FabSwingers.com forum: No kissing

By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I apologise if the thread has been posted in the past already. What do you think of those couples or singles that specifically requesto no kissing during the intercourse? In my case it is a completely turn off. No kissing would reduce my act to a mechanical one similar to paying fir sex but, as I said, it is my personal opinion. What about you?

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

It would put me of meeting if they said no kissing. It would feel more transactional than a passionate meet.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

If they want to kiss me fine...if not, no problem. I would certainly not ask or move in to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone was against kissing, I'd never meet them. It's as simple as that. It would be like if someone tried to wear high heels or chastity, my dick would shrivel into my body and my arse would seal shut, I can think of few greater turn offs.

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By *hrek101Man
over a year ago

Herts

No kissing, no point

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Kissing is a a must for me wouldn't seem like sex be just a wham bam thank you mam.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

No kissing no sex.

I'd say we could be friends but I've not come across anyone who doesn't kiss and wants to be friends either

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By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I am glad i am not the only one like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When part of a couple on here, we had a no-kissing stipulation. Met many couples, a few wouldn’t meet because of this. Met loads of single guys only had one refuse to meet because there’d be no kissing- I really really wanted to meet him, but had to say ‘ooh don’t wanna meet him anyway’ to the other half

I’d never go down the no-kissing route again, coupled up or single. Understand why some couples keep it for themselves though

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

No kissing no point

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No kissing = not for me.

Each to their own, if you can't respect their boundaries then they aren't for you.

Mrs

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By *heitaliandreamer OP Man
over a year ago

Northampton

"When part of a couple on here, we had a no-kissing stipulation. Met many couples, a few wouldn’t meet because of this. Met loads of single guys only had one refuse to meet because there’d be no kissing- I really really wanted to meet him, but had to say ‘ooh don’t wanna meet him anyway’ to the other half

I’d never go down the no-kissing route again, coupled up or single. Understand why some couples keep it for themselves though"

Can i ask why no kissing if you allow your partner ho have full intercourse?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If you don't want to meet people like us, quite simply ... don't. Meeting us is not comparable to meeting a sex worker, you'd probably have a better time with a sex worker. Neither is it mechanical.

There's no need to worry though because the people who don't kiss their casual meets fully understand that they aren't compatible with those who feel it's necessary, we don't judge them though.

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

I won't meet someone with a no kissing rule. Clearly we aren't compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d never go down the no-kissing route again, coupled up or single. Understand why some couples keep it for themselves though

Can i ask why no kissing if you allow your partner ho have full intercourse?"
I do think kissing is the bestest most intimate act there is (when done with compatibles) It’s a truly loving act. Sexual intercourse is usually just that - sexual intercourse. Feeds a need, a lust. I could watch him fuck others and not feel anything but throw kissing into the mix…

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By *ool CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Richmond

people ask for how they want it, no kissing is fine

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I won't meet someone with a no kissing rule. Clearly we aren't compatible."

Exactly. Incompatibility comes about for many reasons.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I know.its each to their own, but no kissing is a deal breaker for me

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We have no issue with kissing but we know couples and singles that don’t kiss and no one has ever turned them down due to this..

Maybe some people just like to keep something back for each other.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

"I won't meet someone with a no kissing rule. Clearly we aren't compatible."

This is how I feel. I don’t judge anyone for it but i wouldn’t enjoy sex without kissing.

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By *otwife and MasterCouple
over a year ago

Derby

We don’t do kissing and have never been turned down because of it. Our guys are very happy to be sex toys, they have a great time as do we!

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By *he KinkysCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Everyone is different. Some like it and some don’t.

Definitely has to be some kissing for us though

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By *hatbiatchWoman
over a year ago

craigavon

Each to their own but I enjoy kissing

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Initially we had a no kissing rule but it went out the window pretty quickly.

Especially as my friends will randomly come up to me and give me a smooch anyway, so it seemed too much hassle to stick to it and it doesn't cause us any issues.

I don't judge others for it though, each to their own

MrsAbz

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think that's their choice and perfectly valid if it works for them.

I wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't kiss me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to meet people like us, quite simply ... don't. Meeting us is not comparable to meeting a sex worker, you'd probably have a better time with a sex worker. Neither is it mechanical.

There's no need to worry though because the people who don't kiss their casual meets fully understand that they aren't compatible with those who feel it's necessary, we don't judge them though. "

This.

