FabSwingers.com forum: The "thing"

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No not the film.

I don't know what it is but I don't

think I have it. Or I've misplaced it.

The "thing" that makes you want someone, that makes someone want you.

Lust?

Desire?

A sex drive...

And this is my favourite time of year so it's definitely not the weather so don't go there all you oh "the heat makes me horny" people.

Hot funny guys...honestly I get more excited about cooking breakfast.

Anyone else lost their "thing"?

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"No not the film.

I don't know what it is but I don't

think I have it. Or I've misplaced it.

The "thing" that makes you want someone, that makes someone want you.

Lust?

Desire?

A sex drive...

And this is my favourite time of year so it's definitely not the weather so don't go there all you oh "the heat makes me horny" people.

Hot funny guys...honestly I get more excited about cooking breakfast.

Anyone else lost their "thing"?

Not sure about 'lost' entirely but it's definitely changed, and in some ways reduced. Sex requires enthusiasm and my enthusiasm for pretty much everything is going through a dip. Sexually there are definitely things I am still very much into but maybe not all the time, and my sexual enthusiasm has a narrower focus than it used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labido

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By *agebunWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

Mine fluctuates a lot. Right now I have it though - so apologies if I accidentally stole your thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had it

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I lost it for a good while earlier this year. No idea why really, it just upped and went on holiday without me. It came back eventually when it got bored though, and I'm sure yours will too

LvM

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've neve really had a thing, it takes a lot for me to want a person.

To be honest right now the only person I want is the Mr, I've no interest in meeting anyone at this moment.

Mrs

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Mrs N has developed an underactive thyroid so is definitely struggling with the "thing". She's great when she is aroused but the process is a lot harder than it used to be.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

It will come back literally the moment you have great sex again. It's like a movie you've forgotten how good it was until it's on late one night and you love it all over again

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sorry that my penis made your thing go away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has been in the up lately. Which is actually a pain in the arse as I still need boxes ticking for me to indulge.

I guess the question is does yours ebb and flow usually, I myself have had dips through the years for sure but ultimately it's been pretty steady.

As I'm getting older it's definitely on a spike upwards though.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"It will come back literally the moment you have great sex again. It's like a movie you've forgotten how good it was until it's on late one night and you love it all over again"

*hint hint*

LvM

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

It's all about the connection Raven. You'll find it again, chin up xoxo

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"It will come back literally the moment you have great sex again. It's like a movie you've forgotten how good it was until it's on late one night and you love it all over again

*hint hint*

LvM"

Oh there's no hints it's very clear I would do the job! Like a true fab hero.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

There is no thing, not for me. Lust, desire, a sex drive, develops in response to another specific individual, they don’t exist as free agents inside me. So I don’t have your thing, sorry, (happy to help you look for it though) x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Seen as you love McDonald’s hash browns so much, have you tried inserting one while you flick the bean ?

Maybe that’s your thing.

The mr

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"There is no thing, not for me. Lust, desire, a sex drive, develops in response to another specific individual, they don’t exist as free agents inside me. So I don’t have your thing, sorry, (happy to help you look for it though) x"

I think she's the same. Maybe we all should meet and find this thing together?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine fluctuates a lot. Right now I have it though - so apologies if I accidentally stole your thing."

Quite alright, goes to waste on me anyway.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Little catch up on sleep and I’m sure my thing will return

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It will come back literally the moment you have great sex again. It's like a movie you've forgotten how good it was until it's on late one night and you love it all over again"

But what if I don't! One my favourite things, ruined. A memory of lies.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry that my penis made your thing go away! "

I'm sure it isn't the first time Kai.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That! "

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Sorry that my penis made your thing go away!

I'm sure it isn't the first time Kai.

Accurate!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Mine is in flux at the moment, mainly because of lots of life and relationship stuff going on. They’re fickle little fuckers and run off at the point when things get tough, then come creeping back when times are calm again

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Recently I’ve been hurt and let down badly so I’ve definitely lost my thing, I know it won’t be gone forever but for how long who knows ……

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Mine is currently down the back of the sofa somewhere.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love "

This suddenly felt very corrie

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"It will come back literally the moment you have great sex again. It's like a movie you've forgotten how good it was until it's on late one night and you love it all over again

*hint hint*

LvM

Oh there's no hints it's very clear I would do the job! Like a true fab hero. "

Thanks Brucey, now I sing true fab hero to the tune of Juke Box Hero

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love

This suddenly felt very corrie"

. I do try to be posh but as they say, you can take the girl out of manc……

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Mine's in a letterbox, that's a forum easter egg, are Marvel hiring?

