FabSwingers.com forum: Changing Tastes

By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Ey up good folks: Many people hold certain preferences as regards physical attributes and personality traits in a potential partner.

In relation to this however, have your tastes changed over time?

For instance, if you internally visualise your ‘ideal’ partner now, would this have correlated with your ideal years ago? Please discuss

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I don't have a physical ideal. The people I adore are a lot more than their bodies and always have been

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think my tastes have changed quite a lot over time. I'm going to have difficulty explaining this but basically what I thought I wanted and liked actually wasn't, over time I've grown to know myself better and realised what I 'really' want and like. Fortunately Mr N fitted both categories... maybe that's because we grew to know each other better over time too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It used to be goth boys, then crusties, skater punks, Latino gangsters now its skinny pale gingers.

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"It used to be goth boys, then crusties, skater punks, Latino gangsters now its skinny pale gingers. "

Damn. I'll just have to hope that your tastes swing to old overweight guys

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Great and very difficult question for me.

I don't think I have a physical ideal. If I look at the majority of my partners. They tend to be below 5' 6" and slim. But there have been several exceptions significantly outside of that. Facial attractiveness is more prominent.

Personality wise there are many traits that appeal to me. However, openness is a common factor. How that manifest can vary substantially though. I am often attracted to women who are emotionally expressive, including the 'negative' scale. When they are pissed off you know about it and you know why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say mature hipsters but gotta be some real depth behind it, and I find it’s the ones with a ‘colourful’ past I find interesting and can relate to. That said, finding guys who are secure enough in themselves to want to be with someone (was gonna say like me but I hate that sentiment) is rare, and I’m bored shitless of insecure men on the down low.

I’ve concluded I’m probably now single permanently.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"I don't have a physical ideal. The people I adore are a lot more than their bodies and always have been

This plus there has to be a connection otherwise the sex just won't do it alone.

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By *ady IncognitoWoman
over a year ago

Chemistry, sense of humour and connection has always been important to me - more so than looks. That hasn't changed.

But I'm looking for trust and maturity now too. Had enough of dealing with the opposite.

All that said, I don't know if it's my mid-life hormones, but I'm definitely noticing hot fit good-looking guys way more now...

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By *uri00620Woman
over a year ago

Croydon

I always liked skinny Indie boys. I do still like that look but not sexually attracted to them now. As I'm not as skinny as I once was I'm finding my preferences are changing to match!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a type, I'm much more interested in how a man thinks and how he treats me than his looks. The men I've found sexy are very disparate.

But in recent years, I've come to really appreciate bearded men when I'd never found that appealing! And Asian men are on my radar now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s such a huge range for me and is ever changing. That’s a huge part of the appeal of a swinging lifestyle.

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Any more good folks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I still want someone hot

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Any hole but a connection!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go weak for the grey hair, grey beard on a wise face now. Woolly hat and mountain optional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to prefer a shaved pussy, now I’m into a little hair or trimmed. Bring back the bush!!!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

The only thing that’s a thing for me is a good bit of flesh. Aside from that I’ve never had a type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been trying to pinpoint exactly what it is that I go for, as I seem to attract a 'type' that end up being a bad choice all too often. But maybe the problem is me.

I go for nice faces, confident types that are very talkative. Usually slim and with a beard. Other than that I can't pinpoint anything else other than my tastes changing with age. As a teen or twenties girl I didn't like hairy chests but now I don't mind them at all, if anything I quite like a bit of a hairy chest. I'm definitely more personality focused than I used to be and much more aware of behaviours than ever.

The trouble I have is that one of the men I chose that fit the descriptions above isn't a wanker at all.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Ey up good folks: Many people hold certain preferences as regards physical attributes and personality traits in a potential partner.

In relation to this however, have your tastes changed over time?

For instance, if you internally visualise your ‘ideal’ partner now, would this have correlated with your ideal years ago? Please discuss

My ideal partner of sixteen years ago was an alt, butch, chainsmoking lesbian. French. Really passionate arguments about feminism, literature, philosophy and politics fuelled by red wine, late in to the night. Great sex.

I would now say that's far from my type now. Not too far, I still have a soft spot for alt women. I don't have a physical type. I've also developed a fondness for men. It's changed somewhat hasn't it? :D

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have always tended to go for dark haired men. Height irrelevant, looks irrelevant as long as I found them appealing.

