FabSwingers.com forum: Straight guys??

By *ancelotLovejoy OP Man
over a year ago

Penryn

Seems I get more messages from straight guys wanting to meet than anything else??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By *rith47Man
over a year ago

Erith

Always been the case agree. Some guys experimenting, others just quiet about their real needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I get is fabs, winks and messages off guys despite clearly stating no men!

I can see how the women get so annoyed when they get inundated even though they say no single males!

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By *limBobStretchedPantsMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Same OP.

I Do actually have a few guys I regularly chat with. Just to have conversation with fellow perverts on the same wavelength really ha ha. But most of the messages that I get, that isn’t a reply to me sending the first message, are from “straight” profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some just like a big cock in then lol

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"Seems I get more messages from straight guys wanting to meet than anything else??"

You are obviously desirable to them so either meet them or just say no or block or set your filters to not accept messages from other guys. Plenty of choices and all up to you

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By *eorgesdad69Man
over a year ago

nottingham

There’s lots of men who enjoy cock fun but won’t say they are bisexual in public Most men I have fun with are married lol

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Those pesky guys just love meat so much on here.

No chance of men ever going vegan for long

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Seems I get more messages from straight guys wanting to meet than anything else??"

Be thankful, most single guys don't get any messages from anyone

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Seems I get more messages from straight guys wanting to meet than anything else??"

And?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it bother you OP?

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

its just so bloody naughty,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock is just so hot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you brother, straight men always messaging me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hear you brother, straight men always messaging me too."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there should be one of those filter type warnings.

STOP. If you send this message you are no longer 101% straight.

Or similar

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

May also merit consideration that their profile says straight or maybe just not gay or bi... But the person behind may have woken up and thought... You know... I fancy trying something new? Or maybe, depending upon the contents of the message just fancied a chat about something? Probably best asking the messagers. They will probably know if it's exercising you.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"May also merit consideration that their profile says straight or maybe just not gay or bi... But the person behind may have woken up and thought... You know... I fancy trying something new? Or maybe, depending upon the contents of the message just fancied a chat about something? Probably best asking the messagers. They will probably know if it's exercising you. "

I chat with one or two really very nice straight guys and it is just that, a chat. Chats don't always have to have ulterior motives surely.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Just block single guys. Easy

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

I chat with one or two really very nice straight guys and it is just that, a chat. Chats don't always have to have ulterior motives surely. "
,,, this

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By *exymarvelMan
49 weeks ago

cardiff

"Seems I get more messages from straight guys wanting to meet than anything else??"

Fab straight is different to straight. I get bombarded by guys

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
49 weeks ago

South West London

Why do you block guys from messaging you if its an issue? Unless you like men as well?

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By *tephanjMan
49 weeks ago

Kettering

Is totally straight but chat to all

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
49 weeks ago

Belfast

I had to block single guys again. I left it open to let in any craic between myself and other guys from forum threads, but now I'll message them first if I have to

I couldn't leave my filters open any longer. Guys are wild crude hey

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I leave my filters open as I’m happy to chat to anyone. Seems more sociable that way.

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By *ackformore100Man
49 weeks ago

Tin town

"Why do you block guys from messaging you if its an issue? Unless you like men as well?"

Well..

It's possible to like swapping mails with some men without wanting to bum them.?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I have this a lot too.

I really don’t mind except the sheer number that take a no with hostility and childishness.

As such I’ve got a lot more men blocked than Women.

I’m not planning on filtering out single men though. I have a lot of interesting chats with all genders here even though sexually I’m not into all genders.

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By *avie62Man
49 weeks ago

falkirk

Your a 100% right there I hardly get any

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By *irAndBalayageExpertCouple
49 weeks ago

Essex

And when they say yeah but it’s just a suck

My response is yeah but I’m still just straight

It’s annoying we don’t want to block guys but it’s becoming a joke now

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I only get messages from guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Fuck it I’m turning straight so guys messsge me.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

It’s true you do get hammered by guys don’t really see the fascination

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By *irAndBalayageExpertCouple
49 weeks ago

Essex

"Fuck it I’m turning straight so guys messsge me.

Love this

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By *enuine MikeMan
49 weeks ago

Guildford

"Just block single guys. Easy

Annoying that it is getting "So called single straight guys messaging asking to blow me" I won't block single men.

Why?

I've had some great meets in the past from single male accounts that have fuck buddies.

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By *enuine MikeMan
49 weeks ago

Guildford

"Just block single guys. Easy

Annoying that it is getting "So called single straight guys messaging asking to blow me" I won't block single men.

Why?

I've had some great meets in the past from single male accounts that have fuck buddies. "

Female fuck buddies that is

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"Fuck it I’m turning straight so guys messsge me.

Hahaha.

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By *ornyguy666Man
49 weeks ago

Nottingham

I am straight but I keep getting messages from gay and bi guys for sex..I clearly put straight on my profile

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By *oding1Man
49 weeks ago

marlow

Pisses me off.

So called straight men acting bi.

Main excuse is that some women don't like bi men.

