FabSwingers.com forum: Cannot travel cannot accommodate

By *exycarlashane181 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

When people cannot travel amd cannot accommodate... Where do they meet... Just wondering?

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester

Online.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

They don’t.

Hope this helps

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By *exycarlashane181 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"Online. "

Ahhhh right I see so they don't actually want physical meets.. Fair enough..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say can't travel, it doesn't mean I can't leave my house lol. Means I won't travel far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs, hotels, car, your place, come to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick up and drop off

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Or they expect the other person to travel and pay for a hotel lol

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

There's these places... Called hotels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels .

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Cannot travel means I won’t go to the end of the country for a meet. I had ‘can travel’ and got asked if I’d meet someone in Aberdeen.

Cannot accommodate means I won’t accommodate until I’ve met you publicly for a social meet, and have chatted for a while.

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By *exycarlashane181 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

"There's these places... Called hotels!"

But then they are travelling surely? To the hotel?

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By *ongandharderMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

"When people cannot travel amd cannot accommodate... Where do they meet... Just wondering? "

Can't travel is sometimes distance permitting

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Supermarket car parks

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"There's these places... Called hotels!

But then they are travelling surely? To the hotel? "

I wouldn't class going to a hotel in the city I live in, travelling. I can leave the house...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drive-thru

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

It means travel is difficult. As in my case as i don't drive right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means ...I can travel and I can accommodate but I'm not going to.

I meet local people and no one is coming to my home.

Simple.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Local hotels... The other, local, person's... Outside... It's not really that difficult to figure out, is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Local hotels... The other, local, person's... Outside... It's not really that difficult to figure out, is it? "

Would local hotels not count as travelling to an extent? Where's the line you want to draw of what's travelling and what isn't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the garden.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

From the first line of my profile: If it says cannot accommodate and cannot travel, I am not currently looking to meet new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should it be

Cannot Accommodate local only ..

Assuming social anyhow

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

"When people cannot travel amd cannot accommodate... Where do they meet... Just wondering? "

Cam only I’d imagine… or fake

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Local hotels... The other, local, person's... Outside... It's not really that difficult to figure out, is it?

Would local hotels not count as travelling to an extent? Where's the line you want to draw of what's travelling and what isn't?"

The clue is in the word "local", no?

I don't drive so my own hometown is more than likely as far as I will go... Maybe not, if I REEEAAALLY like someone though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From the first line of my profile: If it says cannot accommodate and cannot travel, I am not currently looking to meet new people."

Thats because you're still trying to recover from all of us lot last week! Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cannot accommodate- doesn't mean a married person cheating on spouse. [may do sometimes I suppose but not mostly]

1 - may share a house and doesn't want the intrusions

2 - doesn't want potential weirdos/stalkers knowing where they live

I have both of those criteria

Cannot travel = has no intention of travelling to your place

Doesn't mean they don't travel at all. One of the limitations of the options on this site

Some people only meet in clubs, parties, outdoors

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There's not a lot of nuance between "can travel/ accommodate" and "can't travel/ accommodate"

Some people assume that "can travel" means "will go to the Outer Hebrides right this second because I said hi in your inbox" and "can accommodate" means "hi bb I'm five minutes away, put the kettle on"

Some people use "can't travel" to mean "local only" or clubs. Some people use "can't accommodate" when they will let repeat meets come over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says I cannot travel and cannot accommodate. Also, not looking to meet new people.

Despite this, I do travel and can accommodate but won’t do either for just anyone. If you’re someone special, to me, I’ve been known to travel thousands to miles to meet, or even rearrange my busy life to make time for you. As a standard, I would absolutely not meet anyone outside of London for a first meet ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Local hotels... The other, local, person's... Outside... It's not really that difficult to figure out, is it?

Would local hotels not count as travelling to an extent? Where's the line you want to draw of what's travelling and what isn't?

The clue is in the word "local", no?

I don't drive so my own hometown is more than likely as far as I will go... Maybe not, if I REEEAAALLY like someone though

I suppose it depends how literally you want to take the word "travel". Have to get there somehow

but I do get what you mean if travel is meant more outside your hometown

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

St Austell

Maybe they're in prison!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My profile says I cannot travel and cannot accommodate. Also, not looking to meet new people.

If it says can travel, people in Edinburgh ask Londoners for a meet.

If it says can accommodate, people expect to turn up unannounced day or night demanding a fuck.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Clubs. Local public places. The cannot may well be lifted if someone is worthwhile.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Upstairs back seat on the number 9 bus.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

Here..anytime... Nothing to hide.. !!

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Ask 'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask 'em"

Talk to people?!

They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.

Accom... tick

Travel... tick

Fuck... tick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not travelling miles, I have done but never again!

No coming to my home unless invited

It's in the bio or maybe ask?

Fab doesn't give any other options.

I got tired of guys assuming they could just rock up at mine because they couldn't accommodate.

Use your noggin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It means ...I can travel and I can accommodate but I'm not going to.

I meet local people and no one is coming to my home.

Simple."

I like this, similar to me

On the flip side, just because someone says they can accomodate, doesn't mean they'll let any random in.

It is just a handy filter to narrow things down.

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

"Ask 'em

Talk to people?!

They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.

