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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous." Ooh she’s good | |||
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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous. Ooh she’s good " streets sheets etc | |||
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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous. Ooh she’s good streets sheets etc" I received a book through the postal service today from a friend. It’s called Fix the System Not the Women  | |||
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"Well I guess you also have to account for gay people in that too... maybe tips the odds a little? No idea really. Maybe we should all just have a nice biscuit and a cup of coffee and think it over quietly MrsAbz " A question for the ages. Will biscuits solve all the world's problems? | |||
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"Well I guess you also have to account for gay people in that too... maybe tips the odds a little? No idea really. Maybe we should all just have a nice biscuit and a cup of coffee and think it over quietly MrsAbz " You’re biscuit obsessed today | |||
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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous. Ooh she’s good streets sheets etc I received a book through the postal service today from a friend. It’s called Fix the System Not the Women "fuck yes  | |||
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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous." Nor should women x | |||
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"Well I guess you also have to account for gay people in that too... maybe tips the odds a little? No idea really. Maybe we should all just have a nice biscuit and a cup of coffee and think it over quietly MrsAbz A question for the ages. Will biscuits solve all the world's problems?" What sort of biscuits? | |||
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"Well I guess you also have to account for gay people in that too... maybe tips the odds a little? No idea really. Maybe we should all just have a nice biscuit and a cup of coffee and think it over quietly MrsAbz A question for the ages. Will biscuits solve all the world's problems? What sort of biscuits?" This is the most important question | |||
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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous. Nor should women x" I said what is, not what should be | |||
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"Well I guess you also have to account for gay people in that too... maybe tips the odds a little? No idea really. Maybe we should all just have a nice biscuit and a cup of coffee and think it over quietly MrsAbz A question for the ages. Will biscuits solve all the world's problems? What sort of biscuits? This is the most important question " Chocolate covered biscuits. They make everything better Please send some, the situation is desperate MrsAbz | |||
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My guess OP is that 51/49 isn’t relevant really. Estimates from a quick Google suggest over 60% of men over 20 are single, compared with 30% of women which would make the ratio at least 2:1…
That’s without looking at things like men being the target market for most sex based sites, statistically being worse than women at delaying gratification, statistically being more likely to cheat (and have the means to logistically), and god knows how many other factors.
My experience of interactions with guys on here is that most aren’t experienced swingers as such, but treat it as a pretty effective hookup resource, and since covid there has been a rise in profiles of single men looking for an easy shag too. | |||
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"Well I guess you also have to account for gay people in that too... maybe tips the odds a little? No idea really. Maybe we should all just have a nice biscuit and a cup of coffee and think it over quietly MrsAbz A question for the ages. Will biscuits solve all the world's problems? What sort of biscuits? This is the most important question Chocolate covered biscuits. They make everything better Please send some, the situation is desperate MrsAbz " I'm currently enjoying Belgian Choc Chunk & Orange All Butter Cookies from Lidl. They certainly improve my day | |||
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"Ok, someone please educate me. (Male half here) I am admitting to ignorance, and would love some polite explanation. Single males are a huge majority in here. As well on dating sites. Or even in clubs/pubs. 1 - How have we (society) got so many single men? In the uk, the gender ratio is 51% men to 49% women prompting the question. We seem to literally have hundreds of men looking for something for each couple/single woman... or is this perception wrong? 2 - How do you define being a single male 'swinger'? How is it different from being a horny single male? Just curious, as it really seems like lottery odds, wherever you turn. BTW, not bashing single men. I have no problem with them - I am a man after all.... we could all be single on the flip of a card.. Just mildly curious on a damp weds working alone at home..." 1. Men tend to look for an easy, quick fix to a problem. Aka - no sex life? Join a swingers site. Women however will be less likely to see a site such as this as a means to an end and be more likely to look at additional options and alternatives. Plus let's face it. If women want sex it's usually far easier for them to source it than men in the real world. 2. There's a massive difference between single male swingers and horny single guys. The two aren't mutually exclusive but there's a fundamental difference in attitude and approach between them. Obvs I refer to 'some' men and 'some' women. Not all. | |||
