FabSwingers.com forum: Are men more attracted to intelligent strong women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am., But am I in the minority?

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By *artfordBlokeMan
over a year ago

Dartford

I am too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is where I'm going wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like intelligent weak women. Easy to push around at first but they soon figure out ways to use your physical dominance against you.

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By *eeglos94Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Definitely, powerful intelligent women are leaps and bounds above da chavs wot talk lyk did.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to.

Being strong and intelligent is only part of it. Just because they are that doesn't mean I'm atteacted to them.

I can admire and respect them for it, and I do. You go girl! And all that shit.

But it really doesn't mean much if I'm not physically attracted either.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'm attracted to individuals.

There are no end of definitions of both strong and intelligent.

Are you talking emotionally, physically, mentally or something else?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Men are attracted to willing wet holes OP.

Let's not overcomplicate things

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it depends on the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. Have they got a lovely pair of breasts?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Depends. Have they got a lovely pair of breasts?

No. Traded it in for the strong smarts

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

What about those who are intelligent but not strong? How is strength determined? Can they lift more than you? Emotionally strong?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Are men more attracted to intelligent strong women?"

I am. But strength takes many forms.

(And I ain’t stupid enough to try and speak for other blokes.)

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Not too fussed. As long as I can have a nice convo and a laugh, then we're all good.

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

I’m attracted to chemistry

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By *inky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"I am., But am I in the minority?"

I think it's either a love thing or a Femdom thing comes to my mind based on that.

If it's just a meet for sex, then you can be either a tart or the smartest woman on earth.

If it's regular meet or even a relationship, then it helps to be at least close to each others level.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

at work

"I think it depends on the man."

Agree

and the woman

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it’s more to do with the vagina than anything else. Can’t say I’ve ever wondered about a woman’s I.q while I’m looking at her camel toe.

The my

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Depends.

How big is their dick?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"This is where I'm going wrong. "
You're not intelligent?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Depends. How big is their dick?"

You missed the memo CD. It’s about the strength of their dick, not the size.

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By *avid4olderMan
over a year ago

North Coast

Victoria Coren Mitchell

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"This is where I'm going wrong. You're not intelligent? "

Nor is she strong

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

"Depends. How big is their dick?

You missed the memo CD. It’s about the strength of their dick, not the size."

I've not checked my e-mails in a while; thanks pal

Ladies please reply + comment your one rep max PB on the Dongbell Press, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like women that are funny, confident, and intelligent. I don’t think powerful

Comes into it. Just confident to go for what they want when they want.

Wether that’s career wise or personal life.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I like my women thick and sexy

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Intelligence is incredibly attractive.

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Some guys get intimidated by intelligence..I get frustrated by a lack of intelligence !!

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By *ogan WillowCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Intelligent, strong character and definitely a sense of humour.

But then I am a demanding partner.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Quite a lot of people have said they feel frightened of confident independent women. Because I am extremely independent. It has put people off

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Nothing turns me on more than a friendly confident intelligent lady…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all need to aim to be a Carol Vorderman body builder but something tells me tits tops everything else.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"… something tells me tits tops everything else."

^ See? She’s smart. I like her.

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

I'm going to go out on a limb and say some are, some aren't and some are sometimes and aren't sometimes.

Maybe.

Posh

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"I'm going to go out on a limb and say some are, some aren't and some are sometimes and aren't sometimes.

Maybe.

Posh

The vagueness of this is precisely accurate

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

"I'm going to go out on a limb and say some are, some aren't and some are sometimes and aren't sometimes.

Maybe.

Posh

The vagueness of this is precisely accurate

And that's pretty much what was written on every essay I ever wrote at school

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I prefur stoopid birds

Make me looks cleverer init

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"I hope not. "

Don't you worry, your weirdness makes up for the lack of other stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope not.

Don't you worry, your weirdness makes up for the lack of other stuff.

Takes one to know one

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

As long as the woman is "into me" and the sex is two way.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Intelligence as in the ability to process conceptually yes. It can be expressed in many ways though and level of education, job is often irrelevant though. And all honesty some people are more on the feelings end of the scale than the cerebral - I can see intelligence in that too.

Strong. If I start with the courage to be vulnerable and open to express their thoughts and feelings assertively. Then yes, but is that everyone's perception of strength? Probably not.

