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"Is it just me that hates these threads? I'm sure you mean well op, but no. " Not just you... | |||
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"Is it just me that hates these threads? I'm sure you mean well op, but no. How about the thread running dedicated to you "*Shhhh* I feel like Wile-e-Coyote who's just lit the bomb he's about to throw at Roadrunner, but it comes right back at him and he looks at the camera, smiles and then..... | |||
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"Is it just me that hates these threads? I'm sure you mean well op, but no. " They are a bit like the ‘oo remembers?’ posts on Facebook. | |||
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"Is it just me that hates these threads? I'm sure you mean well op, but no. How about the thread running dedicated to you
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"Never stated that was my preference only said i find it sexy thats all " For the avoidance of doubt I was being just a tad sarcastic above, as a single guy on here you can’t win at times. Whenever any form of preference for a female is suggested, the OP generally gets roasted, but hey it’s ok when the fit rugby players or VWE cocks are a preference. That’s different because, well .. reasons! 
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"Never stated that was my preference only said i find it sexy thats all For the avoidance of doubt I was being just a tad sarcastic above, as a single guy on here you can’t win at times. Whenever any form of preference for a female is suggested, the OP generally gets roasted, but hey it’s ok when the fit rugby players or VWE cocks are a preference. That’s different because, well .. reasons!
It’s your preference, you stick with it "This actually wasn't the reason for my post. Guys can prefer whatever they want, it's actually nice when a guy has a physical preference and doesn't just spout on about the "connection" I just find the mum bod threads a little condescending and just eurgh. I'm sure most don't though so crack on. | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer!" . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt" Let's leave this because it's becoming a bit of a lynch mob. That and my funny one got deleted.  | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt" What is it you want answering? I'll see if I can help | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt What is it you want answering? I'll see if I can help" . Have you forgotten your own quibble lol? I'm asking for *you* to respond to him. Sure I think ok you can comment on people's responses, but you can't really tell people how to make them. Few people have 'answered' this one - ie in the way you want - I think because what is there to say? The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt What is it you want answering? I'll see if I can help . Have you forgotten your own quibble lol? I'm asking for *you* to respond to him. Sure I think ok you can comment on people's responses, but you can't really tell people how to make them. Few people have 'answered' this one - ie in the way you want - I think because what is there to say? The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt" My own quibble? You sure you're talking about me? | |||
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"I've a Mam bod proud of my 3scars after 3 c sections..  "and so you should be | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt What is it you want answering? I'll see if I can help . Have you forgotten your own quibble lol? I'm asking for *you* to respond to him. Sure I think ok you can comment on people's responses, but you can't really tell people how to make them. Few people have 'answered' this one - ie in the way you want - I think because what is there to say? The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt" Only damned if your face doesn't fit. Some get away with posting all kinds of shite. As for the OP there's nothing wrong with the thread, people post about preferences all the time. | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt What is it you want answering? I'll see if I can help . Have you forgotten your own quibble lol? I'm asking for *you* to respond to him. Sure I think ok you can comment on people's responses, but you can't really tell people how to make them. Few people have 'answered' this one - ie in the way you want - I think because what is there to say? The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt My own quibble? You sure you're talking about me?" . You said "Give the OP a break and answer!" didn't you? Maybe you could have done that yourself first is all I'm saying. But 'liking the mom bod?' is maybe not that easy (or inviting perhaps) a question for everyone to answer in quite the way you'd like them to. pt | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt What is it you want answering? I'll see if I can help . Have you forgotten your own quibble lol? I'm asking for *you* to respond to him. Sure I think ok you can comment on people's responses, but you can't really tell people how to make them. Few people have 'answered' this one - ie in the way you want - I think because what is there to say? The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Only damned if your face doesn't fit. Some get away with posting all kinds of shite. As for the OP there's nothing wrong with the thread, people post about preferences all the time." . No there's nothing wrong with the thread, and I've tried these myself. People will post what they post though, we have to keep balanced about that. pt | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt What is it you want answering? I'll see if I can help . Have you forgotten your own quibble lol? I'm asking for *you* to respond to him. Sure I think ok you can comment on people's responses, but you can't really tell people how to make them. Few people have 'answered' this one - ie in the way you want - I think because what is there to say? The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Only damned if your face doesn't fit. Some get away with posting all kinds of shite. As for the OP there's nothing wrong with the thread, people post about preferences all the time. . No there's nothing wrong with the thread, and I've tried these myself. People will post what they post though, we have to keep balanced about that. pt " Yep exactly, you can't please them all and neither would you want too | |||
