FabSwingers.com forum: Get more from been on here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How does a fella help his chances on here. Not a sympathy post. Just looking for advise

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By *dareyoutoMan
over a year ago

Hull

Here is what helped me.

-don’t b e rude when messaging, most of the ladies on here want to be respected and not called slut or other shitty words.

-try to be interesting when chatting on here, be relatable.

-definitely don’t be pushy or self entitled when messaging.

- I’m quite shy and ladies seem to like that on socials, they think it’s cute and then they get a shock when I’m confident in the bedroom.

-I think you have to be adaptable and read the tone of the conversation. Everyone on here likes different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get involved in forum, go to socials, swingers clubs. Chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying that your not looking and calling everyone princesses? That's how it reads on your profile in the header

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Contact people who you're genuinely compatible with and get involved on the forum and in the chat rooms. Use all the tools the site gives you.

Most of all though be yourself

Good luck

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

Read their profile first, not just look at the pictures.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

This is purely my ideas... An interesting but concise profile is always a good start, with a variety of photos so we can kind of see what we're getting. Preferably keep any dick pics to friends, women will ask if they want to see that.

Read a woman's profile, be polite, pay a complement, send a clear face pic (do your best to get a good one - this is often where men fall down) always offer to have a social.

Get involved in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no expectations and a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I don't pull the princess card. I don't get a chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't pull the princess card. I don't get a chance lol"

What’s the princess card?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some googly eyes on your penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a sex change.

Or a sexual preference change.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The call them pet hun princess cutie. All de sopey stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attend socials and clubs. Build up a network of people who are on here from getting out there and chatting. People read verifications more than you think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a sex change.

Or a sexual preference change.

I do get where ur going with that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a sex change.

Or a sexual preference change.

I do get where ur going with that one"

Oh, was it a tad ambiguous? I must learn to be more direct.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have a sex change.

Or a sexual preference change.

I do get where ur going with that one

Oh, was it a tad ambiguous? I must learn to be more direct. "

Not at all. I get more messages from fellas than i do women

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By *utchbloodMan
over a year ago

Normanton

Haha I know what you mean! Don't get me wrong though, it's flattering, unfortunately for them I'm straight.

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