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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

1-20?

20-40?

40-60?

60-80?

80-100?

100+?

1-20 for me.

I had long relationships mostly and lost my virginity quite late.

Used to have loads of sex, but mostly with the same women.

Often had sex with my ex girlfriends.

Never burned bridges, but I think I'm cursed lately.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Virgin here

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Um.

Many.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t like the idea of this being in the past tense. It’s not over! Don’t lose hope like that. Your number will keep rising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1-20.

Way less than 20 though.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I'm probably just over 20 now...

My whore side came out a little later in life. Plus being ugly helps too.

No STIs baby!

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Virgin here "

So after all I didn't lose mine too late then?

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

So far, it is only 30

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!"

"in a row?"

Anyway, less than 20

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Don't really know, more than 5 less than 50?

Mrs

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Um.

Many."

Can't or don't want to put an estimated number on it?

I mean it's a swinger / hookup site, so no judging.

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By *jj2012Man
over a year ago

Barry

Maybe you should include a few more options after a 100 plus

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Some.

I've never counted.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Closer to 1 than 20.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I don’t like the idea of this being in the past tense. It’s not over! Don’t lose hope like that. Your number will keep rising."

I didn't mean it as whinging.

I know I'm just having a dry run.

Longest in my life, but far from give it up.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Closer to 1 than 20. "

0?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Some.

I've never counted."

You're not a real shagger!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Some.

I've never counted.

You're not a real shagger! "

Practically a nun.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"So far, it is only 30 "

So I don't really need 6 packs then?

I mean I had 4 packs only when I trained like Arnie, so...

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Virgin here

So after all I didn't lose mine too late then?"

Save it for that special someone

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


""My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!"

"in a row?"

Anyway, less than 20"

I guess she was into oral then.

Impressive!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Um.

Many.

Can't or don't want to put an estimated number on it?

I mean it's a swinger / hookup site, so no judging.

"

I didn't count the first night I lost my virginity at an orgy, didn't seem any point counting since.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


""My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!"

"in a row?"

Anyway, less than 20"

Sucking doesn't count. Well, that's what my priest told me anyway

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

Errr this year?

Last year?

Total?

It is a swingers site. Who cares ?

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Maybe you should include a few more options after a 100 plus "

Errr.... I think you don't really count / remember over 100+.

I know all of their full names except 2.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

20 something depending on definitions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 1000 (between us)

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


""My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!"

"in a row?""

Bless you for that reference Kai.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Um.

Many.

Can't or don't want to put an estimated number on it?

I mean it's a swinger / hookup site, so no judging.

I didn't count the first night I lost my virginity at an orgy, didn't seem any point counting since."

Did you get into swinging since or it messed with your head a little bit?

I ment have you ever been a good / average girl?

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By *jj2012Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Maybe you should include a few more options after a 100 plus

Errr.... I think you don't really count / remember over 100+.

I know all of their full names except 2.

"

Definitely don't remember there names unless they were a regular thing...and 2 seasons in Magaluff working couldn't even remember there faces the day after let alone a name

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Less than 1000 (between us)"

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Over 200, and I can remember every scenario in which I was involved with them, however sadly I can only remember very few of their names.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Over 200, and I can remember every scenario in which I was involved with them, however sadly I can only remember very few of their names. "

I was expecting some high numbers.

It's a swinger site after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um.

Many.

Can't or don't want to put an estimated number on it?

I mean it's a swinger / hookup site, so no judging.

I didn't count the first night I lost my virginity at an orgy, didn't seem any point counting since.

Did you get into swinging since or it messed with your head a little bit?

I ment have you ever been a good / average girl?"

???

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.


"So far, it is only 30

So I don't really need 6 packs then?

I mean I had 4 packs only when I trained like Arnie, so..."
No, you dont need that, having had 4 packs is good, when training like arnold too

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


""My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!"

"in a row?"

Bless you for that reference Kai. "

Text definitely doesn't do it justice though

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Text definitely doesn't do it justice though "

Sometimes only a gif will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 1 but less than 20

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Before i joined this site i could easily count and it was 12. Now I've lost count but guestimate in the 40 to 60 range. This site is baaaad. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure - somewhere between 50 and 100?

Not gonna lie, that count is inflated by paid encounters mostly in my 20s when I first moved to London, had money to burn in my pocket and struggled socially and was quite lonely. It scratched an itch at the time.

Since I turned 40? 15-20 probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all of them.....yet.

Somewhere in the double figures.

