FabSwingers.com forum: I finally get it!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've always thought women on here complained a little too much about guys and dick pics but I finally get it.

I usually have my filters set to block guys from messaging me but took it off for some forum post.

Few minutes later I get a message from some guy with profile picture just a dick.

I mean, no body attached to said dick. Just a picture of a dick. The initial shock grew over the day to the point where I actually felt violated.

Strange given I've participated in several MFM or with even more guys involved so seeing a dick isn't a problem. This just felt like it invaded my personal space. I can't explain it!

I've given it some thought and it would be the same feeling just seeing a close up of vag except I don't think I've come across that.

So why guys, just why?

Ladies, block away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just the ladies who get this stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not just the ladies who get this stuff. "

Clearly not!! Except numbers wise you see more complaints from them.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though."

Open invitation guys! Eye of the beholder though

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though."

Almost entirely this. Except the not pretty ones don't actually bother me. The ones with weeping sores do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not just the ladies who get this stuff.

Clearly not!! Except numbers wise you see more complaints from them. "

Women love to complain!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Not nice is it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though."

I'm aware some don't mind it. I actually responded to the message and went back and forth and maybe it just got harder talking to dick I suppose.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Not just the ladies who get this stuff.

Clearly not!! Except numbers wise you see more complaints from them.

Women love to complain!"

No love, women love to moan

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not just the ladies who get this stuff.

Clearly not!! Except numbers wise you see more complaints from them.

Women love to complain!"

Well, aware of that too. Maybe it's the fact that they each message was one maybe two words so not much to discuss other than he seemed to be attempting to keep me messaging so I could maybe realise how amazing it was.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

Almost entirely this. Except the not pretty ones don't actually bother me. The ones with weeping sores do..."

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

I don't want to invalidate your feelings, OP. I can imagine an endless stream of unsolicited dick pics would be dull, unpleasant and maybe violating (I can only assume).

One? Not so much, but hope you're feeling better after a difficult day!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

Open invitation guys! Eye of the beholder though"

For you?

:D I'm betting you have filters on.

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By *melie LALWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

Dick pics - some remind you of the Clangers

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

Almost entirely this. Except the not pretty ones don't actually bother me. The ones with weeping sores do..."

I told you, I did not know it was there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

Almost entirely this. Except the not pretty ones don't actually bother me. The ones with weeping sores do...

I told you, I did not know it was there! "

I told you it was contagious!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't want to invalidate your feelings, OP. I can imagine an endless stream of unsolicited dick pics would be dull, unpleasant and maybe violating (I can only assume).

One? Not so much, but hope you're feeling better after a difficult day!

Maybe if I got loads everyday I'd be numb to it.

Maybe it was the fact that it took me a few messages to realise I was just being strung along that's irking me.

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By *fdTMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though."

What classifies as a pretty one lol

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

What classifies as a pretty one lol "

The idea is if you think it is, send it. She then decides.

I'd advise against it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

What classifies as a pretty one lol "

Send one. She will give feedback.

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"Dick pics - some remind you of the Clangers

Ha ha this made me laugh but I also found them cute. Some pics I get sent I neither find cute nor charming.

Although a whistling cock could be interesting for a short time.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Dick pics - some remind you of the Clangers

Ha ha this made me laugh but I also found them cute. Some pics I get sent I neither find cute nor charming.

Although a whistling cock could be interesting for a short time."

Agreed

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don't want to invalidate your feelings, OP. I can imagine an endless stream of unsolicited dick pics would be dull, unpleasant and maybe violating (I can only assume).

One? Not so much, but hope you're feeling better after a difficult day!

Maybe if I got loads everyday I'd be numb to it.

Maybe it was the fact that it took me a few messages to realise I was just being strung along that's irking me. "

Yeah, the first one is a shock. After the first few it's like yeah, another pamphlet for shit I don't want I have to deal with, ugh. Numb to it is right.

(And yes, I am looking for penis, but disembodied penis in my inbox is about as welcome as the pamphlet for whatever the hell new takeaway just opened down the road)

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I've always thought women on here complained a little too much about guys and dick pics but I finally get it.

I usually have my filters set to block guys from messaging me but took it off for some forum post.

Few minutes later I get a message from some guy with profile picture just a dick.

I mean, no body attached to said dick. Just a picture of a dick. The initial shock grew over the day to the point where I actually felt violated.

