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"This not, and I repeat NOT!!! Anything to do with fab. How do you know something you're being told is true? Like, that person over there is an expert in their field, well recognised, is educated in that subject, and has quite the following, may have written a book on the subject and everyone thinks that what they say is true and correct. What is it exactly that would have you believing something? Is it that the majority believe? That they have a qualification? They are well recognised/known? Etc What happens when there's two people with opposing views? But both hold the same factors as each other. How do you determine then yourself what to believe? And why? I'm not asking for advice, I have my view, and I'm asking you guys what you do. Because I'm curious inquisitive soul. " I listen to both sides of the story then decide for myself, sometimes researching further. | |||
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"This not, and I repeat NOT!!! Anything to do with fab. How do you know something you're being told is true? Like, that person over there is an expert in their field, well recognised, is educated in that subject, and has quite the following, may have written a book on the subject and everyone thinks that what they say is true and correct. What is it exactly that would have you believing something? Is it that the majority believe? That they have a qualification? They are well recognised/known? Etc What happens when there's two people with opposing views? But both hold the same factors as each other. How do you determine then yourself what to believe? And why? I'm not asking for advice, I have my view, and I'm asking you guys what you do. Because I'm curious inquisitive soul. " I decide myself based on experience or looking up facts ![]() | |||
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"This not, and I repeat NOT!!! Anything to do with fab. How do you know something you're being told is true? Like, that person over there is an expert in their field, well recognised, is educated in that subject, and has quite the following, may have written a book on the subject and everyone thinks that what they say is true and correct. What is it exactly that would have you believing something? Is it that the majority believe? That they have a qualification? They are well recognised/known? Etc What happens when there's two people with opposing views? But both hold the same factors as each other. How do you determine then yourself what to believe? And why? I'm not asking for advice, I have my view, and I'm asking you guys what you do. Because I'm curious inquisitive soul. " I don't necessarily believe the experts i like to find things out for myself but obviously their are many things it isn't possible to do that so you have to take onboard the advice given. | |||
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"The problem in the time we are living in is nobody knows what the truth is anymore." *** The truth is out there. ![]() | |||
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"Having been the subject of a lot of significant lies, I have quite strong opinions about this. Put simply, I don’t believe anything anyone says, unless I can confirm it for myself. I trust my eyes and ears, and if I’m sufficiently motivated, I trust my ability to research and ascertain the provenience of sources. Then I’ll make my choice, but retain a healthy dose of scepticism about the position I adopt. " ![]() | |||
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"To be honest qualified or not I'm quite cynical & don't believe much, I do my own research if it's something I'm interested & figure it out on my own rather than relying on someone else. We have issues with one of our little ones she goes to the hospital quite a lot (nothing serious) but one specialist likes to talk.... Down I guess is the word, dums it down a lot and as she was speaking I found myself thinking this is a load of bollocks (I am qualified in the area) so I pointed it out and it didn't go down well. I think some people sometimes say stuff that's not quite accurate in a bid to dumb it down for who they assume don't understand which pisses me off, I'm not actually as thick as I look. I have no other examples - in life I trust actions over words. Mrs " I've had this too, both with me and my girls, talked to like I was an imbecile until I corrected them that I knew exactly what they were talking about, I'm qualified in and have experience in a couple of fields so didn't appreciate it. Tinder | |||
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"There's nothing that gives the game away more than the phrase "do your own research". It's red flag central. Where is this 'research' to be extracted from? We are all drawing from the secondary research that's currently available unless people are proposing they literally undertake a peer-reviewed study of their own to produce genuine primary research? Has the person suggesting everyone "does their own research" actually conducted primary research themselves using as far untapped data to conclude that their new findings usurp that of an expert in their field who has spent their life studying the matter in question? Or does it actually mean they've watched a couple of YouTube vids? " I did my own research when I was waiting to be diagnosed with cancer, I looked for weeks online finding out how it is dealt with and treated. There was some good information from a few universities, that had done resesrch on different ways to treat it. So when I went through the operation and treatment, I knew what to expect and when. | |||
