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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yet again, I've had someone tell me they want a sophisticated lady who is refined in the streets, but filthy in bed.

Are you "filthy" in the bedroom? And I don't mean to you leave crumbs in the bed.

What does it mean to you? And why do us ladies need to hide our sexy side? That might be a whole other thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mud wrestling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything involving poo

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘Filthy’ likely means different things to different people much like the term, ‘Kinky’.

Often the term filthy is casually employed to a lady in regards to her being sexually confident and assertive.

Well….either that or there may be shit involved (hopefully not but you never can tell on here)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely impossible to answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person's filthy is another's persons vanilla.

To me it's anything more ....rough? Maybe.

I would describe it but...I don't do that.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

As filthy as an American horror movie truck stop restroom

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

See now the word filthy doesn't necessarily cause me concern.

But the refined on the streets filthy in the bed thing.

I don't know... I'm getting Taxi Driver Madonna-Whore complex vibes. Like theu spend their evening stood in front of mirrors saying 'you talking to me?'

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I prefer to use the word raw to define no holds barred intensity.

Filthy in that context to me means less emphasis on form and appearance and more on just letting go.

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"See now the word filthy doesn't necessarily cause me concern.

But the refined on the streets filthy in the bed thing.

I don't know... I'm getting Taxi Driver Madonna-Whore complex vibes. Like theu spend their evening stood in front of mirrors saying 'you talking to me?' "

That's the other thread isn't it? Might do a new one tomorrow. Bit of a double standard?

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Someone who enjoys the excitement of being caught - caressing a cock or fingering a fanny under a table at a restaurant.

Going to a sex club together to let others watch.

Experimenting with sex toys.

Wanting a woman to squirt in their face when going down on her.

Licking up every last drop of his cum.

These are some examples I've been given, I mean the bodily fluids I would deem filthy, but maybe not so much everything else.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"See now the word filthy doesn't necessarily cause me concern.

But the refined on the streets filthy in the bed thing.

I don't know... I'm getting Taxi Driver Madonna-Whore complex vibes. Like theu spend their evening stood in front of mirrors saying 'you talking to me?'

That's the other thread isn't it? Might do a new one tomorrow. Bit of a double standard? "

I think it's a Pandora's box of male psyche that could well be a case of ripping the shell off the tortoises back...

Sure go for it.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

‘Filthy’ in regards to women and sex is a dull, uninspired way to describe enjoyment or enthusiasm or playfulness. For the people who use it, it’s probably meant to inspire some sense of illicit eroticism, but it’s as awful as using the word ‘dirty’ in regards to a man above a certain age who also enjoys sex.

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"‘Filthy’ in regards to women and sex is a dull, uninspired way to describe enjoyment or enthusiasm or playfulness. For the people who use it, it’s probably meant to inspire some sense of illicit eroticism, but it’s as awful as using the word ‘dirty’ in regards to a man above a certain age who also enjoys sex. "

Hmm, women who enjoy sex ... God forbid!!

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

When I tried anal for the first time the girl farted on my dick when I pulled out and I called her filly for that

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By *herry delightWoman
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

I am not filthy in the bedroom but other people say I am, which I honestly don't get !

X

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"‘Filthy’ in regards to women and sex is a dull, uninspired way to describe enjoyment or enthusiasm or playfulness. For the people who use it, it’s probably meant to inspire some sense of illicit eroticism, but it’s as awful as using the word ‘dirty’ in regards to a man above a certain age who also enjoys sex.

Hmm, women who enjoy sex ... God forbid!!"

I know right! Who’d a thought it!

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell

I once had sex while i was mid poo on the toilet i still get flashbacks after 20 odd years. I feel dirty.

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Still open to hearing other people's definitions...

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By *orl1971Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

For us we have seen it a fair bit on some profiles. Statements like ‘looking for filthy sex’ or ‘looking for filthy people’ just make us think that these people are not for us. It’s the same as someone wanting kinky sex. Not sure what that means but it’s probably not us. How boring are we ? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty sure men mean women who Will allow them to either fuck bare or in their arsehole when they say this.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Could be anything the word bugs me.

The same was as I like it rough, to some that's a bit extra pounding to others it's a slap and throat grab.

Once persons vanilla is anothers kink.

Generally though what I find is they want "filthy" it's usually they want their cock sucked and a few pumps and done. (My experience anyway)

I don't think half of them know what they want to be honest.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had sex while i was mid poo on the toilet i still get flashbacks after 20 odd years. I feel dirty. "

I don’t think anyone will beat this

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood

I think they use filthy in the context of sexually confident and proactive- open to experimentation as opposed to passive missionary every Sunday after songs of praise - i think its an outdated term if we are striving for for true gender equality where a woman can have the same sexual appetite as a man and theres no differentiation in how we perceive either.

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By *amelhunterMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"Yet again, I've had someone tell me they want a sophisticated lady who is refined in the streets, but filthy in bed.

Are you "filthy" in the bedroom? And I don't mean to you leave crumbs in the bed.

one persons definition of filthy can be a different persons quite normal.

What does it mean to you? And why do us ladies need to hide our sexy side? That might be a whole other thread."

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Filthy to me is

'fuck me like an animal you pussy!'

That.

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By *rjpinkMan
over a year ago

winterfell


"I once had sex while i was mid poo on the toilet i still get flashbacks after 20 odd years. I feel dirty.

I don’t think anyone will beat this "

I would like to add that it wasn't really by choice..i was prerty young and i had a girlfriend that was both a nymphomaniac and didn't want to spend ANY time away from me... sooo i tried to nip to the toilet and she forced her way in... which was not ideal as i'd preferably like to dispose of my bum rubbish in private... she dropped to her knees and started sucking me, once again not an ideal situation but i managed to come to terms with the situation as she was incredibly talented with her mouth... next she stood up, turned around and sat on my confused and excited cock riding me like a seaside donkey... in hindsight although it was not a situation i would be eager to recreate it was confueingly enjoyable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had sex while i was mid poo on the toilet i still get flashbacks after 20 odd years. I feel dirty.

I don’t think anyone will beat this

I would like to add that it wasn't really by choice..i was prerty young and i had a girlfriend that was both a nymphomaniac and didn't want to spend ANY time away from me... sooo i tried to nip to the toilet and she forced her way in... which was not ideal as i'd preferably like to dispose of my bum rubbish in private... she dropped to her knees and started sucking me, once again not an ideal situation but i managed to come to terms with the situation as she was incredibly talented with her mouth... next she stood up, turned around and sat on my confused and excited cock riding me like a seaside donkey... in hindsight although it was not a situation i would be eager to recreate it was confueingly enjoyable "

Seaside Donkey! That made me laugh out loud...

As did the " confused and excited cock".

She clearly didn't have a sense of smell ..

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

south


"When I tried anal for the first time the girl farted on my dick when I pulled out and I called her filly for that "

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Fulwood


"When I tried anal for the first time the girl farted on my dick when I pulled out and I called her filly for that "

Did you light it? Asking for a friend!!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I think to me the term would mean more along the lines of totally uninhibited and with that very basic carnal desire sort of sex, rather than something actually filthy, if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet again, I've had someone tell me they want a sophisticated lady who is refined in the streets, but filthy in bed.

Are you "filthy" in the bedroom? And I don't mean to you leave crumbs in the bed.

What does it mean to you? And why do us ladies need to hide our sexy side? That might be a whole other thread."

Lots of expletives, fluids and physically gymnastic?

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