FabSwingers.com forum: Stomachs

By *CLM87 OP Woman
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Guys...

What's your preference..?

Do you like flat, a little bump at the bottom or a big stomach.

I've always been conscious of mine... I have like a bump under my naval.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Big stomach not my cup of tea, others 2 you said are fine

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would absolutely love to have a really flat, toned stomach but I'm too lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, my preference is for a full figure with a big round tummy, hips, bum and thighs. Curves lover

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town

"Personally, my preference is for a full figure with a big round tummy, hips, bum and thighs. Curves lover

Couldn’t of put it better myself

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By *CLM87 OP Woman
over a year ago

Derbyshire

It's always nice to hear... as I think it's something alot of women are conscious off

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

The way I feel about stomachs is I get distracted by pussy, tits and kisses

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

A little cushion for the pushin’

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Mine is huge, floppy and very soft. It makes a great pillow. Children and cats love sleeping on it.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Personally, my preference is for a full figure with a big round tummy, hips, bum and thighs. Curves lover

Couldn’t of put it better myself "

... but you might have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like people that have a similar body to me so I guess flat! It just looks more appealing to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would absolutely love to have a really flat, toned stomach but I'm too lazy.

Same!!!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Flat and toned are my weakness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate the effort and work it takes to have one but I'm more into curves.

Physical touch plays a huge part in how turned on I get and preferably not a body that's hard like mine.

Size I'm happy with tends to range. More about her overall.

That said, in my experience a lot of women are more self conscious about their bodies when with someone that's fit. Regardless of how much you try and convience them it's perfect.

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By *idnightMischiefMan
over a year ago

London

I have no preference - it depends whether it's in proportion to the rest of her or not.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Don't forget the post c- section belly ledges on your list!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Don't forget the post c- section belly ledges on your list!

And the stretch marks. I'm trying to learn to love mine but it ain't happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I appreciate the effort and work it takes to have one but I'm more into curves.

Physical touch plays a huge part in how turned on I get and preferably not a body that's hard like mine.

Size I'm happy with tends to range. More about her overall.

That said, in my experience a lot of women are more self conscious about their bodies when with someone that's fit. Regardless of how much you try and convience them it's perfect.

I'm one of those women who can't see why a gym fit guy would find a woman like me attractive. Just doesn't add up to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I appreciate the effort and work it takes to have one but I'm more into curves.

Physical touch plays a huge part in how turned on I get and preferably not a body that's hard like mine.

Size I'm happy with tends to range. More about her overall.

That said, in my experience a lot of women are more self conscious about their bodies when with someone that's fit. Regardless of how much you try and convience them it's perfect.

I'm one of those women who can't see why a gym fit guy would find a woman like me attractive. Just doesn't add up to me. "

The same way an organised person could be attracted to someone who's disorganised. Or time conscious to someone who's always late. Might bot be the best examples but what I'm trying to say is attraction isn't purely physical there's other things to consider.

But even in just the physical aspect, seeing someone I haven't even spoken to, I'm very much a bum guy and that's attractive to me immediately. Now I may speak to her and loose all interest but the initial attraction is based on my likes and desires.

Ultimately, what we like isn't necessarily reflective of what we look like or our qualities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys...

What's your preference..?

Do you like flat, a little bump at the bottom or a big stomach.

I've always been conscious of mine... I have like a bump under my naval.

Thanks for reading

I might be wrong but think the little bump around the naval it's genetic. Some people can never get rid of it.

But to answer your question. I like many different stomach shapes. But if you pressed me it would be anything under flabby. But sometimes that can be sexy too. X

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By *aftSpunkMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

As someone who maintains a relatively lean stomach all year (for work) I have no issues with being with a woman who has a few bumps, curves, stretch marks or post partum scars.

I wouldn't be put off a woman based solely on her stomach. There is a whole package that I find attractive. Humour, sensuality, confidence, elegance all rate higher in attractive traits than a flat stomach for me.

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By *mcheshireMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I just adore women with a stomach which is just curvy as not only does it look amazing and sexy but when I am big spoon it feels soo good to rest my arm on when snuggling up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't forget the post c- section belly ledges on your list!

And the stretch marks. I'm trying to learn to love mine but it ain't happening."

Just like stomach, curves, some wobble... I think stretch marks are sexy. And that'snot necessarily to do with curves because they exist on all types of bodies.

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By *CLM87 OP Woman
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Thank you for all the feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys...

What's your preference..?

Do you like flat, a little bump at the bottom or a big stomach."

Doesn't bother me at all so long as there's a good connection and sexual chemistry too.

I try and compare most things on here to meeting someone for the first time on a night out. I wouldn't expect any woman to reveal their insecurities with the view "are you sure you still want to fuck me?".

