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Do you ever get bored with too much?

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Since joining fab I have done pretty well, I have had lots of meets and naughty fun and got some regulars. I still have a few new ladies that are wanting to meet as well but I just feel like do I need more? It kinda feels like I’m living every guys dream but I’m a little bored of it, maybe bored is the wrong word?! Maybe disinterested is a better word.

Does anyone else ever feel like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what you mean. I’ve been on here 10yrs off and on, this is the first time that I’m uninterested in meeting anyone - here for forums only, best part of the site IMO. I’ve completed fab,done the clubs, parties, socials etcetcetc got some great memories and that’s enough

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

I still have not even stepped foot in a club, not found time with all the action available on here lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I know what you mean so take a break every now and then.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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You don't need to do a lot you know. You can just exist on the forums. Enjoy that side of things.

When I had my slutty phase on first joining I did get to a point where I thought "what now?". So I focused on things that I enjoy that didn't involve being fucked on car bonnets. It's good to sometimes step away and reevaluate what it is you really want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I still have not even stepped foot in a club, not found time with all the action available on here lol"
Ah, you’ve still the club level to complete! Loads more fun for you to have then before you get all sage-y

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex needs to change in order to keep it interesting.

It's like cooking you start off with a simple recipe for over the years you change things try other recipes, some don't turn out good.

If you had the same thing for dinner every night you would get bored of it.

The thing with sex is people tend to try one thing and stick to it.

You need to try different dynamics of sex.

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

99% of the time i'm not intrested in fab. I meet around 3 times a year

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I get bored on here quite often and often take breaks away. It’s good to refresh a little.

I usually come back and have a peep again, whether it be sexual, social or, just wandering through the forums.

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

I guess it’s only been a couple of months and I have probably burnt myself out. I might just stick to my fwb for a bit, we were looking at exploring couple

Swapping and threesomes together so I that’s something new for us both which might be more exciting than just lots of sex with different women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy complaining of too much sex, who'd have thought it!

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Just overloaded myself a bit I think, now I have ladies messaging me asking me to meet and it’s just getting complicated and tiring

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Can't say I've ever had that problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just overloaded myself a bit I think, now I have ladies messaging me asking me to meet and it’s just getting complicated and tiring "

Delete message delete message!!!

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

I would make exceptions for the mad as a box of frogs lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would make exceptions for the mad as a box of frogs lady "
she belongs to the forums, hands off

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Aw no fair, you lot need to learn to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share the wealth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since joining fab I have done pretty well, I have had lots of meets and naughty fun and got some regulars. I still have a few new ladies that are wanting to meet as well but I just feel like do I need more? It kinda feels like I’m living every guys dream but I’m a little bored of it, maybe bored is the wrong word?! Maybe disinterested is a better word.

Does anyone else ever feel like this?"

Yes in my last relationship she wanted to meet people ever fucking weekend and in between but I never got time with her. She had to go.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Since joining fab I have done pretty well, I have had lots of meets and naughty fun and got some regulars. I still have a few new ladies that are wanting to meet as well but I just feel like do I need more? It kinda feels like I’m living every guys dream but I’m a little bored of it, maybe bored is the wrong word?! Maybe disinterested is a better word.

Does anyone else ever feel like this?"
of course too much of anything puts you off

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe you like the thrill of the chase & that diminishes a bit with regulars.

Mrs

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Maybe there's just something missing elsewhere in your life?

Or maybe you really do need a connection rather than NSA?

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Maybe there's just something missing elsewhere in your life?

Or maybe you really do need a connection rather than NSA? "

I think this is right, yep I do need some connection I think.

Although at first the nsa was great but I think it’s just become a bit meh

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Maybe you like the thrill of the chase & that diminishes a bit with regulars.

Mrs "

100% I enjoy the thrill of the chase and more than that I love the feeling of feeling desired when they are up for meeting

But now for some reason I just don’t feel like that actual meet part

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Since joining fab I have done pretty well, I have had lots of meets and naughty fun and got some regulars. I still have a few new ladies that are wanting to meet as well but I just feel like do I need more? It kinda feels like I’m living every guys dream but I’m a little bored of it, maybe bored is the wrong word?! Maybe disinterested is a better word.

Does anyone else ever feel like this?"

Regularly and hence often trying different things, different venues, different scenarios, different combinations of people, different types of people, etc. Are you primarily doing one on one meets or something else?

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"Since joining fab I have done pretty well, I have had lots of meets and naughty fun and got some regulars. I still have a few new ladies that are wanting to meet as well but I just feel like do I need more? It kinda feels like I’m living every guys dream but I’m a little bored of it, maybe bored is the wrong word?! Maybe disinterested is a better word.

Does anyone else ever feel like this?

Regularly and hence often trying different things, different venues, different scenarios, different combinations of people, different types of people, etc. Are you primarily doing one on one meets or something else?

"

Yep so far been one on one meets, completely different body types of the ladies being the only differences although there has been different venues, houses, in cars, outdoors.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Since joining fab I have done pretty well, I have had lots of meets and naughty fun and got some regulars. I still have a few new ladies that are wanting to meet as well but I just feel like do I need more? It kinda feels like I’m living every guys dream but I’m a little bored of it, maybe bored is the wrong word?! Maybe disinterested is a better word.

Does anyone else ever feel like this?

Regularly and hence often trying different things, different venues, different scenarios, different combinations of people, different types of people, etc. Are you primarily doing one on one meets or something else?

Yep so far been one on one meets, completely different body types of the ladies being the only differences although there has been different venues, houses, in cars, outdoors. "

Perhaps try to get involved in threesomes/bigger groups, clubs, parties, etc? Maybe explore a kink? So many different options. A lot more to swinging than the one on one stuff.

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

I do have a fwb and we are looking into maybe doing some kind of couple swapping and threesomes. It’s weird, I do feel like it with her, I enjoy it. Maybe because we have a connection now and know what floats each others boats

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"I do have a fwb and we are looking into maybe doing some kind of couple swapping and threesomes. It’s weird, I do feel like it with her, I enjoy it. Maybe because we have a connection now and know what floats each others boats "

Go for it. You will hopefully find a lot of fun and a lot of interesting options. Also potentially the social side at parties etc.

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Cheers, I think you’re right. I just have to mix it up a bit, this isn’t the end of the line lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does get boring, less fulfilling and tedious at times that's why I take breaks often. I could have sex everyday if I wanted, that's not because I'm anyone special it's because I have a fanny and most men don't care who's on the end of it. Making connections makes this experience better, not just a train of one offs that are not that exciting.

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By *dareyouto OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull


"It does get boring, less fulfilling and tedious at times that's why I take breaks often. I could have sex everyday if I wanted, that's not because I'm anyone special it's because I have a fanny and most men don't care who's on the end of it. Making connections makes this experience better, not just a train of one offs that are not that exciting."

Ah well maybe most men. To be honest though I ain’t touching if I don’t find the lady to be attractive and some kind of connection. But right now even if I’m attracted to a new lady I still feel so meh about it.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

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