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"I've a Mam bod proud of my 3scars after 3 c sections.. "Same here, three c sections and proud... and good to see mum bods appreciated | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt What is it you want answering? I'll see if I can help . Have you forgotten your own quibble lol? I'm asking for *you* to respond to him. Sure I think ok you can comment on people's responses, but you can't really tell people how to make them. Few people have 'answered' this one - ie in the way you want - I think because what is there to say? The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Only damned if your face doesn't fit. Some get away with posting all kinds of shite. As for the OP there's nothing wrong with the thread, people post about preferences all the time. ,, " ,,, this | |||
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" The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt" Ah fuck it, it’s Tuesday and my tummy is rumbling so I’ll bite and explain the vom. Regardless of what the dadbod crew will have you believe, carrying and then giving birth to a child or children will change a woman’s body beyond her control. A lot of women then have bodies that are noticeably different to what they were before and a lot of women don’t perceive those changes to be positive. Not only are they dealing with the biggest lifestyle change to ever happen to a person, a massive hormone drop that affects their mental state and the million and one things that now need doing to keep the smallest person in the world alive, their bodies are very different. Lemme explain what a mum bod really is shall I? Giving birth vaginally means your vagina is so stretched that in many cases it tears or has to be cut and stitched. Those of you who understand basic female anatomy will then realise that simply having a piss becomes the second most painful thing to do, ever. Your labia can be stretched so much in some cases it never goes back to its former size. If you have a caesarean section you’re getting a big scar right across your stomach. Your boobs fill with milk, shrink after breastfeeding and rarely end up the same as before. They can be saggy, flat, covered in stretch marks or have other noticeable changes. Your stomach will likely have stretch marks and pockets of fat that don’t ever disappear. Sometimes your hips and thighs get them. Imagine then living with these permanent changes and having to accept that your body will never match the perfection shoved down your throat on insta, fb, tv, magazines, billboards, etc. Get your head round all that then imagine a subculture of men online who try and manipulate women’s insecurities to get their dicks wet. ‘Oh I love mumbods’ (oh, someone actually finds me attractive, that’s really nice of him)
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" The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Ah fuck it, it’s Tuesday and my tummy is rumbling so I’ll bite and explain the vom. Regardless of what the dadbod crew will have you believe, carrying and then giving birth to a child or children will change a woman’s body beyond her control. A lot of women then have bodies that are noticeably different to what they were before and a lot of women don’t perceive those changes to be positive. Not only are they dealing with the biggest lifestyle change to ever happen to a person, a massive hormone drop that affects their mental state and the million and one things that now need doing to keep the smallest person in the world alive, their bodies are very different. Lemme explain what a mum bod really is shall I? Giving birth vaginally means your vagina is so stretched that in many cases it tears or has to be cut and stitched. Those of you who understand basic female anatomy will then realise that simply having a piss becomes the second most painful thing to do, ever. Your labia can be stretched so much in some cases it never goes back to its former size. If you have a caesarean section you’re getting a big scar right across your stomach. Your boobs fill with milk, shrink after breastfeeding and rarely end up the same as before. They can be saggy, flat, covered in stretch marks or have other noticeable changes. Your stomach will likely have stretch marks and pockets of fat that don’t ever disappear. Sometimes your hips and thighs get them. Imagine then living with these permanent changes and having to accept that your body will never match the perfection shoved down your throat on insta, fb, tv, magazines, billboards, etc. Get your head round all that then imagine a subculture of men online who try and manipulate women’s insecurities to get their dicks wet. ‘Oh I love mumbods’ (oh, someone actually finds me attractive, that’s really nice of him)
Better with an explanation I’ll grant you but I’ll stand by my "What she said!!! | |||
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"I have a mom bod, gone are the days I was a size 8! I love it though and rock it well I think lol D x" So you should as you definitely rock it | |||
