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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

Fairly new to this site and know men to women ratio is probably huge but seems so hard to get people looking at profile I'd like to think I'm not a bad looking guy so tips please on what I'm doing wrong or if my profile needs a bit more work thanks in advance

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Don’t sweat it. Most people use stealth mode so you wouldn’t know anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums

There's a search function that you can use to see how many threads there are for newbie advice.

It's a tad early (3 weeks) to be asking for profile advice

And just have no expectations

Good luck

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry

Still working site out and on regular dating sites never had a problem so was thinking do I need to put a bit more work into my profile or di need to put better pictures on here lol but thanks for replying

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Are you asking for profile advice?

You definitely need to know the difference between MMF and MFM

K

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Still working site out and on regular dating sites never had a problem so was thinking do I need to put a bit more work into my profile or di need to put better pictures on here lol but thanks for replying "

If you have more success on dating sites, stick to dating sites

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By *mber SkiesWoman
over a year ago

Cwmderi

OP 3 weeks on here as a single guy is nothing to worry over your pics look good & your profile it just takes a bit of time

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Still working site out and on regular dating sites never had a problem so was thinking do I need to put a bit more work into my profile or di need to put better pictures on here lol but thanks for replying

If you have more success on dating sites, stick to dating sites "

Yeah dating sites are boring though and predictable I don't want to spend days talking about there past relationships like I'm Graham off Jeremy Kyle to meet up for boring sex I want to meet people who want to have fun and like minded lol

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Still working site out and on regular dating sites never had a problem so was thinking do I need to put a bit more work into my profile or di need to put better pictures on here lol but thanks for replying

If you have more success on dating sites, stick to dating sites

Yeah dating sites are boring though and predictable I don't want to spend days talking about there past relationships like I'm Graham off Jeremy Kyle to meet up for boring sex I want to meet people who want to have fun and like minded lol"

I thought Tinder was still used for more casual meetings ?

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"OP 3 weeks on here as a single guy is nothing to worry over your pics look good & your profile it just takes a bit of time "

Thanks for taking time to reply and appreciate your words I'm probably running before I can walk on here but grateful for the advice off people who've been on here a while

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Are you asking for profile advice?

You definitely need to know the difference between MMF and MFM

K"

probably need to know the meanings of alot of the abbreviations on here or ill get myself into some awkward situations lol ...

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By *omethingGood2023Man
over a year ago

cheshire

My opinion....

Unfiltered photos would be better.

Get rid of "fulfil my needs" and change the previous bit to "mutual fun"

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Still working site out and on regular dating sites never had a problem so was thinking do I need to put a bit more work into my profile or di need to put better pictures on here lol but thanks for replying "

Better unfiltered photos.

And as for your status, use the timer on your camera or just flip the photo in editor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to Fab. You're doing ok with your profile - already pics and text which is more than many guys

It takes time to get into the swing of it all.

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Still working site out and on regular dating sites never had a problem so was thinking do I need to put a bit more work into my profile or di need to put better pictures on here lol but thanks for replying

Better unfiltered photos.

And as for your status, use the timer on your camera or just flip the photo in editor "

I got there in the end and verified, yeah I think its just become the norm taking a pic on snap chat quickly sharing to all your social media but definitely get what your saying

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Welcome to Fab. You're doing ok with your profile - already pics and text which is more than many guys

It takes time to get into the swing of it all. "

Thanks and yeah o don't see the point of when people don't have a picture or a bit about what there looking for, intrests ect just a waste of time if you don't know who your talking too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome to Fab. You're doing ok with your profile - already pics and text which is more than many guys

It takes time to get into the swing of it all.

Thanks and yeah o don't see the point of when people don't have a picture or a bit about what there looking for, intrests ect just a waste of time if you don't know who your talking too lol"

Because of the kind of site it is, many people are nervous of showing their face. But no pics doesn't work that well!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Are you asking for profile advice?

You definitely need to know the difference between MMF and MFM

K probably need to know the meanings of alot of the abbreviations on here or ill get myself into some awkward situations lol ... "

I say that because you say in your profile that you are straight but then go onto to say you’ve had MMF encounters.

That’s why it’s very important to know the difference between MMF and MFM. Search engine is your friend

Your Snapchat filters make you look very different - so you aren’t going to attract (m)any people with them.

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Are you asking for profile advice?

You definitely need to know the difference between MMF and MFM

K probably need to know the meanings of alot of the abbreviations on here or ill get myself into some awkward situations lol ...

I say that because you say in your profile that you are straight but then go onto to say you’ve had MMF encounters.

That’s why it’s very important to know the difference between MMF and MFM. Search engine is your friend

Your Snapchat filters make you look very different - so you aren’t going to attract (m)any people with them.

"

So I've had encounters with male/female couples but it's always been pn the bacis that there's no male on male action and purely been female getting my attention if that makes sense

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Are you asking for profile advice?

You definitely need to know the difference between MMF and MFM

K probably need to know the meanings of alot of the abbreviations on here or ill get myself into some awkward situations lol ...

I say that because you say in your profile that you are straight but then go onto to say you’ve had MMF encounters.

That’s why it’s very important to know the difference between MMF and MFM. Search engine is your friend

Your Snapchat filters make you look very different - so you aren’t going to attract (m)any people with them.

