FabSwingers.com forum: Desperately seeking...

By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

You're wanting advice. Who do you turn to? Are you good at listening to it?

Are there any fabbers who you'd trust with advice?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I’m very single minded in general.

It’s got me through 44 years so far.

I’m a good listener though and it’s f advice is sought think I give genuine well considered opinions.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Susan

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Tend to work things out myself

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Only the ones that I talk to every day anyway.

Anything I need an outside perspective for I'll save for my therapist

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Only you _eli but I'll be looking down at those feet while you give it. Talk more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends what I need advice on. For personal matters I turn to Mr N first, my dad second, my friends third.

For what to do with some yarn I bought on a whim or how to dispose of a giant dildo its fab every time

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Oh totally.

My brain may go into kernel panic though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sister is my confidante about most things. And I also count a few fabbers as people I'd trust for advice. I asked one of them just this morning!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m not really someone who often seeks advice.. it’s mainly vocalising life until I’ve worked through things in my own mind. When things are bad I’m more likely to go off radar until I’m feeling clearer… So I’ll try and explain why I’m not around.

My best mate is the only person I would go to. She’s the person who’s been through everything with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what I need advice on. For personal matters I turn to Mr N first, my dad second, my friends third.

For what to do with some yarn I bought on a whim or how to dispose of a giant dildo its fab every time "

How many of these giant dildo disposal threads have you done???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend to seek advice. I have a habit of shutting myself off and working it out in my own head. I like to process things myself before opinions start coming from others.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It depends what I need advice on. For personal matters I turn to Mr N first, my dad second, my friends third.

For what to do with some yarn I bought on a whim or how to dispose of a giant dildo its fab every time

How many of these giant dildo disposal threads have you done???

Only the one but it's the only claim to fame I have so I need to dine out on it as often as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what I need advice on. For personal matters I turn to Mr N first, my dad second, my friends third.

For what to do with some yarn I bought on a whim or how to dispose of a giant dildo its fab every time

How many of these giant dildo disposal threads have you done???

Only the one but it's the only claim to fame I have so I need to dine out on it as often as possible

If Pickle were here he'd make an innuendo I'm sure. "Not the ONLY thing" Fnar Fnar in his memory. Perhaps it's time to dispose of another toy??

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By *jj2012Man
over a year ago

Barry

"You're wanting advice. Who do you turn to? Are you good at listening to it?

Are there any fabbers who you'd trust with advice?"

100% all advice is good advice along as your open to it, it's always good to get neutral unbiased words of wisdom we're always learning and evolving in life xx

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I tend to reevaluate things in my head over and over again. But do have plenty of friends away from the site then get their input

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"It depends what I need advice on. For personal matters I turn to Mr N first, my dad second, my friends third.

For what to do with some yarn I bought on a whim or how to dispose of a giant dildo its fab every time

How many of these giant dildo disposal threads have you done???

Only the one but it's the only claim to fame I have so I need to dine out on it as often as possible

If Pickle were here he'd make an innuendo I'm sure. "Not the ONLY thing" Fnar Fnar in his memory. Perhaps it's time to dispose of another toy??

I have loads I need to dispose of. I'm thinking I'll just leave them for whoever has the misfortune to dispose of my effects when I'm shot dead by a jealous lover at the age of 99

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Ailsa. Friends and my mum. And there is one forumite who has always been there for me, even when nobody else was. She is wonderful and wise and generous. And there is one very old friend from Fab (not the forums) who has recently reconnected and she is smart and kind and I think I could probably seek advice there too. I don’t think anyone solicits advice from me. But I would always try to help if I could x

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I'm not name dropping!

I consider their advice, ponder on it a lot. Doesn't mean their advice is always good but it certainly is effective at making me think and be open. Their ability to sort of give me clarity is amazing.

I'm told I'm quite good with advice, though I like to think it's similar to what I say above more than simply "being right"

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

One former Fabber who I’d ask.

One current one I might consider if I need straight talking.

Otherwise, there are people in vanilla life I’d go to.

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"You're wanting advice. Who do you turn to? Are you good at listening to it?

Are there any fabbers who you'd trust with advice?"

The thing with advice, you don't know if it's good or bad until you've taken it.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

It was always my dad he could make any problem you had seen completely insignificant just by talking to him I always came away feeling better and ready to deal with whatever it was. The first time I split up with the ex in 2014 and was staying at parents house with my two kids he made the whole thing so much better just little things like walking the dog chatting or watching the football or the darts life was ok despite what was going on. Wish I’d had him the last 2 years

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Susan

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I’m very single minded in general.

It’s got me through 44 years so far.

I’m a good listener though and it’s f advice is sought think I give genuine well considered opinions."

You do. A tad blunt at times but in a way that's refreshing. Would you be able to give good advice to someone even if you were disappointed in them?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Depending on the advice there's probably a couple of fabbers I may ask if it was relatable.