They’ve started to have hints of grey as I’ve got older and my tastes adapt with that.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I have always preferred the same type of women

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement. "

No! So disappointed in you, Meli. I have no words. NO WORDS!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement.

No! So disappointed in you, Meli. I have no words. NO WORDS!

The shame. Thanks Kai for the crippling shame, really generous of you.

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement.

No! So disappointed in you, Meli. I have no words. NO WORDS!

I to am a absolutely shocked!

Shame on you Meli!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement.

No! So disappointed in you, Meli. I have no words. NO WORDS!

I to am a absolutely shocked!

Shame on you Meli!

And you? But it's you.

Oh well. Might as well unlos now, will do a thread before I go.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement.

No! So disappointed in you, Meli. I have no words. NO WORDS!

I to am a absolutely shocked!

Shame on you Meli!

And you? But it's you.

Oh well. Might as well unlos now, will do a thread before I go."

Just make sure it's written eloquently and correctly.

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement.

No! So disappointed in you, Meli. I have no words. NO WORDS!

I to am a absolutely shocked!

Shame on you Meli!

And you? But it's you.

Oh well. Might as well unlos now, will do a thread before I go."

Fear not lovely, you know I’ll forgive you anything really

(and the wording was ace)

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Well I still have a preference for dark haired/blue eyed guys, they're the 2 main features I go for and probably always will.

I never used to consider anyone much younger than me, that's changed since I joined Fab.

And I also quite like a cute ginger, that was a first for me on Fab.

Obviously with I was younger I had a habit of picking the "bad boys" and then the ones who needed some sort of looking after or fixing. But I'm so over that now, the less drama the better.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Not really ever changed since my first crush and it was pointed out to me once that I had recruited this same look repeatedly and I’d not even realised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement.

No! So disappointed in you, Meli. I have no words. NO WORDS!

I to am a absolutely shocked!

Shame on you Meli!

And you? But it's you.

Oh well. Might as well unlos now, will do a thread before I go."

Just make sure you get it to 175 before you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I go through phases of types I fancy but no, dark hair bright blue eyes wins every time

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By *dinson1983Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I don't have a physical ideal. The people I adore are a lot more than their bodies and always have been

Agreed!!!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm becoming more pan. It really is about the inner person.

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By *ensuallover1000 OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement.

No! So disappointed in you, Meli. I have no words. NO WORDS!

I to am a absolutely shocked!

Shame on you Meli!

And you? But it's you.

Oh well. Might as well unlos now, will do a thread before I go.

Just make sure you get it to 175 before you go."

Also, one’s last thread should result in one going out in absolute Fab style; Something controversial enough that one will never be forgotten and will be spoken of in aghast tones in years to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking hell. Can we excuse my awful writing? I've been awake far too early and am now running on caffeine and excitement.

No! So disappointed in you, Meli. I have no words. NO WORDS!

I to am a absolutely shocked!

Shame on you Meli!

And you? But it's you.

Oh well. Might as well unlos now, will do a thread before I go.

Just make sure you get it to 175 before you go.

Also, one’s last thread should result in one going out in absolute Fab style; Something controversial enough that one will never be forgotten and will be spoken of in aghast tones in years to come

I quite agree,I think Meli would ace that in the most articulate way too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until I was 40 or so I think I was conditioned to go for women with large breasts, maybe a Page 3 influence or maybe my ex who had huge tits! Then I had an affair with a lady with the smallest tits possible and I couldn’t believe how much they turned me on. I’ve been a fan of small breasts ever since. Of course there’s more to attraction than the size of one’s breasts but that’s my starting point.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I’ve always been attracted to super smart women, especially if they wear glasses and have a big, generous heart. This still holds true, but what’s changed is my preference for age. I find I have little interest in people who are younger than me. 40+ please.

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By *aith SkynbyrdWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

"Ey up good folks: Many people hold certain preferences as regards physical attributes and personality traits in a potential partner.

In relation to this however, have your tastes changed over time?

For instance, if you internally visualise your ‘ideal’ partner now, would this have correlated with your ideal years ago? Please discuss

Constantly changing. Influenced by who I meet and what they’re like.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I don’t really think I have a taste, what I mean is that it is totally different things in different people that can spark an attraction. What I find attractive in one person doesn’t necessarily mean I will find that attractive in someone else and viceversa.

Don’t think I explained that particularly well.

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