And not enough yet.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Never really kept a track record but either way no matter how many times you've done it say with one person technically that's still once until you've done it with someone else

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Um.

Many.

Can't or don't want to put an estimated number on it?

I mean it's a swinger / hookup site, so no judging.

I didn't count the first night I lost my virginity at an orgy, didn't seem any point counting since.

Did you get into swinging since or it messed with your head a little bit?

I ment have you ever been a good / average girl?

???"

I meant most people falling in love...etc.

I know girls raised different than boys..etc.

I meant it this way, not being rude.

Sorry, if I used the wrong words.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Not all of them.....yet.

Somewhere in the double figures.

And not enough yet.

"

How will you know when it's enough?

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London


"1-20?

20-40?

40-60?

60-80?

80-100?

100+?

1-20 for me.

I had long relationships mostly and lost my virginity quite late.

Used to have loads of sex, but mostly with the same women.

Often had sex with my ex girlfriends.

Never burned bridges, but I think I'm cursed lately.

"

Easily 100+

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Im with My third sexual long term partner now.

I do soft swing with anyone else Im into...BDSM with a few friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many did I shag.. Never divulges sex life to an stranger OP.

who we had sex with is insignificant it is who we have sex with now haha.. Still never tells forums

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

What's the capacity of Wembley stadium??

About that many!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both under 20.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"What's the capacity of Wembley stadium??

About that many!!"

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Both under 20."

That made me feel better I guess.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"How many did I shag.. Never divulges sex life to an stranger OP.

who we had sex with is insignificant it is who we have sex with now haha.. Still never tells forums "

I don't have any secrets here.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"How many did I shag.. Never divulges sex life to an stranger OP.

who we had sex with is insignificant it is who we have sex with now haha.. Still never tells forums

I don't have any secrets here."

I wish you luck.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've never actually counted, but 100+

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"How many did I shag.. Never divulges sex life to an stranger OP.

who we had sex with is insignificant it is who we have sex with now haha.. Still never tells forums

I don't have any secrets here.

I wish you luck. "

I meant no secrets about myself sexually.

You will never know what I've done last Halloween.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"How many did I shag.. Never divulges sex life to an stranger OP.

who we had sex with is insignificant it is who we have sex with now haha.. Still never tells forums

I don't have any secrets here.

I wish you luck.

I meant no secrets about myself sexually.

You will never know what I've done last Halloween.

"

Ooh mystique...

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"How many did I shag.. Never divulges sex life to an stranger OP.

who we had sex with is insignificant it is who we have sex with now haha.. Still never tells forums

I don't have any secrets here.

I wish you luck.

I meant no secrets about myself sexually.

You will never know what I've done last Halloween.

Ooh mystique... "

It was a movie reference...

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"How many did I shag.. Never divulges sex life to an stranger OP.

who we had sex with is insignificant it is who we have sex with now haha.. Still never tells forums

I don't have any secrets here.

I wish you luck.

I meant no secrets about myself sexually.

You will never know what I've done last Halloween.

Ooh mystique...

It was a movie reference... "

Damn I thought I'd scored then!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Um.

Many.

Can't or don't want to put an estimated number on it?

I mean it's a swinger / hookup site, so no judging.

I didn't count the first night I lost my virginity at an orgy, didn't seem any point counting since.

Did you get into swinging since or it messed with your head a little bit?

I ment have you ever been a good / average girl?"

... I don't consider myself not good. And I've never aspired to be average.

Sex has always been fun for me. I've had normal monogamous long term relationships if that's what you mean.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Um.

Many.

Can't or don't want to put an estimated number on it?

I mean it's a swinger / hookup site, so no judging.

I didn't count the first night I lost my virginity at an orgy, didn't seem any point counting since.

Did you get into swinging since or it messed with your head a little bit?

I ment have you ever been a good / average girl?

... I don't consider myself not good. And I've never aspired to be average.

Sex has always been fun for me. I've had normal monogamous long term relationships if that's what you mean."

Yes, that's exactly what I meant.

Sorry, if it came through different.

Most people don't start with an experience like yours. So I was interested how it changed you in any way.

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

...what like, today?

I'll report back later.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Um.

Many.

Can't or don't want to put an estimated number on it?

I mean it's a swinger / hookup site, so no judging.

I didn't count the first night I lost my virginity at an orgy, didn't seem any point counting since.

Did you get into swinging since or it messed with your head a little bit?

I ment have you ever been a good / average girl?

... I don't consider myself not good. And I've never aspired to be average.

