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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I like good grammar and punctuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody hope not, I'm dyslexic and sometimes even autocorrect can't help.

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By *aughty treatsMan
over a year ago

tamworth

Yes, it matters for me.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

It's always best to do your best.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Erm... it's kind of a no. As long as I can understand them, no it doesn't really affect me.

Towards the end of the week/night my posts on here are atrocious; I'd be a tad hypocritical if I was to judge another.

Walls of text with little punctuation do towel dry my vagina a bit.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

As long as I can read it and understand it, it doesn't bother me, my punctuation grammar and spelling is far from perfect so I don't judge others on it.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

It matters to me in that I put some effort into my own posts and messages. I don’t worry about what other people do or don’t do.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

It doesn't bother me much to be honest. As long as I can understand the message/post. We're all human and even those with really good grammar and punctuation, don't always get it right on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm secretly judging you based on the content of your written word.

Not really, life's too short.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I like good grammar and punctuation "
but is it off putting if there isnt exact full stops and exact punctuation or is there leway or are we marking these mails like english teachers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Not to me it doesn't...

it's unlikely to affect there cock sucking skills..

...it don't affect mine.. apparently.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?"

If I were. Although a lot depends on accents too. I often say me mum as thats how I actually say it, even though I know it’s grammatically incorrect.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. "

so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were. Although a lot depends on accents too. I often say me mum as thats how I actually say it, even though I know it’s grammatically incorrect. "

What confuses me is that I wouldn't say

"I were a student in 1975" why does the addition of 'if' change the form of the verb?

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'm secretly judging you based on the content of your written word.

Not really, life's too short."

but do you feel like there are people on this site exactly

Iike this.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yes, it matters for me. "
in what way

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Erm... it's kind of a no. As long as I can understand them, no it doesn't really affect me.

Towards the end of the week/night my posts on here are atrocious; I'd be a tad hypocritical if I was to judge another.

Walls of text with little punctuation do towel dry my vagina a bit. "

They a very well placed semicolon you've got there

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

"

Depends.

Are you helping your Uncle Jack, off a horse or helping your uncle jack off a horse........

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is"

I wouldn’t. If it was full of acronyms and text talk. Or it began with something like howz u

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is"

If it is written badly with very bad spelling and little or no punctuation, I would abandon the attempt to read it, yes.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Erm... it's kind of a no. As long as I can understand them, no it doesn't really affect me.

Towards the end of the week/night my posts on here are atrocious; I'd be a tad hypocritical if I was to judge another.

Walls of text with little punctuation do towel dry my vagina a bit. "

so your saying no but then yoursaying that sometimes yiur like yeah thats bad punctuation has just made feel lessforecoming with who ever it was you was chatting ok what about reginal accents a deliects then

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were. Although a lot depends on accents too. I often say me mum as thats how I actually say it, even though I know it’s grammatically incorrect.

What confuses me is that I wouldn't say

"I were a student in 1975" why does the addition of 'if' change the form of the verb? "

Actually I’ve been thinking about this and now I’m not sure. I think I use both. “If I were you” “if I was you”. I think I’d say were in that sentence. “If I was you” doesn’t really sound wrong though.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

Depends.

Are you helping your Uncle Jack, off a horse or helping your uncle jack off a horse........ "

helping the horse of jack

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were. Although a lot depends on accents too. I often say me mum as thats how I actually say it, even though I know it’s grammatically incorrect.

What confuses me is that I wouldn't say

"I were a student in 1975" why does the addition of 'if' change the form of the verb?

Actually I’ve been thinking about this and now I’m not sure. I think I use both. “If I were you” “if I was you”. I think I’d say were in that sentence. “If I was you” doesn’t really sound wrong though. "

God help English language students

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

Depends.

Are you helping your Uncle Jack, off a horse or helping your uncle jack off a horse........ "

or helping with jack’s horse

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were. Although a lot depends on accents too. I often say me mum as thats how I actually say it, even though I know it’s grammatically incorrect.

