FabSwingers.com forum: Replying

By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Way people are Quick to reply to insults, but not when you say hello. Im noticing some peoples conversations. Lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Way people are Quick to reply to insults, but not when you say hello. Im noticing some peoples conversations. Lately "

In DMs or on the forum?

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By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I’m seeing this on DMs

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester

Why are you sending people insults?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m seeing this on DMs "

Wait, so you insult people through messages?

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By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I’m not sending I have just noticed reading other peoples comments I just thought I started chatting topic

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Why would u send insults? X

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By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I don’t think if I did, I would still be here i’m running out of respectful profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m seeing this on DMs

Wait, so you insult people through messages?

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By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Not my DMS on peoples header on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not my DMS on peoples header on the profile "

Are you trying to backtrack now?

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By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Trust me, I’ve done backtrack also been running this profile for a long time my review says otherwise

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I guess it's because they're not interested in meeting the person so wouldn't respond to a 'nice' message but feel affronted by an insult do defend themselves.

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By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

But you could do the same, ignore it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Way people are Quick to reply to insults, "

You must not insult people, it's just not the done thing. I appreciate that getting a yellow letter sign that you have mail may be exciting, but it just not is just not cricket!

"but not when you say hello."

Maybe if in addition to saying 'hello' you add some nice chat, commenting on something of interest in their profile (though obviously not insulting them as per comment above). It does appear that FAF or attaching a dick pic is not the done thing though.

" Im noticing some peoples conversations."

It's good that you are noticing some, maybe they will notice you.

" Lately "

I have had the strangest feeling

With no vivid reason here to find

Yet the thought of losing you's been hanging

'Round my mind

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By *uffolkcouple-bi onlyCouple
over a year ago

West Suffolk

If someone just says hello then that’s all they will get back, assuming we’re interested. If we’re not we’ll just delete the message on the basis that if they’re not at least going to try to start a conversation, they don’t deserve a reply.

We seldom get insults although ironically we did receive one this morning. They blocked us straight away so we couldn’t reply even if we wanted to. I don’t get why people send insulting messages, like what’s the point? Just a total waste of they’re time

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"I guess it's because they're not interested in meeting the person so wouldn't respond to a 'nice' message but feel affronted by an insult do defend themselves."

This, or they don't like the other person having the last word maybe.

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By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Yes completely agree with you that’s the reason why I started this conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes completely agree with you that’s the reason why I started this conversation "

Yes it is especially when they message you asking for a meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I guess it's because they're not interested in meeting the person so wouldn't respond to a 'nice' message but feel affronted by an insult do defend themselves.

This, or they don't like the other person having the last word maybe. "

Highly likely.

We tend to chuckle between ourselves before blocking

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By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Yes I know. I like to get to know the person. I wait until the other person asks to meet

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By *ensualmassage1979 OP Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A insult might get a reply.

It is likely to be a short one, followed by a block.

Not what I would call a success.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

If you can’t be bothered with more than “hello” (or comparable) then I can’t be bothered to reply.

If I get an insult etc …. I’m a feisty little sod and I quite like a row. If I get them out of the way on here it makes me a nicer person offline. Win/win

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