Sex has always been fun for me. I've had normal monogamous long term relationships if that's what you mean.

Yes, that's exactly what I meant.

Sorry, if it came through different.

Most people don't start with an experience like yours. So I was interested how it changed you in any way.

"

Is sex life changing in general?

It's fun and all. But why would that have altered the course of my life?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Um.

Many.

Can't or don't want to put an estimated number on it?

I mean it's a swinger / hookup site, so no judging.

I didn't count the first night I lost my virginity at an orgy, didn't seem any point counting since.

Did you get into swinging since or it messed with your head a little bit?

I ment have you ever been a good / average girl?

... I don't consider myself not good. And I've never aspired to be average.

Sex has always been fun for me. I've had normal monogamous long term relationships if that's what you mean.

Yes, that's exactly what I meant.

Sorry, if it came through different.

Most people don't start with an experience like yours. So I was interested how it changed you in any way.

Is sex life changing in general?

It's fun and all. But why would that have altered the course of my life?"

I thought my first one was a goddess, until I hooked up with an older woman.

She was a totally different world.

She's kind of the reason I am sexually who I am today.

If I'd have similar girls after the first one, then I might be less kinky or even shy.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Are we talking “penis in the vag” sex?

I’d like to be exact with my numbers please.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Are we talking “penis in the vag” sex?

I’d like to be exact with my numbers please."

If you had oral only meet, then I'd say that counts.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

PIV - 4

But more than that because of oral and because I'm bi. So it depends on definitions.

They're only numbers Michael

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count? "

Body count is about to become compulsory on Fab profiles.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"Are we talking “penis in the vag” sex?

I’d like to be exact with my numbers please.

If you had oral only meet, then I'd say that counts.

"

Oh **gulps**

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"PIV - 4

But more than that because of oral and because I'm bi. So it depends on definitions.

They're only numbers Michael

J

"

Of course they are just numbers.

Anyone can keep it private.

I promise I have nothing to do with the Sydney university.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I think I'm at the top end of 20-40. The vast majority of those have been since we started swinging. I wasn't overly promiscuous in my youth unfortunately

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Are we talking “penis in the vag” sex?

I’d like to be exact with my numbers please.

If you had oral only meet, then I'd say that counts.

Oh **gulps**"

Sounds you're having one right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue and aren't going to try add up lol

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

More than Mother Theresa... less than Jenna Jameson

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

More oral then anal but plenty ..

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Do dwarfs count as 1/2 or 1/3 ?

The mr

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

You probably need to add another zero

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"I thought my first one was a goddess, until I hooked up with an older woman.

She was a totally different world.

She's kind of the reason I am sexually who I am today.

If I'd have similar girls after the first one, then I might be less kinky or even shy."

If your first one hadn't been a goddess and the whole situation was uninspiring, would you have bothered with the older woman at all?

If the older woman had been more vanilla, would you have never ever met anyone else to explore with?

Generally, I think people end up where they were going to end up eventually anyway.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"More than Mother Theresa... less than Jenna Jameson "

I like that answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count? "

Exactly this op

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
over a year ago

Harwich

I am scratching my head as to where I heard this..

I guess it may have been in the 80's where the Aids scare had peaked with many deaths, not just in gay circles but spreading into the unlikeliest of bedrooms.

The message to barebackers was; "When you have unprotected sex with a stranger you are sleeping with all their sexual partners and the partners partners and their.... "

So, with your question in mind I'm sure most will understand just where I am coming from.

It doesn't bear thing about.. by the way, any mathematicians in the room ?

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Tried to keep count but gave up a while ago, so no idea really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a virgin

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"I'm a virgin "

I stand with Gordo in our celibacy

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Are we talking “penis in the vag” sex?

I’d like to be exact with my numbers please.

If you had oral only meet, then I'd say that counts.

"

Giving or receiving, precisely?

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Up until I was about 50 only one my wife but then after several years of no sex I slipped off the rails quite badly

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

tamworth

We're both less than 10.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

(Mr)

Stopped counting after 200 sometime back in the early 2000s

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I thought my first one was a goddess, until I hooked up with an older woman.

She was a totally different world.

She's kind of the reason I am sexually who I am today.

If I'd have similar girls after the first one, then I might be less kinky or even shy.

If your first one hadn't been a goddess and the whole situation was uninspiring, would you have bothered with the older woman at all?

If the older woman had been more vanilla, would you have never ever met anyone else to explore with?

Generally, I think people end up where they were going to end up eventually anyway."