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Old age and high blood pressure. The thing returns now and again.......

It's like the Loch Ness monster, appears occasionally to excite the tourists......

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

My thing ebbs and flows; dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin and those lovely endorphins. I’m just a hormone junky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is in flux at the moment, mainly because of lots of life and relationship stuff going on. They’re fickle little fuckers and run off at the point when things get tough, then come creeping back when times are calm again"

I could do a whole episode of JK on my life right now, could have a bearing on things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Recently I’ve been hurt and let down badly so I’ve definitely lost my thing, I know it won’t be gone forever but for how long who knows ……"

One huge thing, followed by another, followed by lots of little things where you just get to the point in thinking, am I even meant to have sex?

Or maybe that's just me.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love

This suddenly felt very corrie

. I do try to be posh but as they say, you can take the girl out of manc……"

Why don't we get a bap and discuss over a brew kid?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love

This suddenly felt very corrie

. I do try to be posh but as they say, you can take the girl out of manc……

Why don't we get a bap and discuss over a brew kid?"

A bap? Wtf is a bap. I’m up for a chip barm cocker. Will that be reet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is.. A good fuck will cure a lot of us. There that is a thing we are all here for is to fuck brains off, out and, feel better not bitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the 'Thing'

The passion

The desire

The wants

The curiosity

The will

The time

The place

The drive

But not the 'one' at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thing is this telegram group chat.. Get together discuss your urges. Who uses that thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the 'Thing'

The passion

The desire

The wants

The curiosity

The will

The time

The place

The drive

But not the 'one' at the moment "

Oosh.. The shopping list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have the 'Thing'

The passion - need it

The desire - need it

The wants - need it

The curiosity - need it

The will -need it

The time - need it

The place - need it

The drive - need it

But not the 'one' at the moment -got it (joking but it wouldn't work otherwise!) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My thing is this telegram group chat.. Get together discuss your urges. Who uses that thing? "

Again, i have telegram but not the group, take me there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have the 'Thing'

The passion - need it

The desire - need it

The wants - need it

The curiosity - need it

The will -need it

The time - need it

The place - need it

The drive - need it

But not the 'one' at the moment -got it (joking but it wouldn't work otherwise!) "

And i am happy to give all

When you are ready to receive all

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

The thing comes, the thing goes. The world continues to spin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The thing is.. A good fuck will cure a lot of us. There that is a thing we are all here for is to fuck brains off, out and, feel better not bitter. "

So true, hoover me too and not just the floor, while you are about at it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing comes, the thing goes. The world continues to spin."

Mines stopped spinning.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"The thing comes, the thing goes. The world continues to spin.

Mines stopped spinning."

Give it a flick!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing comes, the thing goes. The world continues to spin.

Mines stopped spinning.

Give it a flick!

I'm not touching it.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I'm not touching it."

Okay, I’ll do it. But not without the gloves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one has a "thing" for me

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Mine buggered off with pain.

Hoping it reappears after surgery.

It always comes back eventually.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.

I guess I stopped believing in myself. Started believing I wasn't sexually attractive, no one would want to meet me. It was easier to just goblin rather than trying. Easier to evade arrangements of socials, dates etc because I couldn't see how anyone would want to fuck me.

And then I stopped thinking about it. Doing little things that brought me joy. Leaning into friendships with those I love and adore. Going to the gym because I didn't want to have a rot girl Autumn. I found a little bit of confidence. Started talking to people again. Flirting (well whatever it is I do because I don't think I flirt!).

I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.

I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again."

Just goblin! Yes, this is me right now.

And putting the "ie" on the end of my name is making me sound far too cute

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love

This suddenly felt very corrie

. I do try to be posh but as they say, you can take the girl out of manc……

Why don't we get a bap and discuss over a brew kid?

A bap? Wtf is a bap. I’m up for a chip barm cocker. Will that be reet?"

Sound

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.

I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again.

Just goblin! Yes, this is me right now.

And putting the "ie" on the end of my name is making me sound far too cute

Ravie and elphie!