Just words that are starting points for a deeper conversation.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think most men will claim to be.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

*waits for the man who admits a preference for stupid, weak women*

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"*waits for the man who admits a preference for stupid, weak women*"

It'll happen right before the guy who admits that he doesn't give a shit about a woman's pleasure, thinks oral is disgusting, and otherwise doesn't have that pick me energy

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't seem to find it hard to meet men so i would say they are pretty common.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are men and women who will want a relationship of equals and men and women who want someone they can mould/feel superior to/manipulate.

On fab I suspect most of will only admit to the former.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"There are men and women who will want a relationship of equals and men and women who want someone they can mould/feel superior to/manipulate. "

I always fall head over heels for women who are smarter than me. Intelligence and self-confidence are sexy as hell.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"There are men and women who will want a relationship of equals and men and women who want someone they can mould/feel superior to/manipulate.

I always fall head over heels for women who are smarter than me. Intelligence and self-confidence are sexy as hell."

They are it's true. I like to be with someone of equal intelligence but different interests. That way we learn from each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Victoria Coren Mitchell

Hahaha I find her very hot too (embarrassingly!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like intelligent weak women. Easy to push around at first but they soon figure out ways to use your physical dominance against you."

Push around as in bully and hurt physically?! That’s not very nice - red flag!

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I never feel like I'm given this choice tbh.

'Intelligence' and 'strength' do not seem to naturally connect here for me.

Strength is 'will power' here surely, and as has been said, who will admit to wanting *less* of that?

And intelligence tends to be in the eye of the beholder in my experience.

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

This one is.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

From most of the messages we get, it seems they are attracted to any female with a pulse and if there's no pulse present she needs to be still warm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that dominant men are attracted to strong, intelligent women because their submission means more. If that observation is worth anything here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too. I want women to be confident in their own skin to know what they want and to be assertive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found that dominant men are attracted to strong, intelligent women because their submission means more. If that observation is worth anything here..."

And yes. Absolutely this. I dont tend to meet many submissive women here but thats my feelingm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some will, some won't.

I do. What some people find Intimidating some find a turn on.

Oh a wet holes too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to be attracted to pathological liars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intellect is the greatest part of attraction to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what he wants, a quick fuck, no socials as one lady said a willing wet hole would do.

A social then a fuck? I guess a click or connection would be needed.

For the above to develope I to a friendship or relationship or some sorts, yes intelligence maybe a requirement. But to be fair I think a connection, common interests, laughter just generally liking each other is a must.

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By *929Man
over a year ago

bedlington

Yes definitely. Love intelligence but have no idea why Nothing better than a lass who has her shit together owns own house has financial goals ect

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By *ashMan
over a year ago

Westhoughton

A free spirited woman who is fun to be around. Need not be a supermodel or highly intelligent or strong..

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I certainly hope so

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Yes, me too. My one long-term relationship where she wasn't (though I didn't realise at first), was a disaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah they always comment on my intelligent and strong

Tits

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By *rownhotnessMan
over a year ago

Cheshire/London/Midlands

As long as they can hold a convo, that's key to me

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By *ild imaginationMan
over a year ago

Basildon

"This is where I'm going wrong. "
I'm sure your doing nothing wrong.. possibly guys might feel your out of their league so a little scared to try? Or that your be getting so much attention the chances of you seeing/reading a message would be very slim. No doubt in mind your never be able to read the amount of messages you'll be getting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%, being talented / capable / smart is a huge turn on for me

All thinks I'm not, mind....

Hmm. Let's not pick at that thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that are, are, yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What about those who are intelligent but not strong? How is strength determined? Can they lift more than you? Emotionally strong? "

Yup.. emotionally strong

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I think a lot of people are intimidated by strong women, it's fine by me.. I have no problem breaking fragile masculinity..

It's definitely a certain type that are interested in the intellectual side of sex..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love strong intelligent women , I want them to put me in my place ! X

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By *CBoyTV/TS
over a year ago

Tonypandy

As long as they enjoy sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are attracted to willing wet holes OP.

Let's not overcomplicate things

Any hole any face any body.. Strong weak rich poor.. Blind

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Yes hook me with your mind and I’m putty in your hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op.. I am strong coffee one sugar

Do I quote the degree I study in bed

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By *avid4olderMan
over a year ago

North Coast

"Victoria Coren Mitchell

Hahaha I find her very hot too (embarrassingly!)"

No need to be embarrassed

. Oozes intelligence and sex appeal

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