*****

She knocked up my confidence and I did hers too.

We were sexually compatible and similar kink level.

She was divorced 3 times.

Had every size of cocks.

Cumming wasn't easy for her, so I needed to take my time.

Mostly succeeded, but sometimes she told me after an hour, it won't happen today.

100% honest communication both way.

I guess it changed how I am (was) in sex. Unselfish and putting the other on the same or higher level than my needs.

I'm not trying to sell myself here.

I had the balls to go and get an older woman in my early 20's.

Most guys don't that,but most want it.

She definitely changed me in more than 1 thing.

Otherwise I might be just a guy likes missionary.

We met kind of accidentally through a mutual friend.

It was 22 years age gap.

Not sure it's meant to happen, but it's 1 of the 2 things I'll never regret.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Up until I was about 50 only one my wife but then after several years of no sex I slipped off the rails quite badly"

Kind of made the end sound like it's a bad thing.

Is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Body count is about to become compulsory on Fab profiles. "

I'm leaving then

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Body count is about to become compulsory on Fab profiles.

I'm leaving then "

Err... Why?

Sorry, didn't get it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From time to time I do a count and then quickly push it all out of my head. That way I can truly always say I don't know.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"From time to time I do a count and then quickly push it all out of my head. That way I can truly always say I don't know.

"

That's one way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Body count is about to become compulsory on Fab profiles.

I'm leaving then

Err... Why?

Sorry, didn't get it..."

Ha because someone said body count will ge compulsory on fab profiles.

My response was just tongue in cheek about leaving.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Body count is about to become compulsory on Fab profiles.

I'm leaving then

Err... Why?

Sorry, didn't get it...

Ha because someone said body count will ge compulsory on fab profiles.

My response was just tongue in cheek about leaving. "

oh, I see.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Oh dear...heaven knows.

Do people actually count?

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By *ighting 50Man
over a year ago

Retford

Well I agree its never over

My number is still hopefully going up

Just nowhere near as fast now

Alot like me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Body count is about to become compulsory on Fab profiles. "

I better go and dig up the patio then

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"1-20?

20-40?

40-60?

60-80?

80-100?

100+?

1-20 for me.

I had long relationships mostly and lost my virginity quite late.

Used to have loads of sex, but mostly with the same women.

Often had sex with my ex girlfriends.

Never burned bridges, but I think I'm cursed lately.

"

Read this initially as how many during each age bracket of your life . I was thinking hope some people 80 to 100 years old answer

I’ve got no idea overall but this year 20-40 if you including oral only but still 2 months to go…practice makes perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Exactly this op"

So why both comment on a thread that asks. I've never understood why people do this, surely it's easier to ignore the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a pokey bum bj count as full sex?

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Oh dear...heaven knows.

Do people actually count?

"

Some does, some doesn't...

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants


"1-20?

20-40?

40-60?

60-80?

80-100?

100+?

1-20 for me.

I had long relationships mostly and lost my virginity quite late.

Used to have loads of sex, but mostly with the same women.

Often had sex with my ex girlfriends.

Never burned bridges, but I think I'm cursed lately.

"

*checks spreadsheet.....

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

You can definitely put me in the quality over quantity bracket.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Body count is about to become compulsory on Fab profiles. "

Well if it's Fab only, that's ok

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Does a pokey bum bj count as full sex?"

Absolutely!

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Exactly this op

So why both comment on a thread that asks. I've never understood why people do this, surely it's easier to ignore the thread "

Because it's an opinion and we can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a pokey bum bj count as full sex?

Absolutely!

"

Ok, I'm still 0 then.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

All of them.

All the people.

All the time.

If you're on your phone reading this, I'm having sex via your fingers on the screen.

If you're on a laptop, I'm having sex via your keyboard.

I am all the sex.

All the time.

Wooooooo o o o o...!

Ghost sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of them.

All the people.

All the time.

If you're on your phone reading this, I'm having sex via your fingers on the screen.

If you're on a laptop, I'm having sex via your keyboard.

I am all the sex.

All the time.

Wooooooo o o o o...!

Ghost sex...

"
no wonder my fingers are sticky. Thanks for sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100+

Used to count when i was younger then i just lost track lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Exactly this op

So why both comment on a thread that asks. I've never understood why people do this, surely it's easier to ignore the thread

Because it's an opinion and we can."

The op didnt ask for you opinion about sharing how many partners youve had they asked for peoples numbers if you dont want to share then just dont comment

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Does a pokey bum bj count as full sex?

Absolutely!

