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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

You only pass through the world once what do you want people to remember?

I hope people remember I tried to be kind and was a little bit haha funny.

Knitter

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm not really bothered about what people remember when I'm gone. I'm more interested in how I behave now, which is hopefully with kindness, patience and respect. Luke

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

I hope people remember I was a cunt who went to great lengths to be as annoying as humanly possible at least that’s my goal

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By *ath_ladMan
over a year ago

Bath

I’d like to be remembered as polite well mannered and all round nice guy

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By *ath_ladMan
over a year ago

Bath

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Not too many years ago, I’d have had a grand response to this question, about kindness and compassion and leaving ones mark upon the world.

But now, for the most part, I don’t care if people remember me or not. For the few people who truly matter, I hope they remember that I loved them, that I fought for them, and did everything I could to bring stability and lightness to their lives Xx

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'm not really bothered about what people remember when I'm gone. I'm more interested in how I behave now, which is hopefully with kindness, patience and respect. Luke"

Which would mean that people remember you as someone who behaved with kindness, patience and respect.

Asking how you’d like to be remembered is basically the same as asking how you think you behave now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You only pass through the world once what do you want people to remember?

I hope people remember I tried to be kind and was a little bit haha funny.

Knitter"

No glitter? Weird

I'd like to be remembered for being calm, fair and reliable . Also for having larger than average balls.

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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"I'm not really bothered about what people remember when I'm gone. I'm more interested in how I behave now, which is hopefully with kindness, patience and respect. Luke"

I guess that was my point

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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"I hope people remember I was a cunt who went to great lengths to be as annoying as humanly possible at least that’s my goal"

Okay well as they say youbdo you

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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"I’d like to be remembered as polite well mannered and all round nice guy "

I'm sure that will make your Mama proud

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

id rather they not remember me.

remember those who have deserved to be

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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"Not too many years ago, I’d have had a grand response to this question, about kindness and compassion and leaving ones mark upon the world.

But now, for the most part, I don’t care if people remember me or not. For the few people who truly matter, I hope they remember that I loved them, that I fought for them, and did everything I could to bring stability and lightness to their lives Xx"

That is very lovely

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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"I'm not really bothered about what people remember when I'm gone. I'm more interested in how I behave now, which is hopefully with kindness, patience and respect. Luke

Which would mean that people remember you as someone who behaved with kindness, patience and respect.

Asking how you’d like to be remembered is basically the same as asking how you think you behave now. "

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’d like to be remembered fondly.

I’d love to be remembered as I remember my gran. A formidable woman whose love & kindness knew no bounds. She was a safe space for all. Her funeral lined the streets xx

But I’ll be content with fondly

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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"You only pass through the world once what do you want people to remember?

I hope people remember I tried to be kind and was a little bit haha funny.

Knitter

No glitter? Weird

I'd like to be remembered for being calm, fair and reliable . Also for having larger than average balls."

**throws glitter** well thats new

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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"id rather they not remember me.

remember those who have deserved to be"

Everybody deserves to be remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather people didn't remember me

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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"I’d like to be remembered fondly.

I’d love to be remembered as I remember my gran. A formidable woman whose love & kindness knew no bounds. She was a safe space for all. Her funeral lined the streets xx

But I’ll be content with fondly "

You have a beautiful soul, Im sure your gran influences that

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By *nitter OP   Woman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"I'd rather people didn't remember me"

Why lovely lady?

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Just to be remembered would be enough.

Everyone will have their own opinion. I'd prefer it to be that way than to try and sway their view to make me feel better before I shuffle off.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Not too many years ago, I’d have had a grand response to this question, about kindness and compassion and leaving ones mark upon the world.

But now, for the most part, I don’t care if people remember me or not. For the few people who truly matter, I hope they remember that I loved them, that I fought for them, and did everything I could to bring stability and lightness to their lives Xx"

For what it’s worth, i think the second paragraph is an incredibly grand response to the question. I’m actually quite moved after reading it, how we’re remembered by our loved ones is all that really matters, we meet thousands of people throughout our lives and they’ll all have a different opinion of us, some will like us, some will hate us and some won’t be bothered either way, we can’t please everyone so there’s no point trying. But when it comes to loves ones there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for them, when it comes down to the crunch, looking after loved ones and having loved ones who’ll look after us when we need it is all that really matters.

