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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone got a particular source of info they'd share?

I naturally take the lead...and all that entails but I've been asked to push beyond my knowledge

And I want to do it right...naturally

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Know your worth.

Know your limits.

Know your audience.

Don't waste your time on do me subs and fantasists.

Good luck out there

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By *winckle toesMan
over a year ago

norwich

"Know your worth.

Know your limits.

Know your audience.

Don't waste your time on do me subs and fantasists.

I’m looking at trying this

Good luck out there

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By *panksspankedMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's all about dialogue. Finding the place where two desires meet. One to give and one to receive. Remember that can mean the gift from a sub and the ability of a Domme to accept it too.Trust and understanding is everything

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I follow alot of Dommes on what used to be X, some great inspo. Alot of them pick something to specialise in. So if you find an activity you really enjoy, hone your skills in that area. But try a bit of everything to start with. And it should always be fun, don't let others dictate what you should be doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Know your worth.

Know your limits.

Know your audience.

Don't waste your time on do me subs and fantasists.

Good luck out there

Please explain 'do me subs'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's all about dialogue. Finding the place where two desires meet. One to give and one to receive. Remember that can mean the gift from a sub and the ability of a Domme to accept it too.Trust and understanding is everything "

I've asked lots of questions

I think we've reached a point where I understand his needs...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I follow alot of Dommes on what used to be X, some great inspo. Alot of them pick something to specialise in. So if you find an activity you really enjoy, hone your skills in that area. But try a bit of everything to start with. And it should always be fun, don't let others dictate what you should be doing."

Definitely only do something if its fun...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Know your worth.

Know your limits.

Know your audience.

Don't waste your time on do me subs and fantasists.

Good luck out there

Please explain 'do me subs'

Fetishists who expect you to follow a script to get them off as though you're there to serve them.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

There are quite a few clubs that offer intro to kink events which will be a good place to meet others if nothing else. It may be worth visiting a FETish LIFEstyle website as well for more useful info.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Know your worth.

Know your limits.

Know your audience.

Don't waste your time on do me subs and fantasists.

Good luck out there

Please explain 'do me subs'

Fetishists who expect you to follow a script to get them off as though you're there to serve them."

Gotcha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are quite a few clubs that offer intro to kink events which will be a good place to meet others if nothing else. It may be worth visiting a FETish LIFEstyle website as well for more useful info.

LvM"

I've been told there's one local to me, I'll give it a go

Thanks for the nod towards FL

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