FabSwingers.com forum: How picky are you?

By *inky Chef OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.

Yes or no?

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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.

Yes or no?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I like average penises.

I like bodies that are just that. Bodies. As much as sometimes I think oh that person is really hot, it's the person inside the body that does it for me. That connection. Learning about them. I won't say I don't notice things, of course I do. They don't matter to me though. If I fancy you as a person, I fancy you. Even if you have an extra nipple and like to sacrifice animals to Satan.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

It's the face for me more than the bod especially the eyes! X

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By *inky Chef OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"I like average penises.

Sacrifice guinea pigs, lambs or dogs?

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I'm more a bum than a boobs guy but neither are substantial factors wrt sexual attraction.

If I am sexually attracted to a partner I tend to like what they've got.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m very picky but it’s not about the arse or boobs. More the personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.

Yes or no?

Then she’s not perfect for me

It’s not about being picky, it’s about knowing what you want

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Flat arse, big arse

Small boobs, big boobs

Who cares - just be able to have a conversation and make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll shag owt

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By *ornym66Man
over a year ago

Col /ips

A nice cock aswell as long as hygiene is spot on

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse AND small boobs.

Yes or no?

Thank fook there are people who like me!

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.

Yes or no?

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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.

Yes or no?

This is a very revealing question about personalities in general. In itself it reflects a transactional view of sex. How far are you prepared to shift from your ideal while still having an experience that adds value? What is important about a sexual experience for you?

I'll be bookmarking this thread for further reading.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Yes because it’s not all about the cock. They could have the biggest penis but if they don’t do anything for me mentally it’s a no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more picky about the mind than the body, but I still have preferences.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Nobody’s “perfect” for anyone. I’m extremely picky but this criteria isn’t how I would even begin to calculate interest in someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes because it’s not all about the cock. They could have the biggest penis but if they don’t do anything for me mentally it’s a no"

I like this answer a lot because you’ll very rarely see the opposite

“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common

“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear

I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship

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By *inky Chef OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"Nobody’s “perfect” for anyone. I’m extremely picky but this criteria isn’t how I would even begin to calculate interest in someone."

I just pointed out the cliches.

Add anything you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their personality is more likely to put me off more than anything, and it usually does.

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By *arla SwingerWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Attraction comes in many different forms

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By *inky Chef OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"Yes because it’s not all about the cock. They could have the biggest penis but if they don’t do anything for me mentally it’s a no

I like this answer a lot because you’ll very rarely see the opposite

“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common

“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear

I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship "

“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common

“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear"

Did you post in the wrong thread accidentally?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship "

I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.

Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

Way pickier than i should be with this face xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes because it’s not all about the cock. They could have the biggest penis but if they don’t do anything for me mentally it’s a no

I like this answer a lot because you’ll very rarely see the opposite

“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common

“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear

I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship "

I don't want a micro penis.

I also don't want a shit personality.

I also want a good looking face.

I also want a nice body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship

I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.

Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake."

Men do this allll the time though!

Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Different strokes for different folks, any lady I meet has something about her … it’s not a cut and paste thing

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I don't want a micro penis.

I also don't want a shit personality.

I also want a good looking face.

I also want a nice body."

Apparently this makes you picky. It says so up there somewhere.

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london

"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.

Yes or no?

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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.

Yes or no?

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yeah I can still vibe if she’s got a good personality, a pretty face and she’s a freak in the sheets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship

I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.

Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.

Men do this allll the time though!

Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks."

They really do

Because they think it sets them apart from other guys that only think with their penis

I just think it makes them look desperate. No physical preferences. Just anyone nice and with a pulse for me thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't want a micro penis.

I also don't want a shit personality.

I also want a good looking face.

I also want a nice body.

Apparently this makes you picky. It says so up there somewhere."

I'm fine with that.

Luckily I'm also fine not having sex.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Yes because it’s not all about the cock. They could have the biggest penis but if they don’t do anything for me mentally it’s a no

I like this answer a lot because you’ll very rarely see the opposite

“If he was hung like a horse but a bad personality then it’s a no for me” - very common

“He has a micro penis but he’s funny and kind so I’m fine with it” - much rarer to hear

I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship

I don't want a micro penis.

I also don't want a shit personality.

I also want a good looking face.

I also want a nice body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they meet my requirements I'm a strong independent woman who knows what she wants.

If they don't meet my requirements I'm a picky bitch.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship

I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.

Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.

Men do this allll the time though!

Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks.

They really do

Because they think it sets them apart from other guys that only think with their penis

I just think it makes them look desperate. No physical preferences. Just anyone nice and with a pulse for me thanks "

3 holes & a heartbeat

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Look, this isn’t rocket science. Everyone wants to have sex with people they find hot. But if that hottie is a dickhead, I’m not touching them with a bargepole.

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By *ouplewithKinks23Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

M half: I'd not be bothered at all as long as clean and into having fun with us.

F half: slightly more picky until the horn takes over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look, this isn’t rocket science. Everyone wants to have sex with people they find hot. But if that hottie is a dickhead, I’m not touching them with a bargepole."

Really though...

I know a lot of guys on here who'll say oh xyz is hot but a dickhead, I'd still fuck her though.

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By *inky Chef OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"I don't want a micro penis.

I also don't want a shit personality.

I also want a good looking face.

I also want a nice body.

Apparently this makes you picky. It says so up there somewhere."

It doesn't say so.

It was a question.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

out of 10? 12

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have my limits.