I'm always a little dumbfounded when people make the cold and mechanical claim. If someone lacks the imagination to be unable to envisage how a meet without kissing me on the mouth can be more than just sticking their penis in me then we absolutely are not compatible

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I apologise if the thread has been posted in the past already. What do you think of those couples or singles that specifically requesto no kissing during the intercourse? In my case it is a completely turn off. No kissing would reduce my act to a mechanical one similar to paying fir sex but, as I said, it is my personal opinion. What about you?"
The people that put no kissing want just that the mechanical act of sex, kissing is intimate and they don't want intimacy

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

"I think that's their choice and perfectly valid if it works for them.

I wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't kiss me though. "

I’d kiss you anywhere you wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I apologise if the thread has been posted in the past already. What do you think of those couples or singles that specifically requesto no kissing during the intercourse? In my case it is a completely turn off. No kissing would reduce my act to a mechanical one similar to paying fir sex but, as I said, it is my personal opinion. What about you?The people that put no kissing want just that the mechanical act of sex, kissing is intimate and they don't want intimacy

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Is that all there is? Kissing someone on the mouth and the mechanical act of sex? Nothing in between?

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

Not for me. Kissing is part of the act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two men have met me and didn't want to kiss although neither told me beforehand that they wouldn't. Another reason to be wary. Kissing is intimate, yes - sex is supposed to be intimate.

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By *et and WillingCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Got to have a good snog

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By *dmundwilsonMan
over a year ago

Llandudno

Impersonal liaisons dont work for me.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

My FWB couple did start with a no kissing rule but it gradually gave way as we got to know and trust each other - or rather, when they got to realise I wasn't a threat to their relationship. I did miss it very much and would want any future meets to include it.

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By *wice pleaseMan
over a year ago

near Darlington

I’ve always been happy to do either. It does seem a little odd to me though and certainly detracts from the experience and spontaneity of an intimate encounter I’m very much a go with the flow sort of guy and do love to kiss. But it’s your game and your rules and I’m happy to work around.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't do a meet where kissing was banned. Would feel far too detached

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I wouldn't meet under those coditions.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Personally love kissing but sometimes still fun without. Think it is less common one on one but with couples, foursomes, group sex it is not unusual for some not to kiss. Or perhaps a little kiss rather than the full on long snog. That is the rule many couples have The trouble is you don’t always know beforehand unless ask directly which can be a bit crass. Easier to weave it in conversation if just a one on one situation.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you don't want to meet people like us, quite simply ... don't. Meeting us is not comparable to meeting a sex worker, you'd probably have a better time with a sex worker. Neither is it mechanical.

There's no need to worry though because the people who don't kiss their casual meets fully understand that they aren't compatible with those who feel it's necessary, we don't judge them though.

This.

I'm dumbfounded at how casually people will compare someone they've never met or are likely to meet to sex workers.

Personally I have no problem with it sex workers are pribably bloomin good at what they do but I don't think it's intended to be complimentary

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Personally love kissing but sometimes still fun without. Think it is less common one on one but with couples, foursomes, group sex it is not unusual for some not to kiss. Or perhaps a little kiss rather than the full on long snog. That is the rule many couples have The trouble is you don’t always know beforehand unless ask directly which can be a bit crass. Easier to weave it in conversation if just a one on one situation. "

Its on our profile so people can avoid us

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

I do have recollection of one party this year where ended up alone with female half of a couple who didn’t kiss but it was mind blowing in other ways for both of us. Got my snogging fix with two other ladies there

Not every person has to offer everything.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Its on our profile so people can avoid us

Lol that’s good idea if it’s important to you either way. More should do the same.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

If a nice lady has my cock down the back of her throat Im not going to insist she kisses me. I do feel it adds to the intimacy but if im joining a couple its about respecting mutual boundaries - theirs might be no kissing and mine might be no dildos up my arse.. as long as you know ahead of time you can make an informed decision - i had it sprung on me once and it was a shame as it would have added to it but they also said, no oral either way- just spank her fuck her and leave… decided to just leave as that was try transactional in feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the act that gets me goin it's where the passion starts

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm a very tactile person and adore kissing. I'd be very disappointed if it wasn't on offer - just too 'cold' without it

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"I'm a very tactile person and adore kissing. I'd be very disappointed if it wasn't on offer - just too 'cold' without it"

Let's just say three ladies were on their knees offering to suck your cock together and then you could fuck one or more of them. But no kissing. Would you be disappointed?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"I'm a very tactile person and adore kissing. I'd be very disappointed if it wasn't on offer - just too 'cold' without it

Let's just say three ladies were on their knees offering to suck your cock together and then you could fuck one or more of them. But no kissing. Would you be disappointed?