What confuses me is that I wouldn't say

"I were a student in 1975" why does the addition of 'if' change the form of the verb? "

Haha, if you come from around here, ‘I were a student in …. ‘ is exactly what you would say.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is

I wouldn’t. If it was full of acronyms and text talk. Or it began with something like howz u "

howcome can you explain why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, we get messages all the time asking "how's you's". We just won't reply to that at all, it's not being snobbish or thinking we're better than anyone else, it's the lack of effort and the fact they can even string one sentence together.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is

If it is written badly with very bad spelling and little or no punctuation, I would abandon the attempt to read it, yes. "

ok these are what im looking for

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is

I wouldn’t. If it was full of acronyms and text talk. Or it began with something like howz u howcome can you explain why"

Not really. It would just put me off them. I wouldn’t say that though. I never give reasons.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were. Although a lot depends on accents too. I often say me mum as thats how I actually say it, even though I know it’s grammatically incorrect.

What confuses me is that I wouldn't say

"I were a student in 1975" why does the addition of 'if' change the form of the verb?

Actually I’ve been thinking about this and now I’m not sure. I think I use both. “If I were you” “if I was you”. I think I’d say were in that sentence. “If I was you” doesn’t really sound wrong though. "

if implys thats u maybe where as if you say i was it implys past tense

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By *ldgeezermeMan
over a year ago

Throckley


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

"

Some would be concerned with sentences ending in a comma, others not so much.

If I can read it I'm happy.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were. Although a lot depends on accents too. I often say me mum as thats how I actually say it, even though I know it’s grammatically incorrect.

What confuses me is that I wouldn't say

"I were a student in 1975" why does the addition of 'if' change the form of the verb?

Actually I’ve been thinking about this and now I’m not sure. I think I use both. “If I were you” “if I was you”. I think I’d say were in that sentence. “If I was you” doesn’t really sound wrong though.

God help English language students "

Haha. They say it’s one of the hardest languages to learn. It probably is when you think about it!

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Absolutely, we get messages all the time asking "how's you's". We just won't reply to that at all, it's not being snobbish or thinking we're better than anyone else, it's the lack of effort and the fact they can even string one sentence together."
explain what you mean and what about dislexia ornsuch or people who just fsiled english they just shit outta luck

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

"

If you've got enough ladies chatting to you and potentially interested in meeting that you can filter by punctuation....big hat tip from me

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I don't really mind. It can sometimes lead to misunderstandings though.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is

I wouldn’t. If it was full of acronyms and text talk. Or it began with something like howz u howcome can you explain why

Not really. It would just put me off them. I wouldn’t say that though. I never give reasons. "

so ud ignor it never telling them how to better approach people

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were. Although a lot depends on accents too. I often say me mum as thats how I actually say it, even though I know it’s grammatically incorrect.

What confuses me is that I wouldn't say

"I were a student in 1975" why does the addition of 'if' change the form of the verb?

Actually I’ve been thinking about this and now I’m not sure. I think I use both. “If I were you” “if I was you”. I think I’d say were in that sentence. “If I was you” doesn’t really sound wrong though. if implys thats u maybe where as if you say i was it implys past tense"

True. It could be interpreted that way. Like if I were you (in the past) and if I was you (now)

It’s too much for a Sunday morning!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is

I wouldn’t. If it was full of acronyms and text talk. Or it began with something like howz u howcome can you explain why

Not really. It would just put me off them. I wouldn’t say that though. I never give reasons. so ud ignor it never telling them how to better approach people "

Yes.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

If you've got enough ladies chatting to you and potentially interested in meeting that you can filter by punctuation....big hat tip from me "

but why would you i though you was here for the person not punctuation

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I don't really mind. It can sometimes lead to misunderstandings though."
understanable least youv given a genuine reason

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is

I wouldn’t. If it was full of acronyms and text talk. Or it began with something like howz u howcome can you explain why

Not really. It would just put me off them. I wouldn’t say that though. I never give reasons. so ud ignor it never telling them how to better approach people ok thats fir the understanding

Yes. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people.

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

I'm giving up masturbating for an entire month.

Sorry, bad punctuation.

I'm giving up. Masturbating for an entire month.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

"

no some peeple have dysmentia an cant sting a sentance together

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people."
ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing it

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people. ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing it"
your speling ir teribal mate

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

no some peeple have dysmentia an cant sting a sentance together "

good joke

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people."

The lack of punctuation can lead to the exact same words meaning something completely different. That is the purpose of punctuation.

