FabSwingers.com forum: Curious about clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, so I've been on here a number of years for genuine reasons.

I'm married with children however the spark that once existed no longer remains and we're just close friends who are a parent unit.

I use this site to retain a side of an adventurous personality I once had and save myself from being that guy who would just sit at the pond to feed ducks or something.

I love that side of my personality and will never give it up.

At the same time, I can't bring myself to separate the family unit.

That's my story and now onto the point. I'm very curious about the clubs and hear how wonderful the people I'm told are and how it's such a welcoming community in addition to the huge amount of real fun people have there.

I'm nervous about people who may not respect the confidentiality of attending (if there is such a thing) regardless of the reasons such as mine and worry that if there's someone there who knows me or my other half and will knowingly make things difficult and destroy my ability to retain the great confidence I have in everything else.

Can any genuine people offer any advice on what it's regarding the confidentiality in the clubs?

I met someone last night and she is someone I could get along with really well and we both have a mutual situation although hers has developed more than I have where she doesn't need to be concerned. I would love us to go as a fwb couple and if it doesn't work out, would love to continue attending to be amongst you people.

Thanks for reading.

Happy fabbing

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By *eturn of curiouscpleCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

The people who we've met on here that have been to clubs, say the best way for your first time is to arrange to go in with someone that's been before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The people who we've met on here that have been to clubs, say the best way for your first time is to arrange to go in with someone that's been before.

Thanks. Have you seen people there that you know are there without their partner knowing?

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By *eturn of curiouscpleCouple
over a year ago

Guildford

Can't see that happening often.

They wouldn't work out as a couple for long, doing shady things like that.

That scenario is one for the Stories & Fantasy forum

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At clubs you have to register so ID and proof of address is required (obviously the staff follow GDPR regulations)

Clubs kinda have that unwritten "what happens at the club stays at the club" rule.

No one is going to be chatting your business and unless you go around telling everyone your married then they won't know.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

OP I see you've posted this three times in the same hour with different titles

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

I would listen to your conscience.

There are never any guarantees that you won’t get recognised or somebody will turn vengeful at a later date.

Eyes wide open and no lies is a good start.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

The problem is when your sneaking around theirs always a chance you will bump into someone you know or who knows your wife .

We have bumped into people we know even when we have traveled further afield but we have nothing to hide so it’s not really been a issue for us.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"The people who we've met on here that have been to clubs, say the best way for your first time is to arrange to go in with someone that's been before.

I would agree, that visiting any club for the first time OP, going in as a couple will always be preferable than as a solo male

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