FabSwingers.com forum: Tell me something

By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

That brings you joy.

I don't mean what brings a smug, self satisfied smile. Nor schadenfreude. Nor what makes you laugh at others.

Just, something that sparks actual joy inside your heart. Or your genitals

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

My kids. Best thing I ever produced

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Girls who sing. Simple as that.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Getting a wax

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By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Girls who sing. Simple as that."

It's even better when their throat is full you know

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare

Rainbows

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By *orkshirecutcockMan
over a year ago

blackburn

Slow cooked ribs in BBQ sauce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely don't know anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chocolate

Dogs

Friends

Piano

Knitting

Darts

Ducks

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ North Welsh Borders

Zumba! My kids, my dog, the kids I care for, kebabs

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By *rRiosMan
over a year ago

dublin

My dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way my daughter creates mayhem with a big smile on her face, and the sweetest smiles that could melt the coldest of hearts. I can’t be annoyed at the mischief.

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By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Getting a wax "

I mean. I'm a masochist and I'd highly disagree with that sparking joy personally. But yeah, you do you

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By *ressMeUpMan
over a year ago

Wilts / Glos

When I open a packet of pills, and it's NOT the end with the paper notes folded over the contents. Win!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"It's even better when their throat is full you know

I was being wholesome!

It’s okay that you couldn’t help yourself though. I

that about you.

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By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Ah, so many mentions of sprogs.

I don't have any of those, but I'm glad they bring you joy as well as expense, wonderful parental types

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By *ink vixenCouple
over a year ago

Medway

Finding a thermal and riding it all the way up to the clouds.

No better feeling than unpowered flight.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

My kids and grandson

My friends

My job

Beach walks

Sunrises

Long walks

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

My man child, best thing I ever did, couldn't be more proud. I still sometimes wonder wtf... But he does make me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sauna and swim. Blast on the motorway. Waiting for a plane at the airport.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Biscuits!!

Custard!!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

At the moment my 2 little soon to be 1 year old great grandsons they are a joy! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's fair too many to list.

But children. Mine, other people's, when they smile, when they laugh, when they're happy and full of life.

They are the best least judgemental people to be around. I feel at home with them more than with anyone else.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"That brings you joy.

I don't mean what brings a smug, self satisfied smile. Nor schadenfreude. Nor what makes you laugh at others.

Just, something that sparks actual joy inside your heart. Or your genitals

Looking at clouds and the sparkle in a woman when she know that you get her and will do anything to please you because you make her happy .

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By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I genuinely don't know anymore"

That's a rubbish space to be in. I hope that you can find your way to those brighter places sometime soon

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

My kids, family, friends, job. My life really. I’m rarely unhappy

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

My daughters laughing

When they hug me for no reason.

I don't want to use the C word... But fuck it.

Connection Connection Connection

Sexual feedback loops that send me into a spin - see above^^

That moment of realisation and release when someone lets go of something in the way of accepting themselves.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Many things

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Knowing I've made it through the day and not killed anyone

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

My dog, he's daft as a brush but he makes me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing something for people that makes them happy.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Material things - stationery, converse, ale & good food

Emotionally - my family (including dog) and a good story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A slightly nerdy one….

The joy of plugging onto a refuelling tanker in my simulated F-16 fighter plane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being with my kids

Sunrises and sunsets

Beautiful scenery

Flying in a small aeroplane

My needs are simple..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing my brother thrive at uni, despite everything that has stopped him previously. I’m so proud of him and seeing his little daily updates truly fills my heart with joy.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I have a girl in my special needs class and she has the most beautiful smile going and brings me joy when I see her in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Food. Going out for dinner (or lunch,or breakfast) is absolutely one of my favourite things to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We organised and full fridge

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

My dog, friends and family, cake, a hug from someone special that soothes the soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy my profession always seeking to become more than.

Enjoy watching movies, cookery shows, old classics I found on britbox.

Enjoy being creative, going to teach myself therapeutic jewelry making.

Enjoy sex of mutual desired wanted pleasure

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Feeding ducks will make me beam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That brings you joy.

I don't mean what brings a smug, self satisfied smile. Nor schadenfreude. Nor what makes you laugh at others.

Just, something that sparks actual joy inside your heart. Or your genitals

The way you shake and look at me when I hurt you just right

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

Getting a text message from one of my children. They’re a young adult, proudly independent and very neurodivergent, so hugs etc are not wanted.

