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"How many times this past week With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived?" 1 - oops. "Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either?" 0 "Been cancelled on?" 0 "Sent a first message? 1 - and it was positively received " Hope your week ends with a bang PW. | |||
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"I only get messages from men lol "I know you're straight but I'll give you 200 pounds cash to suck your dick" has been my favourite so far. What does a man have to do to get a conversation with an interesting lady? " Block men for a start! | |||
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"I only get messages from men lol "I know you're straight but I'll give you 200 pounds cash to suck your dick" has been my favourite so far. What does a man have to do to get a conversation with an interesting lady? Block men for a start!" Then I can't get back and forth craic with men who have posted on a forum game. It's the only reason I leave my filters open | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? " I’ve had a few good conversations this week. Usually I don’t talk to anyone. I’ve had a potential solo meet cancelled due to illness (but it wasn’t certain anyway), and we’ve had a couples meet for next week cancelled due to a babysitter falling through (theirs, not ours) and we haven’t rescheduled yet. But, these are all people we know well. It’s no big deal. I hope this is hypothetical OP, otherwise you don’t seem to have much luck at the moment Xx | |||
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"I only get messages from men lol "I know you're straight but I'll give you 200 pounds cash to suck your dick" has been my favourite so far. What does a man have to do to get a conversation with an interesting lady? Block men for a start! Then I can't get back and forth craic with men who have posted on a forum game. It's the only reason I leave my filters open " Fair enough | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? " What about you op? | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? What about you op?" Oh please don't ask Conversation nosedived once. Really should block but he's fit. Someone tell me off FFS. People moving days twice. I Blocked. Cancelled twice. By someone I've been naked with previously. I Blocked. Sent a first message once. His response was spot on. But that's early days yet. | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived?" At least one, one that was memorable at least! "Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either?" None "Been cancelled on?" Once, but they gave good warning and its more postponed than cancelled so it's all good "Sent a first message?" A few times, had a few left unread but also got some nice responses too  | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? " Multiple, but I nose dived it. No No No | |||
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" Had a conversation that nosedived? *one went south this morning* Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? *no because I haven't agreed to meet anyone from here since I returned* Been cancelled on? *no, he turned up! (not from Fab) Sent a first message? *Christ, no! 
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" What about you op? Oh please don't ask Conversation nosedived once. Really should block but he's fit. Someone tell me off FFS. " I will tell you off - if you promise to be nice - BLOCK THE BUGGER. | |||
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" What about you op? Oh please don't ask Conversation nosedived once. Really should block but he's fit. Someone tell me off FFS. I will tell you off - if you promise to be nice - BLOCK THE BUGGER." What he said ^^^ snip snip | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? " Not once sorry you must be going for guys out of your league maybe | |||
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" What about you op? Oh please don't ask Conversation nosedived once. Really should block but he's fit. Someone tell me off FFS. I will tell you off - if you promise to be nice - BLOCK THE BUGGER. What he said ^^^ snip snip" I like your telling off much better. | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? Not once sorry you must be going for guys out of your league maybe "Wow I feel so much better for that. Thanks babe. | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? Not once sorry you must be going for guys out of your league maybe "Ouch! Not sure that's going to win friends and influence people. | |||
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" What about you op? Oh please don't ask Conversation nosedived once. Really should block but he's fit. Someone tell me off FFS. I will tell you off - if you promise to be nice - BLOCK THE BUGGER. What he said ^^^ snip snip I like your telling off much better." I am deeply wounded! | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? Not once sorry you must be going for guys out of your league maybe
Wow I feel so much better for that. Thanks babe.
"TBF if a guy had posted this the responses would be. Maybe you need to re-think your approach. Maybe you're meeting the wrong women. If they've cancelled they are clearly not interested, move on. Go to a club. | |||
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 ...and potentially it was an actual female...she was however looking for someone to fund her...so close | |||
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" TBF if a guy had posted this the responses would be. Maybe you need to re-think your approach. Maybe you're meeting the wrong women. If they've cancelled they are clearly not interested, move on. Go to a club. " Probably true, but then that would probably be because most of us on here are guys and most if the guys would probably not be trying to get into his pants. As you are well aware, many of us chaps have very small brains, and for some reason they are located in our trousers (except when they get excited and escape) | |||
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"Unbelievably I can participate as I had a unsolicited msg ...and potentially it was an actual female...she was however looking for someone to fund her...so close"Was she scantily clad and perhaps needing money to buy clothes - in which case, given its got colder and there is a cost of living crisis, you may be a heartless b*stard | |||
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Thanks for making my selection process much easier. I am not a flavour of the week.  | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? " Nope " Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? " I moved it " Been cancelled on? " Not cancelled, but he vanished off the face of fab about an hour before we were planning to meet... I think he may have actually seen me in real life earlier in the day and changed his mind... " Sent a first message? " Nope | |||
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"Can't get stood up if you don't send or receive messages "Yes, it saves a lot of time wasted and disappointments 0 0 0 0 | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? " Oh , that’s an interesting one … Don’t think is could answer without mentioning the username and we can’t do that  | |||
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"I have had such a message, so it is a 0 on all those 5 points "I havent had I meant there | |||
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"I have had such a message, so it is a 0 on all those 5 points "Ooh shag.. Sorry to hear this. | |||
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" What about you op? Oh please don't ask Conversation nosedived once. Really should block but he's fit. Someone tell me off FFS. I will tell you off - if you promise to be nice - BLOCK THE BUGGER. What he said ^^^ snip snip I like your telling off much better. I am deeply wounded!" Good. You're not my favourite person right now anyway. | |||
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"None to any of them but then I’ve not been chatting to new people at all or meeting new folks. I’m strictly staying within my bubble at the moment. I know a lot of people that have been flaked on recently and there seems to be a much higher incidence of cancellations/ghosting going around. It also seems much harder to get conversations going so I’m staying well away from the merry go round " I'm hearing the same. I thought the thread might reassure us mortals getting the knocks. Even well verified people have done it. And completely agree on the conversation part. It's like pulling teeth in some cases. Wonder why it's so bad at the moment. | |||
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"I have had such a message, so it is a 0 on all those 5 points
Ooh shag.. Sorry to hear this. "Hi becs, that is fine too | |||
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"None to any of them but then I’ve not been chatting to new people at all or meeting new folks. I’m strictly staying within my bubble at the moment. I know a lot of people that have been flaked on recently and there seems to be a much higher incidence of cancellations/ghosting going around. It also seems much harder to get conversations going so I’m staying well away from the merry go round I'm hearing the same. I thought the thread might reassure us mortals getting the knocks. Even well verified people have done it. And completely agree on the conversation part. It's like pulling teeth in some cases. Wonder why it's so bad at the moment." I find it goes thru phases like this... Maybe it's the time of year? | |||
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"With fabbers of interest.... Had a conversation that nosedived? Had someone say a day for a social or meet but then move it last minute, and then say they can't make the new day either? Been cancelled on? Sent a first message? " probably around 7 people that have messaged a few time with me , generally I just put it down to fake profiles . or boredom | |||
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