Ok, I'm still 0 then."

I can bend the rules.

You can count yourself, if you can do that to yourself.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"All of them.

All the people.

All the time.

If you're on your phone reading this, I'm having sex via your fingers on the screen.

If you're on a laptop, I'm having sex via your keyboard.

I am all the sex.

All the time.

Wooooooo o o o o...!

Ghost sex...

"

***

So "Sex" is your middle name?

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Exactly this op

So why both comment on a thread that asks. I've never understood why people do this, surely it's easier to ignore the thread

Because it's an opinion and we can.

The op didnt ask for you opinion about sharing how many partners youve had they asked for peoples numbers if you dont want to share then just dont comment"

I tried to be really careful with the options to be fair.

Not picking a number is an option...

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By *nkednkinkyMan
over a year ago

Fraserburgh

In the 150 range stopped counting after 100.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't keep count. Not sure why it really matters

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I don't keep count. Not sure why it really matters "

It doesn't matter.

Thanks for contributing to the thread.

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

Me/mr, my current wife and ex before that

Mrs, her ex, several boyfriends and when i was a propery cuck, possibly about 60/70 guys and we only went back to the same guy on 2 occasions as mrs was hinting a lot - both were extremely fit and 9/10 inches and weightlifters and when i was not there, they picked my wife up to fuck her properly, those were the days

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Omg so many I've lost count.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Exactly this op

So why both comment on a thread that asks. I've never understood why people do this, surely it's easier to ignore the thread

Because it's an opinion and we can.

The op didnt ask for you opinion about sharing how many partners youve had they asked for peoples numbers if you dont want to share then just dont comment"

I don't need someone telling me what I can and can't do thanks

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Me/mr, my current wife and ex before that

Mrs, her ex, several boyfriends and when i was a propery cuck, possibly about 60/70 guys and we only went back to the same guy on 2 occasions as mrs was hinting a lot - both were extremely fit and 9/10 inches and weightlifters and when i was not there, they picked my wife up to fuck her properly, those were the days "

Specify properly with 9-10 inches.

Was it what I think it was?

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Exactly this op

So why both comment on a thread that asks. I've never understood why people do this, surely it's easier to ignore the thread

Because it's an opinion and we can.

The op didnt ask for you opinion about sharing how many partners youve had they asked for peoples numbers if you dont want to share then just dont comment"
We can all comment surely? Even if we disagree with whats being asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1-20?

20-40?

40-60?

60-80?

80-100?

100+?

1-20 for me.

I had long relationships mostly and lost my virginity quite late.

Used to have loads of sex, but mostly with the same women.

Often had sex with my ex girlfriends.

Never burned bridges, but I think I'm cursed lately.

"

Does having it in your dreams count??

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Freedom of speech here, unless the moderator doesn't think so.

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By *amannaCouple
over a year ago

tring

Probably too many

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"1-20?

20-40?

40-60?

60-80?

80-100?

100+?

1-20 for me.

I had long relationships mostly and lost my virginity quite late.

Used to have loads of sex, but mostly with the same women.

Often had sex with my ex girlfriends.

Never burned bridges, but I think I'm cursed lately.

Does having it in your dreams count?? "

Nope!

3000000-5000000 would be my estimated number.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

1-20 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does a pokey bum bj count as full sex?

Absolutely!

Ok, I'm still 0 then.

I can bend the rules.

You can count yourself, if you can do that to yourself.

"

I'll get the camcorder set up and upload it tonight.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Does a pokey bum bj count as full sex?

Absolutely!

Ok, I'm still 0 then.

I can bend the rules.

You can count yourself, if you can do that to yourself.

I'll get the camcorder set up and upload it tonight."

You would get a few Fabs for that video for your skills for sure.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Only one. It was truly memorable.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Only one. It was truly memorable. "

That lucky one...

Happy for him...

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Does it really matter how man? There seems to be a lot of these posts started by guys of late. It's no one's business what others do sex wise. Yes we are on a swingers site but these questions I find a bit to probing.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Does it really matter how man? There seems to be a lot of these posts started by guys of late. It's no one's business what others do sex wise. Yes we are on a swingers site but these questions I find a bit to probing."

No, it doesn't matter.

I'm sorry it bothers you.

Thanks for posting.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

1 - 20 before FAB

Possibly just into 20 - 40 now.

C is the same but she scores more at times as she has sex with men and women

K

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By *lashyMan
over a year ago

a lather

Me 1 - 20

Wife 100+

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I am somewhere on that scale

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Only one. It was truly memorable.