So they lie to get laid.

Rod

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By *entlemanrogueMan
49 weeks ago

Motherwell

"Seems I get more messages from straight guys wanting to meet than anything else??"

Clearly someone is confused (it isn't you OP)

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Maybe they want friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

I get lots of messages from straight guys asking if im free. I politly reply thankyou but your straight. Funny how they say not fully straight. They just decieving couples. Thats all

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
49 weeks ago

South West London

I guess some straight guys are bored and play games with other men to get a reaction

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
49 weeks ago

South West London

But the solution to the problem is filter out all men messaging you and maybe block all men too. Sounds exausting but what else you gonna do?

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"But the solution to the problem is filter out all men messaging you and maybe block all men too. Sounds exausting but what else you gonna do?"

But the opp is bisexual so will miss any messages from bi men as well. I think the point was why lie on there profile

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By *trueceltMan
49 weeks ago

Bristol

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By *trueceltMan
49 weeks ago

Bristol

What lays at the root of it, I believe, is some couples want bisexual men, others stipulate straight only, so men hedge their bets. Set profile to straight and then admit to being bi if asked. You know, if that was the deal and everyone was all on board then it would at least be something we could navigate..The problem is the men with 'straight' on their profile who will tell you they're bi and they turn out not to be. People just have problems being honest. The lies, the deliberate obfuscation, denial, the fear of the truth - it's endemic throughout the entire population. what we see on Fab is a reflection of that.

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By *s-two-75Couple
49 weeks ago

Rugeley

Bisexual and proud of it.. bi people always get stigma from both the straight and gay community..so can kind of understand why so many in closet.. that and desperately trying to woo a woman as well…

However straight boys don’t fear… would never messaging a straight man or even consider meeting a profile claiming straight even if said bi after..

So don’t worry those bombardad with messages from men your totally safe

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
49 weeks ago

Cheshire

Majority of recent messages I have received since I stopped hiding my account is from straight guys.

It’s a fact of life on this site that it will happen, block, delete and ignore would be my advice. Unless he’s really cute

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By *ackformore100Man
49 weeks ago

Tin town

"But the solution to the problem is filter out all men messaging you and maybe block all men too. Sounds exausting but what else you gonna do?

But the opp is bisexual so will miss any messages from bi men as well. I think the point was why lie on there profile"

Ohhhh that old chestnut.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
49 weeks ago

South West London

If men are looking for other men, surely using Fab guys would be their better option?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
49 weeks ago

"If men are looking for other men, surely using Fab guys would be their better option?"

Why segregate them to a different website, there's plenty of bi and gay guys on here, and I'm sure here offers things that fabguys doesn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Use the message filter option …. Simple

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By *s-two-75Couple
49 weeks ago

Rugeley

"If men are looking for other men, surely using Fab guys would be their better option?

Why segregate them to a different website, there's plenty of bi and gay guys on here, and I'm sure here offers things that fabguys doesn't."

Tbf a lot of the straight guys on here have fabguys profiles

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By *ames-77Man
49 weeks ago

milton keynes

"Seems I get more messages from straight guys wanting to meet than anything else??"

Is that better than no messages at all ?

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
49 weeks ago

Dublin

Mr here.

Maybe it's simply that guys assume that fab-straight is a thing and that they might as well take a chance that the "straight" profile they're viewing is actually fab-straight.

I assume that most people who view our profile came for P's pics. They have the most fabs. It is surprising to me that it seems to be mostly men that have fabbed the pic of my cock. I can appreciate a good-looking cock, and we often play a cock-rating game looking at men's profiles, but we don't fab cock pics - as a couple that could give the impression that I'm fab-straight. But I'm just regular-straight.

I was hit on by a gay guy the other night. I was flattered, and P found it funny. I flirted back and had the craic, but I felt no attraction or desire toward him.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
49 weeks ago

South West London

"If men are looking for other men, surely using Fab guys would be their better option?

Why segregate them to a different website, there's plenty of bi and gay guys on here, and I'm sure here offers things that fabguys doesn't."
Im not segregating please dont twist my words, obviously people can choose where to go to find what they want. My point was if a guy for example is looking for men then a site like Fab Guys would be a better a choice for them but again Im not saying they should go on there if dont want to

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By *xcited And CuriousCouple
49 weeks ago

Dublin

Categorising isn't popular with everyone. But it can add clarity and reduce stress and increase confidence and enjoyment for some.

So...

Are there degrees of gayness?

What's going on in the space between truly straight (no inclination whatsoever toward men) and completely gay (no inclination whatsoever toward women)?

Straight (no interest in men).

Fab-straight (no active interest but open-to-the notion, but not open about it).

Bi-curious (open to the notion and open about it).

Bi (active interest and open about it).

Gay (no interest in women).

How's that?

What if your mickey or ball-sack touched the other fella's during a DP? Or if the woman in an MMF deliberately touched your mickey off the other guy's? Do you make eye-contact during an MMF spit-roast? Does being OK with these categorise you as gay? Or fab-straight?

Such a conundrum for the swinging man...

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