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"Well I guess you also have to account for gay people in that too... maybe tips the odds a little? No idea really. Maybe we should all just have a nice biscuit and a cup of coffee and think it over quietly MrsAbz A question for the ages. Will biscuits solve all the world's problems? What sort of biscuits? This is the most important question Chocolate covered biscuits. They make everything better Please send some, the situation is desperate MrsAbz I'm currently enjoying Belgian Choc Chunk & Orange All Butter Cookies from Lidl. They certainly improve my day" My jealousy knows no bounds right now MrsAbz | |||
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"Well I guess you also have to account for gay people in that too... maybe tips the odds a little? No idea really. Maybe we should all just have a nice biscuit and a cup of coffee and think it over quietly MrsAbz A question for the ages. Will biscuits solve all the world's problems? What sort of biscuits? This is the most important question Chocolate covered biscuits. They make everything better Please send some, the situation is desperate MrsAbz I'm currently enjoying Belgian Choc Chunk & Orange All Butter Cookies from Lidl. They certainly improve my day My jealousy knows no bounds right now MrsAbz " Always happy to share | |||
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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous." That's tongue in cheek right? Have you seen the fora in here? Cheating bastard v you go girl. | |||
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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous. That's tongue in cheek right? Have you seen the fora in here? Cheating bastard v you go girl. " Yes, the subset of "cheating men in the context of a small subset of one website" is "all men across all of society". Very good. Have a gold star. | |||
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"Woman makes Fab profile. Woman takes a swig of coffee then looks back at screen. 1938474779493 messages from desperate single men, most with cock pics that make her minge shrivel. Woman throws phone in river."  | |||
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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous. That's tongue in cheek right? Have you seen the fora in here? Cheating bastard v you go girl. Yes, the subset of "cheating men in the context of a small subset of one website" is "all men across all of society". Very good. Have a gold star." Not sure why so abrasive but... It is my experience....and that includes away from fab world where couple get caught cheating... Bloke is lambasted as a cheating scum bag... Woman is consoled as... Bless he must have really coerced you to step out. I'm not sure I've seen any article where the man is viewed more favourably than the woman when playing away... Phil scofield..? Just one example. | |||
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"Men are less likely to face social stigma for being promiscuous. That's tongue in cheek right? Have you seen the fora in here? Cheating bastard v you go girl. Yes, the subset of "cheating men in the context of a small subset of one website" is "all men across all of society". Very good. Have a gold star. Not sure why so abrasive but... It is my experience....and that includes away from fab world where couple get caught cheating... Bloke is lambasted as a cheating scum bag... Woman is consoled as... Bless he must have really coerced you to step out. I'm not sure I've seen any article where the man is viewed more favourably than the woman when playing away... Phil scofield..? Just one example. " I suggest you look up "cheating" and "promiscuity" and reflect on the differences between them. | |||
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" 1. Men tend to look for an easy, quick fix to a problem. Aka - no sex life? Join a swingers site. Women however will be less likely to see a site such as this as a means to an end and be more likely to look at additional options and alternatives. Plus let's face it. If women want sex it's usually far easier for them to source it than men in the real world. 2. There's a massive difference between single male swingers and horny single guys. The two aren't mutually exclusive but there's a fundamental difference in attitude and approach between them. Obvs I refer to 'some' men and 'some' women. Not all. " Thanks for the response. I agree that we are talking generalities, not all people.. 1. I suppose that makes sense. Men could be more likely in more cases to seperate sex from love - and seek sex as a goal in itself. Then some might attack it logically signing up for anywhere where sex is related. 2. I guessed as much, I just didn't want to assume what they are - which would be coloured by my own personaility. Interestingly, from a man who has been married for 20 years, and always in a relationship before that, I am not sure I could tell the difference. I have been around so many guys who were just sex obsessed... Married, single doesn't matter to them. (Of course, as I get older, more and more of these men are getting divorced too, which probably says something - something more profound and intelligent than I am able to fathom) Cheers for the response though! | |||
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"Estimates from a quick Google suggest over 60% of men over 20 are single, compared with 30% of women" If we consider the 51/49% ratio... The above only makes any sense if 29% of women are gay - right? That seems high..? Especially when women live longer... Argh, logic failure, brain ache! | |||
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"Woman makes Fab profile. Woman takes a swig of coffee then looks back at screen. 1938474779493 messages from desperate single men, most with cock pics that make her minge shrivel. Woman throws phone in river." Sorry about your mince  | |||
