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"You should just give up? On the whole casual sex/swinging thing?" If you find yourself not even logging in here for a month or two … and not missing it … maybe that’s a sign. I dunno, hasn’t happened to me yet. *shrugging emoji* | |||
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" If you find yourself not even logging in here for a month or two … and not missing it … maybe that’s a sign. " Quite opposite for me. It’s when I log in here everyday and it still feels meh. That’s a sign. | |||
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"I think you just know. I did a year of absolute celibacy when I felt like I needed to reset and refocus. No kissing, no flirting, no masturbation, nothing. Once I'd got settled in the mindset it was easy enough to just keep things that way. And after about a year I decided I wanted to go back to having sex, and all the lust came flooding back without any issue ![]() I've done the no sex. Maybe I need to take away the hope of sex. | |||
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"Every Ops tour was six months without lol You just need to relax and see waft cones around. Sex wise you know that you’re wanted lots. But that’s not the point, it’s what you want. Maybe a bearded older guy that likes Yorkshire ![]() ![]() 6 months? Times it by 3! Sex wise, any female is wanted. It's how fab is. | |||
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"When the fun stops, STOP! Whatever it is that brings you here, the casual sex, the forums, chatting to the people you enjoy chatting to. If this stops then it's time for a break. For me I gave up pretty quick on the sex thing and just enjoy chatting to a select few and the forums. Sometimes Fab is full of surprises and the sex crops up when you least expect it." And if the fun never started....? | |||
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"Every Ops tour was six months without lol You just need to relax and see waft cones around. Sex wise you know that you’re wanted lots. But that’s not the point, it’s what you want. Maybe a bearded older guy that likes Yorkshire ![]() ![]() That’s not being picky though it’s being choosy and having what you want. And yeah every woman’s chased I get that. Doesn’t mean you’re not chased for the right reasons though | |||
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"Every Ops tour was six months without lol You just need to relax and see waft cones around. Sex wise you know that you’re wanted lots. But that’s not the point, it’s what you want. Maybe a bearded older guy that likes Yorkshire ![]() ![]() Because I have the right hole. | |||
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"You probably know what I'll say, so I won't say it. " Finnneeee I'll leave!!! | |||
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"I’m giving up soon. I have less joy on here than in real life and that’s zero. All the people I like are too far away " Too far away just means road trips though. And road trips are ace. | |||
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"Finnneeee I'll leave!!!" Please don’t go. | |||
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"I’m giving up soon. I have less joy on here than in real life and that’s zero. All the people I like are too far away Too far away just means road trips though. And road trips are ace." That runs the risks of all the organisation to be let down tho ![]() | |||
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"That runs the risks of all the organisation to be let down tho ![]() It’s surprising me how many women I see saying that lately. It’s not a concern I used to hear around here. ![]() | |||
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"I’m giving up soon. I have less joy on here than in real life and that’s zero. All the people I like are too far away Too far away just means road trips though. And road trips are ace. That runs the risks of all the organisation to be let down tho ![]() It's the risk that is exciting | |||
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"When the fun stops, STOP! Whatever it is that brings you here, the casual sex, the forums, chatting to the people you enjoy chatting to. If this stops then it's time for a break. For me I gave up pretty quick on the sex thing and just enjoy chatting to a select few and the forums. Sometimes Fab is full of surprises and the sex crops up when you least expect it. And if the fun never started....?" Then you're one day closer to it happening ![]() | |||
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"I’m giving up soon. I have less joy on here than in real life and that’s zero. All the people I like are too far away Too far away just means road trips though. And road trips are ace. That runs the risks of all the organisation to be let down tho ![]() And the been fucked about and let down is oh so much fun! | |||
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"When the fun stops, STOP! Whatever it is that brings you here, the casual sex, the forums, chatting to the people you enjoy chatting to. If this stops then it's time for a break. For me I gave up pretty quick on the sex thing and just enjoy chatting to a select few and the forums. Sometimes Fab is full of surprises and the sex crops up when you least expect it. And if the fun never started....? Then you're one day closer to it happening ![]() Death? | |||
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"There is one thing you need raven. And that is to get laid. " I actually don't. | |||
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"Think I’d go for the hash browns before making a decision ![]() Too late they stop breakfast at 10:30 | |||
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"Think I’d go for the hash browns before making a decision ![]() FML | |||
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"Every Ops tour was six months without lol You just need to relax and see waft cones around. Sex wise you know that you’re wanted lots. But that’s not the point, it’s what you want. Maybe a bearded older guy that likes Yorkshire ![]() ![]() Haha I guess you can look at it that way, but most guys on here aren’t dicks… generally | |||
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"I think I would struggle massively living life without it. If I had no other option then yes I suppose I would be able to come to terms with it but intimacy is a divine added bonus in this shitty world that I always want to indulge in. Sex, flirting, attraction and delicious men make life much more exciting. " They do if you can let them in your head. Unfortunately mine is too full of other shit. | |||
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"You should just give up? On the whole casual sex/swinging thing? I'm not been woe is me, I mean, I'm female, always gonna be an advantage on here no matter what you look like or how shit your personality is. (I get a d minus in both yet I can still pull! Go figure) But could you live a life of no sex? In all honesty, could you? No flirting No kissing No touching Definitely no penis in vagina stuff. No orgasms!!!! (Highly overrated anyway) How important is it for you in life? I'm beginning to think I actually don't give a shit. I know I know, I hide it so well. No one actually does "it" for me, hot guys, funny guys, hot and funny guys. Fuck even Ryan can do one. Or maybe I just need breakfast. Oh hash browns.... Or maybe I need to become a ![]() I'm a man and have decided hash browns are the future for me ![]() | |||
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"I’m giving up soon. I have less joy on here than in real life and that’s zero. All the people I like are too far away Too far away just means road trips though. And road trips are ace. That runs the risks of all the organisation to be let down tho ![]() It is absolutely not exciting ![]() | |||
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"I’m giving up soon. I have less joy on here than in real life and that’s zero. All the people I like are too far away Too far away just means road trips though. And road trips are ace. That runs the risks of all the organisation to be let down tho ![]() ![]() I was thinking more whether they're a shit shag or not but okay you win ![]() | |||
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"I’m giving up soon. I have less joy on here than in real life and that’s zero. All the people I like are too far away Too far away just means road trips though. And road trips are ace. That runs the risks of all the organisation to be let down tho ![]() ![]() ![]() Next question: is a shit shag better than no shag? | |||
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"I’m giving up soon. I have less joy on here than in real life and that’s zero. All the people I like are too far away Too far away just means road trips though. And road trips are ace. That runs the risks of all the organisation to be let down tho ![]() ![]() I get where you're coming from. I've tried looking at local meets and there's a definite pattern emerging. No results. So I looked at an alternative. I plan ahead. With people I've already met, or have been chatting to (offline as well as on) for a long, long time. I choose places where even if shit could happen and my company has an emergency that means they can't come, there'll be something to keep me occupied and entertained. Of course I want the person to show up. But I don't put faith in anyone that I have the slightest doubt would dick me around and cancel on a whim. Those people are out there. They're the ones to focus on, not those that make endless promises online that they'll never let you down, who then do just that. It may take time and effort to find them, but when you do it's worth it. ![]() | |||
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