FabSwingers.com forum: Privately arranged meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was wondering how likely and frequent these types of meets are? I was hoping I could arrange some as I've got some veris to prove I'm a genuine guy. I know it takes a lot of chemistry and patience but I've got that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do you mean on people's homes or hotels rather than clubs? We only meet like that

I think the ease of arranging such meets depends on your gender unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you mean on people's homes or hotels rather than clubs? We only meet like that

I think the ease of arranging such meets depends on your gender unfortunately "

Yeah I ment arranging meets in homes/hotels. Something where a friendship can develop and regular meets can take place.

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

"Do you mean on people's homes or hotels rather than clubs? We only meet like that

I think the ease of arranging such meets depends on your gender unfortunately

Yeah I ment arranging meets in homes/hotels. Something where a friendship can develop and regular meets can take place. "

Have you not looked at the meet section!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you contacting people with a view to arranging private meets? That's how we've arranged all of ours

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah I ment arranging meets in homes/hotels. Something where a friendship can develop and regular meets can take place. "

I don't think everyone on here is looking for friendship and regular meets so you might be limiting your options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I organised sex parties when I was with last partner

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

On the site in general, those kinds of meets happen a lot - my sense is that private meets are the most popular kind.

How easy they are for an individual to arrange is another question

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think most people meet in that way op, you've just got to find someone wheres there's mutual attraction and interest in meeting.

It's not always easy to find though, so good luck.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

We only meet guys in our home. Because we’re not swingers in the traditional sense, going to a club would be pointless for us.

I’d imagine most meets are private meets. The idea going to a club and then seeing someone we know is a little scary

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I think this is coupled with the issue overall for single men to get any meet at all, apart from with each other. My take is that it's the exceptionally well matched that get meets and an exceptionally well matched subset of these who meet each other repeatedly.

There's some luck involved, based only upon the investment of large volumes of appropriate efforts. Some people will favour repeat partners, others will potentially be open to it, should things click. The more that the right people are contacted, the higher the likelihood that it could happen. Be aware though that a very high proportion of men state that they are looking for repeat meets and to getting to know and connect with women this way, so we may struggle to identify who's a good match, just based on this

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I average about 1 private meet per month. It's hard finding someone compatible that has the attraction and chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you contacting people with a view to arranging private meets? That's how we've arranged all of ours "

I hover over the 'meet today' page and if there is someone close by I drop them a message and see if they are wanting to meet. 9/10 times they want to meet in clubs.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I was wondering how likely and frequent these types of meets are? I was hoping I could arrange some as I've got some veris to prove I'm a genuine guy. I know it takes a lot of chemistry and patience but I've got that. "
Are you Greek?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Are you contacting people with a view to arranging private meets? That's how we've arranged all of ours

I hover over the 'meet today' page and if there is someone close by I drop them a message and see if they are wanting to meet. 9/10 times they want to meet in clubs. "

Do you ever contact people by private message?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

So far after 5 years on here as a couple we have still not had a meet privately arranged on Fab. It's not that we wouldn't or don't want to. It's just strangers off the Internet can be unreliable and we just have no problem meeting people out in the real world (clubs, parties, organised socials and out in the vanilla world too). So when you have the flexibility and reliability of meeting people out in the real world there's not as much incentive to do it with strangers online (especially if your time and opportunity is limited). I think for us to arrange something private on fab that person/couple would have to tick all our boxes and not trigger any of our spidy senses.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Are you contacting people with a view to arranging private meets? That's how we've arranged all of ours

I hover over the 'meet today' page and if there is someone close by I drop them a message and see if they are wanting to meet. 9/10 times they want to meet in clubs. "

Surely the meet info specifies that though?

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