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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On what time of day you send your message as to whether or not you will get a response ?

Hello beautiful fab folk….

I was just curious if the timing matters….

I realise people maybe in work 8-5 … so should I message in the evening to prevent being lost in their masses ?

Always curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these masses people talk of??

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Timing doesn't matter. You know your people when they appear.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Jordanhill / Scotstoun


"What are these masses people talk of??"
I think it is the masses of cock pics in peoples inboxs

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By *ndtheswingersMan
over a year ago

colchester


"What are these masses people talk of??"

Where the Catholics go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are these masses people talk of??I think it is the masses of cock pics in peoples inboxs"

Well now I feel left out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes yes sometimes no just depends

Ie if I receive 5 are you free now meets in the morning I tend to just say stuff the message to day

I will look but if it’s not another formite I tend to just ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a first message earlier. Didn't even consider the time of day.

I just figure it's going to stay in the inbox till they either read or don't or delete it.

Surely it doesn't matter does it?

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I tend to be a lot less tolerant when I'm at work and often have a quick look and delete without much thought.

Messages received when I'm relaxing at home are possibly given slightly more consideration before I delete them.

In general though it more depends on the message content than when I receive it.

Crap messages (especially first messages with a dick pic attached) will get deleted regardless of the time of day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are these masses people talk of??"

Well I am sure …in some cases…. That a message can get lost underneath all the other messages that come thereafter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Timing doesn't matter. You know your people when they appear."

True I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are these masses people talk of??I think it is the masses of cock pics in peoples inboxs"

People don’t send dick pics surely

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"On what time of day you send your message as to whether or not you will get a response ?

Hello beautiful fab folk….

I was just curious if the timing matters….

I realise people maybe in work 8-5 … so should I message in the evening to prevent being lost in their masses ?

Always curious "
Definitely, early morning no reply afternoon a better chance and late evening the best chance of a reply

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Time of day doesn't really matter to me, unless it's a late night meet now message, that's a delete.

If I want to reply I will, regardless of time I get a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think timing my messages actually works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not going to disappear from their inbox depending on what time of day you send the message, so I don’t think it matters. They will get back to you eventually if they are interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying that, Friday nights about 9 is when I've usually had wine so I'm more inclined to reply.

Not necessarily a nice reply though.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"It’s not going to disappear from their inbox depending on what time of day you send the message, so I don’t think it matters. They will get back to you eventually if they are interested. "

Can confirm the eventually part...

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"It’s not going to disappear from their inbox depending on what time of day you send the message, so I don’t think it matters. They will get back to you eventually if they are interested. "

4 weeks later

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sent a first message earlier. Didn't even consider the time of day.

I just figure it's going to stay in the inbox till they either read or don't or delete it.

Surely it doesn't matter does it? "

No I get that it stays there…. I just wondered if … do people give up on catching up haha and that’s likely to be messages that were sent in work time … just curious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s not going to disappear from their inbox depending on what time of day you send the message, so I don’t think it matters. They will get back to you eventually if they are interested. "

True point ….

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I can't understand, every time I log on at work for a quick nose, a message always appears "free now"

Sometimes I answer and sometimes I don't. If I'm bored at home and put a status up for a meeting, I hardly get any messages.

I suppose the guys are back with their wifes at that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not going to disappear from their inbox depending on what time of day you send the message, so I don’t think it matters. They will get back to you eventually if they are interested.

Can confirm the eventually part... "

Not me though, I’m very efficient at replying to messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not going to disappear from their inbox depending on what time of day you send the message, so I don’t think it matters. They will get back to you eventually if they are interested.

4 weeks later "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s never crossed my mind that there’s an optimum time of day to message.

As I work nights most of mine go out in the early hours.

I figure the recipients will open them if they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has different commitments, equally everyone sees things differently. There's no one answer or etiquette.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s never crossed my mind that there’s an optimum time of day to message.

As I work nights most of mine go out in the early hours.

I figure the recipients will open them if they want to."

Well I guess not everyone works daytime … didn’t think of that ha

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