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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's so hard for a lad to find anything on here, especially with me being 18. in all honestly I thought I'd get a lot of attention, with not that many 18 year olds being on here,

Any advice people could give?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait a few years. You can't even get into the clubs until you're 21. In the meantime, there must be tonnes of top teen totty you should be banging on a Fri/Sat night. That's what I was doing at your age. No girl was safe from me back then lol

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester


"Wait a few years. You can't even get into the clubs until you're 21. In the meantime, there must be tonnes of top teen totty you should be banging on a Fri/Sat night. That's what I was doing at your age. No girl was safe from me back then lol "

and there still not lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow you've been on the site all if three weeks. Patience young grasshopper. It's not dial a shag where women will fall at your feet. Put effort in and you shall be rewarded.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Maybe the word 'anything' in the first sentence of your post gives a hint.

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

grasshopper! pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers, I've been to a club once before its 18 you have to be for most isn't it?

Cheers for the advice, I it's not that I can't do that I'd just prefer not to, an generally girls out side this site don't look for NSA fun :/

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Wow you've been on the site all if three weeks. Patience young grasshopper. It's not dial a shag where women will fall at your feet. Put effort in and you shall be rewarded."

This!!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait a few years. You can't even get into the clubs until you're 21. In the meantime, there must be tonnes of top teen totty you should be banging on a Fri/Sat night. That's what I was doing at your age. No girl was safe from me back then lol

and there still not lmao"

They are if football is on. That's the difference between me then and me now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's so hard for a lad to find anything on here, especially with me being 18. in all honestly I thought I'd get a lot of attention, with not that many 18 year olds being on here,

Any advice people could give?"

Best of luck...... You have no chance

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By *iverview1Couple
over a year ago

gourock

grasshopper gives sound advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grasshopper say.....

You're not selling yourself in your profile. Take a look at it and tell us why any lady should look past everyone else and come to you. I see no reason why they should unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Grasshopper say.....

You're not selling yourself in your profile. Take a look at it and tell us why any lady should look past everyone else and come to you. I see no reason why they should unfortunately."

Yeah I see what you mean but tbh I wouldn't know how to sell my self I haven't done anything like this before, will just have to pick up things as I go along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers, I've been to a club once before its 18 you have to be for most isn't it?

Cheers for the advice, I it's not that I can't do that I'd just prefer not to, an generally girls out side this site don't look for NSA fun :/ "

Really? There were plenty around in the real world looking for just that when I was your age!

Your text reads as if you're looking for single women, and even two at once - yet you've also listed seeking couples. This could be perceived as just hedging your bets to increase your chances - but many couples close to your maximum age will be unlikely to meet someone close to their kids ages!

Whilst it isn't always the case - many will see a link between age, experience and maturity - which may not count in your favour. Having seen many a similar post before - especially from young single guys finding things tough - it is often quoted that its easier to find fun in a certain place where there's 'an abundance of aquatic creatures'.

Just saying - but good luck!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheers, I've been to a club once before its 18 you have to be for most isn't it?

Cheers for the advice, I it's not that I can't do that I'd just prefer not to, an generally girls out side this site don't look for NSA fun :/

Really? There were plenty around in the real world looking for just that when I was your age!

Your text reads as if you're looking for single women, and even two at once - yet you've also listed seeking couples. This could be perceived as just hedging your bets to increase your chances - but many couples close to your maximum age will be unlikely to meet someone close to their kids ages!

Whilst it isn't always the case - many will see a link between age, experience and maturity - which may not count in your favour. Having seen many a similar post before - especially from young single guys finding things tough - it is often quoted that its easier to find fun in a certain place where there's 'an abundance of aquatic creatures'.

Just saying - but good luck!!"

Nope not at all rarely any girls my age want NSA sex

But yeah I suppose I agree with what you were saying

Thanks for all the feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grasshopper say.....

You're not selling yourself in your profile. Take a look at it and tell us why any lady should look past everyone else and come to you. I see no reason why they should unfortunately.

Yeah I see what you mean but tbh I wouldn't know how to sell my self I haven't done anything like this before, will just have to pick up things as I go along "

Read this: http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/support/15377

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Han Solo had the same problem before he managed to shag Princess Leia, so watch Return of the Jedi, in the background of the Imperial Walker scene, and watch carefully, as it's pretty quick, there's a Lucas Films injoke about having sex. Watch and learn my young Jedi.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Or was in the two way mirror scene in Cabin in the Woods? *old git moment*

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"It's so hard for a lad to find anything on here, especially with me being 18. in all honestly I thought I'd get a lot of attention, with not that many 18 year olds being on here,

Any advice people could give?

Best of luck...... You have no chance "

Maybe you could start a thread about how pointless it is for any single bloke being on fab? This is the second thread in a row I've looked at now with just negative comments from you. Cut the guy some slack. He was asking for constructive advice. Just because (what I gather from pretty much every post you make) you don't get the results you want from fab doesn't mean that's gonna be the same for everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, there's so many nice polite women on here, I can see what they mean about most men on here being weird,

Thanks for the help

I'd appreciate it if someone could message me for a quick hello, as kinda lonely on here haha

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

what makes you think 18 year olds would be so sought after?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my POV, you are fairly new here, and fairly young. Just give it time, and dont be to pushy or seem to eager. Think about what you are specifically looking for (putting down the word anything may be off putting to a lot), and then do some research...look at profiles to see what they want, try some socials.

As said, give it time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm honestly not a pushy guy, and I didn't mean it in an offensive way as anyone and I'm sorry if you have seen it in that way

But yeah I'm just gonna have to give it time and see what happens

Thank you

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