FabSwingers.com forum: If guys had more sex toys

By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

I don't have stats to hand, damn it where are the stats!

But I assume it's fair to assume more women have little helpers in their bedside drawer then men.

If men had sex toys, whether better produced, less taboo for some reason - do you think it would level the playing field of men following women around like they are magnitised to their boobs, and message less?

What do you think fabbers?

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Short answer, No.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Men have plenty of sex toys to choose from. That's a none issue.

Fleshlight/pocket pussy stuff, hell there is even a banana cleaner. Cock rings.

Lots of prostate massage stuff, which the vast majority of straight guys (some top gay guys too) won't even think about wanting to use, but they exist.

They are decently produced too.

So it's the whole taboo thing, it's the needing to use a toy (own hand is effective enough) and he effort. I guess some will view it as being less than a "man".

But that won't change actual attitudes on here.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Men have plenty of sex toys to choose from. That's a none issue.

Fleshlight/pocket pussy stuff, hell there is even a banana cleaner. Cock rings.

Lots of prostate massage stuff, which the vast majority of straight guys (some top gay guys too) won't even think about wanting to use, but they exist.

They are decently produced too.

So it's the whole taboo thing, it's the needing to use a toy (own hand is effective enough) and he effort. I guess some will view it as being less than a "man".

But that won't change actual attitudes on here."

I'm not sure that's his question though

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

Yeah it wouldn't change men's attitude. That is something that is conditioned into them from teens in most cases. Less toys, more teaching blokes that women are people too and not something from a carry on film

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

"Men have plenty of sex toys to choose from. That's a none issue.

Fleshlight/pocket pussy stuff, hell there is even a banana cleaner. Cock rings.

Lots of prostate massage stuff, which the vast majority of straight guys (some top gay guys too) won't even think about wanting to use, but they exist.

They are decently produced too.

So it's the whole taboo thing, it's the needing to use a toy (own hand is effective enough) and he effort. I guess some will view it as being less than a "man".

But that won't change actual attitudes on here.

I'm not sure that's his question though"

last line is. pay attention

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

A lot of men enjoy the chase. No toy can replicate that.

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Yeah it wouldn't change men's attitude. That is something that is conditioned into them from teens in most cases. Less toys, more teaching blokes that women are people too and not something from a carry on film"

What about the women from carry on films though?

Also, rip Babs x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

No, of course not. How could that possibly be more appealing than being next to a woman?

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No, of course not. How could that possibly be more appealing than being next to a woman?"

It's not about more appealing, I'm sure women would say sex is better than toys too, it's about the chase. With Bradley Walsh

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"No, of course not. How could that possibly be more appealing than being next to a woman?

It's not about more appealing, I'm sure women would say sex is better than toys too, it's about the chase. With Bradley Walsh"

Do this mean I go through to the final?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

Do this mean I go through to the final?"

Oh you're up. Give Fluffy her name back scoundrel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women complain guys can’t make them cum while owning 17 different types of 12000rpm mains powered vibrating toys

Guys dont need toys because we’re simple

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Do this mean I go through to the final?

Oh you're up. Give Fluffy her name back scoundrel!

We're in discussions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do this mean I go through to the final?

Oh you're up. Give Fluffy her name back scoundrel!

We're in discussions "

No we’re not. You’re blackm4iling me.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell

"I don't have stats to hand, damn it where are the stats!

But I assume it's fair to assume more women have little helpers in their bedside drawer then men.

What do you think fabbers?"

No. men have two built in sex toys, Hands. and to be honest we dont need anything else.

I for one am repulsed with flesh lights, sex robots, and all that crap. No thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of men aren’t as open as women to toys

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By *ruceyy OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I think a lot of men aren’t as open as women to toys "

I agree. And who knows why!

I personally think I'd care less about casual sex if I had a disuxx4000 to be fair. But maybe that's just me!

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"No, of course not. How could that possibly be more appealing than being next to a woman?

It's not about more appealing, I'm sure women would say sex is better than toys too, it's about the chase. With Bradley Walsh"

Sadly not always the case.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Do this mean I go through to the final?

Oh you're up. Give Fluffy her name back scoundrel!

We're in discussions

No we’re not. You’re blackm4iling me. "

I can see this turning into Fabatha Christie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think male sex toys are becoming a lot more common and more men are using them. There’s already a lot on the market but no, I don’t think that would stop it. They scratch an itch but it never matches up to the real thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a lot of men aren’t as open as women to toys

I agree. And who knows why!

I personally think I'd care less about casual sex if I had a disuxx4000 to be fair. But maybe that's just me!"

The reason women care less about casual sex isn’t because they’ve got better toys, it’s because casual sex is always available

Guys are the same once you get enough of it you, eventually it loses its appeal and you need more. You’ll get there eventually bud

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

But destigmatising male sex toys wouldn't be a bad thing all the same

LvM

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"What do you think fabbers?"

Sorry, I got distracted looking at boobs. What was the question again?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think that they might get some relief, just as they can with their hands, but it wouldn't alone reduce their pressure on others, to get sex with someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the human race would be extinct within a generation.

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Wouldn't make a difference unless...

It would be a reasonable priced, customisable and realistic droid/robot AI.

You could program the IQ level as well.

" Fuck my pussy / arse" or "Do you want me to suck you" type.

Solving difficult math equations smart type.

" I have a headache, leave me alone" wife experience type...etc.

That would be a game changer.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

If we tally them up, I probably have more toys than Becky does.

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By *ne.eyed.willyMan
over a year ago

Ammanford

"If we tally them up, I probably have more toys than Becky does.

What's the favourite?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Would it change things? No.

There is a lot of stigma around male sex toys, not just the potential mess but also because using them or buying them seems to indicate to many that they ‘can’t get a woman’, so therefore are less manly, successful or virile. It’s very much an ego thing. Not to mention that a lot of the best male toys are mainly found in the gay market, which is a whole other story.

If any/all of this changed though, the basic thought process for many men that women are objects to be sexualised and available for their gaze at any point would still be prevalent

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

I have a draw full of sex toys… some are male sex toys, some are women’s toys … and some can be used by either! … I love playing with my toy box

R xx

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Do this mean I go through to the final?

Oh you're up. Give Fluffy her name back scoundrel!

We're in discussions

No we’re not. You’re blackm4iling me.

I can see this turning into Fabatha Christie"

Fabatha Christie

I’m so going to write this story one day

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Sex toys are great fun. We both have a few, but they can never be a substitute for an actual person. ‘This Fleshlight sure makes me feel sexy and wanted’, said nobody, ever.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Wouldn't make a difference unless...

It would be a reasonable priced, customisable and realistic droid/robot AI.

You could program the IQ level as well.

" Fuck my pussy / arse" or "Do you want me to suck you" type.

Solving difficult math equations smart type.

" I have a headache, leave me alone" wife experience type...etc.

That would be a game changer.

So you can’t have a high IQ *and* a high sex drive? Interesting….

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

...etc.

I didn't list all the options.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

We have dildos and Mr has prostate massagers, we use them together, it’s not a substitute at all and really doesn’t compare to the real thing.

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

"If we tally them up, I probably have more toys than Becky does.

What's the favourite?"

We have everything from prostate massagers (Mantric - very good) through to a fucking machine.

But, the most used toy is a dildo that hits my prostate perfectly every time. It’s the only toy to have produced the mythical hands free orgasm and ejaculation..

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