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"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive. However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me. How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them? Mrs " In general I don’t give out empty flattery. And I try not to lead people on. So if I give someone a compliment of any kind, it’s sincere. Recently a guy who was fairly liberal with the compliments he gave me, immediately stopped responding when I returned a compliment. I found that puzzling and was a bit disappointed, but this is how we find out if we’re compatible with people *shrug* | |||
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"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit. From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit. The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway. Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc. Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit. " I like your messy hair, fancy sharing rum | |||
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"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit. From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit. The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway. Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc. Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit. I like your messy hair, fancy sharing rum" Not your rum obvs, I’m Not that stupid to ask that | |||
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"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive. However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me. How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them? Mrs " Wait, im not the only one covered in boils?! | |||
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"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit. From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit. The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway. Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc. Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit. " You're so jaded. Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are. All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough. | |||
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"If I compliment someone it's rare and sincere. I believe you can compliment someone's physicality without seeing all of them. " I agree. I just sent a genuine compliment to someone and hope they believe me when I said what I did. Wife knows I sent it, to keep everything above board. The world would be a better place if we could all spread a little joy. (I also believe the world would be a better place if Spurs fans were banned from mixing with the rest of society, just in case anyone mistook me for being a peace-loving hippy). | |||
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"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits." There* | |||
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"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive. However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me. How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them? Mrs " I only ever give genuine compliments. Your photos are sexy, classy and quite creative, also you both have fairly attractive bodies so someone saying you are hot is understandable, for me at least, it isnt only about aesthetics. | |||
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"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit. From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit. The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway. Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc. Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit. You're so jaded. Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are. All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough. " She's still not going to sleep with you | |||
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"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits. There*" Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username? | |||
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"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits. There* Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username?" No let me get mine back first! | |||
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"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits." Didn't we all join fab for sex? | |||
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"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits. There* Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username? No let me get mine back first!" Oh, go on, go on, go on, go on, go on... You've been offered lots of alternatives, I'm sure you can survive another week or two without one. Besides, whilst your mistress is away, who's to stop me? Or will she use those incredible divining powers to see what I am up to and then come down on me like a tonne of bricks? | |||
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"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits. Didn't we all join fab for sex?" Gosh if we did, then there are a lot of disappointed people judging by Shag's monthly role call. (ps I joined cos a friend invited me, I stay cos I enjoy the sarcastic, acerbic, ironic and humourous comments from participants in the Lounge) | |||
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"What Raven said is true. Many have joined Fab for sex. And yes, they may like to get in your pants but their is also a chance that maybe they do like your eye/arse/tits. There* Do you mind if I steal your original name before you drop the 'fluffy chicken' username?" You're more than welcome my friend. May it serve you better than it did me | |||
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"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit. From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit. The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway. Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc. Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit. You're so jaded. Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are. All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough. She's still not going to sleep with you " But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that. | |||
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"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive. However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me. How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them? Mrs " Depending how they are put across, I'll generally take them at face value and say 'thanks!', but it doesn't mean further conversation will happen, I'm being polite. Do I believe them, not really. But that's by the by. It's the people who I know, when they compliment, it's still hard to take, but means more as I know it's sincere and they've not got an agenda. | |||
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"If I compliment someone it's rare and sincere. I believe you can compliment someone's physicality without seeing all of them. I agree. I just sent a genuine compliment to someone and hope they believe me when I said what I did. Wife knows I sent it, to keep everything above board. The world would be a better place if we could all spread a little joy. (I also believe the world would be a better place if Spurs fans were banned from mixing with the rest of society, just in case anyone mistook me for being a peace-loving hippy)." Phew! I was getting worried | |||
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"Experience shows that how hot they apparently think I am fluctuates wildly once they get a No thanks. So I don't think anything of random compliments from anyone I assume is trying to sleep with me. The compliments that matter to me are from the people who know all of me. Though, sometimes, something nice and seemingly genuine comes from a stranger that hits the right chords." Yeah I get this too, it's a compliment until you say no then it's an insult Mrs | |||
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"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic. If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice. I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive " Like tell you you have a bad voice? | |||
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"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit. From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit. The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway. Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc. Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit. You're so jaded. Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are. All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough. She's still not going to sleep with you But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that." I had an argument with a guy last night, I'm not jaded, I'm realistic. You, him all the guys can say "oh not all guys raven blah blah I'm the exception" Except you're not. I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory! It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex. Plain And Simple | |||