When I get it wrong I appreciate it being pointed out , rather than continuing in ignorance.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people. ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing ityour speling ir teribal mate"
thanks thats because inprefer old scots to english ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone failed English at school it doesn't necessarily mean they cant put together a descent opening sentence. And dyslexia comes in different forms, so again it doesn't necessarily mean they can't spell or put a sentence together.

It's about lack of effort, and not singling people out because of dyslexia etc... also most devices come with spell checkers now.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people. ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing ityour speling ir teribal mate thanks thats because inprefer old scots to english ya know"
aye

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people.

The lack of punctuation can lead to the exact same words meaning something completely different. That is the purpose of punctuation.

When I get it wrong I appreciate it being pointed out , rather than continuing in ignorance. "

thanks but what about those who dont even correct you and just think what he said there ie your spelling is terrible and then trys to make you the butt of the joke

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people. ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing ityour speling ir teribal mate"

No need for this. That’s just being nasty

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people. ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing ityour speling ir teribal mate

No need for this. That’s just being nasty "

I'm joking with him and he's took the joke

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people. ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing ityour speling ir teribal mate

No need for this. That’s just being nasty "

thats exactly type of people i wish to show this site to its full of classism

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By *abulousAvaWoman
over a year ago

Dainty Town


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

"

Yes I like correct grammar and punctuation otherwise message meanings can be lost or go amiss. I dislike text speak.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people. ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing ityour speling ir teribal mate

No need for this. That’s just being nasty I'm joking with him and he's took the joke "

you maybe joking i didnt take it as a joke im adult enough to see condescending people easy so nxt time just be honest with your chest out caught and back tracking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like words, wordplay, spellings and their correct usage, but that has absolutely no bearing on how I view others that don’t. As long as I get the general gist of whatever’s being said , it’s all good in the hood!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people. ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing ityour speling ir teribal mate

No need for this. That’s just being nasty thats exactly type of people i wish to show this site to its full of classism"

I don't mind spelling mistakes i understand people have dyslexia etc so it doesn't bother me and sorry if you didn't get my humour

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people.

The lack of punctuation can lead to the exact same words meaning something completely different. That is the purpose of punctuation.

When I get it wrong I appreciate it being pointed out , rather than continuing in ignorance. thanks but what about those who dont even correct you and just think what he said there ie your spelling is terrible and then trys to make you the butt of the joke "

Would you want someone to correct you though? Would that not come across as condescending? I’d never correct someone privately or publicly. That’s just not something I’d do. I think it’s actually against the rules to do that on here. I’m sure I remember seeing that somewhere.

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester

I like eating spicy foods and your nan.

Grammar matters.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people. ooooh thank you we finally get to speak about the classim or heirarchy thats appears on this site. Hahahaha thanks so not just me exprencing ityour speling ir teribal mate

No need for this. That’s just being nasty I'm joking with him and he's took the joke you maybe joking i didnt take it as a joke im adult enough to see condescending people easy so nxt time just be honest with your chest out caught and back tracking"

lol ok

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I like eating spicy foods and your nan.

Grammar matters. "

ok dno what thats has to do with anything but I’ll put you down on the survey

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By *ldgeezermeMan
over a year ago

Throckley

Eats shoots and leaves

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people.

The lack of punctuation can lead to the exact same words meaning something completely different. That is the purpose of punctuation.

When I get it wrong I appreciate it being pointed out , rather than continuing in ignorance. thanks but what about those who dont even correct you and just think what he said there ie your spelling is terrible and then trys to make you the butt of the joke "

It only really applies to punctuation.

I don’t have much time for a lot of misspelling.

As I posted above, the spelling check systems built in to most devices should be used if you know you struggle with spelling.

I tried re-typing one of your posts, as you had written it, my phone automatically corrected all your mistakes without me having to.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people.

The lack of punctuation can lead to the exact same words meaning something completely different. That is the purpose of punctuation.

When I get it wrong I appreciate it being pointed out , rather than continuing in ignorance. thanks but what about those who dont even correct you and just think what he said there ie your spelling is terrible and then trys to make you the butt of the joke

Would you want someone to correct you though? Would that not come across as condescending? I’d never correct someone privately or publicly. That’s just not something I’d do. I think it’s actually against the rules to do that on here. I’m sure I remember seeing that somewhere. "

not if they say sorry to bother you and tell you where you went wrong not just ignore or try to belittle theres a sutle way of doing things

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester


"I like eating spicy foods and your nan.

