FabSwingers.com forum: How do we feel

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

About bum touching + squeezing?

Say you've been flirting and someone grabs it. Even gently playfully.

Is it one where men mind less than women? Even though it's still not good in any shape?!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I wouldn’t do it and I don’t enjoy it.

Bum squeezing is for my partner and I only and even then it’s not a public show.

It’s the kind of thing we’d do when stood in a queue and nobody can know but us.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

In!

I mean….I’m happy to be a receiver although will only grab’eth an arse myself if I am absolutely sure that the person is happy for me to do so

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It is always one where men mind less than women (generally).

I don't mind if its in the moment and feels right...the mood, not the bum.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I wouldn’t do it and I don’t enjoy it.

Bum squeezing is for my partner and I only and even then it’s not a public show.

It’s the kind of thing we’d do when stood in a queue and nobody can know but us."

Oh don't talk to me about her bum, I'm trying to be good this morning!

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By *agebunWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"About bum touching + squeezing?

Say you've been flirting and someone grabs it. Even gently playfully.

Is it one where men mind less than women? Even though it's still not good in any shape?!"

It depends, are they grabbing it out of nowhere without any form of consent? Because that's ugh

But one of my partners and I have an ongoing joke about grabbing each others butts always being on our respective to do lists - you do it, cross it off the list and put it back on the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long has the flirting been going on

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind it done in a playful way if the mood is right.

Coming up to me and squeezing it out of the blue because you think it’s funny will probably result in me poking you in the eyes.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

I would say men wouldn't give a fuck, most would welcome an occasional grab or pinch but definitely off limits and unwelcome attention for women.

Massive double standards I know but you won't get too many guys saying they have been sexually assaulted when they get groped. And yet I couldn't imagine pinching a woman's arse without getting slapped/ a drink thrown over me/reported.

Plus the last woman to pinch my arse I married FFS.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"About bum touching + squeezing?

Say you've been flirting and someone grabs it. Even gently playfully.

Is it one where men mind less than women? Even though it's still not good in any shape?!"

If the two of you have a friendship or relationship where it’s okay … then it’s okay. (Surprise, huh?)

Don’t goose strangers though. That’s how you get slapped.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"I don’t mind it done in a playful way if the mood is right.

Coming up to me and squeezing it out of the blue because you think it’s funny will probably result in me poking you in the eyes. "

This is the real reason we wear sunglasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t mind it done in a playful way if the mood is right.

Coming up to me and squeezing it out of the blue because you think it’s funny will probably result in me poking you in the eyes.

This is the real reason we wear sunglasses

Smart move to be fair.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Really annoys me when they do it out of the blue, like on a social. I had someone do that as we parted ways... Instant block.

For someone I know well, yes please. I love having my bum rubbed and squeezed.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Really annoys me when they do it out of the blue, like on a social. I had someone do that as we parted ways... Instant block.

For someone I know well, yes please. I love having my bum rubbed and squeezed."

We should get to know each other better

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve been the recipient of arse slaps in bars and nightclubs and I don’t like it. Mostly because they do it too hard!

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Consensually absolutely, lemme squeeze ya butt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had random men slap and grab my ass if I've been friendly with them and I absolutely hate that. But if we are flirting and have chemistry then it's all good. I love the feeling of a man grabbing and rubbing my bum if we are both into each other.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I've had random men slap and grab my ass if I've been friendly with them and I absolutely hate that. But if we are flirting and have chemistry then it's all good. I love the feeling of a man grabbing and rubbing my bum if we are both into each other."

Oh that bum. I really need to work on our friendship

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