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Slow and passionate or fast and hard?!

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Ok so I want to know what is your favourite type of sex here with your fab partners? I know there is a time and place for all types but which is your preference.

I absolutely love close up, passionate and slow sex. That type where you feel as one if that makes sense like you would if you were making love to your wife/gf.

A lot of the ladies I have been with seem to enjoy it too and a couple have said it made an amazing change to just being pounded on like what usually happens on fab.

So come on what’s your preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a preferred type of sex.

It really depends on the person I’m having sex with. Sometimes you meet someone and the sexual tension is just too much that you can’t wait to rip each others clothes off and have that rough, just fuck me kind of sex.

Other times it’s slow and passionate. Taking the time to explore each others bodies and really savouring the moment.

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By *rown_Bread78Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Slow sex-trance

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

Mrs P has loads of exerpeince with me and aother guys - its ALWAYS slow and then a bit faster then banged seriously hard.

Most guys we have met have said that that their wifves/Gf's etc all prefer that

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don’t have a preferred type of sex.

It really depends on the person I’m having sex with. Sometimes you meet someone and the sexual tension is just too much that you can’t wait to rip each others clothes off and have that rough, just fuck me kind of sex.

Other times it’s slow and passionate. Taking the time to explore each others bodies and really savouring the moment. "

Plus slow can be passionate, and fast can be devoid of passion. While fast can be fueled by nothing but passion.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Like they don't give a fuck. Zero effort, zero care if I come or not.

So hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t have a preferred type of sex.

It really depends on the person I’m having sex with. Sometimes you meet someone and the sexual tension is just too much that you can’t wait to rip each others clothes off and have that rough, just fuck me kind of sex.

Other times it’s slow and passionate. Taking the time to explore each others bodies and really savouring the moment.

Plus slow can be passionate, and fast can be devoid of passion. While fast can be fueled by nothing but passion. "

Yeah!…I think

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Sex!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Like they don't give a fuck. Zero effort, zero care if I come or not.

So hot. "

I care if you come Or not!

But caring won't change the fact that you won't!

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

There is time and place for both

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Ok so I want to know what is your favourite type of sex here with your fab partners? I know there is a time and place for all types but which is your preference.

I absolutely love close up, passionate and slow sex. That type where you feel as one if that makes sense like you would if you were making love to your wife/gf.

A lot of the ladies I have been with seem to enjoy it too and a couple have said it made an amazing change to just being pounded on like what usually happens on fab.

So come on what’s your preference?"

Both.

Each has a time and a place, either with different company or the same person, depending on the mood and the situation.

There's no one size fits all.

I love a good, long, slow session and some spooning as much as I enjoy things a little more 'frantic' in a club environment.

Preferences change and are fluid. What suits one time can change vastly the next. Plus things evolve. There's a vast difference between a one off encounter and something that becomes regular and ongoing.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Like they don't give a fuck. Zero effort, zero care if I come or not.

So hot. "

Sounds like I'm your Man

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don’t have a preferred type of sex.

It really depends on the person I’m having sex with. Sometimes you meet someone and the sexual tension is just too much that you can’t wait to rip each others clothes off and have that rough, just fuck me kind of sex.

Other times it’s slow and passionate. Taking the time to explore each others bodies and really savouring the moment.

Plus slow can be passionate, and fast can be devoid of passion. While fast can be fueled by nothing but passion.

Yeah!…I think "

I'm agreeing but just stating passion is not limited to just slow. Passion is in intensity.

You can be extremely passionate while being hard and fast - think primal.

But also passionate while slow.

In terms of the OP I think "sensual" is better replacement for passion - though can still be that while also hard and fast.

But point is, I guess, you can't narrow it down to just a few words. As you say it's all down to the person you are with and the vibe and mood.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

According to most of the moany threads, most single men aren't having sex with women so perhaps put a clause in there on how they carry out their hand to gland combat...hard or sensual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t have a preferred type of sex.

It really depends on the person I’m having sex with. Sometimes you meet someone and the sexual tension is just too much that you can’t wait to rip each others clothes off and have that rough, just fuck me kind of sex.

Other times it’s slow and passionate. Taking the time to explore each others bodies and really savouring the moment.

Plus slow can be passionate, and fast can be devoid of passion. While fast can be fueled by nothing but passion.

Yeah!…I think

I'm agreeing but just stating passion is not limited to just slow. Passion is in intensity.

You can be extremely passionate while being hard and fast - think primal.

But also passionate while slow.

In terms of the OP I think "sensual" is better replacement for passion - though can still be that while also hard and fast.

But point is, I guess, you can't narrow it down to just a few words. As you say it's all down to the person you are with and the vibe and mood. "

I totally agree. Passionate probably wasn’t the right word to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I want to know what is your favourite type of sex here with your fab partners? I know there is a time and place for all types but which is your preference.

I absolutely love close up, passionate and slow sex. That type where you feel as one if that makes sense like you would if you were making love to your wife/gf.

A lot of the ladies I have been with seem to enjoy it too and a couple have said it made an amazing change to just being pounded on like what usually happens on fab.

So come on what’s your preference?"

Depends on the other person, best chemistry.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Christ it's like a car ok?

Start 1st gear, go 6th, hear some loud noises, get pulled over, feel remorse.

That's sex.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Hard and passionate.

With that happy eye contact and feedback loop. Their hand around my throat and my taste on their lips as we kiss

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Like they don't give a fuck. Zero effort, zero care if I come or not.

So hot.

I care if you come Or not!

But caring won't change the fact that you won't! "

It's the care element that's the issue Kai, you were so close to perfection as well.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I am a care bear

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Definitely slow, sensual and intimate. That can still be passionate.

I'm not interested in just being "banged".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mix it up.. make love to me and and pull my hair.

All about the balance.

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Definitely slow, sensual and intimate. That can still be passionate.

I'm not interested in just being "banged". "

Sounds perfect

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Why does ot have to be a choice? Go with the flow. See what feels good.

Let's not be so restrictive... unless that's your thing, of course.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Both…

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Start one way... finish the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck you like you hate me.

This will be easy for most of you.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *emonochromeMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

It’s all about the mood get totally swept up in it and forget the world… the specifics aren’t important

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
over a year ago

London


"Start one way... finish the other. "

And the winner is…

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By *utchbloodMan
over a year ago

Normanton

It has got to be both, like dancing, slow, quick quick slow, make it last as long as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and hard is quite good, sinking his cock right in as far as it will go, in one deep thrust, then stopping to look at each other with a 'how do you like that then' as you are as full as you can be. Then a long, slow draw back out. Lovely

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Slow to begin with then pounding if then chemistry has been unreal before hand and during

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