Grammar matters. ok dno what thats has to do with anything but I’ll put you down on the survey"

It has to do with grammar.

I don’t like eating your nan.

Target audience, never mind.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I like eating spicy foods and your nan.

Grammar matters. ok dno what thats has to do with anything but I’ll put you down on the survey

It has to do with grammar.

I don’t like eating your nan.

Target audience, never mind."

but nans dead

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Eats shoots and leaves"
no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bloody hope not, I'm dyslexic and sometimes even autocorrect can't help."

Same, have had some really nasty comments on here too

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester


"I like eating spicy foods and your nan.

Grammar matters. ok dno what thats has to do with anything but I’ll put you down on the survey

It has to do with grammar.

I don’t like eating your nan.

Target audience, never mind. but nans dead"

So was my steak last night.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people.

The lack of punctuation can lead to the exact same words meaning something completely different. That is the purpose of punctuation.

When I get it wrong I appreciate it being pointed out , rather than continuing in ignorance. thanks but what about those who dont even correct you and just think what he said there ie your spelling is terrible and then trys to make you the butt of the joke

Would you want someone to correct you though? Would that not come across as condescending? I’d never correct someone privately or publicly. That’s just not something I’d do. I think it’s actually against the rules to do that on here. I’m sure I remember seeing that somewhere. not if they say sorry to bother you and tell you where you went wrong not just ignore or try to belittle theres a sutle way of doing things

"

I wouldn’t have time for that. I don’t read 90% of my messages anyway as I look at the profile first. Besides I don’t think most people would appreciate that either to be honest.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I bloody hope not, I'm dyslexic and sometimes even autocorrect can't help."

Same I always get stuck on necessary.

Took me ten goes for predictive to find the word.

Just getting the spellings is hard enough let alone making sure that the correct word has been used (where were) for example.

Then throw punctuation into the mix (mind-blowing)

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By *lfasoCouple
over a year ago

South East

I also have daily sex.

Sorry, I meant dyslexia!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not too much, as long as I can grasp what you're saying

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I bloody hope not, I'm dyslexic and sometimes even autocorrect can't help.

Same, have had some really nasty comments on here too "

thank you

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I like eating spicy foods and your nan.

Grammar matters. ok dno what thats has to do with anything but I’ll put you down on the survey

It has to do with grammar.

I don’t like eating your nan.

Target audience, never mind. but nans dead

So was my steak last night. "

last knight or las vegas knights

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"On a whole it doesn't matter. 9 timed out of 10, people know what you're saying no matter how it's communicated but you get those superior English teacher beings that enjoy correcting people.

The lack of punctuation can lead to the exact same words meaning something completely different. That is the purpose of punctuation.

When I get it wrong I appreciate it being pointed out , rather than continuing in ignorance. thanks but what about those who dont even correct you and just think what he said there ie your spelling is terrible and then trys to make you the butt of the joke

Would you want someone to correct you though? Would that not come across as condescending? I’d never correct someone privately or publicly. That’s just not something I’d do. I think it’s actually against the rules to do that on here. I’m sure I remember seeing that somewhere. not if they say sorry to bother you and tell you where you went wrong not just ignore or try to belittle theres a sutle way of doing things

I wouldn’t have time for that. I don’t read 90% of my messages anyway as I look at the profile first. Besides I don’t think most people would appreciate that either to be honest. "

thanks fornyour input and contributions tonthe thread

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I also have daily sex.

Sorry, I meant dyslexia!"

well good for you i assume be proud of who you are

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
over a year ago

Harwich


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. so your saying if its wrtten in a certain way you wouldnt even read the messages regardless of what it is"

Unfortunately that's exactly my sentiment.

If it's written so badly, for instance without commas, then reading the text can become very difficult and hence my interest is lost.

Predictive text can be a bugger, as such it really makes sense to read over whatever you have written.

A missing comma can change the entire meaning of a sentence or failing that, it can lead to the sentence being interpreted in different ways by varying readers.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it. "

I agree with this.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"I bloody hope not, I'm dyslexic and sometimes even autocorrect can't help.