N'awww come here to my man breast you lil thing you!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

The Thing was a bloody great movie, wasn’t it?

The ‘80s one, I mean. Obviously.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.

I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again.

Just goblin! Yes, this is me right now.

And putting the "ie" on the end of my name is making me sound far too cute

Ravie and elphie!

N'awww come here to my man breast you lil thing you!"

Don't forget Lillie

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Don't forget Lillie"

And Carrieie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hate you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My thing is this telegram group chat.. Get together discuss your urges. Who uses that thing? "

I have telegram. We just swap recipes. Am I doing it wrong?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"I hate you all."

Finally some progress, please keep that hatred burning inside you.

The mr

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I heart you all."

Aww. Such a cutie.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I hate you all."

Elphie is my favourite. So cute I could DIE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thing goes missing when I could probably do with some therapy. That's probably TMI but hey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mojo?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I hate you all.

Elphie is my favourite. So cute I could DIE

Because she would kill you. No hesitation

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Never had it

Well

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah you poor thing. You'll find it again, you just need the right guy. It's not often someone makes me feel the thing but gosh, it's one of the best feelings ever. I'm obsessed but don't tell him that because if he knew how much I enjoyed the way he makes me feel he would probably do a runner.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I hate you all.

Elphie is my favourite. So cute I could DIE

Because she would kill you. No hesitation "

Bet she would do it in a cute way though the lil pickle

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

No.

Not us.

Have you tried leaving a bowl of milk or a nice bowl out for it?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Up Your Frock!

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love "

Its in my pants - i had it all the time!!!

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"No.

Not us.

Have you tried leaving a bowl of milk or a nice bowl out for it?"

*bone*

This fucking new phone just comes up with really crap words sometimes.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love

Its in my pants - i had it all the time!!!

Well damnit man share it around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love

Its in my pants - i had it all the time!!!

Well damnit man share it around

I think he's been trying to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It comes and it goes, I guess it’s how you’re feeling at the time, stress of things going on outside of this, the not wanting to get to attached, but needing a connection.

Maybe some nice Yorkshire person can sort out a social gathering and just go along and enjoy tha until your thing returns

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.

Not us.

Have you tried leaving a bowl of milk or a nice bowl out for it?

*bone*

This fucking new phone just comes up with really crap words sometimes."

So I should bring my best china bowl back in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My thing goes missing when I could probably do with some therapy. That's probably TMI but hey. "

Oh I'm not going there.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Fucked if I know love

Its in my pants - i had it all the time!!!

Well damnit man share it around

I think he's been trying to..."

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I usually found when life gets tough “the thing” is completely gone.

Like now plus I hate winter months.

There are days I just want to cry so I guess I’m not the best person to be around anyway, understandably so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It comes and it goes, I guess it’s how you’re feeling at the time, stress of things going on outside of this, the not wanting to get to attached, but needing a connection.

Maybe some nice Yorkshire person can sort out a social gathering and just go along and enjoy tha until your thing returns "

God no, socials? With people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I usually found when life gets tough “the thing” is completely gone.

Like now plus I hate winter months.

There are days I just want to cry so I guess I’m not the best person to be around anyway, understandably so.

See, I love the winter months!

I can highly recommend crying in the shower, very therapeutic.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"No.

Not us.

Have you tried leaving a bowl of milk or a nice bowl out for it?

*bone*

This fucking new phone just comes up with really crap words sometimes."

I was sold on the bowl personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It comes and it goes, I guess it’s how you’re feeling at the time, stress of things going on outside of this, the not wanting to get to attached, but needing a connection.

Maybe some nice Yorkshire person can sort out a social gathering and just go along and enjoy tha until your thing returns

God no, socials? With people?

Yes lol get out there face your fear

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

I don’t think you are supposed to know what your ‘thing’ is - people see us in different lights, those rare types that can see that ‘thing’ when you’ve rolled out of bed in the morning, when your sat laughing at something, the way your voice changes when your a little embarrassed about something - those that can find the small parts of you that make you unique - you don’t lose those you just sometimes fail to see what you’ve got xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The want, the grrrrrrr, the lust, that look, the I want you as much as you want me feeling. Whatever you call it. That!

Yes Nora that!!!

Where do I find it?

Amazon probably..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It comes and it goes, I guess it’s how you’re feeling at the time, stress of things going on outside of this, the not wanting to get to attached, but needing a connection.