Most of us have imperfections and if someone can't look beyond that and value the person and their qualities they shouldn't be in your space.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Guys...

What's your preference..?

Do you like flat, a little bump at the bottom or a big stomach.

Doesn't bother me at all so long as there's a good connection and sexual chemistry too.

Most of us have imperfections and if someone can't look beyond that and value the person and their qualities they shouldn't be in your space."

Don't you think that the term "imperfection" implies something less desirable, something negative? I'm as insecure as the next chubby woman but but I don't want to be thought of in terms of my fat bits being imperfect etc.

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’m on the wobbly side of tummy, but I’m trying hard to tone it. Years of yo-yo weight loss/weight gain are making it difficult this time, as is my age.

I like toned guys, but bigger toned guys. Give me a big strong toned rugby player type guy that would make me feel tiny and I’d be in heaven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys...

What's your preference..?

Do you like flat, a little bump at the bottom or a big stomach.

Doesn't bother me at all so long as there's a good connection and sexual chemistry too.

Most of us have imperfections and if someone can't look beyond that and value the person and their qualities they shouldn't be in your space."

But they're not imperfections. I can understand the insecurities and just wish they'd accept when people say they like it.

But those things are perfect and unique. The beauty of flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you think that the term "imperfection" implies something less desirable, something negative? I'm as insecure as the next chubby woman but but I don't want to be thought of in terms of my fat bits being imperfect etc."

I did think that as I typed it but couldn't think of a better word to use. I too have a bit of a tummy. I like cake. But if that's a deal breaker then honestly I don't care.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Guys...

What's your preference..?

Do you like flat, a little bump at the bottom or a big stomach.

I've always been conscious of mine... I have like a bump under my naval.

Thanks for reading

We watch the eyes first obviously.

Then the legs of course.

Either boobs or bum after that.

Not commiting suicide here mentioning belly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m on the wobbly side of tummy, but I’m trying hard to tone it. Years of yo-yo weight loss/weight gain are making it difficult this time, as is my age.

I like toned guys, but bigger toned guys. Give me a big strong toned rugby player type guy that would make me feel tiny and I’d be in heaven."

I can relate, I put on weight, I get back in shape. This time has been much harder so I don't think I'll be letting myself go anymore.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People have been pressured too much to have unrealistic expectations of body shapes, especially stomachs. Women have lots of internal organs below the skin and tiny, smooth contours are harsh to just be expected to not reflect the whole self.

We're ourselves and that's perfect

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By *isfun2023Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

Yep I'd love a flat stomach it's a girl thing

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"I appreciate the effort and work it takes to have one but I'm more into curves.

Physical touch plays a huge part in how turned on I get and preferably not a body that's hard like mine.

Size I'm happy with tends to range. More about her overall.

That said, in my experience a lot of women are more self conscious about their bodies when with someone that's fit. Regardless of how much you try and convience them it's perfect.

I'm one of those women who can't see why a gym fit guy would find a woman like me attractive. Just doesn't add up to me. "

Same with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I appreciate the effort and work it takes to have one but I'm more into curves.

Physical touch plays a huge part in how turned on I get and preferably not a body that's hard like mine.

Size I'm happy with tends to range. More about her overall.

That said, in my experience a lot of women are more self conscious about their bodies when with someone that's fit. Regardless of how much you try and convience them it's perfect.

I'm one of those women who can't see why a gym fit guy would find a woman like me attractive. Just doesn't add up to me.

Same with me "

I think it's like any insecurity people have. Partners just have to work together continuously to overcome this as I'm not sure it ever "goes" away.

People just get better at managing or accepting how sexy people see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys toned stomachs with those little v lines...slight double standards considering how little I work out.

I hate my stomach, but I think it's a female thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like guys toned stomachs with those little v lines...slight double standards considering how little I work out.

I hate my stomach, but I think it's a female thing! "

You like what you like and so do they.

Guess it's like guys and size of their dicks.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Guys...

What's your preference..?

Do you like flat, a little bump at the bottom or a big stomach.

I've always been conscious of mine... I have like a bump under my naval.

Thanks for reading

Personally, I think that the "whole package" is much more important than and one single thing. Attraction is a combination of many things, physical and behavioural.

Cal

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I wish I was more toned but I love cheese to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want flat muscular but have dad bod

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By *uriouskitten999Woman
over a year ago

Neverland

I have lumps and bumps and wobbly bits and I’m pretty squishy. Some love it some don’t. I’d love a flat stomach but it’s just not happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The stomach is an organ that assists in digesting food.

The area you are describing is known as the abdomen and we prefer ours not to have an excess of adipose tissue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would absolutely love to have a really flat, toned stomach but I'm too lazy.

