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What am I do wrong ?

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By *allndark OP   Man
over a year ago

Dalbeattie

I’ve had nine winks since I joined and they are all from guys and tvs, not one from a couple or a lady.

What am I doing wrong ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Women rarely bother to go through all their winks. Guys and TVs probably get a more manageable amount.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

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By *rRiosMan
over a year ago

dublin


"I’ve had nine winks since I joined and they are all from guys and tvs, not one from a couple or a lady.

What am I doing wrong ?"

Take it as a compliment and move on with you life… or go gay for the day

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I’ve had nine winks since I joined and they are all from guys and tvs, not one from a couple or a lady.

What am I doing wrong ?"

You’re doing something right at least you’re getting some attention even if it’s not who you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can see the ghey in you!

PS Just ignore them, you're not doing anything wrong.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

nope your not doing anything wrong,,

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By *ros40Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Embrace the winks.

Keep sending messages to those you like

Remember this is all about fun, don't let it get you down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Expecting sex.

That's what you're doing wrong.

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By *he_13th_ghostWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

TV woman are still woman for one thing.

And maybe ladies can sense the need.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Women don't often show interest even if they have it, the sneaks!

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Expecting sex.

That's what you're doing wrong. "

He hasn't said he is expecting sex,

op some people have been here for over a year and still haven't met up with anyone, Maybe add some more pics and keep joining in on the forums/chat rooms try and get your personality across, There is always clubs and socials as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Expecting sex.

That's what you're doing wrong.

He hasn't said he is expecting sex,

op some people have been here for over a year and still haven't met up with anyone, Maybe add some more pics and keep joining in on the forums/chat rooms try and get your personality across, There is always clubs and socials as well "

Well I'm guessing he isn't here for air fryer recipes!

Though actually....

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By *ohntall123Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"I’ve had nine winks since I joined and they are all from guys and tvs, not one from a couple or a lady.

What am I doing wrong ?"

Not sure how long you’ve been on here mate but it takes time , your not doing anything wrong . Good luck

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It is not simply a case of doing something right or wrong, there are too many variables for such a simple definition. Put simply, what some might like, others won't. There is always the option to attend clubs and socials, but admitedly that isn't for everyone.

You should also bare in mind that you live in a mainly rural area, with a low population, where the number of local players will be commensurately low. Yes, you are willing to travel, but that doesn't mean your profile will be seen by people in larger urban areas that probably have enough people to pick from locally.

Your best bet if you are going to rely on internet interaction only is to increase your pics on your profile to tease the ladies a little. Face pics are always a good idea, cock pics aren't generally required in force and anything in between is acceptable to all. Perhaps next time it is a nice day you could pop down to Colliston park and take a few selfies for example.

Lastly, if you are going to rely on the Internet alone, then make good use of the forums and chatrooms to attract attention. Interaction will be key for you.

Good luck

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By *allndark OP   Man
over a year ago

Dalbeattie

Thanks you everyone for your points of view, you certainly gave me food for thought.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I’ve had nine winks since I joined and they are all from guys and tvs, not one from a couple or a lady.

What am I doing wrong ?"

It rather depends on what you are doing and what you are trying to achieve.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Unrealistic expectations? Conflicts between what you think you should do and what is needed? Thinking you're selling yourself but not really doing so? Not going to swinging clubs?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

A mouth's a mouth OP when the lights are off

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Your profile looks fine just have a little patience you'll get there in the end

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By *ilkey69Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

To be fair mate getting a reply sometimes is like finding that elusive unicorn that couples are after.

Oh and about 400 blokes to every lady

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By *allndark OP   Man
over a year ago

Dalbeattie


"To be fair mate getting a reply sometimes is like finding that elusive unicorn that couples are after.

Oh and about 400 blokes to every lady"

I think that’s about write, it make it nigh on impossible.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

To be fair OP, withput knowing what you are doing, that's atough question to answer.

We're not psychic

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