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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Well I finished work a bit early so went to the pub with some of the work lads I remember most of what happened and I am thinking it was just chatting shit and laughing and joking but I feel I may have said or done some thing and I know that's what you get and it's normal but I seem to be having it really bad today and well can't relax feeling very anxious and nervous I don't know why I am posting this I guess just some where to vent and try and get it out of my system

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

The anxiousness may well be an after effect of the alcohol in your system.

I don’t drink as a rule but when I do, the next day I invariably feel anxious, somewhat depressed and generally ‘not entirely with it’.

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Agree with the post above it definitely does something to your brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah probably just the hangover making you anxious.

If your mates say anything just say "ohhhh I always talk crap when I'm pissed! Did I tell you I'm a swinger, or about the time I woke up in a skip on the back of a barge on the Thames?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a tree sheds leaves, does it worry about every leaf?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Try not to worry op, it's definitely due to the alcohol you've had.

I'm sure you didn't do anything too bad & I bet they were chatting shit also after a few.

I've felt like it in the past after a big night out, but it was all fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a tree sheds leaves, does it worry about every leaf?

"

Leaf it out luv ;-p

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Were they all drinking? If so they're probably feeling the same this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When a tree sheds leaves, does it worry about every leaf?

Leaf it out luv ;-p "

Oi this is quality drivel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the fear yesterday like you OP....awful innit....kinda knowing you said something outta line & outta character & then you really start thinking the worst & half the things you thought you said weren't said at all ha....so try & chill.... The Fear will leave you soon enough....plenty of water & sleep....flush out the toxic alcohol & you'll be fine OP

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"I had the fear yesterday like you OP....awful innit....kinda knowing you said something outta line & outta character & then you really start thinking the worst & half the things you thought you said weren't said at all ha....so try & chill.... The Fear will leave you soon enough....plenty of water & sleep....flush out the toxic alcohol & you'll be fine OP "
Its all banter Between and I’m sure they’re your friends after all , Alcohol can make you paranoid depending on what your drinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I finished work a bit early so went to the pub with some of the work lads I remember most of what happened and I am thinking it was just chatting shit and laughing and joking but I feel I may have said or done some thing and I know that's what you get and it's normal but I seem to be having it really bad today and well can't relax feeling very anxious and nervous I don't know why I am posting this I guess just some where to vent and try and get it out of my system "

If this is a one off then I’d say don’t sweat it, your most likely fine

However; if your drinking is regularly leading you to not remember much of the night and do or say things you regret later, that’s a sign you might want to talk to someone and look at cutting how much and how often you are drinking

Drug/drink problems are real slow burners and we can often be much deeper than we realise

Hope your good and get whatever help you need, if you need it

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"Well I finished work a bit early so went to the pub with some of the work lads I remember most of what happened and I am thinking it was just chatting shit and laughing and joking but I feel I may have said or done some thing and I know that's what you get and it's normal but I seem to be having it really bad today and well can't relax feeling very anxious and nervous I don't know why I am posting this I guess just some where to vent and try and get it out of my system "

Why not just ask them?

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Well tbh I did not think this meny of you would reply but thanks it really did help reading them all and to answer some of the questions I have been asked

I drink regular but not excessive when I do drink

We was all drinking and so yes I am sure we was all feeling a bit off at work today

I asked 2 of them when at work and they said I was fine and if anything so and so was the one who was been a problem

So all in all it was just my beer fear and maybe mixed with my meds that put me in the state I was but to everyone thank you really nice to just vent and such

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"The anxiousness may well be an after effect of the alcohol in your system.

I don’t drink as a rule but when I do, the next day I invariably feel anxious, somewhat depressed and generally ‘not entirely with it’."

Yes that's what I did not understand as I did not go over board or mad with it but then to wake up like I did it throw me off

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Agree with the post above it definitely does something to your brain "

Yeah very much so that's why I try to only drink once in the week and the week ends but yeah does some thing for sure

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Yeah probably just the hangover making you anxious.

If your mates say anything just say "ohhhh I always talk crap when I'm pissed! Did I tell you I'm a swinger, or about the time I woke up in a skip on the back of a barge on the Thames?"

"

Ha funny enough I have told them a few things that has happened in swingers clubs but always say this was years ago when I used to go to them lol

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

I come out with some utter crap after I’ve had a few 2 many… where it comes from , god knows

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"When a tree sheds leaves, does it worry about every leaf?

"

No but I am the worst for worrying anyway let alone when I drink lol

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Try not to worry op, it's definitely due to the alcohol you've had.

I'm sure you didn't do anything too bad & I bet they were chatting shit also after a few.

I've felt like it in the past after a big night out, but it was all fine. "

Well from what I was told I was fine and very well behaved lol so I will take that as win

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Were they all drinking? If so they're probably feeling the same this morning"

Yes we was but I have also put it down to me not having eaten much in the day so I am saying that did not help at all

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I had the fear yesterday like you OP....awful innit....kinda knowing you said something outta line & outta character & then you really start thinking the worst & half the things you thought you said weren't said at all ha....so try & chill.... The Fear will leave you soon enough....plenty of water & sleep....flush out the toxic alcohol & you'll be fine OP "

Yeah it's not to fun but I have got over the worst bit been to work eaten and enjoyed a bit of shit TV before bed ready to sleep and rest

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Well I finished work a bit early so went to the pub with some of the work lads I remember most of what happened and I am thinking it was just chatting shit and laughing and joking but I feel I may have said or done some thing and I know that's what you get and it's normal but I seem to be having it really bad today and well can't relax feeling very anxious and nervous I don't know why I am posting this I guess just some where to vent and try and get it out of my system

If this is a one off then I’d say don’t sweat it, your most likely fine

However; if your drinking is regularly leading you to not remember much of the night and do or say things you regret later, that’s a sign you might want to talk to someone and look at cutting how much and how often you are drinking

Drug/drink problems are real slow burners and we can often be much deeper than we realise

Hope your good and get whatever help you need, if you need it "

I am not where nere as bad as I was a few years back pints of vodka and Fanta lol also not done drugs in years so very happy with that just got to find the line between having fun and over doing it should of learnt by now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know that feeling it’s awful, glad you are feeling better

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Well I finished work a bit early so went to the pub with some of the work lads I remember most of what happened and I am thinking it was just chatting shit and laughing and joking but I feel I may have said or done some thing and I know that's what you get and it's normal but I seem to be having it really bad today and well can't relax feeling very anxious and nervous I don't know why I am posting this I guess just some where to vent and try and get it out of my system

Why not just ask them?"

I did I asked a few of them and well said I was fine so now I just feel silly for worrying so much but it happens we all make fools out of our selfs at some point so just take the hit and move on us what I am going to do

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"I come out with some utter crap after I’ve had a few 2 many… where it comes from , god knows "

Tell me about it lol just like a gob shite on legs me lol

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By *reakShow90 OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"Know that feeling it’s awful, glad you are feeling better "

Yeah much better relaxing resting and once again telling myself it won't happen again lol

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