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"There's nothing that gives the game away more than the phrase "do your own research". It's red flag central. Where is this 'research' to be extracted from? We are all drawing from the secondary research that's currently available unless people are proposing they literally undertake a peer-reviewed study of their own to produce genuine primary research? Has the person suggesting everyone "does their own research" actually conducted primary research themselves using as far untapped data to conclude that their new findings usurp that of an expert in their field who has spent their life studying the matter in question? Or does it actually mean they've watched a couple of YouTube vids? I did my own research when I was waiting to be diagnosed with cancer, I looked for weeks online finding out how it is dealt with and treated. There was some good information from a few universities, that had done resesrch on different ways to treat it. So when I went through the operation and treatment, I knew what to expect and when." A lot of the 'do your own research' crowd would not approve of you using actual experts and medical professionals to find out that information. It's far too mainstream and sensible for them and you're likely to be told to "wake up sheeple!". They usually need a splash of conspiracy theory, a pinch of disgraced-scientist-turned-Rumble-influencer and a bucket of delusion to form their opinions. | |||
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"This not, and I repeat NOT!!! Anything to do with fab. How do you know something you're being told is true? Like, that person over there is an expert in their field, well recognised, is educated in that subject, and has quite the following, may have written a book on the subject and everyone thinks that what they say is true and correct. What is it exactly that would have you believing something? Is it that the majority believe? That they have a qualification? They are well recognised/known? Etc What happens when there's two people with opposing views? But both hold the same factors as each other. How do you determine then yourself what to believe? And why? I'm not asking for advice, I have my view, and I'm asking you guys what you do. Because I'm curious inquisitive soul. " Is it that the majority believe? NO - things are not true according to 'common sense' which is quite often nonsensical e.g. If I asked 100 young children if they thought Father Christmas was real they'd say yes. If I asked a church congregation if God existed they'd say yes. Truth is not to be found in numbers. That they have a qualification? I wouldn't disagree on a point made by someone who has knowledge of something that I don't but I'd still check it out. e.g. A car mechanic tells me that it's a very difficult job to change the doofahs cos you first have to take out the do dahs.... I'd ask a couple more mechanics or check for info somewhere but there is NO WAY i'd argue the toss with the first mechanic as I clearly don't have that kind of knowledge HOWEVER that doesn't mean I fall at his feet and his first word and let him do the job. In any circumstance in life you arm yourself with data and then apply some thought. They are well recognised/known? NO. Joey Essex is well recognised but I don't want his advice on life or any other matter. A lot of youtubers and influencers are well known and are just fast talking bullshitters. Others are worth listening to. What happens when there's two people with opposing views? But both hold the same factors as each other. How do you determine then yourself what to believe? And why? ME There is not necessarily a need to choose a side. Weigh up both arguments. Take elements from each and come up with your own answer. You can side with one person but you shouldn't without first thinking logically about what is being said. | |||
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"The problem in the time we are living in is nobody knows what the truth is anymore." There is no one single truth. No one has ever known 'The Truth' ...... | |||
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"To be honest qualified or not I'm quite cynical & don't believe much, I do my own research if it's something I'm interested & figure it out on my own rather than relying on someone else. We have issues with one of our little ones she goes to the hospital quite a lot (nothing serious) but one specialist likes to talk.... Down I guess is the word, dums it down a lot and as she was speaking I found myself thinking this is a load of bollocks (I am qualified in the area) so I pointed it out and it didn't go down well. I think some people sometimes say stuff that's not quite accurate in a bid to dumb it down for who they assume don't understand which pisses me off, I'm not actually as thick as I look. I have no other examples - in life I trust actions over words. Mrs I've had this too, both with me and my girls, talked to like I was an imbecile until I corrected them that I knew exactly what they were talking about, I'm qualified in and have experience in a couple of fields so didn't appreciate it. Tinder " It's so frustrating isn't it, I know we are in the same profession so totally relatable, I swear some get a little kick out of spouting utter bollocks ![]() | |||
