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What constitutes "cheating" in a relationship

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By *aravancouple OP   Man
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Which of these do you agree with.

Kissing on the lips

E-mailing pictures of themselves naked

Texting erotic messages

Sleeping in the same bed

Holding hands

Forming a deep emotional bond

Going out to dinner

In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by.

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

All of the above IF it's secretive or being deliberately hidden from the other partner.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"All of the above IF it's secretive or being deliberately hidden from the other partner. "

Yes, totally agree, makes me laugh when people use the excuse - 'it just happened' you can always walk away if you want to! Z

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

lying to your loved one about getting sexual gratification from another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anything can be termed as cheating if its done in secret and with the intent on taking it further without your partners consent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of the above IF it's secretive or being deliberately hidden from the other partner. "

Spot on, anything deceitful in that manor is cheating x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have been thinking about this a lot recently. I think the emotional relationships, without crossing the physical line but crossing the intimacy/friendship line, might actually be worse.

I have another question in mind but the wording is difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which of these do you agree with.

Kissing on the lips

E-mailing pictures of themselves naked

Texting erotic messages

Sleeping in the same bed

Holding hands

Forming a deep emotional bond

Going out to dinner

In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by."

All of the above in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeppers to everything on the list, if it's done covertly, it's gonna hurt someone if/when they find out

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think anything can be termed as cheating if its done in secret and with the intent on taking it further without your partners consent "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have to think about it, it's not acceptable behaviour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeppers to everything on the list, if it's done covertly, it's gonna hurt someone if/when they find out "

It sure does it doesn't only hurt, I lost all my self confidence, but now thanks to some great meets mines almost back

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By *ndi2Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yup i think anything if its done secretly and deliberately hidden from your partner is cheating.

And yes an emotional attachment or relationship with someone else would be so much more painful than a purely physical transgression

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is secretly masturbating cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is secretly masturbating cheating?"

Only if your partner isn't get as much sex as she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is secretly masturbating cheating?

Only if your partner isn't get as much sex as she wants"

Did make me smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above, and I agree with one poster who said over stepping the emotional boundaries can sometimes be more detriment to the other half than the cheating itself..

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Which of these do you agree with.

Kissing on the lips

E-mailing pictures of themselves naked

Texting erotic messages

Sleeping in the same bed

Holding hands

Forming a deep emotional bond

Going out to dinner

In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by."

All of them if the intent to cheat is there and any kind of deceit or misleading is involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which of these do you agree with.

Kissing on the lips

E-mailing pictures of themselves naked

Texting erotic messages

Sleeping in the same bed

Holding hands

Forming a deep emotional bond

Going out to dinner

In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by."

All of them.... If they were all done in secret without the one knowing!

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"All of the above IF it's secretive or being deliberately hidden from the other partner. "

Totally agree, if partner doesn't know "before" it happens then its definitely cheating .if the partner knows and is OK about it then its great fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by."

Just that. Nothing more, nothing less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And yes an emotional attachment or relationship with someone else would be so much more painful than a purely physical transgression "

I have to agree with this part

Some would say i was a jealous cow but i wud rather my hubby had sex with lots of ladies than have one regular friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the specifics on how far you go its the fact someone doesn't have consent and their partners knowledge that defines cheating as we see it.

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By *damandeve4funCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"All of the above IF it's secretive or being deliberately hidden from the other partner. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Which of these do you agree with.

Kissing on the lips

E-mailing pictures of themselves naked

Texting erotic messages

Sleeping in the same bed

Holding hands

Forming a deep emotional bond

Going out to dinner

In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by."

There must be a reason for asking. Is there a suspicion. Won't ask any more as it is none of my business but good luck

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Which of these do you agree with.

Kissing on the lips

E-mailing pictures of themselves naked

Texting erotic messages

Sleeping in the same bed

Holding hands

Forming a deep emotional bond

Going out to dinner

In my opinion "cheating" is whatever your partner would be upset by.

There must be a reason for asking. Is there a suspicion. Won't ask any more as it is none of my business but good luck "
Not always, dont read to deeply into some threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the major factor in cheating is the getting caught element. Until that point the offender often don't equate it to cheating and nobody else is in the know.

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