So I've had encounters with male/female couples but it's always been pn the bacis that there's no male on male action and purely been female getting my attention if that makes sense "

Yeah, so that would be MFM - MMF is two bi guys who play together as well as the woman - like I said there’s a difference

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

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By *4bimMan
over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Do not worry.

In a few weeks you'll see loads of tinsel around cocks and dodge Christmas jumpers with sex positions on it just to get likes

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Are you asking for profile advice?

You definitely need to know the difference between MMF and MFM

K probably need to know the meanings of alot of the abbreviations on here or ill get myself into some awkward situations lol ...

I say that because you say in your profile that you are straight but then go onto to say you’ve had MMF encounters.

That’s why it’s very important to know the difference between MMF and MFM. Search engine is your friend

Your Snapchat filters make you look very different - so you aren’t going to attract (m)any people with them.

So I've had encounters with male/female couples but it's always been pn the bacis that there's no male on male action and purely been female getting my attention if that makes sense

Yeah, so that would be MFM - MMF is two bi guys who play together as well as the woman - like I said there’s a difference "

That's type of advice I need and appreciate it it's definitely a learning curve and the forum seems the best place to start as a newbie

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Do not worry.

In a few weeks you'll see loads of tinsel around cocks and dodge Christmas jumpers with sex positions on it just to get likes"

ohhhh Dear lol but each to there own but if it works for them then good luck I guess lol

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By *mber SkiesWoman
over a year ago

Cwmderi


"OP 3 weeks on here as a single guy is nothing to worry over your pics look good & your profile it just takes a bit of time

Thanks for taking time to reply and appreciate your words I'm probably running before I can walk on here but grateful for the advice off people who've been on here a while "

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Are you asking for profile advice?

You definitely need to know the difference between MMF and MFM

K probably need to know the meanings of alot of the abbreviations on here or ill get myself into some awkward situations lol ...

I say that because you say in your profile that you are straight but then go onto to say you’ve had MMF encounters.

That’s why it’s very important to know the difference between MMF and MFM. Search engine is your friend

Your Snapchat filters make you look very different - so you aren’t going to attract (m)any people with them.

So I've had encounters with male/female couples but it's always been pn the bacis that there's no male on male action and purely been female getting my attention if that makes sense

Yeah, so that would be MFM - MMF is two bi guys who play together as well as the woman - like I said there’s a difference That's type of advice I need and appreciate it it's definitely a learning curve and the forum seems the best place to start as a newbie "

Changed my my profile now know the difference between MMF and MFM definitely getting to know the lingo and abbreviations abit more in just 24 hours lol

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Are you asking for profile advice?

You definitely need to know the difference between MMF and MFM

K probably need to know the meanings of alot of the abbreviations on here or ill get myself into some awkward situations lol ...

I say that because you say in your profile that you are straight but then go onto to say you’ve had MMF encounters.

That’s why it’s very important to know the difference between MMF and MFM. Search engine is your friend

Your Snapchat filters make you look very different - so you aren’t going to attract (m)any people with them.

So I've had encounters with male/female couples but it's always been pn the bacis that there's no male on male action and purely been female getting my attention if that makes sense

Yeah, so that would be MFM - MMF is two bi guys who play together as well as the woman - like I said there’s a difference That's type of advice I need and appreciate it it's definitely a learning curve and the forum seems the best place to start as a newbie

Changed my my profile now know the difference between MMF and MFM definitely getting to know the lingo and abbreviations abit more in just 24 hours lol"

Well you still have you’ve had ‘I’ve had MMF encounters and looking for more’ and you state you are straight - one of those need to change on your profile as they contradict each other

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It’s just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not so hard. Take some time to reflect on advice given here so far. Recognise its a slowburn for most men and slowly build some verifications.

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Are you asking for profile advice?

You definitely need to know the difference between MMF and MFM

K probably need to know the meanings of alot of the abbreviations on here or ill get myself into some awkward situations lol ...

I say that because you say in your profile that you are straight but then go onto to say you’ve had MMF encounters.

That’s why it’s very important to know the difference between MMF and MFM. Search engine is your friend

Your Snapchat filters make you look very different - so you aren’t going to attract (m)any people with them.

So I've had encounters with male/female couples but it's always been pn the bacis that there's no male on male action and purely been female getting my attention if that makes sense

Yeah, so that would be MFM - MMF is two bi guys who play together as well as the woman - like I said there’s a difference That's type of advice I need and appreciate it it's definitely a learning curve and the forum seems the best place to start as a newbie

Changed my my profile now know the difference between MMF and MFM definitely getting to know the lingo and abbreviations abit more in just 24 hours lol

Well you still have you’ve had ‘I’ve had MMF encounters and looking for more’ and you state you are straight - one of those need to change on your profile as they contradict each other "

I done half a job ffs lol changed hopefully correctly now lol thank you for pointing out for me again ...I definitely need to double check things so I don't get myself in awkward situation lol but good spot and much appreciated

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By *jj2012 OP   Man
over a year ago

Barry


"Its not so hard. Take some time to reflect on advice given here so far. Recognise its a slowburn for most men and slowly build some verifications."

100 % been given some good warm hearted genuine advice on here since I posted this last night, forum is definitely the best place for new to site members to talk to people and get to know other members instead of messaging people blindly

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