I feel this

Miss S x

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Mines round and squishy with some wobble

I exercise regularly but I’m never gonna have abs or a toned tummy but I’m good with that, after all that’s just one part of what makes me me

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd love a flat stomach again but I've zero motivation to start trying, two kids later & it wobbles with the stretch marks to match, it's finally not bothering me as much.

I can say I don't notice it on women we meet though stomach size has never been a contributing factor, I guess it is more my own we are always our own worst critics.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The stomach is an organ that assists in digesting food.

The area you are describing is known as the abdomen and we prefer ours not to have an excess of adipose tissue."

He's not wrong.

I prefer slim or a little bump even though I'm a tubby lard-arse. I don't find 6 packs on women appealing.

I wish I was slim and ripped, but I value my kebabs, curries, foods and (mainly) I'm a lazy c*nt.

I'm still surprised to hear that some could find a dad-bod more appealing than a 6 pack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys...

What's your preference..?

Do you like flat, a little bump at the bottom or a big stomach.

I've always been conscious of mine... I have like a bump under my naval.

Thanks for reading

Stomachs are my weak spot and I love curvy women with a stomach to match.

That means rolls, wobbly bits, everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys...

What's your preference..?

Do you like flat, a little bump at the bottom or a big stomach.

Doesn't bother me at all so long as there's a good connection and sexual chemistry too.

I've actually done that in a message multiple times. It can go pretty deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I appreciate the effort and work it takes to have one but I'm more into curves.

Physical touch plays a huge part in how turned on I get and preferably not a body that's hard like mine.

Size I'm happy with tends to range. More about her overall.

That said, in my experience a lot of women are more self conscious about their bodies when with someone that's fit. Regardless of how much you try and convience them it's perfect.

I'm one of those women who can't see why a gym fit guy would find a woman like me attractive. Just doesn't add up to me.

Ultimately, what we like isn't necessarily reflective of what we look like or our qualities. "

I don't judge a man on just his body (in fact it's rarely the starting point of my attraction) but in my experience that's how men have judged me. But I appreciate not all men do and also that insecurity can blind us at times.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Luckily for me,there are lots of men who love a bbw with a mum tum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Luckily for me,there are lots of men who love a bbw with a mum tum

Yes there are

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

It's the part of my body I am most self-conscious about. I have NEVER had a flat or toned stomach no matter how hard I tried. I always had a little over-hang that even when I was a walking skeleton just wouldn't bloody go away.

Now, two kids later, it is still there and now has stretch marks and saggy skin.

I will never like my stomach so I just hide it. x

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Does anyone on this thread really mean 'stomach' or do they actually mean 'abdomen'?

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By *CLM87 OP Woman
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Well technically it is an abdomen... I can't remember apart from in this thread when someone used that term.

Personally I always use stomach as it is located in that area.. each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm round and soft all over ha but I have no preference to someones stomach.

For me it is about their face and how we get along.

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I’m on the wobbly side of tummy, but I’m trying hard to tone it. Years of yo-yo weight loss/weight gain are making it difficult this time, as is my age.

I like toned guys, but bigger toned guys. Give me a big strong toned rugby player type guy that would make me feel tiny and I’d be in heaven.

I can relate, I put on weight, I get back in shape. This time has been much harder so I don't think I'll be letting myself go anymore. "

Baby you are fine as you are, I wish I was closer and we could keep each other in shape

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

I'm conscious of mine now. I was happy with it before I had to have an operation a year ago. Now I feel like I've got a belly with bum cheeks due to the vertical scar

Himself still says I look bloody good (his words) but its knocked my confidence a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm conscious of mine now. I was happy with it before I had to have an operation a year ago. Now I feel like I've got a belly with bum cheeks due to the vertical scar

Himself still says I look bloody good (his words) but its knocked my confidence a bit

Really sad to hear you've had your confidence knocked. Chin up and keep listening to your other half, I'm sure they know what they are saying xx

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By *ixiePoisonWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

I hate my tummy, 2 c sections and stretch marks, now I’ve got menopause flab, can’t feckin win!

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I like a soft tummy

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

mine likes food lots of it..

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By *ez669Man
over a year ago

East Kilbride

I just like the stomach going crazy as your tounge works the clit. Apart from that no preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big stomachs are so sexy

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I appreciate the effort and work it takes to have one but I'm more into curves.

Physical touch plays a huge part in how turned on I get and preferably not a body that's hard like mine.

Size I'm happy with tends to range. More about her overall.

That said, in my experience a lot of women are more self conscious about their bodies when with someone that's fit. Regardless of how much you try and convience them it's perfect.

The problem is that there are many people who have probably tried to convince them that it is awful over the years. And people tend to find it easier to hear, file and recall the negative words than the positive ones.

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