Same I always get stuck on necessary.

Took me ten goes for predictive to find the word.

Just getting the spellings is hard enough let alone making sure that the correct word has been used (where were) for example.

Then throw punctuation into the mix (mind-blowing)"

The thing I would draw from your post is the fact that you took x number of goes and came up with the word you wanted. You made the effort.

From the posts of yours that I’ve seen I wouldn’t know you were dyslexic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bloody hope not, I'm dyslexic and sometimes even autocorrect can't help."

To be fair, it's not just you. I'm not dyslexic but sometimes I'll type out a word and even the predictive text is like "I don't know what to tell you pal"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As long as I can understand the message, if it makes it very difficult to read then yes that would put me off.

Text talk though is hugely off-putting.

Mrs

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I try my best, I don’t always get the punctuation right.

With these modern spell check systems I don’t feel there is an excuse for spelling.

All anyone can do is their best, sometimes it falls short but they’ve tried.

I think it shows when someone has not tried and can’t be bothered, then I can’t be bothered to read it.

I agree with this."

what if they did try but just all wrong

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I bloody hope not, I'm dyslexic and sometimes even autocorrect can't help.

To be fair, it's not just you. I'm not dyslexic but sometimes I'll type out a word and even the predictive text is like "I don't know what to tell you pal" "

this sort of converstion i wanted safe space for those who wanna talk about this issue

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As long as I can understand the message, if it makes it very difficult to read then yes that would put me off.

Text talk though is hugely off-putting.

Mrs "

can she explain why? Or does everythingbneed be written like a formal letter to thr king

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"As long as I can understand the message, if it makes it very difficult to read then yes that would put me off.

Text talk though is hugely off-putting.

Mrs can she explain why? Or does everythingbneed be written like a formal letter to thr king"

Who's she? The cats mother?!

Explain what? If it's hard to read it'll put me off reading it.

Who said anything about formal?

As I said as long as the message is easy enough to understand I've zero issues with people's punctuality.

Text speak is lazy.

Your majesty.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

"

It matters very much to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm giving up masturbating for an entire month.

Sorry, bad punctuation.

I'm giving up. Masturbating for an entire month."

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
over a year ago

Harwich

Example:

"I'm really very sorry I love you"

Versus

"I'm really very sorry, I love you"

Same words used, only one little comma and the whole meaning changes!

My genuine fear is that those whose grammar and use of commas etc. is not so good will likely not understand the difference illustrated

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As long as I can understand the message, if it makes it very difficult to read then yes that would put me off.

Text talk though is hugely off-putting.

Mrs can she explain why? Or does everythingbneed be written like a formal letter to thr king

Who's she? The cats mother?!

Explain what? If it's hard to read it'll put me off reading it.

Who said anything about formal?

As I said as long as the message is easy enough to understand I've zero issues with people's punctuality.

Text speak is lazy.

Your majesty.

Mrs

"

you litteraly just explained so thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like I said above, as long as I get the overall gist of what’s trying to be said, regardless of how long it might take to decipher it, it’s all good. I think what might put many off is it could remind them of being at school, mentally fixing every word, grammatical error and so on can cause people to give up and that’s sad because they could have missed out meeting someone great. The onus therefore is on the grammatical anarchist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like good grammar and punctuation but is it off putting if there isnt exact full stops and exact punctuation or is there leway or are we marking these mails like english teachers"

no.

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By *ylonseeker2023Man
over a year ago

Harwich


"I'm giving up masturbating for an entire month.

Sorry, bad punctuation.

I'm giving up. Masturbating for an entire month.

"

spot on!

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

It matters very much to me.

"

can you explain why

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Full stops/commas area very important, or I feel like I need to hold my breath whilst I'm reading a msg.

That can be a little off putting.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd rather bad punctuation and grammar than text speak x

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd rather bad punctuation and grammar than text speak x"
arnt they one and same because to everyin tx speak is bad grammer or are you say there is even classes of bad grammer

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I'd rather bad punctuation and grammar than text speak x arnt they one and same because to everyin tx speak is bad grammer or are you say there is even classes of bad grammer"

The two are totally separate x

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

It is all in context. Here I type quickly and make mistakes. Generally good with punctiation and grammar. It will not worry me if anyone wasn't as there are many reasons for that, including dyslexia. Not keen though on lots of abbreviations and acronyms or slang.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Full stops/commas area very important, or I feel like I need to hold my breath whilst I'm reading a msg.