What they are depends on how many Babycham’s I’ve had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship

I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.

Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.

Men do this allll the time though!

Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks."

Nope. If she repels me mentally I couldn’t get a boner however hot she is.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Really though...

I know a lot of guys on here who'll say oh xyz is hot but a dickhead, I'd still fuck her though."

Sounds to me like those guys are dickheads.

*shrug emoji*

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By *agebunWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"Look, this isn’t rocket science. Everyone wants to have sex with people they find hot. But if that hottie is a dickhead, I’m not touching them with a bargepole."

This! Although I did put up with someone who was a bit of a dickhead because the kink was good. But he became more and more of a dickhead over time and now my tolerance level is set a lot lower so I can maintain already limited sanity.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes to both, cock and tit size is irrelevant.

It's the person I'm attracted to not an individual body part.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship

I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.

Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.

Men do this allll the time though!

Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks.

Nope. If she repels me mentally I couldn’t get a boner however hot she is."

This all day long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suspect people that claim only personality matters are lying to themselves in one way or another. Physical attraction should play a big role at the start of a relationship

I doubt anyone would claim that *only* personality matters.

Damn straight it’s the most important thing though. All the physical stuff’s the icing on the cake.

Men do this allll the time though!

Oh it's not the looks it's the connection crap. Is it bollocks.

Nope. If she repels me mentally I couldn’t get a boner however hot she is."

Let's be honest, no guy is gonna publicly admit I'm right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really though...

I know a lot of guys on here who'll say oh xyz is hot but a dickhead, I'd still fuck her though.

Sounds to me like those guys are dickheads.

*shrug emoji*"

Or just honest

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, cock size has never factored into me meeting someone.

I have to like someone and find their face attractive before I would consider a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is sex... Come what may, whatever we are.

All does the same thing

Whats inside matters most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite like all builds of women but if personality not there it’s a no

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.

Yes or no?

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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.

Yes or no?

Well obviously physical attraction plays a huge part in whether you want to have sex with someone and there are some physical qualities that are non negotiable for many people.

It doesnt make you a horrible person to have a preference and stick to it, unless you lead someone on who doesn't fit your type just to use them until you find "better".

Honestly would much rather people stated their non negotiable preferences, so I could avoid them if I don't match those.

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face, personality . Non pushy or forward ! Friendly demeanour! And good humour .

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Let's be honest, no guy is gonna publicly admit I'm right. "

Someone smart said this earlier. Can’t think who.

"Their personality is more likely to put me off more than anything, and it usually does. "

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I’ve never once looked at a cock and thought - wow, I need to meet him, his cock is so big/thick etc.

If I’m into someone, I’m into them whatever they’re packing.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Fussy fucker, put it that way

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.

Yes or no?

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And here is the joy of being non exclusive. I can have my cake and eat it. And my doughnut. And my muffin.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Really though...

I know a lot of guys on here who'll say oh xyz is hot but a dickhead, I'd still fuck her though.

Sounds to me like those guys are dickheads.

*shrug emoji*"

And they want everyone to think that any man not like them is lying about it.

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.

Yes or no?

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And here is the joy of being non exclusive. I can have my cake and eat it. And my doughnut. And my muffin. "

Greedy lady

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Most of the women I've dated and met have been taller than me, which isn't hard considering I'm a short-arse.

The have been with women of all shapes and sizes, the thing which attracts is the ability to just enjoy each others company, have a laugh, not be too serious.

Sex is usually great then

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.

Yes or no?

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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.

Yes or no?

We are exceptionally picky, but it has little to do with a guy’s cock or a lady’s boobs x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.

Yes or no?

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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.

Yes or no?

Couldn't give a flying monkey's hairy bollocks about cock size. There are so many more important things that make up a person. So if he is perfect for me, then bring him on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction (at least for me) isn't a checklist of body parts.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Oh yes. If he’s perfect, he’s perfect in every way. Couldn’t care less about cock size.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I’m picky as fuck but cock size doesn’t come into it if I fancy someone.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

It’s not a body or cock thing at all. It’s a facial attraction and meeting of minds. So yes. Picky.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

A flat arse/small boobs could be perfect.

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By *ninja000Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Tha doesn’t look at the fireplace when thas poking the fire flower, attraction is attraction

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

You can only truly judge a person in person so i like slim to curvy women with dark or blonde hair with great personalities and a sense of humour who are very short sighted

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

"Perfect man for you in every way, but has an average/small cock.

Yes or no?

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Perfect woman for you in every way, but has a flat arse/ small boobs.

Yes or no?

I am bi, quite picky who I meet but cock, boobs size are not in the list of the criteria to meet at all.

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By *inky Chef OP Man
over a year ago

Norwich

"You can only truly judge a person in person so i like slim to curvy women with dark or blonde hair with great personalities and a sense of humour who are very short sighted

I also have a soft spot for women not wearing glasses or contacts, but they should.

Not enough of them here unfortunately.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"You can only truly judge a person in person so i like slim to curvy women with dark or blonde hair with great personalities and a sense of humour who are very short sighted

I also have a soft spot for women not wearing glasses or contacts, but they should.

Not enough of them here unfortunately.

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Exactly and we can't afford to not get what we want

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I assess the overall attraction to the person and not just one piece.

. I can cope with more on a 1 session NSA than I can manage with, in an LTR.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"I’ve never once looked at a cock and thought - wow, I need to meet him, his cock is so big/thick etc.

If I’m into someone, I’m into them whatever they’re packing. "

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