FabSwingers.com forum: Work place crush

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought I would give an update on an earlier thread I created.

For those that are interested things seemed to initially move forward with my work place crush up to the point she said she was going to introduce me to BDSM. If you read my profile this not who I am. Being new to BDSM I took to the forum for some advice.

So what's been happening. We didn't meet up last night like we had arranged. She called it off and I'm not surprised by this. The other day she picked me up for work early and decided to pull into somewhere quiet. I thought it was just going to be a quick fumble and grope and off we go. That's untill she decided she wanted more than that and started taking both our trousers and pants off. This took me by surprise and let's say.... I couldn't immediately perform (so embarrassing) all I could think of is "is that a light" and "is someone coming".

We both laughed about the situation but I think she realised the kind of sex she is wanting is not naturally going to come from me.

I am content that she cancelled this weekend. I feel we both would have felt let down if we had gone through with it. We have talked it through and we are just going to remain friends and I'm happy with that.