That lucky one...

Happy for him...

"

Right? He's so lucky. The only person I'll ever have sex with. Have had. Thank you for the chance to participate in this survey OP, it means a lot.

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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Ermmm lost count

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I’ve been very busy since I turned 30, and hoping to stay busy for a long time to come

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Only one. It was truly memorable.

That lucky one...

Happy for him...

Right? He's so lucky. The only person I'll ever have sex with. Have had. Thank you for the chance to participate in this survey OP, it means a lot. "

Thank you for revealing the truth.

You've been like before in my eyes, but now you are an almost innocent .

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

To me are not to many to some may would be an obscene number the people i have sex with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Exactly this op

So why both comment on a thread that asks. I've never understood why people do this, surely it's easier to ignore the thread

Because it's an opinion and we can.

The op didnt ask for you opinion about sharing how many partners youve had they asked for peoples numbers if you dont want to share then just dont commentWe can all comment surely? Even if we disagree with whats being asked. "

Obviously just not sure why people who arent interested in the OPs post and what they were asking would want to comment

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"It's really nobody's business but mine. I'm not even sure why people need to keep count?

Exactly this op

So why both comment on a thread that asks. I've never understood why people do this, surely it's easier to ignore the thread

Because it's an opinion and we can.

The op didnt ask for you opinion about sharing how many partners youve had they asked for peoples numbers if you dont want to share then just dont commentWe can all comment surely? Even if we disagree with whats being asked.

Obviously just not sure why people who arent interested in the OPs post and what they were asking would want to comment "

I'm not exactly sure, but they have the right to express they opinion. So I just apologize and thank them.

They are satisfied and no drama.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Luke: 20-30 I think

Hannah: I think it's six men and three women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 100 but aiming for it!

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

The last time I knew was when I was 18.

It was 16 girls then.

I'm now 72.

I literally have no idea.

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

16 is slightly more than I had in total.

I was hoping to change that here, but doesn't look like it's happening anytime soon.

Just hanging out on the forum until my time has come.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

More than I can count on one hand.

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By *akequeen90Couple
over a year ago

Sydney

We're both virgins

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"More than I can count on one hand. "

Good one

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"We're both virgins"

So am I

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

What is “the sex”?

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"What is “the sex”? "

I have some distant memories...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This week? It's only Tuesday.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"What is “the sex”?

I have some distant memories..."

Oh that’s more than me. I’m a nun

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"This week? It's only Tuesday. "
.

You can post on Sunday night then?

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"What is “the sex”?

I have some distant memories...

Oh that’s more than me. I’m a nun "

Sorry sister

Please don't punish me.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"What is “the sex”?

I have some distant memories...

Oh that’s more than me. I’m a nun

Sorry sister

Please don't punish me."

Again?

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By *hunky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"What is “the sex”?

I have some distant memories...

Oh that’s more than me. I’m a nun

Sorry sister

Please don't punish me.

Again? "

I couldn't walk next morning.

Bowel movements just getting back to normal.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

…

Just over 20, but 0 in the last two years

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By *929Man
over a year ago

northumberland

Less that 20, none for ages though

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Erm I’m well practised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually stopped counting after 1

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By *ndianLuxCouple
over a year ago

West midlands

Mrs 40-60

Hubby 20-30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can still name them all. (In my head)

Not looking to make the list any longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What was that saying, if a guy tells you his body count, divide it by 4. If a girl tells you hers, multiply it by 4?

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By *inacolada3Couple
over a year ago

kettering

This week or this year ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was that saying, if a guy tells you his body count, divide it by 4. If a girl tells you hers, multiply it by 4?

"

I heard it was 3

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By *ark963Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Just 2 second one wife sill with her 40 years on

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By *aidbacklover2021Man
over a year ago

perth

I stopped counting after 200

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was that saying, if a guy tells you his body count, divide it by 4. If a girl tells you hers, multiply it by 4?

I heard it was 3 "

Whatever it is, 3 or 4 times 0 is still the same number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was that saying, if a guy tells you his body count, divide it by 4. If a girl tells you hers, multiply it by 4?

I heard it was 3

Whatever it is, 3 or 4 times 0 is still the same number "

That’s bad maths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What was that saying, if a guy tells you his body count, divide it by 4. If a girl tells you hers, multiply it by 4?

I heard it was 3

Whatever it is, 3 or 4 times 0 is still the same number

That’s bad maths "

You're right *facepalm* I should've said zero divided by 3 or zero divided by 4

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