Thank you for giving us something beautiful in, what is at the moment, a fucking ugly world.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

That I was utterly unique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be surprised if any bugger remembers my name.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"Not too many years ago, I’d have had a grand response to this question, about kindness and compassion and leaving ones mark upon the world.

But now, for the most part, I don’t care if people remember me or not. For the few people who truly matter, I hope they remember that I loved them, that I fought for them, and did everything I could to bring stability and lightness to their lives Xx

For what it’s worth, i think the second paragraph is an incredibly grand response to the question. I’m actually quite moved after reading it, how we’re remembered by our loved ones is all that really matters, we meet thousands of people throughout our lives and they’ll all have a different opinion of us, some will like us, some will hate us and some won’t be bothered either way, we can’t please everyone so there’s no point trying. But when it comes to loves ones there’s nothing I wouldn’t do for them, when it comes down to the crunch, looking after loved ones and having loved ones who’ll look after us when we need it is all that really matters.

Thank you for giving us something beautiful in, what is at the moment, a fucking ugly world. "

Thank you for noticing x

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I’ll be surprised if any bugger remembers my name. "

Your name’s John, possibly the easiest name to remember….even if they don’t remember your name and have to guess they’ll probably say John haha (John or Dave so there’s a 50/50 chance anyway)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ll be surprised if any bugger remembers my name.

Your name’s John, possibly the easiest name to remember….even if they don’t remember your name and have to guess they’ll probably say John haha (John or Dave so there’s a 50/50 chance anyway)"

Ahhh but is my name John though? This is the internet where a someone can be anybody.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I’ll be surprised if any bugger remembers my name.

Your name’s John, possibly the easiest name to remember….even if they don’t remember your name and have to guess they’ll probably say John haha (John or Dave so there’s a 50/50 chance anyway)

Ahhh but is my name John though? This is the internet where a someone can be anybody. "

Well if you don’t tell us what your real name is we definitely won’t remember it when you’re gone….

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Most people I know will probably be dead too. So I'm not really worried about anyone remembering me.

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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Most people I know will probably be dead too. So I'm not really worried about anyone remembering me."

Being so confident that most people you know will already be dead is a bit ominous….I’m not actually accusing you of this but it does sound a bit like you’re planning to pick off everyone you know, one by one, until there’s no one left to remember you when you die….

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I just want people to remember that I once beat a bear in a fight

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"I just want people to remember that I once beat a bear in a fight"

Thats no way to treat your teddy bear

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich


"You only pass through the world once what do you want people to remember?

I hope people remember I tried to be kind and was a little bit haha funny.

Knitter"

So I guess you were knitting again...

I mean it's too deep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better that you should forget and smile,

Than that you should remember, and be sad.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I just want people to remember that I once beat a bear in a fight

Thats no way to treat your teddy bear "

It was a bad dream

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By *lamdaddyMan
over a year ago

London

For being the most marmite fab user ever obviously!

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I'd quite like at least someone to remember I existed, but they probably won't. Bonus would be if I was actually missed. But I probably won't be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to be a good friend and tried to fight my demons

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't care about what people think of me.

I just hope my existence will have been a net positive in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no desire to be remembered. More interested in where I’m going afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the people saying they don’t care, really. I’m

Not talking about on here but the people in your life, you must hope they think of you in a good way and remember the knowledge and life experiences you pass on? I know I try and teach my daughter everyday the principles of being a good person, I make everyday I have with her fun so I hope she remembers the fun memories we share, I hope my brothers in arms remember as always having an open door for them to come see me whenever they want to, for good or bad things. And I hope they raise a glass on Remembrance Day like I do to the ones gone before me.

From the people who know me and love me. I’d like to be remembered for being me,

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"You only pass through the world once what do you want people to remember?

I hope people remember I tried to be kind and was a little bit haha funny.

Knitter"
I remember it but I'd like to be remembered for being useful and happy

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Never really thought about it. But now I am I’m not really arsed, people are nobs, I really have no desire to be remembered. Just bang my corpse in the black bin and go about your day.

The mr

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I would like to be remembered as an extremely loving wife and Mum who did the very best for her family that she could.

Ruby

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

He was good but no doormat or pushover.

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