That can be a little off putting. "

im going say this is the only joke in forum that was actually witty and landed

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It is all in context. Here I type quickly and make mistakes. Generally good with punctiation and grammar. It will not worry me if anyone wasn't as there are many reasons for that, including dyslexia. Not keen though on lots of abbreviations and acronyms or slang."
thanks for your in put can you explain

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"It is all in context. Here I type quickly and make mistakes. Generally good with punctiation and grammar. It will not worry me if anyone wasn't as there are many reasons for that, including dyslexia. Not keen though on lots of abbreviations and acronyms or slang. thanks for your in put can you explain "

Not sure what I am meant to explain. As long as I can understand the other person I am ok with that. If they were applying for a job that required those particular skills, perhat that would be different. Here I don't judge as I don't know other people's circumstances. I hope that provides a little more clarity

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"It is all in context. Here I type quickly and make mistakes. Generally good with punctiation and grammar. It will not worry me if anyone wasn't as there are many reasons for that, including dyslexia. Not keen though on lots of abbreviations and acronyms or slang. thanks for your in put can you explain

Not sure what I am meant to explain. As long as I can understand the other person I am ok with that. If they were applying for a job that required those particular skills, perhat that would be different. Here I don't judge as I don't know other people's circumstances. I hope that provides a little more clarity "

thank you

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

If you've got enough ladies chatting to you and potentially interested in meeting that you can filter by punctuation....big hat tip from me but why would you i though you was here for the person not punctuation "

Well personally punctuation alone wouldn’t bother me but how somebody writes and communicates is part of the broader person. I can’t help but being turned off by people who communicates poorly written or verbal. Saying that if a group situation somewhere and a quick fuck etc. it doesn’t matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

"

It does to me. Here's my reason before you ask OP, as you've asked everyone to elaborate on why they've said it does, and yet, praised the ones who agree with you.

Predictive text can be hard for some people and I understand that, but that isn't all that people should rely on. What about the good old fashioned dictionary? What about using books to teach your phone?

Text speak is off putting and lazy and tells me a lot about the stranger sending it. Only in certain situations can Text speak be OK and that's with someone you ain't strangers with, quite the opposite.

Punctuation can be improved on if you try. So can most things

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

"

Are you looking for a quick shag or applying to be Don at Oxford ?

One matters the other doesn't.

What is most important is that your message is clear, which funnily enough is achieved by using ......

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By *ldgeezermeMan
over a year ago

Throckley

Fuck me!

Fuck me?

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

It does to me. Here's my reason before you ask OP, as you've asked everyone to elaborate on why they've said it does, and yet, praised the ones who agree with you.

Predictive text can be hard for some people and I understand that, but that isn't all that people should rely on. What about the good old fashioned dictionary? What about using books to teach your phone?

Text speak is off putting and lazy and tells me a lot about the stranger sending it. Only in certain situations can Text speak be OK and that's with someone you ain't strangers with, quite the opposite.

Punctuation can be improved on if you try. So can most things

No i alsothanked everyone ror imput on the thread and i thank you to for your coments

"

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

It does to me. Here's my reason before you ask OP, as you've asked everyone to elaborate on why they've said it does, and yet, praised the ones who agree with you.

Predictive text can be hard for some people and I understand that, but that isn't all that people should rely on. What about the good old fashioned dictionary? What about using books to teach your phone?

Text speak is off putting and lazy and tells me a lot about the stranger sending it. Only in certain situations can Text speak be OK and that's with someone you ain't strangers with, quite the opposite.

Punctuation can be improved on if you try. So can most things so what doe you mean by txt speak is lazy explain

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By *iff -lockMan
over a year ago

London


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

"

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

It matters to me a bit, but wouldn't be the only reason I didn't reply to someone.

But messages (and posts!) with absolutely no punctuation are hard to read and hurt my head!

(He says, in a poorly constructed post)

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

Are you looking for a quick shag or applying to be Don at Oxford ?

One matters the other doesn't.