Maybe some nice Yorkshire person can sort out a social gathering and just go along and enjoy tha until your thing returns

God no, socials? With people?

Yes lol get out there face your fear

It's not a fear, it's an intolerance.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I got the meh 'thing' today.

Too much sads last night and pain when I woke up. It'll pass.

I don't get this whole independent lust thing. Not since I was a teenager anyway. Not sure I want to either.

Connection brings the lust and all that other messy emotional stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My thing goes missing when I could probably do with some therapy. That's probably TMI but hey.

Oh I'm not going there."

Well, I didn't either to be fair

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By *ife9291Man
over a year ago

fife

For me , it comes and goes..

Its like a lost key and then you find it again.

With me it depends on various things : level of stress, finding yourself attractive or not among others.

Sometimes the thing randomly reappears and disappers.

Just weird life

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By *egDaySkipperMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.

Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.

Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!"

This is how many women feel too (sans penii)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.

Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!"

I'm more "fun to talk to" but not actually fuck.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.

Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!

I'm more "fun to talk to" but not actually fuck.

Can confirm the former! At least

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By *929Man
over a year ago

northumberland

"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.

Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!"

At least your halfway there mate, that’s better than most of us haha

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.

Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!

I'm more "fun to talk to" but not actually fuck.

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I don't know at this rate I think you're more fun to fuck than talk to. Meant with love!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Have you tried looking behind the sofa for it....or in your sock drawer??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you find joy in anything?

Serious question.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Oh I have the thing - just can't fecking use of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.

Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!

I'm more "fun to talk to" but not actually fuck.

I don't know at this rate I think you're more fun to fuck than talk to. Meant with love!

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you tried looking behind the sofa for it....or in your sock drawer??

I don't have a sock drawer. Maybe this is why I have so many problems.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you find joy in anything?

Serious question."

Contrary to what he says up there I am a fun person. Or I can be.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

My thing has been on a bit of a hiatus just recently, I'm hoping its coming back soon.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"No not the film.

I don't know what it is but I don't

think I have it. Or I've misplaced it.

The "thing" that makes you want someone, that makes someone want you.

Lust?

Desire?

A sex drive...

And this is my favourite time of year so it's definitely not the weather so don't go there all you oh "the heat makes me horny" people.

Hot funny guys...honestly I get more excited about cooking breakfast.

Anyone else lost their "thing"?

Nope my thing is very much there, active and being used.

Really sorry for your loss and I hope you get through this hard time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet."

I think they threw it out.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out. "

With your wand!

maybe your wand stole your thing when it ran away! Omg! Maybe your thing is having a thing with your wand...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out.

With your wand!

maybe your wand stole your thing when it ran away! Omg! Maybe your thing is having a thing with your wand... "

I found that. Can't even be arsed to use it though.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out. "

Someone else will pick it up!

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over a year ago

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out.

Someone else will pick it up!"

One man's trash and all.....

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out.

Someone else will pick it up!"

I would but I don't know where its been.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out.

Someone else will pick it up!

I would but I don't know where its been. "

Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out.

Someone else will pick it up!

I would but I don't know where its been.

Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something

It may also be dangerous! An angry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out.

Someone else will pick it up!

I would but I don't know where its been.

Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something

It may also be dangerous! An angry.

The sores have cleared up now so it's no that angry anymore.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out.

Someone else will pick it up!

I would but I don't know where its been.

Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something

It may also be dangerous! An angry.

The sores have cleared up now so it's no that angry anymore. "

Safe to touch?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out.

Someone else will pick it up!

I would but I don't know where its been.

Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something

It may also be dangerous! An angry.

The sores have cleared up now so it's no that angry anymore.

Safe to touch? "

And not contagious

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I lost my thing for months and months last summer. Then I found my thing. Someone brought me a thing and it turned out that was my thing.

Now my thing comes and goes, but i know that if it ever goes missing that I can find it by talking to a couple of people.

You'll find your thing, Raven... itjust may be being held onto by someone you don't expect yet.

I think they threw it out.

Someone else will pick it up!

I would but I don't know where its been.

Pfft. You'd think it was a letter opener or something

It may also be dangerous! An angry.

The sores have cleared up now so it's no that angry anymore.

Safe to touch?

