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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?

Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easier to narrow my scope to my aesthetic preference on here, but I've definitely had more positive experiences with women in the 'real' world, dating etc, than here.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?

Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie? "

Thats bait.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?

Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie? "

I think attraction is even for me here and offline.

I also attract similar women here and offline.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not gonna lie. I think I lose a few marks anonymising myself on here. I reckon I have a lot more charm in person. And people can see my mug

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?

Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie? "

i find ladies here far more attractive and interesting than than in the real world because ummm it's a swingers site and I like people who swing - in the broad sense as oppose to one on one only - and think it works the other way too in terms of my attraction to others. I think if that was all I wanted would be better off in the real word or other sites but would have far less fun.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?

Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie?

Thats bait.....

"

Well Brucey is the master of baiting, man.

...that was awful, I'll get coffee before I respond again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody here likes sex. They like relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After sleeping on the question, I original answer stands with a few additions.

My attraction level doesn't change because I'm not attracted to people on here because they are swingers.

I am attracted to the person. Sharing similar kinks is one part. Looking back, people offline may take longer to open up to sharing kinks but kinks are no different to those online. Here the information is usually listed or more forthcoming but people are people and people on here have just found their tribe.

I think it's also easier for me offline as I interact more offline and lurk more online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest here, attraction can be bent if men get the opportunity to have sex. It can't be bent in the real world of dating because you have to commit to that person which you ultimately need to find attractive on a daily basis.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Let's be honest here, attraction can be bent if men get the opportunity to have sex. It can't be bent in the real world of dating because you have to commit to that person which you ultimately need to find attractive on a daily basis."

Oh yeah that's true but also, it isn't impossible to arrange no strings sex in the real world either. That's more what I was getting at here.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Do you find you attract more 'attractive to you subjectively' women here....or out there, in the real world?

Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie?

Thats bait.....

Well Brucey is the master of baiting, man.

...that was awful, I'll get coffee before I respond again.

"

Haha that was brilliant !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's be honest here, attraction can be bent if men get the opportunity to have sex. It can't be bent in the real world of dating because you have to commit to that person which you ultimately need to find attractive on a daily basis."

Some men might bend

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By *ainbows_can_be_metal_tooCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

I tend to attract more women on here because I can hold a conversation more on here. I'm too much of a self conscious mess in real life and thankful that my wife is a fantastic wing man and is great at describing my positives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's be honest here, attraction can be bent if men get the opportunity to have sex. It can't be bent in the real world of dating because you have to commit to that person which you ultimately need to find attractive on a daily basis."

It can be bent for everyone, not just men. Not every man wants to sleep with any women that gives them the go ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the real world people tend to see my wedding ring and it acts like a forcefield

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I am a complete horn-dog. I find women attractive everywhere I go. Luke

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I don't really like the digital world for judging attractiveness or putting myself forward. I find I thrive in the real world (vanilla or lifestyle setting) where I can use body language, speech and eye contact. Likewise I find it better for me to judge how attracted I am to the other person too.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Or do you think you find women here more attractive based on the fact you know they like sex and own nice lingerie? "

I think you see different sides to people on here. So I’m probably finding different things attractive.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Out in the world as i put in no effort here and my job is to flirt to get my way in real life so im constantly rejecting customers come ons on that not womeon really are bad at seduction in this day and age

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

I have way more success in the real world - women tend to approach me … as for attractive or less attractive I have standards which apply wherever I am.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Most women in the real world like sex and own lingerie. I always have...

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Attractiveness is subjective.

In the real world your likes,compliments, messages and words have more purpose,than just an ego boost for women you will never get.

I guess it's easier to find sexual compatibility here, if you belong to the 10% lucky men.

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By *ruceyy OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Most women in the real world like sex and own lingerie. I always have..."

I know but they don't show it as easily

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood


"Most women in the real world like sex and own lingerie. I always have...

I know but they don't show it as easily "

Amazon have some deals on telescopes and binoculars…. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a man is guaranteed sex on here, that woman automatically becomes the most beautiful human they’ve ever laid their eyes on. Regardless if she comes wrapped in pretty lingerie or not.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes. I don't tend to approach or be approached in "real life", and the wedding band would probably put off a lot of people anyway We really love people's personalities just as much as bodies, and with the forum being a great way to click, sooner or later we tend to end up in each others' inboxes

LvM

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Yes. I don't tend to approach or be approached in "real life", and the wedding band would probably put off a lot of people anyway We really love people's personalities just as much as bodies, and with the forum being a great way to click, sooner or later we tend to end up in each others' inboxes

LvM"

You can land in my inbox anytime you like

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I've broken more hearts in the real world.

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Real world everytime

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I've broken more hearts in the real world."

I can imagine and that's not in a nasty way..just I imagine you have quite a number of admirers

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I've broken more hearts in the real world.

I can imagine and that's not in a nasty way..just I imagine you have quite a number of admirers "
nasty.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I've broken more hearts in the real world.

I can imagine and that's not in a nasty way..just I imagine you have quite a number of admirers nasty. "

xx

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