What is most important is that your message is clear, which funnily enough is achieved by using ...... "

me im looking for like minded people sex is secondary if you only after sex u must not be getting enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morse code.

..

--

..

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Fuck me!

Fuck me?"

1sr ones a statement second is a question i beleiev as a person you should be able totell which is which in context of the sentence

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Morse code.

..

--

.. "

thats it if inknew it ad communicate with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this thread was a moan about your meet not being punctual.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?"

If I were = a hypothetical situation e.g. If I were to live in heaven ... or If I were to marry a millionaire etc.

If I was = a situation that actually happened esp. in the past e.g. If I was to wash my hands before dinner my mother would always praise me or ... If I was caught swearing my dad washed my mouth out with soap.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over


"Morse code.

..

--

.. "

- .... .. ... / - .-. . .- -.. / .. ... / --. --- .. -. --. / - --- / --. . - / ...- . .-. -.-- / .-- . .. .-. -.. / ... --- --- -.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Thought this thread was a moan about your meet not being punctual. "
good jok yeah thanks u wanna keep going or actuall input to an adult conversation

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were = a hypothetical situation e.g. If I were to live in heaven ... or If I were to marry a millionaire etc.

If I was = a situation that actually happened esp. in the past e.g. If I was to wash my hands before dinner my mother would always praise me or ... If I was caught swearing my dad washed my mouth out with soap. "

It's something to do with the subjunctive, isn't it?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were = a hypothetical situation e.g. If I were to live in heaven ... or If I were to marry a millionaire etc.

If I was = a situation that actually happened esp. in the past e.g. If I was to wash my hands before dinner my mother would always praise me or ... If I was caught swearing my dad washed my mouth out with soap.

It's something to do with the subjunctive, isn't it? "

You wouldn't ask if you 'were' confident of your answer.

I answered because I 'was' confident of mine.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were = a hypothetical situation e.g. If I were to live in heaven ... or If I were to marry a millionaire etc.

If I was = a situation that actually happened esp. in the past e.g. If I was to wash my hands before dinner my mother would always praise me or ... If I was caught swearing my dad washed my mouth out with soap.

It's something to do with the subjunctive, isn't it?

You wouldn't ask if you 'were' confident of your answer.

I answered because I 'was' confident of mine. "

Me being right is always hypothetical, so I always use "if I were..."

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"My punctuation isn't great I'm prone to long sentences with few commas and I'm unsure of some grammar.

An example do you say

'if I *was*'

Or

'if I *were* '

?

If I were = a hypothetical situation e.g. If I were to live in heaven ... or If I were to marry a millionaire etc.

If I was = a situation that actually happened esp. in the past e.g. If I was to wash my hands before dinner my mother would always praise me or ... If I was caught swearing my dad washed my mouth out with soap.

It's something to do with the subjunctive, isn't it?

You wouldn't ask if you 'were' confident of your answer.

I answered because I 'was' confident of mine.

Me being right is always hypothetical, so I always use "if I were..."

Thats it snd if yiur right youv predicted the future

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

It does to me. Here's my reason before you ask OP, as you've asked everyone to elaborate on why they've said it does, and yet, praised the ones who agree with you.

Predictive text can be hard for some people and I understand that, but that isn't all that people should rely on. What about the good old fashioned dictionary? What about using books to teach your phone?

Text speak is off putting and lazy and tells me a lot about the stranger sending it. Only in certain situations can Text speak be OK and that's with someone you ain't strangers with, quite the opposite.

Punctuation can be improved on if you try. So can most things

No i alsothanked everyone ror imput on the thread and i thank you to for your coments

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What you've done OP is thanked people's posts that have said their cool with lack of punctuation, and questioned the ones that think its not OK to not have punctuation and call them out. You were searching and waiting I'm quoting you to you "thats exactly type of people i wish to show this site to its full of classism"

So my opinion stays the same. That does not make me feel that I am above someone else who has a different opinion

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

It does to me. Here's my reason before you ask OP, as you've asked everyone to elaborate on why they've said it does, and yet, praised the ones who agree with you.

Predictive text can be hard for some people and I understand that, but that isn't all that people should rely on. What about the good old fashioned dictionary? What about using books to teach your phone?

