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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What makes adulting scary?

I'll start

Cost of living.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

When the good neighbours move out and the fear of who comes next hits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your joints creak like an old door

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Responsibility.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"When the good neighbours move out and the fear of who comes next hits "

Having this RIGHT NOW...

2 hot women moving out and a FAMILY moving in. Fffsss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being The Adult

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Being responsible for small humans. Never forgotten the terror of that first night home with my baby. Holy fuck, I've got to figure this out by myself!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being in charge of keeping other humans alive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Taxes

Elections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having to decide what other people eat every single god dam night!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Being responsible for small humans. Never forgotten the terror of that first night home with my baby. Holy fuck, I've got to figure this out by myself!

Mrs TMN x"

I can remember the fear of the drive back home after my eldest was born. I don't think I've felt so clueless in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being responsible for small humans. Never forgotten the terror of that first night home with my baby. Holy fuck, I've got to figure this out by myself!

Mrs TMN x"
So much this! I cried putting him into his cot the first time - it all looked so wrong and overwhelming

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas

"Taxes

Elections

If I were a parent I'd say the keeping mini humans alive. Otherwise I agree with these!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being responsible for small humans. Never forgotten the terror of that first night home with my baby. Holy fuck, I've got to figure this out by myself!

Mrs TMN x"

They just hand you the baby and you’re like, what you’re not even going to tell me what to do with it?! Alrighty then

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Also becoming responsible for elderly members of family, and having to make life/death decisions on their behalf.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Putting food in cubs' mouths.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Being responsible for small humans. Never forgotten the terror of that first night home with my baby. Holy fuck, I've got to figure this out by myself!

Mrs TMN x

They just hand you the baby and you’re like, what you’re not even going to tell me what to do with it?! Alrighty then

I had to get them to show me how to change a n*ppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having to be responsible all the time when you just want to scream and have food fights can be scary too (I still scream and have food fights though!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Death. Bad people. And realising the importance of money.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Having to check what that noise was downstairs in the middle of the night

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Ghouls and goblins

Also the declining quality of health and social care, due to the privatisation of our infrastructure and public services, since the neoliberal experiment began in the 80s.

But mostly Ghouls and Goblins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When their neighbours know my name, from the shouting the night before.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Responsibilities.

Keeping other humans alive.

Other adults.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other people assuming you are an adult..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being responsible for small humans. Never forgotten the terror of that first night home with my baby. Holy fuck, I've got to figure this out by myself!

Mrs TMN x

They just hand you the baby and you’re like, what you’re not even going to tell me what to do with it?! Alrighty then

I had to get them to show me how to change a n*ppy

I was to embarrassed to ask anything so I just figured it out whilst internally panicking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Photos of people's unmentionable's.

In some cases pictures of people.

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By *eardedbloke300Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Everything falling apart

My car, the central heating, my back/knees, the sofa.

That and pigs. Pigs scare me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being responsible for small humans. Never forgotten the terror of that first night home with my baby. Holy fuck, I've got to figure this out by myself!

Mrs TMN x

They just hand you the baby and you’re like, what you’re not even going to tell me what to do with it?! Alrighty then

I had to get them to show me how to change a n*ppy

I was to embarrassed to ask anything so I just figured it out whilst internally panicking

You should have you tubed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being responsible for small humans. Never forgotten the terror of that first night home with my baby. Holy fuck, I've got to figure this out by myself!

Mrs TMN x

They just hand you the baby and you’re like, what you’re not even going to tell me what to do with it?! Alrighty then

I had to get them to show me how to change a n*ppy

I was to embarrassed to ask anything so I just figured it out whilst internally panicking

You should have you tubed it."

Google was my best friend for a longggg time

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Being responsible for small humans. Never forgotten the terror of that first night home with my baby. Holy fuck, I've got to figure this out by myself!

Mrs TMN x

They just hand you the baby and you’re like, what you’re not even going to tell me what to do with it?! Alrighty then

I had to get them to show me how to change a n*ppy

I was to embarrassed to ask anything so I just figured it out whilst internally panicking

That's what grandparents are for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The state of my rickety old house.

The state of my rickety old car.

The state of my rickety old body.

Figuring out an Autistic rickety young human.

Affording basics.

I genuinely fuckin hate adulting at the moment. It’s exhausting and stressful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gas and electricity bill

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Deciding what to cook for dinner, and having to cook it.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Waking up every morning... What fresh hell will today bring?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Having to check what that noise was downstairs in the middle of the night"

It's always one of the cats.

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By *ella chowMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Seeing loved one's leave us and unable to see or talk to them anymore.

Aswell as growing from a young man without a care in the world

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing really, shit happens you deal with it. Correct me if I’m wrong but I thought that was what an adult did.

The mr

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