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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.

However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.

How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?

Mrs

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I think any compliment that is respectful and well meaning is appreciated.

If the people can’t see your face then it’s just a compliment on your general appearance and presentation on your profile.

I don’t overthink things.

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Have you seen the “rate my….” Threads started by couples and women?

A quick scroll through the replies and you get a good idea that some of the ratings given are not sincere in my opinion.

That being said, I’ve seen your face and I can confirm you are hot

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Experience shows that how hot they apparently think I am fluctuates wildly once they get a No thanks. So I don't think anything of random compliments from anyone I assume is trying to sleep with me.

The compliments that matter to me are from the people who know all of me.

Though, sometimes, something nice and seemingly genuine comes from a stranger that hits the right chords.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I have had entire conversations about fancying from the nose down

But yeah I just take it as they are complimenting my body/lingerie collection.

J

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I take them as someone trying to curry favour.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Generally get to know them a bit first

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.

However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.

How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?

Mrs "

In general I don’t give out empty flattery. And I try not to lead people on. So if I give someone a compliment of any kind, it’s sincere.

Recently a guy who was fairly liberal with the compliments he gave me, immediately stopped responding when I returned a compliment. I found that puzzling and was a bit disappointed, but this is how we find out if we’re compatible with people *shrug*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be honest, and compliment where it’s due, line beautiful smiles, great eyes, amazing figure. It’s not always to flirt, a compliment can be given with no intent of anything back in return

I don’t take compliments well though lol

I go red and embarrassed

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By *-YourPleasureMan
over a year ago

sourhdowns

I will happily take any compliment especially if they have taken their time and appreciated my images x. Usually if they aren’t sincere they follow up with a Shiite comment of wanting to met now !! Or worse

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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If someone is saying you're hot, they mean what they can see of you. You can have a hot body and a horrific face. Like Sam said above, don't overthink it.

I like comments on things other than my physical appearance but sometimes it's nice to be seen in a sexual light rather than the cutesy nerd thing I have going on.

If I don't have a genuine compliment to give someone; I don't do it. I like to think people know I'm sincere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think you need to see their face to compliment them on their body or the pictures they take etc.

I always take any compliments on here with a pinch of salt. More often than not there’s an agenda behind them. It’s very rare someone compliments you for the sake of it and I tend to believe them more if they come from other women to be honest.

To answer your question….i only give out compliments if I mean them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree how do they know when they can't see your face? If it's said to me it makes me cringe. I get the impression they just want to fuck the body and don't care about the face which screams any holes a goal to me.

And I also fully believe whatever they have sent me as a compliment they've sent to 50 other women as well.

And I'm a cow in person, I'll give the 'bet you say that to all the girls' sarky response and watch them squirm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.

From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.

The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.

Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.

Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.

From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.

The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.

Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.

Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.

"

I like your messy hair, fancy sharing rum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.

From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.

The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.

Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.

Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.

I like your messy hair, fancy sharing rum"

Not your rum obvs, I’m

Not that stupid to ask that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take all compliments with a side eye. Yes they might be genuine but all saying them is hoping for a return in their investment which becomes a transaction rather than a compliment. And those men who state a compliment then follow it 'with what I can see of you' give your head a wobble.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't give fab compliments so I never have to worry about how they are perceived.

I've seen many given publicly in the forums which are often hilarious because they are so blatantly false and undeserved.

Like many other things said on here so much is just lipservice and I take it with a sickbucket full of salt.

I will compliment people I know and have a connection with.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.

However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.

How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?

Mrs "

Wait, im not the only one covered in boils?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s wise not to believe any compliments received from men on here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

If I compliment someone it's rare and sincere. I believe you can compliment someone's physicality without seeing all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.

From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.

The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.

Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.

Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.

"

You're so jaded.

Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.

All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.

