FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a guy on here I would not put a face pic up. I don’t know any girls on here who put up face pics. Of all the profiles I’ve viewed of women none- or very few have face pics.

Don’t get me wrong -I’m not having a go -but why is it a prerequisite to see a guys face in a public profile before meeting if it’s ok for a girl not to show. It just doesn’t feel discreet or balanced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are just wanting you to send it in a message not publicly display it.

But it's your choice dude!

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

I don’t think people expect it in the public profile I think they are asking you to send it with your message and I would expect they then send one back to you. So it’s discrete but you both know what each other looks like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one wants mine

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By *ortney CocksWoman
over a year ago

fab land

Women rule on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule on here

Pussy power!

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By *ortney CocksWoman
over a year ago

fab land

"Women rule on here

Pussy power!"

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Women rule on here

Pussy power!"

Booby power ^^^

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good feedback.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule on here

This is the truth

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Some people want to know if the aesthetic works for them before wasting time talking to someone they're not attracted to.

Some people don't want to share their face pics.

Those two groups are largely incompatible. But there's plenty in each camp. People can do things the way that works for them

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I didn’t know it was a pre-requisite. People with face pics in public probably wouldn’t be for me so I don’t look for it at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t bother it someone didn’t have a public profile pic. Bit I definitely wouldn’t meet anyone without seeing what they look like and vice Versa

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Men don't seem to care if they can see absolutely anything of a woman, before considering sending a message... Attraction is needed for most women and personally, I won't speak to anyone I am not attend to, when I am looking for playmates... What I don't get is... You would rather someone can see your genitals over your face...is that not a bit arse about face, excuse the pun

... Also, most women are concerned about nutters so won't show their face to anyone they haven't spoken to already or those they aren't interested in meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My concern is that a face pic once out there in any form could be used nefariously by an unscrupulous individual. Suppose it’s a trust thing.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

*attracted to... Damnit! I think that kinda thing is rare, considering the amount of people on here but I would be more concerned about people sharing pics of my genitals than my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My concern is that a face pic once out there in any form could be used nefariously by an unscrupulous individual. Suppose it’s a trust thing. "

I mean, if you want to put your penis in them, you're gonna have to instill a little trust.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
over a year ago

Stoke

The one that gets us is the 'Do you have any face pics' messages, and they don't send one first? Why would you do that? If we ask for a face pic we send one first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My concern is that a face pic once out there in any form could be used nefariously by an unscrupulous individual. Suppose it’s a trust thing.

I mean, if you want to put your penis in them, you're gonna have to instill a little trust. "

Exactly

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"My concern is that a face pic once out there in any form could be used nefariously by an unscrupulous individual. Suppose it’s a trust thing.

I mean, if you want to put your penis in them, you're gonna have to instill a little trust. "

Or just don't have your penis and face in the same pic OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can ask for what they want, and for how it suits them. You don’t have to ‘comply’.

Fab’s a piece of piss.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"My concern is that a face pic once out there in any form could be used nefariously by an unscrupulous individual. Suppose it’s a trust thing. "

Not sure what you think we're going to do with them... If I don't like the look of someone I delete the msg. End of.

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

"Men don't seem to care if they can see absolutely anything of a woman, before considering sending a message... Attraction is needed for most women and personally, I won't speak to anyone I am not attend to, when I am looking for playmates... What I don't get is... You would rather someone can see your genitals over your face...is that not a bit arse about face, excuse the pun

... Also, most women are concerned about nutters so won't show their face to anyone they haven't spoken to already or those they aren't interested in meeting "

Not all men!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Now there’s a suggestion I can live with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes me laugh that so many people put a pic of their dicks/vags up yet won’t show a face

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Always makes me laugh that so many people put a pic of their dicks/vags up yet won’t show a face

Well I guess people don’t get outed from their cunt or cock usually

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So how many folk, who request a face pic in advance of a meeting or even furthering online conversation, would send their face pic first?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"The one that gets us is the 'Do you have any face pics' messages, and they don't send one first? Why would you do that? If we ask for a face pic we send one first. "

Why hello...you look amazing.

Anyway also my stance, it's classic wanting to see if attractive before sending your own. And women are in power here.

Either way for me personally as soon as someone asks I basically write them off because even if i did send one here, they usually then ghost. Which is insane and would break my confidence if I wasn't literally told I was hot on other platforms and in real life pretty damn often

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I think they are just wanting you to send it in a message not publicly display it.

But it's your choice dude!

This

Mrs

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"So how many folk, who request a face pic in advance of a meeting or even furthering online conversation, would send their face pic first? "

I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic, my time is precious I'm not going out my way to meet someone I've zero attraction too, I don't care about cock/body/vag/tits if rather see the face.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how many folk, who request a face pic in advance of a meeting or even furthering online conversation, would send their face pic first? "

I make it really simple.

If I message someone that I’d like to meet, I attach a face pic. It’s so simple. Leaves the ball in their court, with no pressure to reciprocate. They can decide if I’m worthy of further contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me laugh that so many people put a pic of their dicks/vags up yet won’t show a face

Well I guess people don’t get outed from their cunt or cock usually

Imagine doing it on fb tho

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"Always makes me laugh that so many people put a pic of their dicks/vags up yet won’t show a face

Well I guess people don’t get outed from their cunt or cock usually

Imagine doing it on fb tho

It’s 2023 who is using FB other than 50+ people

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I wouldn’t expect a guy to meet me without seeing my face and likewise I won’t meet a man without seeing his face.

However I don’t give out face pics to all and sundry, just those I’m interested in meeting or are likely to actually meet.

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

we would NEVER pt face pics in and only ask for the others is we are 99% certain we are to meet. However, no one gets our face pics and hundreds of guys have already accepted that fact

putting face pics on real or not - people do copy pics and post them all over the net etc, so not for us or i guess others like us that want to keep our Cucks status private

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think they just expect to see a face pic in a message early on op, save wasting time.

If someone won't show theirs, just don't chat to them op, nobody expects you to put a face pic on public pics.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic, but equally would swap mine if I was hitting it off with someone.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Don’t get me wrong -I’m not having a go -but why is it a prerequisite to see a guys face in a public profile before meeting if it’s ok for a girl not to show. It just doesn’t feel discreet or balanced "

Unless you've done a complete review of all profiles on Fab, you are only giving your impression that more men than women have face pics.

My impression is the opposite - with men body parts (boobs or arse pics) are enough. With women, the guy has got to be handsome... We need to know our children will be attractive. I always ask for face pic before agreeing to a meet. If that is a deal breaker, then I move on. I tell them Fab is like PoF but the F here stands for Fuck...

Then the number of guys who scroll through my public pics and then ask for a face pic... (when they have none). I say, I know my boobs and arse pics are distracting, but take a closer look.

Really? Pppfffttt...

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"So how many folk, who request a face pic in advance of a meeting or even furthering online conversation, would send their face pic first? "

Mine is always visible... I find it rude that people don't send their face when wanting to talk to me... So I don't talk to them

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

NB- Guys!! Please do not feel obliged to send face pics if you are a lady, or a straight couple as we found all men are prepared to meet. This is NOT a dating site but a sex site on the whole.

We now will only meet a guy with a verifications/s and request his face pic if 99% certain of a meet - However, most of the men that contact us 98%+ have their face pic on public profile or send in message

Your life, your choice

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"So how many folk, who request a face pic in advance of a meeting or even furthering online conversation, would send their face pic first?

Mine is always visible... I find it rude that people don't send their face when wanting to talk to me... So I don't talk to them "

Same. I’m also of the mind that no one can ‘out’ me if I’m out and proud.

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