Brb, just editing my previous comment

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By *hiteWitchXXXWoman
over a year ago

North Wales

It's up to them but I couldn't have sex without kissing

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"I'm a very tactile person and adore kissing. I'd be very disappointed if it wasn't on offer - just too 'cold' without it

Let's just say three ladies were on their knees offering to suck your cock together and then you could fuck one or more of them. But no kissing. Would you be disappointed?

Brb, just editing my previous comment

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"If you don't want to meet people like us, quite simply ... don't. Meeting us is not comparable to meeting a sex worker, you'd probably have a better time with a sex worker. Neither is it mechanical.

There's no need to worry though because the people who don't kiss their casual meets fully understand that they aren't compatible with those who feel it's necessary, we don't judge them though.

This.

I'm dumbfounded at how casually people will compare someone they've never met or are likely to meet to sex workers.

Personally I have no problem with it sex workers are pribably bloomin good at what they do but I don't think it's intended to be complimentary

Some of my closest friends are or have been sex workers. I love them to bits and I have zero doubt that they are awesome at what they do.

I just need kissing - it's a me thing not an assumption about anyone else. Actually, that's not entirely true - I need one person present where that connection exists. But let's not overcomplicate things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate they appreciate oral hygiene and don't like bits of other people's food in their mouths.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you don't want to meet people like us, quite simply ... don't. Meeting us is not comparable to meeting a sex worker, you'd probably have a better time with a sex worker. Neither is it mechanical.

There's no need to worry though because the people who don't kiss their casual meets fully understand that they aren't compatible with those who feel it's necessary, we don't judge them though.

This.

I'm dumbfounded at how casually people will compare someone they've never met or are likely to meet to sex workers.

Personally I have no problem with it sex workers are pribably bloomin good at what they do but I don't think it's intended to be complimentary

Some of my closest friends are or have been sex workers. I love them to bits and I have zero doubt that they are awesome at what they do.

I don't think you have made assumptions.

. This is very much an 'if the cap fits 'scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does put me off too. Kissing is my biggest turn on, and I actually walked out a meet as I was told that the wife wouldn’t kiss. In fact they told me that they wouldn’t kiss each other during sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing

Nothing further

Simples

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By *tsJustKateWoman
over a year ago

London

Kissing is a must for me!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I apologise if the thread has been posted in the past already. What do you think of those couples or singles that specifically requesto no kissing during the intercourse? In my case it is a completely turn off. No kissing would reduce my act to a mechanical one similar to paying fir sex but, as I said, it is my personal opinion. What about you?The people that put no kissing want just that the mechanical act of sex, kissing is intimate and they don't want intimacy

Is that all there is? Kissing someone on the mouth and the mechanical act of sex? Nothing in between?

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Well for me kissing is foreplay

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I avoid them

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I would much rather kids someone than not. In fact I wouldn't meet someone who wasn't interested in kissing

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Kissing is the most important aspect to me. So it would be a big no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I apologise if the thread has been posted in the past already. What do you think of those couples or singles that specifically requesto no kissing during the intercourse? In my case it is a completely turn off. No kissing would reduce my act to a mechanical one similar to paying fir sex but, as I said, it is my personal opinion. What about you?The people that put no kissing want just that the mechanical act of sex, kissing is intimate and they don't want intimacy

Is that all there is? Kissing someone on the mouth and the mechanical act of sex? Nothing in between?

Well for me kissing is foreplay

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Whether to kiss or not has never once come up in conversation on here

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Kissing is the most important aspect to me. So it would be a big no."

Kissing is for me too

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

You have to have passionate kisses

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Kissing is so important. If you say no to that, than you’re just killing it

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I will sometimes kiss, but only if I want to on meet - I'll never meet anyone who demands it!

And obviously ( ?) I'm talking about kissing on the lips.

No way am I promising to snog someone before I've met them, no way.

I think that kissing lips to the lips needs to mean at least something to me, even it's just pure passion!

No way am I promising such passion in advance though!

This it the 'Sydney University' topic for me (it's been done a thousand times at least OP) - and the one that's so distinctive to Fabswingers! I've even seen threads that say 'how on earth can people not want this? What nonsense it that?' I don't think it's what everyone would necessarily expect though - ie if you described this place to them.

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By *aughty_hotwife44Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

It’s all about that kiss

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Are a lot of people saying kissing a must thinking of one on one encounters only? Need some context

I agree in such situations and almost everybody seems to kiss one on one.