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By *ie n MashCouple
over a year ago

Back in Malice


"If I compliment someone it's rare and sincere. I believe you can compliment someone's physicality without seeing all of them. "

I agree. I just sent a genuine compliment to someone and hope they believe me when I said what I did. Wife knows I sent it, to keep everything above board.

The world would be a better place if we could all spread a little joy. (I also believe the world would be a better place if Spurs fans were banned from mixing with the rest of society, just in case anyone mistook me for being a peace-loving hippy).

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I take most of what’s said on here with a pinch of salt, particularly the first few messages.

If someone has met me and pays me a compliment at least I’ve seen enough of them to gauge if they’re blowing smoke or genuinely mean it.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits."

There*

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.

However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.

How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?

Mrs "

I only ever give genuine compliments.

Your photos are sexy, classy and quite creative, also you both have fairly attractive bodies so someone saying you are hot is understandable, for me at least, it isnt only about aesthetics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.

From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.

The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.

Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.

Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.

You're so jaded.

Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.

All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough. "

She's still not going to sleep with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.

There*"

Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username?

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

I got a very cold message and then blocked by a guy a few weeks ago because , after he asked me whether I thought he was good looking, I said “no, I do not think you are particularly good looking, but you are not ugly either. It doesn’t matter though because I am more interested in what kind of a person you are, looks are not important to me”

He replied with something like

“ oh well I don’t care for fake and conceited people, have fun on this site, bye” and blocked me!

This was after chatting and trying to arrange to meet over a two or three week period.

I was a little taken aback but then thought “at least I know he was a guy I probably wouldn’t have wanted to meet anyway if he can’t stand s bit of truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.

There*

Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username?"

No let me get mine back first!

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

They're not really much of a conversation starter

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits."

Didn't we all join fab for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.

There*

Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username?

No let me get mine back first!"

Oh, go on, go on, go on, go on, go on...

You've been offered lots of alternatives, I'm sure you can survive another week or two without one.

Besides, whilst your mistress is away, who's to stop me? Or will she use those incredible divining powers to see what I am up to and then come down on me like a tonne of bricks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.

Didn't we all join fab for sex?"

Gosh if we did, then there are a lot of disappointed people judging by Shag's monthly role call.

(ps I joined cos a friend invited me, I stay cos I enjoy the sarcastic, acerbic, ironic and humourous comments from participants in the Lounge)

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I probably should learn that most compliments that get sent my way are just guys trying to get in my pants...however I am stupid enough to take what's said at face value and think they actually mean it . *facepalm emoji lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

I’m sexier than a bacon and egg sandwich, so the compliments are probably true

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
over a year ago

In the clouds

They're usually just sending the same message to multiple accounts, to see if they get any response, so I ignore them mostly

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits.

There*

Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username?"

You're more than welcome my friend. May it serve you better than it did me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.

From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.

The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.

Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.

Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.

You're so jaded.

Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.

All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.

She's still not going to sleep with you "

But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.

However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.

How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?

Mrs "

Depending how they are put across, I'll generally take them at face value and say 'thanks!', but it doesn't mean further conversation will happen, I'm being polite.

Do I believe them, not really. But that's by the by. It's the people who I know, when they compliment, it's still hard to take, but means more as I know it's sincere and they've not got an agenda.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I compliment someone it's rare and sincere. I believe you can compliment someone's physicality without seeing all of them.

I agree. I just sent a genuine compliment to someone and hope they believe me when I said what I did. Wife knows I sent it, to keep everything above board.

The world would be a better place if we could all spread a little joy. (I also believe the world would be a better place if Spurs fans were banned from mixing with the rest of society, just in case anyone mistook me for being a peace-loving hippy)."

Phew! I was getting worried

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

They are commenting on what they can see. I personally would be very surprised if your face looked like a bag of spanners, but even if it did, you still have a hot body and I'm sure I would still be very attracted to you. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.

If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.

I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTable OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Experience shows that how hot they apparently think I am fluctuates wildly once they get a No thanks. So I don't think anything of random compliments from anyone I assume is trying to sleep with me.