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"Woman makes Fab profile. Woman takes a swig of coffee then looks back at screen. 1938474779493 messages from desperate single men, most with cock pics that make her minge shrivel. Woman throws phone in river. Sorry about your mince " MINGE | |||
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"Estimates from a quick Google suggest over 60% of men over 20 are single, compared with 30% of women If we consider the 51/49% ratio... The above only makes any sense if 29% of women are gay - right? That seems high..? Especially when women live longer... Argh, logic failure, brain ache!" or 20pc of men are in two relationships (maths doesn't quite work but point is there) Or women 30pc of women say they have are in a relationship. But are lying. Or the males side of the dynamic disagrees... | |||
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"Estimates from a quick Google suggest over 60% of men over 20 are single, compared with 30% of women If we consider the 51/49% ratio... The above only makes any sense if 29% of women are gay - right? That seems high..? Especially when women live longer... Argh, logic failure, brain ache!" You have to ask how accurate the so called "research" is.? It's taken as being accurate... And it may be.. But it may also be that men lie about being in a relationship or single and women lie about being in a relationship or single... | |||
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",but a lot of us not very keen on the modern women of today, so it's a case of sex, and don't get involved." Do tell what the reason is for not being very keen on the ‘modern women of today’ is? | |||
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",but a lot of us not very keen on the modern women of today, so it's a case of sex, and don't get involved. Do tell what the reason is for not being very keen on the ‘modern women of today’ is?" They've got too big for their britches | |||
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"A man looking for (straight) sex in the real world can go to a club / bar and will most likely end up going home alone. A woman looking for (straight) sex in the real world can go to a club / bar and will most probably find sex if she wants it. Ergo, less need for women to be online looking for it, when it’s pretty much available on tap. There you are, Folks, I’ve solved Fabswingers ratio conundrum for you once and for all "If we’re assuming men look for women and vice versa, surely both parties would be equally successful/unsuccessful? Unless there’s a massive gender inequality in the pub/club? | |||
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",but a lot of us not very keen on the modern women of today, so it's a case of sex, and don't get involved. Do tell what the reason is for not being very keen on the ‘modern women of today’ is? They've got too big for their britches "Well dayum! | |||
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"A man looking for (straight) sex in the real world can go to a club / bar and will most likely end up going home alone. A woman looking for (straight) sex in the real world can go to a club / bar and will most probably find sex if she wants it. Ergo, less need for women to be online looking for it, when it’s pretty much available on tap. There you are, Folks, I’ve solved Fabswingers ratio conundrum for you once and for all
If we’re assuming men look for women and vice versa, surely both parties would be equally successful/unsuccessful? Unless there’s a massive gender inequality in the pub/club?"Not necessarily: if there’s 100 (straight) people in a room, 50 men, 50 women and of those just 1 very average looking member of each sex is out looking to get laid that night so stands in the middle of the room and says “I want to be fucked tonight”, I would wager the female would get a lot more offers of sex than the male. You just need to look at any dating site to see the dynamic. | |||
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"A man looking for (straight) sex in the real world can go to a club / bar and will most likely end up going home alone. A woman looking for (straight) sex in the real world can go to a club / bar and will most probably find sex if she wants it. Ergo, less need for women to be online looking for it, when it’s pretty much available on tap. There you are, Folks, I’ve solved Fabswingers ratio conundrum for you once and for all
If we’re assuming men look for women and vice versa, surely both parties would be equally successful/unsuccessful? Unless there’s a massive gender inequality in the pub/club?
Not necessarily: if there’s 100 (straight) people in a room, 50 men, 50 women and of those just 1 very average looking member of each sex is out looking to get laid that night so stands in the middle of the room and says “I want to be fucked tonight”, I would wager the female would get a lot more offers of sex than the male.
You just need to look at any dating site to see the dynamic. "Ah I see your thinking | |||
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"Ok, someone please educate me. (Male half here) I am admitting to ignorance, and would love some polite explanation. Single males are a huge majority in here. As well on dating sites. Or even in clubs/pubs. 1 - How have we (society) got so many single men? In the uk, the gender ratio is 51% men to 49% women prompting the question. We seem to literally have hundreds of men looking for something for each couple/single woman... or is this perception wrong? 2 - How do you define being a single male 'swinger'? How is it different from being a horny single male? Just curious, as it really seems like lottery odds, wherever you turn. BTW, not bashing single men. I have no problem with them - I am a man after all.... we could all be single on the flip of a card.. Just mildly curious on a damp weds working alone at home..." They aren't really single, they lie in all walks of dating, pubs, clubs, sites. 
Who knew! | |||
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MINGE " | |||
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