a reason....I just think its nice when things are ok but if something goes wrong and you fall out....they ...or you .? may have a field day telling tales "
And there was I thinking that most people were not into scat play...;-)

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I don't care - I have no secrets. And if they out me then they are outing themselves at the same time. Two-way street.

I feel no shame in what I am doing so if I did meet someone and then bumped into them in the supermarket it would not be a problem for me (though they may find it a problem). I would be quite happy to pass the time of day."
I would only be worried about the ideas people might get behind us.. overhearing the conversations...

Sometimes when I talk to my vanilla friends (who DO know about my other life) I forget they are still vanilla and it is not until I say something (wholly) inappropriate... that they remind me that they are still "pure"

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I meet them in disguise. I am actually 4'3 and blonde.

Seriously though, as I meet in hotels then for all I know they could live round the corner. Although as men in York don't play for some reason I reckon I'm safe.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I don't care - I have no secrets. And if they out me then they are outing themselves at the same time. Two-way street.

I feel no shame in what I am doing so if I did meet someone and then bumped into them in the supermarket it would not be a problem for me (though they may find it a problem). I would be quite happy to pass the time of day.I would only be worried about the ideas people might get behind us.. overhearing the conversations...

Sometimes when I talk to my vanilla friends (who DO know about my other life) I forget they are still vanilla and it is not until I say something (wholly) inappropriate... that they remind me that they are still "pure" "

My answer to being overheard would be - 'then you shouldn't be bloody listening!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy who lived quite close some yrs back and it was ok......until he got it into his head that it was ok to knock on my door when ever he was horny or comming back from the pub........until i told him otherwise. bloody cheek

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm happy to. I've even seen swingers I know out and about in town.

I don't make it public knowledge what I do but I don't really worry about it too much either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldnt worry me now........in fact it would be quite nice to have a shag "on tap" so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met someone who lived 5 min away in car a couple of yrs ago. Big mistake, I often have to dive for cover when out shopping

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"It wouldnt worry me now........in fact it would be quite nice to have a shag "on tap" so to speak. "

Sounds good to me

Jo x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Years ago i used to see a guy from the camp who was only five miles from me, i used to see less of him than guys that lived miles away.

Also i see two guys from the next town as me and i see them less, wonder if its because its easy and if we want to meet we can and it doesnt have to be planned as such

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Years ago i used to see a guy from the camp who was only five miles from me, i used to see less of him than guys that lived miles away.

Also i see two guys from the next town as me and i see them less, wonder if its because its easy and if we want to meet we can and it doesnt have to be planned as such

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to more because of the jobs I have; day job for a housing association and second job is in a pub and have already been contacted by someone who then saw me at work

On another note, I don't go to the Lodge as the first time I went there, my sons mate turned up, a couple who's kids went to school with mine and a woman who knew me from the estate I live on, never again

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"I prefer not to more because of the jobs I have; day job for a housing association and second job is in a pub and have already been contacted by someone who then saw me at work

On another note, I don't go to the Lodge as the first time I went there, my sons mate turned up, a couple who's kids went to school with mine and a woman who knew me from the estate I live on, never again "

Might as well have partied at home .......lol

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville

so my options in a radius:

blackpool, crosby, lythem, liverpool, wigan, salford, lymn, blackburn, halifax, burnley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No my town is small so I won't meet anyone too close.. Too much of a hassle worrying if I should bump into folk (then having to explain how I know them) whilst I'm with my friends..

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