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By *ulieAndBeef OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I have just done something spontaneous and now have unexpected plans for tonight. This is ridiculously out of character so I'm in full on panic mode!

Do you like being spontaneous? Or are you a comfort zone fan like me?

J

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I like being spontaneous

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Usually I'm a planner - only very occasionally am I spontaneous! It has had some excellent results recently though so perhaps I should embrace it more. Have fun tonight!

Mrs TMN x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Comfort zone mostly but i am occasionally spontaneous with mixed results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My body isn't made for spontaneity

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like routine although the odd little spontaneity is good.

Mrs

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Definitely comfort zone for me, but spontaneous every now and again is good too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to have to plan, but I used to have a lover who I called 'Miss Sponteneity' and that was really fun, completely ad hoc calls and meets - she seemed to live a really carefree life and I think was really good for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, depending on what it is.

I prefer to have things planned out though If i can help it.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Im naturally impulsive and do things in the moment id enjoy or regret later

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My life used to be one spontaneous decision after another, until I met the mrs and now it’s all routine and I kind of like the calm.

The mr

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Conversationally-excepted maybe I'm not naturally the spontaneous type, but I probably put myself in situations that can lead to it sometimes just to get myself off my bony ass.

pt

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

Not a planner, spontinaity for me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I plan all my spontaneous decisions carefully.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m guilty of largely staying in my comfort zone. At the moment I’m comfortably stuck because I’m not mobile, but I can feel the anxiety of change creeping in already. Once I’m mended it will be a huge challenge to break out of this zone. Hope you have a fabulous evening OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be spontaneous. I am a jump in with both feet type of person but also a Miss responsible too, so both sides can war with each other. But if I know it's easy to sort out, ie the kids wanted to visit the grandparents, my eldest was in pre school not proper school so I thought why not, why can't we go. So I rang them up, an hour later we were on the road for the 6hr journey back up north me with two kids 3yes and under and 8month pregnant. I did it all by myself so I can be spontaneous.

Now however, I am so much better if someone else has organised it and made sure all responsibilities have been taken care of x basically I'm a lazy arse

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

My brain can’t cope with spontaneity- I’m a planner & everything needs to be put on the family calendar

J x

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I love spontaneity. Sometimes it goes into impulsivity though.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Generally I like to plan things and know what I'm doing, though I'm occasionally impulsive

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

My middle name is pontaneous.

I’m Sam pontaneous.

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