When they message me it’s because they need me and then I know they know I’m always there for them.

I haven’t worded that as eloquently as I’d like but it’s the best message ever!

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

When dad's are with their kids just having fun it's very wholesome to see a guy enjoying being a dad

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Meeting up with a friend I've not seen in a while

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Dogs.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

"Getting a wax

I mean. I'm a masochist and I'd highly disagree with that sparking joy personally. But yeah, you do you

I totally love it! Yeah, I’m a weirdo. I’m

Ok with that x

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By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"The way you shake and look at me when I hurt you just right

Soppy little shit

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By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Getting a wax

I mean. I'm a masochist and I'd highly disagree with that sparking joy personally. But yeah, you do you

I totally love it! Yeah, I’m a weirdo. I’m

Ok with that x "

I suppose there is a weird satisfaction when it's done right.

I ended up with a newbie at my old usual place a couple of years back and it put me off for life though.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Also getting tattoos - the whole process from design, getting it done, to healed product

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Dogs! Especially my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything well designed that is both beautiful and functional. Arne Jacobsen chair I am sitting on to write this. Form and function is trumped by the female body.

Oh and milky tits ????

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Dogs! Especially my own. "

Ah I do love dogs, and dog dads

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Chatting to my bestie in France

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Warmth under a blanket.

An endless supply of still water to quench my thirst.

The sounds of children at play.

The palpable happiness felt from genuine laughter of others.

The smell of freshly cut grass in the summer.

The salty smell of the seaside.

The sun shining upon my skin.

Cuddles that feel electrifying because the person squeezes me with so much joy as they are truly happy to see me and cuddle me.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

*must resist urge to talk about things that spark joy in my quim*

Lots of things. Is that a tad daft? Possibly. I'll stick with some of today's.

I like joy.

I like that first sip of a PSL after a long week where I've been up since stupid o clock every day. And not stopped until the late evening.

I like the little feet kicking moments I get when I'm reading a book and I find myself sinking into the text and almost forget I'm reading.

I like those moments of connection with another person, whether it's platonic or sexual, a brief little moment or something that's building to a greater connection.

I really like when music enhances my mood. Matches it. Compliments it. Sometimes a song just hits right, doesn't it?

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Wine

This ! Lol

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Seeing my pals. Closest thing I have to family.

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

"Also getting tattoos - the whole process from design, getting it done, to healed product

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oh! Yes! Bliss!

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Wine

This ! Lol"

I have had too many wines tonight. Another won't hurt though, right?

MrsAbz

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I have had too many wines tonight. Another won't hurt though, right?"

Of course not. Just the one more.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

My 2 crazy boys.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Wine

This ! Lol

I have had too many wines tonight. Another won't hurt though, right?

MrsAbz "

Nope ! I have no wine in

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

"Getting a wax

I mean. I'm a masochist and I'd highly disagree with that sparking joy personally. But yeah, you do you

I totally love it! Yeah, I’m a weirdo. I’m

Ok with that x

I suppose there is a weird satisfaction when it's done right.

I ended up with a newbie at my old usual place a couple of years back and it put me off for life though."

Yowsers, yeah, I hear ya.

I like the temperature change with different waxes and the instant pain and the relief. The endorphin rush is mad, also love having lotion applied everywhere after and then going home commando and the feeling and sensations after. Joyous!

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By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"*must resist urge to talk about things that spark joy in my quim*"

You know, that is absolutely not necessary to resist

But yes for the music. All of the yes.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Friday nights with the whole weekend before me.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

My GSD brings me joy and laughter,

He’s crazy antics and undying love no matter what .. no lady can come close

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By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Yowsers, yeah, I hear ya.

I like playing with hot wax without the waxing aspect and getting the people who know how to do it just right to trigger those endorphin rushes in similar ways though.

So I get it

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

You op.

You

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
over a year ago

Bradford

When my little girl rings me at work and asks me if I will bring her to the shop later, and not for the expected reason either, it’s just simply the way she asks me to bring her to the shop even though I have told her a million times it’s can you TAKE me, that just there is what it is all about for me

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Stood in a forest, listening to the music of a BDA on full song echoing through the trees.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"I have had too many wines tonight. Another won't hurt though, right?

Of course not. Just the one more.