Strange given I've participated in several MFM or with even more guys involved so seeing a dick isn't a problem. This just felt like it invaded my personal space. I can't explain it!

I've given it some thought and it would be the same feeling just seeing a close up of vag except I don't think I've come across that.

So why guys, just why?

Ladies, block away.

So women complain about it and you think that they’re complaining too much….you experience it yourself and then you’re able to understand why they were complaining and have sympathy for them?

Is it normal for you to think that someone’s complaining too much if they’re complaining about something you haven’t experienced yourself?

Maybe the most important thing you should take from this is to listen to people and empathise with them when they complain about something rather than assuming they’re complaining too much.

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By *use and wolfCouple
over a year ago

angus

i would say if all profile pictures are of a cock then that's everything you need to know about the person, they're a cock.

Not that i am ashamed of mine, apart from that one time onstage at the Glasgow Barrowlands with the Bloodhound Gang, i have never felt the need to show my bits to anyone

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"I don't want to invalidate your feelings, OP. I can imagine an endless stream of unsolicited dick pics would be dull, unpleasant and maybe violating (I can only assume).

One? Not so much, but hope you're feeling better after a difficult day!

Maybe if I got loads everyday I'd be numb to it.

Maybe it was the fact that it took me a few messages to realise I was just being strung along that's irking me. "

I was only teasing. I know it's annoying, though I guess you could have just hit delete rather than enter into a conversation if his opening message has upset you so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So women complain about it and you think that they’re complaining too much….you experience it yourself and then you’re able to understand why they were complaining and have sympathy for them?

Is it normal for you to think that someone’s complaining too much if they’re complaining about something you haven’t experienced yourself?

Maybe the most important thing you should take from this is to listen to people and empathise with them when they complain about something rather than assuming they’re complaining too much. "

It appears you understood what I wrote.

You also appear to have made some (wrong) assumptions there buddy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't want to invalidate your feelings, OP. I can imagine an endless stream of unsolicited dick pics would be dull, unpleasant and maybe violating (I can only assume).

One? Not so much, but hope you're feeling better after a difficult day!

Maybe if I got loads everyday I'd be numb to it.

Maybe it was the fact that it took me a few messages to realise I was just being strung along that's irking me.

I was only teasing. I know it's annoying, though I guess you could have just hit delete rather than enter into a conversation if his opening message has upset you so much."

The message or lack of didn't really upset me initially or I wouldn't have engaged. But yeah, I could have just deleted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want to invalidate your feelings, OP. I can imagine an endless stream of unsolicited dick pics would be dull, unpleasant and maybe violating (I can only assume).

One? Not so much, but hope you're feeling better after a difficult day!

Maybe if I got loads everyday I'd be numb to it.

Maybe it was the fact that it took me a few messages to realise I was just being strung along that's irking me.

I was only teasing. I know it's annoying, though I guess you could have just hit delete rather than enter into a conversation if his opening message has upset you so much.

The message or lack of didn't really upset me initially or I wouldn't have engaged. But yeah, I could have just deleted it. "

I swear there is a correlation between dick pics on profile and number of letters used in the message. More/less.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

Almost entirely this. Except the not pretty ones don't actually bother me. The ones with weeping sores do..."

Sheesh you're getting picky aren't you!!!

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

So women complain about it and you think that they’re complaining too much….you experience it yourself and then you’re able to understand why they were complaining and have sympathy for them?

Is it normal for you to think that someone’s complaining too much if they’re complaining about something you haven’t experienced yourself?

Maybe the most important thing you should take from this is to listen to people and empathise with them when they complain about something rather than assuming they’re complaining too much.

It appears you understood what I wrote.

You also appear to have made some (wrong) assumptions there buddy. "

I asked 2 questions and I made one statement, i didn’t make any assumptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want to invalidate your feelings, OP. I can imagine an endless stream of unsolicited dick pics would be dull, unpleasant and maybe violating (I can only assume).

One? Not so much, but hope you're feeling better after a difficult day!

Maybe if I got loads everyday I'd be numb to it.

Maybe it was the fact that it took me a few messages to realise I was just being strung along that's irking me. "

Strung along by a talking cock?

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

So did you miss the perfect opportunity to reply with

'I have one just like that, except its full size'

Hit send, hit block?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So did you miss the perfect opportunity to reply with

'I have one just like that, except its full size'

Hit send, hit block?

