FabSwingers.com forum: Bi acceptance

By *ilkey69 OP Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

How come it seems OK for a lady to be bi in a couple but when the male is not it seems a big turn off.

I know some couples are bi but I think THEY are the unicorn

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Its the perception of riskier sex.

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Women more open-minded maybe ..

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By *ilkey69 OP Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Its the perception of riskier sex."

Possible

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By *ilkey69 OP Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"Women more open-minded maybe ..

Maybe so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have an issue with bi men. Usually because of assumptions.

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

Think it's a gay thing . what if somebody found out ... Yikes

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Because many males want to watch 2 fems together, it's a big fantasy so bi women are encouraged and expected.

Some women and couples won't meet bi men, I think there's a few reasons, I can't say for sure as i don't mind bi men.

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By *heSchwingersCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Because men still control the narrative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience, there’s a few things at work.

Some assumptions….

That I’m a slag that fucks any man hole I can find and therefore am riddled with disease.

That because I’m bi, and the man in the couple is straight……think I’m gonna automatically try to stick his cock in my mouth, or my cock up his arse like I’m some raging cockaholic.

They’re frightened of catching gay….yes SOME people still think that shit!

Or sometimes, it’s simply just plain homophobia.

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By *heSchwingersCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"From my experience, there’s a few things at work.

Some assumptions….

That I’m a slag that fucks any man hole I can find and therefore am riddled with disease.

That because I’m bi, and the man in the couple is straight……think I’m gonna automatically try to stick his cock in my mouth, or my cock up his arse like I’m some raging cockaholic.

They’re frightened of catching gay….yes SOME people still think that shit!

Or sometimes, it’s simply just plain homophobia.

I’d say you can put all of that in the homophobia category tbh x

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By *ilkey69 OP Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

"From my experience, there’s a few things at work.

Some assumptions….

That I’m a slag that fucks any man hole I can find and therefore am riddled with disease.

That because I’m bi, and the man in the couple is straight……think I’m gonna automatically try to stick his cock in my mouth, or my cock up his arse like I’m some raging cockaholic.

They’re frightened of catching gay….yes SOME people still think that shit!

Or sometimes, it’s simply just plain homophobia.

If that's how some think that's bizarre

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

For some, it's intimidation.

In many cases, a bi man may have gone through a lot of self-reflection and introspection, and questioned the patriarchy's expectations of him. And the Matriarchy's too. There is a certain amount of "unshackling" in that process. And a heck of lot of conviction and strength and courage to make that leap, typically in to the unknown.

Some feel "challenged" in that regards, because they hold up a mirror to others.

And about a million and one other reasons.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"How come it seems OK for a lady to be bi in a couple but when the male is not it seems a big turn off.

I know some couples are bi but I think THEY are the unicorn "

Because 'boobs'.....

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