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What percentage do you use sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To confirm your worth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0%

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Time is alot more valuable

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad to say but it used to be 100%, a shitty relationship can do that to you. Now I'm single, that percentage is dropping by the day.

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Not at all - if I did I might risk thinking I was worthless.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

An interesting question. Do you mean sex as in actual sexual activity or the amount of people who are obviously interested in you sexually?

I think we're all encouraged to base our worth on our attractiveness to the gender we're interested in so it's difficult not to. All I will say is as you grow older you'd better develop a sense of your own value outside of sexual attractiveness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sad to say but it used to be 100%, a shitty relationship can do that to you. Now I'm single, that percentage is dropping by the day."

I can relate to this. In my past relationship it was something used not in a good way.

Which is why I have a hatred towards it now I guess.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I like to be reminded that I'm sexually desirable and that I'm not quite dead yet, on occasion

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

None never been the case... I'm worthy without

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Not at all.

Mrs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I like to be reminded that I'm sexually desirable and that I'm not quite dead yet, on occasion "

Same.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I obviously do else why would I post pictures on here for example. And the majority of us like to be thought of as sexually attractive occasionally.

How much does it add to my self worth? It's probably decreasing which is no bad thing I think.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Hmm.

I think, without sex, I'm still a whole and happy person. My year of absolute celibacy didn't feel any less for the lack of it.

But I am a person who greatly enjoys sex. I enjoy feeling wanted. I have an exhibitionist streak that glows happily when someone fabs my photos or I hear someone saying something nice about the way I look at an event. It matter a lot more from the people who matter to me, but I still like to see it coming from other sources.

I wouldn't say I depend on it, I can live happily without it, but I'm also very happy to have my self worth confirmed in a sexual manner

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

0 these days, there's more to my worthiness that attraction to the opposite sex. That's probably the last thing I would worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0%

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

My sense of self worth has little to do with sex, but that doesn’t mean I don’t need to know that I’m desirable in the eyes of a few people. Sex is a part of me, and feeling desired is important, it’s just substantially less important than most other things, and it only matters if it comes from a couple of very specific people.

How about you OP? Is sex wrapped up in your sense of self worth? x

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By *Bag69Man
over a year ago

Derby

0% (and honestly it's a bloody good job!)

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

0%

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Zero percentage.

Never have done.

My self worth is more important than sex so I'll never trust it to something so shallow.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Have done in the distant past.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

zero I don't have a sexual bone in my body and haven't done for three years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 28-35%

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By *ashMan
over a year ago

Westhoughton

To measure worth, not at all..

To measure happiness, 100%..

There's something missing even if u say you are happy without sex..

It forms an important part of your healthy physiology as well as psychology..

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

51%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I measure my self worth by simply knowing I am a good person, fun to be around, loyal to those close to me, kind, intelligent, and helpful.

Sex has nothing to do with how good a catch I consider myself. (Said without arrogance.) Catching the interest of others, being lusted after and desired is lovely but without it I don’t feel les worthy of the space I take up. I have a wholesome life whether I’m fighting off all those who want to fuck me or if I’m sat at home on a Friday with a glass dildo bringing myself to orgasm over alone.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"To confirm your worth? "

Based on this theory I’m worthless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My worth is not measured in sex

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Hmm well if someone didn't want to have sex with me that wouldn't feel great. But i have sex because it feels good.

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By *r_reusMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Depends on how you're defining 'sex'.

Going through a long string of the opposite sex may suggest that you're sexually attractive (depending on the likewise attractiveness of whom you're having sex with of course), but ultimately it's the follow through of having children that is what sex ultimately exists for, which tells you of a man or woman's worth.

If you only had sex with a single person in your life, and that experience lead to parenthood which lead to you raising a strong, healthy, happy family, then your worth is vastly higher than someone who added hundreds to their bedpost but never did.

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