And not contagious "

Go on then. Bet it bites though!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's been a while since I came across anyone new, who excites me. So I get what you mean.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

I'm lucky I guess to be able to switch off my emotions. If I'm not having sex regularly I just don't even think about it until it's imminent then I get in the zone. I think it's more self preservation being able to just switch on and off.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I am feeling a bit too introspective to post on this today. The thing might splurge everywhere and no one needs that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am feeling a bit too introspective to post on this today. The thing might splurge everywhere and no one needs that.

No I do! Splurge away.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I am feeling a bit too introspective to post on this today. The thing might splurge everywhere and no one needs that.

No I do! Splurge away. "

What she said.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Mine has been missing for ages.

I was reading some AIBU threads on a parenting website yesterday (was looking for something else but it caught my attention). I left there thinking what a relief it was to be single!

I have people I’d like to meet but it’s more for a coffee than a shag.

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

"Nope but I do feel like women want my penis more than they want me.

Like as in I'm shaggable but not datable!

This is how many women feel too (sans penii)

Very much, this is exactly how I feel atm x

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Mine has been missing for ages.

I was reading some AIBU threads on a parenting website yesterday (was looking for something else but it caught my attention). I left there thinking what a relief it was to be single!

I have people I’d like to meet but it’s more for a coffee than a shag."

I think meeting for coffee is a sensible enough thing to do anyway, even on Fab. All this place actually says of people really is that they are not sexual prudes.

So you don't really need The Thing to use Fab, as thousands of people I expect prove every day. pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lost my thing quite spectacularly a few months ago. Generally I have quite a high libido but a combination of things decimated that.

I think it's safe to say my thing is pretty much back to normal levels. It takes time Ravie, you'll find your thing again."

This. This is exactly me at the moment.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

For me the thing is massively tied to feeling desired. If I don't feel desired and wanted then the thing goes into hiding. So if I'm always the one keeping a conversation going and I get the feeling they're not actually that into me then it disappears. There was also a very difficult personal time that I'm not prepared to share here - the thing disappeared then too.

My libido is high enough that I'll take care of myself while the thing is in hiding. And that's ok-ish.

But when someone I am attracted to looks at me with desire or sends a message or just puts that fire/little purple devil emoji on something I've sent them then it starts a feedback loop. The butterflies, the fanny flutters (gawd, that's a terrible phrase), the wanting.

It's definitely linked to self esteem for me which is a bastard because it's either a vicious circle when you're feeling shit. Or an amazing upward spiral when you're feeling good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me the thing is massively tied to feeling desired. If I don't feel desired and wanted then the thing goes into hiding. So if I'm always the one keeping a conversation going and I get the feeling they're not actually that into me then it disappears. There was also a very difficult personal time that I'm not prepared to share here - the thing disappeared then too.

My libido is high enough that I'll take care of myself while the thing is in hiding. And that's ok-ish.

It's definitely linked to self esteem for me which is a bastard because it's either a vicious circle when you're feeling shit. Or an amazing upward spiral when you're feeling good.

This actually makes sense.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

My libido is high enough that I'll take care of myself while the thing is in hiding. And that's ok-ish.

Yeah I was hooked then till the 'fanny flutters' broke the immersion

sorry.

It's quite like that for me... I don't feel it from them it withers. Desire loop starts way before the sex does for me.

My residual libido isn't particularly high really. More just thirst and hunger.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

This actually makes sense. "

You sound surprised

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Yeah I was hooked then till the 'fanny flutters' broke the immersion

sorry.

I'm happy to hear alternatives. Cunt clenching? Twat twitches?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This actually makes sense.

You sound surprised

I tell myself I don't care what guys think of me, even the ones I kinda like. But maybe I do. Maybe.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Yeah I was hooked then till the 'fanny flutters' broke the immersion

sorry.

I'm happy to hear alternatives. Cunt clenching? Twat twitches?

Both better... but still made me giggle. Leave with it with me I may have a eureka moment

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

My libido is high enough that I'll take care of myself while the thing is in hiding. And that's ok-ish.

It's definitely linked to self esteem for me which is a bastard because it's either a vicious circle when you're feeling shit. Or an amazing upward spiral when you're feeling good.

Ooh. This!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

This actually makes sense.

You sound surprised

I tell myself I don't care what guys think of me, even the ones I kinda like. But maybe I do. Maybe.

We all care to a point. Some obsess over it, while others only care in the situation presented.

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