Otherwise my best friend she's blunt and to the point which I like.

Then there's the Mr but he's a cunt (in the most affectionate way) and the advice maybe good if I wasn't such a softie but I am so I can't always take it.

Mrs

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Tend to paddle my own canoe, but if I had to get a second opinion on here, I’d probably as Miss Lemon.

While she may come across as a slightly crazy, sometime surreal and dizzy blonde fox, she’s had to deal with a lot of shit, is a smart cookie and I’d totally trust her to give an honest and serious opinion of something if needed. let’s face it, the Buttercream 100% rocks in all departments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no-one to go to for advice, never have. For some reason I cannot fathom, others have always come to me for it.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what I need advice on. For personal matters I turn to Mr N first, my dad second, my friends third.

For what to do with some yarn I bought on a whim or how to dispose of a giant dildo its fab every time

How many of these giant dildo disposal threads have you done???

Only the one but it's the only claim to fame I have so I need to dine out on it as often as possible

If Pickle were here he'd make an innuendo I'm sure. "Not the ONLY thing" Fnar Fnar in his memory. Perhaps it's time to dispose of another toy??

I have loads I need to dispose of. I'm thinking I'll just leave them for whoever has the misfortune to dispose of my effects when I'm shot dead by a jealous lover at the age of 99

Totes the way to go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're wanting advice. Who do you turn to? Are you good at listening to it?

Are there any fabbers who you'd trust with advice?"

I don't really ask anyone I've met from here, but I ask different people I know for different advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve very few people I talk to regards things I’d struggled with, I’m resilient and usually deal with my thoughts myself.

But I’ve sought advice before over things usually my best friend from my army says. He lives nearby and we’re like brothers.

On here, there’s a few guys who’s spoken to me and we’ve chatted and shared things. But advice isn’t something I’ve ever felt the need to ask. But there’s a few more d open upto about things once I’ve worked them out in my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I relocated for work and left alot of my old friends behind who I would usually go to for advice. Whilst I have friends now most are from work so they are not people I would fully confide in.

I have a predicament at the moment that is causing me some hurt and at the moment just working my way through some self help stuff.

It's a difficult one really. Would I trust someone in here? Well there are two things to take into consideration.

1. I don't really know them so it would make very little difference them knowing.So go for

Or...

2. How do I trust them to give me some good advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My go-to destination for advice on life’s challenges is always the Lounge forum of an internet fuck site

Nah. I dunno really. Depends on the situation I need advice on.

Do I trust any Fabsters? A couple. But I wouldn’t unburden myself on them, that’s not why I’m here

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I don't ..

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By *aughtySubMan
43 weeks ago

Liverpool

Pm open if you want a chat xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I have a habbit of talking to myself,its the only way to get expert advice

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By *heekyDemandCouple
43 weeks ago

Leicester

Tricky because people mostly come to me for advice, in my job I'm generally the most informed and experienced person so it gives me an air of absolute authority.

Then people start asking about things I have no clue about.

When I tell them I don't know they ask for personal opinion.

I can't win, people just trust me.

With my superpowers, should I fight crime???

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

Mr J and my mum always

You have a way with words and good advice Meli, so probably you too tbh

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I used to work in a team with local authority and police as a supervisor

I found my days were constantly listening and where requested or appropriate giving advice

I find that in my personal and private life I am often doing conversations with friends and family, esp my wife’s friends and business customers

Even the local bar staff lol

In fairness it’s always confidential and if I can help then it’s great

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

"You're wanting advice. Who do you turn to? Are you good at listening to it?

Are there any fabbers who you'd trust with advice?"

If I had/have a burning question, I'd ask it with a well worded question on the forums, but with a pinch of salt too and just see what happens. When people answer questions seriously on here they usually give good answers I would say. x

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

But if not on fab, I find answers to any questions I have in a few different ways. Either I inquire within and that can work, sometimes I ask certain friends off fab or I do a deep search online.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I'm a very patient person, so naturally a very good listener too.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
43 weeks ago

Durham

Each other and I do have a couple of good friends in here that I know would advise me honestly and listen well.

Ruby

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By *lueDressWoman
43 weeks ago

Bath

People have tended to come to Me for advice ever since I can remember...

Who do I turn to for My own personal advice, no one.

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By (user no longer on site)
43 weeks ago

I wish I’d take my own damn advice sometimes.

But no, nobody comes to me and I’ve stopped going to anyone else now. People use things against you, I’m not loading anyone’s gun anymore.

I r spoken to people on fab bigoted, one person will never be forgotten for rescuing me from a bad place with their words of experience and thoughtfulness.

But right now, there’s nobody I would turn to that knows me as much as I know myself.

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By *olfandtazCouple
43 weeks ago

Bristol

I'm independent so I tend to sort things out myself.

In my life I've had 2 heart attacks and 2 strokes and after each one I've always been on my own. Going through things like that tend to make you more independent and less reliant on others for help

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