In broader swinging world - group situations of various kinds - not kissing or minimal kissing is not unusual and many happy with it. Maybe 50/50. Personally if one on one I want to kiss but if a lady in a group wants to suck my cock or fuck I can survive without kissing

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

kissing is a must for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My imagination lacks without kissing so can't act without it. Only times were it was limited to oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy kissing very much.

However know this can be intimate between a couple, so totally respect if that's off limits.

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

As much as I enjoy kissing, I bet I could make you cum just using my mouth in other ways

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

When I had a 3 sum, I was dissappointed there was no Kissing involved!!!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I love a good snog

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Are a lot of people saying kissing a must thinking of one on one encounters only? Need some context

I agree in such situations and almost everybody seems to kiss one on one.

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We have no issue with kissing but we very rarely see it in group situations and no one has ever walked out of group play due to not having a kiss

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I apologise if the thread has been posted in the past already. What do you think of those couples or singles that specifically requesto no kissing during the intercourse? In my case it is a completely turn off. No kissing would reduce my act to a mechanical one similar to paying fir sex but, as I said, it is my personal opinion. What about you?The people that put no kissing want just that the mechanical act of sex, kissing is intimate and they don't want intimacy

Is that all there is? Kissing someone on the mouth and the mechanical act of sex? Nothing in between?

Well for me kissing is foreplay

Ah well, for me there's more to foreplay than kissing someone on the mouth. If someone thought they could just go straight from kissing me on my mouth to putting their penis inside me, we wouldn't be in anyway compatible "
Well for me kissing is a vital part of foreplay and sex and putting the penis in is secondary

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Definitely off putting for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good snog, and if it’s off limits , then i won’t meet, where’s the erotic fun without it !

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Just my personal opinion obviously but I can't understand the no kissing thing ..

I love kissing so give me all the kisses please

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Just my personal opinion obviously but I can't understand the no kissing thing ..

I love kissing so give me all the kisses please

Mwah x

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

I only kiss if you pretends shes a goldfish named bob

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By *wannafreakyouMan
over a year ago

london

Kissing is a must otherwise it’s hard to get in the mood

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It's not for me, I love kissing and the intimacy

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

It's a preferably no kissing for me! If that's a turn of for peeps then that's on them! Can find plenty of peeps on here that are happy not to kiss x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kissing, no point "

This

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By *NV14INVCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Depends on the kissing. For us it’s anywhere but not on the mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand why they choose not to but I need the kissing!

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By *igDesire2Couple
over a year ago

belfast

Kissing is such a turn on (if done properly) but everyone is different - haven’t encountered anyone who has a no-kissing rule….yet

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

No kissing means no fun.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

No kissing?

No meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to kiss. I would only do a meet if I felt really really comfortable with someone....and if I couldn't kiss them...then it just would'nt feel right. I respect boundaries, but we wouldn't meet if that wasn't part of our intimate time together.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

"I like to kiss. I would only do a meet if I felt really really comfortable with someone....and if I couldn't kiss them...then it just would'nt feel right. I respect boundaries, but we wouldn't meet if that wasn't part of our intimate time together. "

That is a good description of how I’d feel about it too. I’d never push anyone to do something they don’t want to do, but that’s too important to me so I just wouldn’t meet somebody instead

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We absolutely respect others boundaries but if they insist on kissing we're not going to meet them.

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By *annibal_LickedherMan
over a year ago

The Side of the Mersey

"We absolutely respect others boundaries but if they insist on kissing we're not going to meet them. "

Which is entirely reasonable. It has to be fair both ways doesn’t it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We absolutely respect others boundaries but if they insist on kissing we're not going to meet them.

Which is entirely reasonable. It has to be fair both ways doesn’t it.

Yes it does.

However it's rare to see people who don't kiss stridently insisting that they won't meet those who do. I sometimes wonder (present company excepted) if the kissers'doeth protest too much'.

Apologies to W. Shakespeare for the misquote

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

And tbh I've never been turned down when I've said I prefer not to kiss! (Yet anyway) x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I've updated my status to ask if people would turn down a meet if their was preferably no kissing involved! Will post the results ! X

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Lol status only been up 15 mins shall have to take it down! Inundated! But out of the replies 2 said no kissing no meet with one who changed his mind! X

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We absolutely respect others boundaries but if they insist on kissing we're not going to meet them.

Which is entirely reasonable. It has to be fair both ways doesn’t it.

Yes it does.