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"This not, and I repeat NOT!!! Anything to do with fab. How do you know something you're being told is true? Like, that person over there is an expert in their field, well recognised, is educated in that subject, and has quite the following, may have written a book on the subject and everyone thinks that what they say is true and correct. What is it exactly that would have you believing something? Is it that the majority believe? That they have a qualification? They are well recognised/known? Etc What happens when there's two people with opposing views? But both hold the same factors as each other. How do you determine then yourself what to believe? And why? I'm not asking for advice, I have my view, and I'm asking you guys what you do. Because I'm curious inquisitive soul. " For me, the starting point is UNDERSTANDING. A decent comprehension of the science behind the information I am looking at goes a long way to establishing the accuracy of that information. When it comes to very technical stuff, that exceeds my comprehension, then it should be validated by other independent experts in the same field (peer reviewed). Cal | |||
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"To be honest qualified or not I'm quite cynical & don't believe much, I do my own research if it's something I'm interested & figure it out on my own rather than relying on someone else. We have issues with one of our little ones she goes to the hospital quite a lot (nothing serious) but one specialist likes to talk.... Down I guess is the word, dums it down a lot and as she was speaking I found myself thinking this is a load of bollocks (I am qualified in the area) so I pointed it out and it didn't go down well. I think some people sometimes say stuff that's not quite accurate in a bid to dumb it down for who they assume don't understand which pisses me off, I'm not actually as thick as I look. I have no other examples - in life I trust actions over words. Mrs I've had this too, both with me and my girls, talked to like I was an imbecile until I corrected them that I knew exactly what they were talking about, I'm qualified in and have experience in a couple of fields so didn't appreciate it. Tinder It's so frustrating isn't it, I know we are in the same profession so totally relatable, I swear some get a little kick out of spouting utter bollocks ![]() I moved over and qualified with another dept, eldest got ill, rang gp told them what it was and what my profession was and that my supervisor had checked too and confirmed..... I got I'm sure its not you'll have to bring her in, I lost work hours and her school for them to look and go....oh it is here's a prescription, they could have done it all over the phone. Tinder | |||
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"Let's be clear. Nobody at the level I think we are discussing here 'does their own research'. Genuine primary research is hard and takes a lot of time, money and resources. Even people who think they have cracked the matrix are only drawing from information that already exists in the public domain. It's not genuine research in the true meaning of the word it's about choosing to believe the prevailing science, experts and professionals or a crackpot outlier who supports your confirmation bias." Completely agree. Looking up a few YouTube videos isn’t “doing your own research”. Research is something a lot more substantial | |||
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"It's a good point. Is truth binary or are there degrees of truth? Or even opposing truths? As for qualifications to tell truths, even 'experts' only give professional opinions based on their judgement. There are few 'absolutes' in science, medicine, law. My experience is to always question supposed truths and where possible cross-reference what you are being told." Back later. I'm still cross referencing this ... ![]() | |||
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"It's a good point. Is truth binary or are there degrees of truth? Or even opposing truths? As for qualifications to tell truths, even 'experts' only give professional opinions based on their judgement. There are few 'absolutes' in science, medicine, law. My experience is to always question supposed truths and where possible cross-reference what you are being told." There are no absolute truths about physical reality, even in science. Just probabilities of things to be true and not true. It just makes sense for us to take decisions based on information which has the highest probability to be true. | |||
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"This not, and I repeat NOT!!! Anything to do with fab. How do you know something you're being told is true? Like, that person over there is an expert in their field, well recognised, is educated in that subject, and has quite the following, may have written a book on the subject and everyone thinks that what they say is true and correct. What is it exactly that would have you believing something? Is it that the majority believe? That they have a qualification? They are well recognised/known? Etc What happens when there's two people with opposing views? But both hold the same factors as each other. How do you determine then yourself what to believe? And why? I'm not asking for advice, I have my view, and I'm asking you guys what you do. Because I'm curious inquisitive soul. " - I from as far back as I remember, have navigated life intuitively. I’ve never taken peoples word on anything. What works for them, won’t necessarily work for me. Also I cross-reference everything presented as ‘fact’, take what applies to me and move forward with that. People/organisations/authorities have agendas ![]() | |||