The compliments that matter to me are from the people who know all of me.

Though, sometimes, something nice and seemingly genuine comes from a stranger that hits the right chords."

Yeah I get this too, it's a compliment until you say no then it's an insult

Mrs

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.

If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.

I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "

Like tell you you have a bad voice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.

From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.

The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.

Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.

Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.

You're so jaded.

Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.

All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.

She's still not going to sleep with you

But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that."

I had an argument with a guy last night, I'm not jaded, I'm realistic.

You, him all the guys can say "oh not all guys raven blah blah I'm the exception"

Except you're not.

I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory!

It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex.

Plain

And

Simple

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.

From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.

The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.

Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.

Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.

You're so jaded.

Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.

All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.

She's still not going to sleep with you

But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that.

I had an argument with a guy last night, I'm not jaded, I'm realistic.

You, him all the guys can say "oh not all guys raven blah blah I'm the exception"

Except you're not.

I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory!

It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex.

Plain

And

Simple

"

That's the only reason we speak to women at all isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.

If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.

I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive

Like tell you you have a bad voice? "

That wasn’t a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit.

From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit.

The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway.

Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc.

Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit.

You're so jaded.

Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are.

All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough.

She's still not going to sleep with you

But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that.

I had an argument with a guy last night, I'm not jaded, I'm realistic.

You, him all the guys can say "oh not all guys raven blah blah I'm the exception"

Except you're not.

I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory!

It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex.

Plain

And

Simple

That's the only reason we speak to women at all isn't it? "

He knows.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Some men compliment without ulterior motives, some men appreciate great dress sense or the perfume or smile or mood the person may be in or the way they deal with a situation and i for one in life compliment that person and its appreciated in life, the women here are sought by sex hungry men and so therefore its naturally the way forward to compliment after all words are all they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.

If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.

I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always nice to get complements when we are out on a night at pubs.

It's just doesn't come across as sincere on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.

However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.

How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?

Mrs "

They could like your body. It would still be a true compliment even if your head was covered in warts. You'd still be a lovely person in their eyes.

I get men wanting to fuck me because of my profile pic.

Is it my arse cleavage or something else.

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

I'm happy to pay a compliment where it's due. I'm not one for trying to gain something from paying a compliment.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.

If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.

I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "

But why do they want to get into your vagina? Isn't it because they find you attractive? That's the only reason I ever want to get in woman's vagina, and even then it's not a target. I'm not an ”every hole's a goal" kind of guy - never have been and never will be. If I give a compliment it's because I mean it. I've given plenty of compliments on her to people I have no expectation of ever meeting, let alone making an entrance into an associated vagina. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no longer pay compliments to anyone after receiving a torrent of abuse.

The fact that admin did nothing about the abuser has completely changed my attitude to this shitshow of a website

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always tend to compliment people on their photos rather than their body if I like the style or the pose.

I'm like you as well OP, I used to like getting compliments on my body but I (ironically) now take them at face value and don't take much notice until they've seen my face as I've had people wax lyrical about my body and then go silent as soon as I send a face pic so it's hard to take those words seriously nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.

If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.

I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "

Remembers to tell the real FC that I am actually gay! (sniggers like a naughty teenager on the back row of the school bus)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory!

It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex.

Plain

And

Simple

"

I speak to you even when your profile is just the silhouette - you're funny and have an acerbic wit (and are too far away to ever stand a chance of getting into your pants, and you are too tall, and too young, and for all I know you might actually be a bloke, besides I think you would beat me in an arm wrestle so I need to keep my distance).

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt."

And there was I thinking that your top line "A stone-cold big-titted boobalicious horn-bag" must have been a compliment that one of your admirers had given you

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt.

And there was I thinking that your top line "A stone-cold big-titted boobalicious horn-bag" must have been a compliment that one of your admirers had given you "

well, maybe

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt."