Accom... tick

Travel... tick

Fuck... tick"

Where is the fuck tick box? I seem to have missed it. Is that why people pay extra for gold memberships?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Ask 'em

Talk to people?!

They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.

Accom... tick

Travel... tick

Fuck... tick"

Need more boxes.

King or superking

Cotton or polycotton

Grunting or sentences

Tea or booze

Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

"Ask 'em

Talk to people?!

They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.

Accom... tick

Travel... tick

Fuck... tick

Need more boxes.

King or superking

Cotton or polycotton

Grunting or sentences

Tea or booze

Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future"

I'm confused, are those first 2 bed and bedsheet preferences for the sex? The second one could be actually useful, you know - if someone has a polyester allergy!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Ask 'em

Talk to people?!

They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.

Accom... tick

Travel... tick

Fuck... tick

Need more boxes.

King or superking

Cotton or polycotton

Grunting or sentences

Tea or booze

Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future

I'm confused, are those first 2 bed and bedsheet preferences for the sex? The second one could be actually useful, you know - if someone has a polyester allergy!"

Obviously.

The customer is always right and you get everything from consuming.

You deserve a customised experience just for you. Because you're worth it

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

"Ask 'em

Talk to people?!

They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.

Accom... tick

Travel... tick

Fuck... tick

Need more boxes.

King or superking

Cotton or polycotton

Grunting or sentences

Tea or booze

Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future

I'm confused, are those first 2 bed and bedsheet preferences for the sex? The second one could be actually useful, you know - if someone has a polyester allergy!

Obviously.

The customer is always right and you get everything from consuming.

You deserve a customised experience just for you. Because you're worth it

You're damn right! Give it to me, I'm worth it... Uh-huh, I'm worth it

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Ask 'em

Talk to people?!

They're just tick boxes on a screen. Cock and pussy. No need for chat.

Accom... tick

Travel... tick

Fuck... tick

Need more boxes.

King or superking

Cotton or polycotton

Grunting or sentences

Tea or booze

Ur worth it BB. U need more tick boxes for your perfect sex life. Yes it might be more work and reading than actual profile text but get with the times, man. Check boxes are the future

I'm confused, are those first 2 bed and bedsheet preferences for the sex? The second one could be actually useful, you know - if someone has a polyester allergy!

Obviously.

The customer is always right and you get everything from consuming.

You deserve a customised experience just for you. Because you're worth it

You're damn right! Give it to me, I'm worth it... Uh-huh, I'm worth it"

Oh I may just agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They hang their bits out the living room window.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"When people cannot travel amd cannot accommodate... Where do they meet... Just wondering? "

A dance!

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

I take that to read, I am a lazy so and so I cant be arsed to move so you have to pick me up take me to yours where I will get my jollies, you probably won't but no matter that , then you drive me home and I leave the slime on your sheets for you to deal with!

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By *ove2lick27Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"There's these places... Called hotels!

But then they are travelling surely? To the hotel? "

I agree

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By *ove2lick27Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"When people cannot travel amd cannot accommodate... Where do they meet... Just wondering?

Cam only I’d imagine… or fake

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take that to read, I am a lazy so and so I cant be arsed to move so you have to pick me up take me to yours where I will get my jollies, you probably won't but no matter that , then you drive me home and I leave the slime on your sheets for you to deal with!"

My my, what a large dose of judgement based on a few words. I think you and others are deliberately misinterpreting.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My my, what a large dose of judgement based on a few words. I think you and others are deliberately misinterpreting.

It just smacks of bitterness. That the person they're after isn't making it easy for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When people cannot travel amd cannot accommodate... Where do they meet... Just wondering?

Cam only I’d imagine… or fake

My thoughts exactly "

But you're respectful of peoples boundaries...or maybe not. What other boundaries might you disregard I wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My my, what a large dose of judgement based on a few words. I think you and others are deliberately misinterpreting.

It just smacks of bitterness. That the person they're after isn't making it easy for them."

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"When people cannot travel amd cannot accommodate... Where do they meet... Just wondering? "
local at yours

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Maybe they’re not here to meet at all

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Maybe they’re not here to meet at all "
they come here for the pure pleasure of it....... Yes i get that

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester

They’re just wankers.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Maybe they’re not here to meet at all they come here for the pure pleasure of it....... Yes i get that

I was thinking more the entertainment than pleasure but yeah there’s that too.

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

"Drive-thru"

Drive through sex? There’s an idea for dragons den lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When meeting I had that on my profile - cannot travel (not prepared to travel out of Nottingham)or I was collected.

Cannot accommodate- self explanatory, nobody getting my address

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's these places... Called hotels!

But then they are travelling surely? To the hotel? "
you’re taking it far too literally

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By *ian StephensTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

My place!

xoxo

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Lidl car park, it's a 5 minute walk

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"They hang their bits out the living room window. "

I was hoping you'd see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lidl car park, it's a 5 minute walk"

Thought I was special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alone, in their bed, with their hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They hang their bits out the living room window.

I was hoping you'd see that

I’ll send you my address.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"Lidl car park, it's a 5 minute walk

Thought I was special

That's why we went to M&S outlet instead

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

"They hang their bits out the living room window.

I was hoping you'd see that

I’ll send you my address. "

See you soon

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