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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone had a previous FWB that they split ways from a while ago and miss them? I recently found out mines got married last month. We saw each other every week for about a year. She'd message me and I was always free at mines. Randomly think of them from time to time and wish I could start it up again.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

That’s a kick in the nuts to be fair …

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My very first FWB and I are still friends (benefits stopped a long, long time ago) so no, I don't miss him as he is still an important part of my life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*nods* I reckon you might have the old romantic version of fomo though? The fact she’s got married has made you wistful about her and getting yourself a new fwb, all pretty normal reactions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My very first FWB and I are still friends (benefits stopped a long, long time ago) so no, I don't miss him as he is still an important part of my life x"

That's nice that you're still friends though! We couldn't remain friends. Just grew apart basically.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*nods* I reckon you might have the old romantic version of fomo though? The fact she’s got married has made you wistful about her and getting yourself a new fwb, all pretty normal reactions "

Certainly not fomo I know that. She comes up as a recommended friend on FB and every time I see her profile I get that flashback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fondly about previous lovers on occasion because I have great memories of times with them (and some are platinic friends now). However, my last FWB was one that I do not think about anymore as that relationship was toxic (although I had gone back to her a couple of times despite warnings from friends [after all the benefits were fun] - but not seen or communicated with her for at least a year now).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think fondly about previous lovers on occasion because I have great memories of times with them (and some are platinic*** friends now). However, my last FWB was one that I do not think about anymore as that relationship was toxic (although I had gone back to her a couple of times despite warnings from friends [after all the benefits were fun] - but not seen or communicated with her for at least a year now). "

One day I will proof read before sending ***platonic

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I tend to have fond memories of everyone I've shared time and affection with.

Sometimes those feeling get mixed in with painful stuff too. That's ok though.

I've been there and started up again it was awesome then it went to the same place it did last time. She struggled with trust and turned controlling. She saw it the second time around though and walked away. To give space for my wife and I. Both relationships couldn't co-exist.

She asked me to choose her. I didn't. So she walked - not without leaving her mark first. I'm ok with that though. That's who she was, part of why I loved her. She was wild and she loved deeply. She changed my life; taught me how to care about myself, what true friendship is and love. She's etched on my shoulder. Kissy-face.

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Its how i live

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Has anyone had a previous FWB that they split ways from a while ago and miss them? I recently found out mines got married last month. We saw each other every week for about a year. She'd message me and I was always free at mines. Randomly think of them from time to time and wish I could start it up again."

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of found this difficult to answer at first but I think it's because although I think fondly of some, if they move on and are happy I'd be happy for them. I'd just count whatever we had as company and being a 'season' in each others lives that we both enjoyed however long it lasted. There's something to be said for the people you can be intimate with in whatever capacity or for however long.

There are some I miss, but I have also been hurt by them.

Others just like playing games and I don't miss them ones.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I miss the sex we had , and we always speak when we see each other.

I wish him all the happiness in the world as he became a dad again a few months ago. I definitely wasn't going down the road with him

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, I have 2 FWB I really miss from here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think fondly about previous lovers on occasion because I have great memories of times with them (and some are platinic friends now). However, my last FWB was one that I do not think about anymore as that relationship was toxic (although I had gone back to her a couple of times despite warnings from friends [after all the benefits were fun] - but not seen or communicated with her for at least a year now). "

Glad you took heed of what others were saying in the end. It's always difficult to distance yourself once feelings get involved especially if it's a FWB.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I kind of found this difficult to answer at first but I think it's because although I think fondly of some, if they move on and are happy I'd be happy for them. I'd just count whatever we had as company and being a 'season' in each others lives that we both enjoyed however long it lasted. There's something to be said for the people you can be intimate with in whatever capacity or for however long.

There are some I miss, but I have also been hurt by them.

Others just like playing games and I don't miss them ones.

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I'm sorry to hear you were hurt by some of them but happy you had some good experiences. In my case it definitely was as what you called a "season" as we saw each other all the time but I know she must of thought it was more but I didn't feel the same.

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By *addad99Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

Yeah was seeing a lady for about 8 yrs we stopped seeing each other before COVID very amicable we still chat most weeks her health isn't great also hubby found out ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah was seeing a lady for about 8 yrs we stopped seeing each other before COVID very amicable we still chat most weeks her health isn't great also hubby found out ??"

Oh shit that's not good the hubby found out

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"Yeah was seeing a lady for about 8 yrs we stopped seeing each other before COVID very amicable we still chat most weeks her health isn't great also hubby found out ??"

That sentence didn't end the way I thought it would!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah was seeing a lady for about 8 yrs we stopped seeing each other before COVID very amicable we still chat most weeks her health isn't great also hubby found out ??

That sentence didn't end the way I thought it would! "

Certainly took a wild turn didn't it?!

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By *addad99Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay


"Yeah was seeing a lady for about 8 yrs we stopped seeing each other before COVID very amicable we still chat most weeks her health isn't great also hubby found out ??

That sentence didn't end the way I thought it would!

Certainly took a wild turn didn't it?!"
definitely did but as said we are still great friends and talk every week

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Yes, I have 2 FWB I really miss from here.

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Sucks doesn't it ?

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I don’t miss any of them. I had some excellent times with them, but they are just part of my past.

Some were kinder than others and the sex was great.

Life changes and it’s just part of the rich tapestry of the many experiences I have had.

I am looking for a new FWB though.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

There's definitely a couple of them I would sleep with again, because it was easy and fun. And they made me feel desirable.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I can think back fondly but miss them? No. They all ended where they should have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for sure. A couple of guys I'd love to catch up with again but we just moved on.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Yes there's one guy.

We stopped meeting as he met someone he wanted to be with, they are still together a year down the line.

We speak on and off just to catch up as friends

But he was there through a big change in my life and helped me through it and I will always be grateful to him and for opening my eyes to an amazing sex life is and what I enjoy now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I married mine

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It's quite normal to miss friends

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I love the memories I made with my previous friends with benefits.

Funnily enough every now and then, they keep popping back up in my life. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my FWB will always be there in the background of my life, he built my confidence back up, he introduced me things that certainly certainly weren’t vanilla but WOW!

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"My very first FWB and I are still friends (benefits stopped a long, long time ago) so no, I don't miss him as he is still an important part of my life x"

Mine went to go & Live in Oz but has come over a few times, but not much for conversation & the sex wasnt the best either

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I fucked up the perfect goodbye by acting like a nutjob baby who lost his dummy and bear once i realised i was losing her i regret my behaviour and am haunted by it and will miss her until im dead but in the end i deserve to lose for my mental frailty

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"I fucked up the perfect goodbye by acting like a nutjob baby who lost his dummy and bear once i realised i was losing her i regret my behaviour and am haunted by it and will miss her until im dead but in the end i deserve to lose for my mental frailty "

hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a stop gap for both my past fwb, which suited us both just fine. That was the understanding. They both eventually found a more permanent relationship and moved on. We parted amicably..I have fond memories but don’t miss them as such.

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"Yeah was seeing a lady for about 8 yrs we stopped seeing each other before COVID very amicable we still chat most weeks her health isn't great also hubby found out ??

That sentence didn't end the way I thought it would! "

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