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"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit. From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit. The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway. Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc. Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit. You're so jaded. Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are. All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough. She's still not going to sleep with you But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that. I had an argument with a guy last night, I'm not jaded, I'm realistic. You, him all the guys can say "oh not all guys raven blah blah I'm the exception" Except you're not. I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory! It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex. Plain And Simple " That's the only reason we speak to women at all isn't it? | |||
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"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic. If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice. I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive Like tell you you have a bad voice? " That wasn’t a compliment | |||
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"On here from strangers? It's a load of shit. From guys that have seen my face and naked body and I've talked to, yeah still a load of shit. The end game of fab is sex, men know what to say to get it. Some men anyway. Even in person, it's amazing how many women are told they have "beautiful eyes" and give the best blow jobs etc. Men know what to say to get what they want. It's doesn't mean shit. You're so jaded. Look, some of us men have a unique sixth sense that can instinctively feel the presence of a beautiful pair of eyes. I regularly compliment empty fem profiles because their mere presence within my fabs filter makes me keenly aware of how amazing their family backgrounds were, how incredibly brilliantly minded they are, and how exclusively and exceptionally perfect and beautiful they are. All the women on my fabs filter are unique, just like each other. I don't even need to see profile pictures to ascertain that, the simple descriptions of "5'5" "average" "female" are enough. She's still not going to sleep with you But I singled out a nonchalant reply JUST for her. Surely that's worth a reach-around at least? I'm entitled to that. I had an argument with a guy last night, I'm not jaded, I'm realistic. You, him all the guys can say "oh not all guys raven blah blah I'm the exception" Except you're not. I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory! It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex. Plain And Simple That's the only reason we speak to women at all isn't it? " He knows. | |||
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"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic. If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice. I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive " | |||
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"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive. However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me. How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them? Mrs " They could like your body. It would still be a true compliment even if your head was covered in warts. You'd still be a lovely person in their eyes. I get men wanting to fuck me because of my profile pic. Is it my arse cleavage or something else. | |||
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"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic. If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice. I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive " But why do they want to get into your vagina? Isn't it because they find you attractive? That's the only reason I ever want to get in woman's vagina, and even then it's not a target. I'm not an ”every hole's a goal" kind of guy - never have been and never will be. If I give a compliment it's because I mean it. I've given plenty of compliments on her to people I have no expectation of ever meeting, let alone making an entrance into an associated vagina. Luke | |||
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"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic. If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice. I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive " Remembers to tell the real FC that I am actually gay! (sniggers like a naughty teenager on the back row of the school bus) | |||
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" I can guarantee not one of the guys that speaks to me now, still would if I didn't post the pictures I did, or if god forbid I sent them an unfiltered picture of me in all my glory! It's just a fact, men on here talk to you compliment you to get sex. Plain And Simple " I speak to you even when your profile is just the silhouette - you're funny and have an acerbic wit (and are too far away to ever stand a chance of getting into your pants, and you are too tall, and too young, and for all I know you might actually be a bloke, besides I think you would beat me in an arm wrestle so I need to keep my distance). | |||
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"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt." And there was I thinking that your top line "A stone-cold big-titted boobalicious horn-bag" must have been a compliment that one of your admirers had given you | |||
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"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt. And there was I thinking that your top line "A stone-cold big-titted boobalicious horn-bag" must have been a compliment that one of your admirers had given you " well, maybe | |||
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"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt." Like a dry roasted peanut. You don’t get many in a bag these days. | |||
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"Show me a genuine compliment on here I’ll dig up Guy Fawkes and give him a sparkler. " I compliment your turn of phrase. | |||
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"Show me a genuine compliment on here I’ll dig up Guy Fawkes and give him a sparkler. I compliment your turn of phrase. " Sighs. Gets shovel. Laters gators | |||
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"I’m going to sounds negative here but I’m actually being realistic. If a man wants to get into your vagina he will say anything. Therefore I take no notice. I’m much more likely to take notice of a compliment from a gay man or a woman of any sexuality because they don’t have an ulterior motive " I feel a bit like this tbh, call me cynical but past experience has just made me that way. Trust me ask him how long it took him to get me to believe what he was saying Tinder x | |||
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"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt. Like a dry roasted peanut. You don’t get many in a bag these days. " Yeah. Where are the complimentary nuts when you need them | |||
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"Some men compliment without ulterior motives, some men appreciate great dress sense or the perfume or smile or mood the person may be in or the way they deal with a situation and i for one in life compliment that person and its appreciated in life, the women here are sought by sex hungry men and so therefore its naturally the way forward to compliment after all words are all they have " | |||
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"I always tend to compliment people on their photos rather than their body if I like the style or the pose. I'm like you as well OP, I used to like getting compliments on my body but I (ironically) now take them at face value and don't take much notice until they've seen my face as I've had people wax lyrical about my body and then go silent as soon as I send a face pic so it's hard to take those words seriously nowadays." For what it's worth, your eyes are really quite mesmerising | |||
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"I no longer pay compliments to anyone after receiving a torrent of abuse. The fact that admin did nothing about the abuser has completely changed my attitude to this shitshow of a website" That's awful, sorry you had to put up with that crap and even more so that nothing was done about it | |||
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"I do get a few in the inbox the ones in our profile I do think are genuine and it's always nice to receive. However.... The ones for me specifically the you are hot and general compliments to myself I find difficult to take, mainly because they can't see my face, how do they know I'm hot, how do they know I've not got a horrendous face covered in boils and warts, it baffles me. How sincere are your compliments to other fabbers? Can you truly compliment someone without seeing all of them? Mrs " Body language is a huge part of communication and if someone considers you sexy and appealling, you're clearly giving off signs they find attractive, on top of the visual body shape imagery and scene setting in your photos. Not everything is about facial 'beauty'. I've often rejected 'attractive' guys, based on their posture, which tells me we're not on the same vibration. I'm sure even guys that think with their dicks also have a (subconscious) greater sense of attraction. That's a long way of saying... Take it! C x | |||
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"I don’t get many but when I do I take them with a large dose of salt. Like a dry roasted peanut. You don’t get many in a bag these days. Yeah. Where are the complimentary nuts when you need them " You know exactly where they are my dear | |||
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