However it's rare to see people who don't kiss stridently insisting that they won't meet those who do. I sometimes wonder (present company excepted) if the kissers'doeth protest too much'.

Apologies to W. Shakespeare for the misquote

I think this is true, any stridency related to kissing tends to be the other way here (and it's the same over on Fabguys too - I meant to say this topic is idiosyncratic to both the Fabs in my post above).

Shakespeare just messaged to say it's ok btw (and he's enjoying the thread). pt

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I dislike the notion that of you don't kiss sex becomes mechanical. I'm not particularly fond of kissing it's not the way I express love at all. That doesn't mean I can't feel intimate with someone and sex is always mechanical. Nobody feels the need to say sex is mechanical if you don't do oral sex. Just because something is standard issue with sex doesn't mean everyone enjoys it to the same extent.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We absolutely respect others boundaries but if they insist on kissing we're not going to meet them.

Which is entirely reasonable. It has to be fair both ways doesn’t it.

Yes it does.

However it's rare to see people who don't kiss stridently insisting that they won't meet those who do. I sometimes wonder (present company excepted) if the kissers'doeth protest too much'.

Apologies to W. Shakespeare for the misquote

Shakespeare just messaged to say it's ok btw (and he's enjoying the thread). pt"

I expect he's glad to get a mention

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I won't meet someone with a no kissing rule. Clearly we aren't compatible."
so you'd give up having sex with an incredibly sexy lady if that was her preference? Hmmmm.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Can i ask why no kissing if you allow your partner to have full intercourse?"

That's a strange one... I debated this with a gf who said her mouth is more intimate, so won't kiss unless he's special but would ride on a cock anytime.

I'm the opposite, I can suck a cock any day but I'll need to really like him before I'll have full intercourse with him...

As for kissing, it's a no-brainer. One of my fuck buddy... If he is soft on performance anxiety, all I need to do is distract him with a good snog.... five mins and he's fully engaged... or is that engorged....

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We absolutely respect others boundaries but if they insist on kissing we're not going to meet them.

Which is entirely reasonable. It has to be fair both ways doesn’t it.

Yes it does.

However it's rare to see people who don't kiss stridently insisting that they won't meet those who do. I sometimes wonder (present company excepted) if the kissers'doeth protest too much'.

Apologies to W. Shakespeare for the misquote

Shakespeare just messaged to say it's ok btw (and he's enjoying the thread). pt

I expect he's glad to get a mention

He said sorry again for his forum ban

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We absolutely respect others boundaries but if they insist on kissing we're not going to meet them.

Which is entirely reasonable. It has to be fair both ways doesn’t it.

Yes it does.

However it's rare to see people who don't kiss stridently insisting that they won't meet those who do. I sometimes wonder (present company excepted) if the kissers'doeth protest too much'.

Apologies to W. Shakespeare for the misquote

Shakespeare just messaged to say it's ok btw (and he's enjoying the thread). pt

I expect he's glad to get a mention

He said sorry again for his forum ban

I suppose 700 years is excessive but honestly you can't say 'Aroint thee: go away, rump-fed runion: slut' to a mod and expect to get away with it

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"We absolutely respect others boundaries but if they insist on kissing we're not going to meet them.

Which is entirely reasonable. It has to be fair both ways doesn’t it.

Yes it does.

However it's rare to see people who don't kiss stridently insisting that they won't meet those who do. I sometimes wonder (present company excepted) if the kissers'doeth protest too much'.

Apologies to W. Shakespeare for the misquote

Shakespeare just messaged to say it's ok btw (and he's enjoying the thread). pt

I expect he's glad to get a mention

He said sorry again for his forum ban

I suppose 700 years is excessive but honestly you can't say 'Aroint thee: go away, rump-fed runion: slut' to a mod and expect to get away with it

Especially with all those added Zounds!

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Fine with me. Not a deal breaker.

Most of my meets are in clubs and i don’t kiss clubs men - no one’s ever complained ha

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

If there is no kissing...no point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might give it a whurl.

No kissing social..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might try it..

Sit on sofa.. No kissing

On bed.. No kissing

Kissing gets in the way just get on with it

You can touch the body

Massage the body

No need to kiss..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet people that don't kiss because that wouldn't work for me.

I do not judge them for it though, everyone has boundaries etc. I just choose not to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a big deal. As long as they suck it

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

Does this include tongues ?

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"We have no issue with kissing but we know couples and singles that don’t kiss and no one has ever turned them down due to this..

Maybe some people just like to keep something back for each other."

Pretty much this. We keep anal back for us and that's my rule not John's.

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