Gosh I did. I need to open up filters again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't want to invalidate your feelings, OP. I can imagine an endless stream of unsolicited dick pics would be dull, unpleasant and maybe violating (I can only assume).

One? Not so much, but hope you're feeling better after a difficult day!

Maybe if I got loads everyday I'd be numb to it.

Maybe it was the fact that it took me a few messages to realise I was just being strung along that's irking me.

Strung along by a talking cock?

You know. I'm learning though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen so many dicks in my life since joining haha can only imagine what it's like for a women

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
over a year ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

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By *oopy Lou 666Woman
over a year ago

Heaven.....………. I came down from Heaven

Yes I put..........no dick profiles..............Don`t want to talk to a DICKHEAD

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"I've always thought women on here complained a little too much about guys and dick pics but I finally get it.

I usually have my filters set to block guys from messaging me but took it off for some forum post.

Few minutes later I get a message from some guy with profile picture just a dick.

I mean, no body attached to said dick. Just a picture of a dick. The initial shock grew over the day to the point where I actually felt violated.

Strange given I've participated in several MFM or with even more guys involved so seeing a dick isn't a problem. This just felt like it invaded my personal space. I can't explain it!

I've given it some thought and it would be the same feeling just seeing a close up of vag except I don't think I've come across that.

So why guys, just why?

Ladies, block away.

Oh crumbs!

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I've always thought women on here complained a little too much about guys and dick pics but I finally get it.

I usually have my filters set to block guys from messaging me but took it off for some forum post.

Few minutes later I get a message from some guy with profile picture just a dick.

I mean, no body attached to said dick. Just a picture of a dick. The initial shock grew over the day to the point where I actually felt violated.

Strange given I've participated in several MFM or with even more guys involved so seeing a dick isn't a problem. This just felt like it invaded my personal space. I can't explain it!

I've given it some thought and it would be the same feeling just seeing a close up of vag except I don't think I've come across that.

So why guys, just why?

Ladies, block away.

Oh, we do.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though."

Well that’s the thing. Most of ‘em ain’t pretty ones.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

Well that’s the thing. Most of ‘em ain’t pretty ones."

And most guys don't know if theirs is pretty or not

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Not nice is it?"

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Some don't mind the dick pics.

Also, some realise where they are and are not utterly shocked and disgusted by said dick pic.

Only pretty ones though.

I'm aware some don't mind it. I actually responded to the message and went back and forth and maybe it just got harder talking to dick I suppose. "

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I've become immune to them.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I've always thought women on here complained a little too much about guys and dick pics but I finally get it.

I usually have my filters set to block guys from messaging me but took it off for some forum post.

Few minutes later I get a message from some guy with profile picture just a dick.

I mean, no body attached to said dick. Just a picture of a dick. The initial shock grew over the day to the point where I actually felt violated.

Strange given I've participated in several MFM or with even more guys involved so seeing a dick isn't a problem. This just felt like it invaded my personal space. I can't explain it!

I've given it some thought and it would be the same feeling just seeing a close up of vag except I don't think I've come across that.

So why guys, just why?

Ladies, block away.

So women complain about it and you think that they’re complaining too much….you experience it yourself and then you’re able to understand why they were complaining and have sympathy for them?

Is it normal for you to think that someone’s complaining too much if they’re complaining about something you haven’t experienced yourself?

Maybe the most important thing you should take from this is to listen to people and empathise with them when they complain about something rather than assuming they’re complaining too much. "

At least he gets it now.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I don't want to invalidate your feelings, OP. I can imagine an endless stream of unsolicited dick pics would be dull, unpleasant and maybe violating (I can only assume).

One? Not so much, but hope you're feeling better after a difficult day!

Maybe if I got loads everyday I'd be numb to it.

Maybe it was the fact that it took me a few messages to realise I was just being strung along that's irking me.

I was only teasing. I know it's annoying, though I guess you could have just hit delete rather than enter into a conversation if his opening message has upset you so much.

The message or lack of didn't really upset me initially or I wouldn't have engaged. But yeah, I could have just deleted it.

I swear there is a correlation between dick pics on profile and number of letters used in the message. More/less. "

Isn’t there just?

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

PMSL

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Recives one dick pic

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