Like a dry roasted peanut.

You don’t get many in a bag these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get complimented quite alot. However, its just men that compliment me so I don't really care as it holds no value to me. If a woman or a femboy complimented me though then I think I'd be on top of the world with the happiness that would give me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show me a genuine compliment on here I’ll dig up Guy Fawkes and give him a sparkler.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I take what I can get gratefully! And the compliments! X

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else


"Show me a genuine compliment on here I’ll dig up Guy Fawkes and give him a sparkler. "

I compliment your turn of phrase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show me a genuine compliment on here I’ll dig up Guy Fawkes and give him a sparkler.

I compliment your turn of phrase. "

Sighs.

Gets shovel.

Laters gators

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only compliments that mean anything to me here are from those who message about the way I've spoken on the forums. A handful, but all very much appreciated.

I don't know if I've given similar compliments often enough to others. I should.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I often compliment people on here - either for their pics or for the way they come across on the forums.

Whilst I’m not prolific on here I get a good sense of people and what they are about and so sometimes just send a compliment about something I’ve noticed.

A compliment can literally change someone’s day.

As to receiving compliments - they are nice to receive and depending on the person giving them, it depends on how much it hits but we never think negatively from compliments.

If they think you are hot it’s because your pics/portrays you in that way.

K

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic.

If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice.

I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive "

I feel a bit like this tbh, call me cynical but past experience has just made me that way. Trust me ask him how long it took him to get me to believe what he was saying

Tinder x

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt.

Like a dry roasted peanut.

You don’t get many in a bag these days. "

Yeah. Where are the complimentary nuts when you need them

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I often say to them how do they know, to be honest I take it all with a pinch of salt and say thank you knowing full well I don’t believe it

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Rarely get 'em on here but when I/we do, they're taken with a liberal pinch of salt, generally. In the "real world" though, I'm also fairly bad at accepting compliments on my appearance, mainly because I am disbelieving that anyone would find my appearance sufficiently decent to say so. When complimented on my ability to do something, I'm better at accepting but still uncomfortable with them.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Some men compliment without ulterior motives, some men appreciate great dress sense or the perfume or smile or mood the person may be in or the way they deal with a situation and i for one in life compliment that person and its appreciated in life, the women here are sought by sex hungry men and so therefore its naturally the way forward to compliment after all words are all they have "

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I always tend to compliment people on their photos rather than their body if I like the style or the pose.

I'm like you as well OP, I used to like getting compliments on my body but I (ironically) now take them at face value and don't take much notice until they've seen my face as I've had people wax lyrical about my body and then go silent as soon as I send a face pic so it's hard to take those words seriously nowadays."

For what it's worth, your eyes are really quite mesmerising

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I no longer pay compliments to anyone after receiving a torrent of abuse.

The fact that admin did nothing about the abuser has completely changed my attitude to this shitshow of a website"

That's awful, sorry you had to put up with that crap and even more so that nothing was done about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't compliment for the sake of it.I will tell someone that I think their photos are beautiful or that their profile reads well etc because I actually genuinely mean that.

The compliments I am given can be hit or miss though it really does depend on what they say and how it comes across.

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By *ilver2000Man
over a year ago

South West

I always compliment if I find the couples photos appealing, in the way they look and the style of their photography.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive.

However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me.

How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them?

Mrs "

Body language is a huge part of communication and if someone considers you sexy and appealling, you're clearly giving off signs they find attractive, on top of the visual body shape imagery and scene setting in your photos.

Not everything is about facial 'beauty'.

I've often rejected 'attractive' guys, based on their posture, which tells me we're not on the same vibration.

I'm sure even guys that think with their dicks also have a (subconscious) greater sense of attraction.

That's a long way of saying...

Take it!

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt.

Like a dry roasted peanut.

You don’t get many in a bag these days.

Yeah. Where are the complimentary nuts when you need them "

You know exactly where they are my dear

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