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"This not, and I repeat NOT!!! Anything to do with fab. How do you know something you're being told is true? Like, that person over there is an expert in their field, well recognised, is educated in that subject, and has quite the following, may have written a book on the subject and everyone thinks that what they say is true and correct. What is it exactly that would have you believing something? Is it that the majority believe? That they have a qualification? They are well recognised/known? Etc What happens when there's two people with opposing views? But both hold the same factors as each other. How do you determine then yourself what to believe? And why? I'm not asking for advice, I have my view, and I'm asking you guys what you do. Because I'm curious inquisitive soul. " I never believed those involved in covid every day on my tv screen. They were qualified to brainwash. University taught me to research but not everything is black and white on Google or books. If I look at all the facts, true facts then I form my own beliefs. | |||
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"This not, and I repeat NOT!!! Anything to do with fab. How do you know something you're being told is true? Like, that person over there is an expert in their field, well recognised, is educated in that subject, and has quite the following, may have written a book on the subject and everyone thinks that what they say is true and correct. What is it exactly that would have you believing something? Is it that the majority believe? That they have a qualification? They are well recognised/known? Etc What happens when there's two people with opposing views? But both hold the same factors as each other. How do you determine then yourself what to believe? And why? I'm not asking for advice, I have my view, and I'm asking you guys what you do. Because I'm curious inquisitive soul. " I put it to a regular panel if experts on Facebook… it’s so useful having a resource where there are experts in everything you could think of - and many are experts in so many different field from geo politics to international finance and virology to …. Everything else!! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I get that COVID is going to come up a lot in this thread and it's understandable. There's a lot of mistrust that's already been mentioned - brainwashing, opposing scientific views etc. The thing is there's not one person who is an expert of *all* of the various elements. The expert in modelling the spread of infection is not the same person who advises on how to stop the spread, who is also not the same person who develops a cure or who assesses the economic damage various paths might take. Furthermore, all of those experts who stood in front of us (Whitty for example) would then have their own subordinates and specialists who are each providing him with various bits of research for him to analyse and present to government and the public. Each of these experts in their field may well have had a view on the other aspects of the pandemic (as did we all I'm sure) but they wouldn't stand on the TV and give their personal opinions on the matter. I'm no fan of Johnson but his position was an unenviable one as he had to makes decisions based upon the evidence presented to him by all the above advisers along with how his polling might look given a certain path. Incompetence within government and political pressure might be a boring explanation for how things went 'wrong' but it's a more realistic one than some of the more fanciful conspiracy theories that were floating around. The ongoing inquiry shows how much disagreement there was between those involved at the sharp end so it's ludicrous to take a position of not trusting *anyone* given that there wasn't a hivemind collective trying to brainwash us all to believe a certain thing. The scientists presented the facts of the matter and then it was down to the politicians to decide which path to take. Without doubt it was all done on the hop but, from the science side at least, people were acting in good faith and with the limited evidence they had available. They were certainly a lot better equipped to know what to do and advise than Joe Public sat at home armed with Wikipedia and YouTube 'doing their own research'. " I'd really prefer it if COVID was kept to the virus forum and not used as a subject in this particular thread I think it would derail the thread. | |||
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"It's a good point. Is truth binary or are there degrees of truth? Or even opposing truths? As for qualifications to tell truths, even 'experts' only give professional opinions based on their judgement. There are few 'absolutes' in science, medicine, law. My experience is to always question supposed truths and where possible cross-reference what you are being told." Some situations are clearcut, others are more nuanced. When an “expert” community is leaning toward a particular answer but there are dissenting professional voices, I tend to look at those outliers for clues. Eg do they have a good track record of being right, or do they always seem to be the dissenting voice and may just be looking to draw attention / headlines / clicks? | |||
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