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Sexuality classification? Help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello, I'm looking for advice from those who may have experience this before...

So I am married to my beautiful wife, we are happy, strong, trusting but her approach to sex and pleasure is confusing to me .... it's this.. she says she gets pleasure from making me happy sexually and giving me what I want.. and not from her getting physical pleasure.. so much so that she is happy to do anything to fulfill my fantasies because it would make me happy and that she'd be happy ....I know it sound to good to be true..

Is this such a thing /kink

Others similar?

I'll never abuse the situation but am confused about whether it's correct or not...

We've been together 32 years and she's happy attending clubs and we aren't jealous type..

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sub?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I get off on getting the people I care about off.

I'm quite happy to spend a good few hours just sucking dick and making them feel good.

I do also appreciate being allowed the occasional orgasm though

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The modern obsession with labels is getting detrimental, IMO.

Not criticising you OP, only that current culture seems to want classify E-V-E-R-Y-T-H-I-N-G…..and here you are, seemingly a little stressed over what that classification should be.

If it’s working OK for you both, just crack on and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, Interesting replies.. so would you happily go with another girl for example because your partner would like it ?

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By *ose manMan
over a year ago

kells

As long as it doesn't hurt ...

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Thanks guys, Interesting replies.. so would you happily go with another girl for example because your partner would like it ? "

I'd go with another girl because there was a mutual attraction. I wouldn't use a human I wasn't interested in to get someone else off however much I cared about them.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I can appreciate that someone is a people pleaser and gets off on that. But it's important to understand that your partner is like that and you don't abuse their submissive nature for your own gains.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone xx much appreciated

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