Text speak is off putting and lazy and tells me a lot about the stranger sending it. Only in certain situations can Text speak be OK and that's with someone you ain't strangers with, quite the opposite.

Punctuation can be improved on if you try. So can most things

No i alsothanked everyone ror imput on the thread and i thank you to for your coments

What you've done OP is thanked people's posts that have said their cool with lack of punctuation, and questioned the ones that think its not OK to not have punctuation and call them out. You were searching and waiting I'm quoting you to you "thats exactly type of people i wish to show this site to its full of classism"

So my opinion stays the same. That does not make me feel that I am above someone else who has a different opinion if thats the wayit seems im sorry i litterslly wanntake time to thank everyone as each part of the thread evolves the converstion sorry i came across like this

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

It does to me. Here's my reason before you ask OP, as you've asked everyone to elaborate on why they've said it does, and yet, praised the ones who agree with you.

Predictive text can be hard for some people and I understand that, but that isn't all that people should rely on. What about the good old fashioned dictionary? What about using books to teach your phone?

Text speak is off putting and lazy and tells me a lot about the stranger sending it. Only in certain situations can Text speak be OK and that's with someone you ain't strangers with, quite the opposite.

Punctuation can be improved on if you try. So can most things

No i alsothanked everyone ror imput on the thread and i thank you to for your coments

What you've done OP is thanked people's posts that have said their cool with lack of punctuation, and questioned the ones that think its not OK to not have punctuation and call them out. You were searching and waiting I'm quoting you to you "thats exactly type of people i wish to show this site to its full of classism"

So my opinion stays the same. That does not make me feel that I am above someone else who has a different opinion and i only question because i dont understand it like me saying if some doesnt have a graspof complex mathamtics i would speak to them now u say it not the same but im ask why is or that even important if your allowed to say whatt id think was import to not be important is the point

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

It does to me. Here's my reason before you ask OP, as you've asked everyone to elaborate on why they've said it does, and yet, praised the ones who agree with you.

Predictive text can be hard for some people and I understand that, but that isn't all that people should rely on. What about the good old fashioned dictionary? What about using books to teach your phone?

Text speak is off putting and lazy and tells me a lot about the stranger sending it. Only in certain situations can Text speak be OK and that's with someone you ain't strangers with, quite the opposite.

Punctuation can be improved on if you try. So can most things

No i alsothanked everyone ror imput on the thread and i thank you to for your coments

What you've done OP is thanked people's posts that have said their cool with lack of punctuation, and questioned the ones that think its not OK to not have punctuation and call them out. You were searching and waiting I'm quoting you to you "thats exactly type of people i wish to show this site to its full of classism"

So my opinion stays the same. That does not make me feel that I am above someone else who has a different opinion and yeah thats for the ones who litteraly say it matter and that if you cant speall your not trying what does that mean other than they view your lackof spelling even when you tryed as beneath them as in not worth their time ie i dont th your are beneath me and im taken time out answer you instead of just innoring you

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

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Good communication surely matters. The language and our syntax surely matters? Random jibberings and leaving anything open to interpretation can't help communication.

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

Yes

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"I bloody hope not, I'm dyslexic and sometimes even autocorrect can't help.

Same I always get stuck on necessary.

Took me ten goes for predictive to find the word.

Just getting the spellings is hard enough let alone making sure that the correct word has been used (where were) for example.

Then throw punctuation into the mix (mind-blowing)

The thing I would draw from your post is the fact that you took x number of goes and came up with the word you wanted. You made the effort.

From the posts of yours that I’ve seen I wouldn’t know you were dyslexic."

Thank you.

It's hard when I know what I want to say, with predictive/ auto correct it would be unreadable.

I also have a wife who spell checks for me and check's grammar occasionally.

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Does punctuation matter? In deciding and answering mails,

Good communication surely matters. The language and our syntax surely matters? Random jibberings and leaving anything open to interpretation can't help communication. "

but do they matter as you said the others matter thus does the grammer of one putcuation matter

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"I don't really mind. It can sometimes lead to misunderstandings though. understanable least youv given a genuine reason "

Is rite la

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely but I'm dyslexic and not a clue how and when to use

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By *aza1888 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Definitely but I'm dyslexic and not a clue how and when to use "
thats it all you need to be is be yourself

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