I'm so glad you agree

MrsAbz

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By *reyToTheFairies OP Woman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Also anyone who is saying their dogs and not sending me pictures of their fluffy hellions is doing it wrong

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Wine

This ! Lol

I have had too many wines tonight. Another won't hurt though, right?

MrsAbz

Nope ! I have no wine in

If you were nearer I'd offer you a glass or bottle depending on your mood.

No wine is a terrible thing

MrsAbz

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By *empest2KMan
over a year ago

Derby

"That brings you joy.

I don't mean what brings a smug, self satisfied smile. Nor schadenfreude. Nor what makes you laugh at others.

Just, something that sparks actual joy inside your heart. Or your genitals

I'm simple. I like beer (good craft beer, not that fizzy piss-water rubbish) and a nice firm-but-jiggly pair of boobs... especially when enjoyed at the same time!

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

My dog, my child, my family, my friends and most importantly my football team winning.

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By *pstanding CitizenMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

McDonald's chicken nuggets, especially when hungover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My boy.

Being in "the flow" whilst programming.

Looking back at freshly mown lawn (notta euphemism).

Hosting friends and family and getting complimented on my cooking.

Traveling to scenes of natural beauty, like Lake Como, Raja Ampat, The Cotswolds, The Penines.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Being able to make a difference

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

Glitter. Cookies. Twirling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hearing people cry.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Wine

This ! Lol

I have had too many wines tonight. Another won't hurt though, right?

MrsAbz

Nope ! I have no wine in

If you were nearer I'd offer you a glass or bottle depending on your mood.

No wine is a terrible thing

MrsAbz "

Ah thank you!! Always a bottle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dogs and family.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"I genuinely don't know anymore"

I can relate to this. Absolutely bugger all apart from my kid

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By *929Man
over a year ago

northumberland

Daft little thing but when my kids still call me dad, I know they always will refer to me as that but it seems less often that they actually use it. Just the other day we came back from the Chinese and as we got out the van she sweetly asked “dad can I play the Xbox” and it just took me back to them being young

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Chocolate.

Chocolate trifle.

Breakfast cereal with extra thick greek yogurt and chocolate pieces

Did I say chocolate?

Being a decent human being that thinks about others.

Chocolate.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

My pets

Books

Cheese

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Also anyone who is saying their dogs and not sending me pictures of their fluffy hellions is doing it wrong

You have seen mine!

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

When my stand offish teen randomly comes up and hugs me for no reason, just simply for a hug.

When he holds my face in his hands and kisses me

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That brings you joy.

I don't mean what brings a smug, self satisfied smile. Nor schadenfreude. Nor what makes you laugh at others.

Just, something that sparks actual joy inside your heart. Or your genitals

My kids, even when they've done something annoying.

A returned smile from someone who is happy to see me.

A genuine, proper, whole hearted and comforting hug.

Amongst other things

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

"Also anyone who is saying their dogs and not sending me pictures of their fluffy hellions is doing it wrong

You have seen mine! "

I want to see them !

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By *esafinadOHolyNightMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Laughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots recently - sunset, rainbows, birds, animals, plants and flowers, random videos of pets and kids, nice coffee, perfect weather during my hikes, a smile or nod from strangers, ....loads of simple things.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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My dog - she brings me joy everyday

Still just as obsessed with her as the day I got her

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

My little waving cat statue, my cheesy playlist, a picture drawn just for me today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wandering around Snowdonia with a collie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughters smiles and hugs

The greeting I get from my dog

Walking

Travelling

Eating good food

Meeting good people

My small circle

That feeling you get from a great meet and connection

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By *use and wolfCouple
over a year ago

angus

Music

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Random cuddles from the Mr & kids.

Music.

The Mr being a dick to make me smile usually works too.

Mrs

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I genuinely don't know anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment, gonks. As I carried a large red stripy-legged gentleman towards the Home Bargains checkout, I was beaming with joy. Horace was carefully transported home (seatbelt on) and my progeny gathered around to celebrate the new addition to the gonk tribe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing a recent picture of my children that I haven’t seen for ten years

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By *ake_or_deathMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Meeting a friendly cat in the street.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

When I'm walking on a beach, listening to the sound of the waves.

Absolute joy and happiness.

When I look out of the window when I open the curtains and see a beautiful sunrise. This also makes me smile.

It really is about appreciating the small and simple things in life.

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