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" The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Ah fuck it, it’s Tuesday and my tummy is rumbling so I’ll bite and explain the vom. Regardless of what the dadbod crew will have you believe, carrying and then giving birth to a child or children will change a woman’s body beyond her control. A lot of women then have bodies that are noticeably different to what they were before and a lot of women don’t perceive those changes to be positive. Not only are they dealing with the biggest lifestyle change to ever happen to a person, a massive hormone drop that affects their mental state and the million and one things that now need doing to keep the smallest person in the world alive, their bodies are very different. Lemme explain what a mum bod really is shall I? Giving birth vaginally means your vagina is so stretched that in many cases it tears or has to be cut and stitched. Those of you who understand basic female anatomy will then realise that simply having a piss becomes the second most painful thing to do, ever. Your labia can be stretched so much in some cases it never goes back to its former size. If you have a caesarean section you’re getting a big scar right across your stomach. Your boobs fill with milk, shrink after breastfeeding and rarely end up the same as before. They can be saggy, flat, covered in stretch marks or have other noticeable changes. Your stomach will likely have stretch marks and pockets of fat that don’t ever disappear. Sometimes your hips and thighs get them. Imagine then living with these permanent changes and having to accept that your body will never match the perfection shoved down your throat on insta, fb, tv, magazines, billboards, etc. Get your head round all that then imagine a subculture of men online who try and manipulate women’s insecurities to get their dicks wet. ‘Oh I love mumbods’ (oh, someone actually finds me attractive, that’s really nice of him)
Better with an explanation I’ll grant you but I’ll stand by my "All of this. But also there are some women who genetically 'snap' back to almost what they were before as if nothing happened. They are a mum but are they not perceived as having a hot mum bod? But mainly I think about the women who can't have children for a plethora of reasons. Threads like this are just another reminder to them (and yes that goes for the dad bod ones too) And to the person in my DM's - no a pumpkin top and witches cape do not make a mum bod  | |||
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" And to the person in my DM's - no a pumpkin top and witches cape do not make a mum bod "Lol | |||
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" And to the person in my DM's - no a pumpkin top and witches cape do not make a mum bod
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" The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Ah fuck it, it’s Tuesday and my tummy is rumbling so I’ll bite and explain the vom. Regardless of what the dadbod crew will have you believe, carrying and then giving birth to a child or children will change a woman’s body beyond her control. A lot of women then have bodies that are noticeably different to what they were before and a lot of women don’t perceive those changes to be positive. Not only are they dealing with the biggest lifestyle change to ever happen to a person, a massive hormone drop that affects their mental state and the million and one things that now need doing to keep the smallest person in the world alive, their bodies are very different. Lemme explain what a mum bod really is shall I? Giving birth vaginally means your vagina is so stretched that in many cases it tears or has to be cut and stitched. Those of you who understand basic female anatomy will then realise that simply having a piss becomes the second most painful thing to do, ever. Your labia can be stretched so much in some cases it never goes back to its former size. If you have a caesarean section you’re getting a big scar right across your stomach. Your boobs fill with milk, shrink after breastfeeding and rarely end up the same as before. They can be saggy, flat, covered in stretch marks or have other noticeable changes. Your stomach will likely have stretch marks and pockets of fat that don’t ever disappear. Sometimes your hips and thighs get them. Imagine then living with these permanent changes and having to accept that your body will never match the perfection shoved down your throat on insta, fb, tv, magazines, billboards, etc. Get your head round all that then imagine a subculture of men online who try and manipulate women’s insecurities to get their dicks wet. ‘Oh I love mumbods’ (oh, someone actually finds me attractive, that’s really nice of him)
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" The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Ah fuck it, it’s Tuesday and my tummy is rumbling so I’ll bite and explain the vom. Regardless of what the dadbod crew will have you believe, carrying and then giving birth to a child or children will change a woman’s body beyond her control. A lot of women then have bodies that are noticeably different to what they were before and a lot of women don’t perceive those changes to be positive. Not only are they dealing with the biggest lifestyle change to ever happen to a person, a massive hormone drop that affects their mental state and the million and one things that now need doing to keep the smallest person in the world alive, their bodies are very different. Lemme explain what a mum bod really is shall I? Giving birth vaginally means your vagina is so stretched that in many cases it tears or has to be cut and stitched. Those of you who understand basic female anatomy will then realise that simply having a piss becomes the second most painful thing to do, ever. Your labia can be stretched so much in some cases it never goes back to its former size. If you have a caesarean section you’re getting a big scar right across your stomach. Your boobs fill with milk, shrink after breastfeeding and rarely end up the same as before. They can be saggy, flat, covered in stretch marks or have other noticeable changes. Your stomach will likely have stretch marks and pockets of fat that don’t ever disappear. Sometimes your hips and thighs get them. Imagine then living with these permanent changes and having to accept that your body will never match the perfection shoved down your throat on insta, fb, tv, magazines, billboards, etc. Get your head round all that then imagine a subculture of men online who try and manipulate women’s insecurities to get their dicks wet. ‘Oh I love mumbods’ (oh, someone actually finds me attractive, that’s really nice of him)
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" The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Ah fuck it, it’s Tuesday and my tummy is rumbling so I’ll bite and explain the vom. Regardless of what the dadbod crew will have you believe, carrying and then giving birth to a child or children will change a woman’s body beyond her control. A lot of women then have bodies that are noticeably different to what they were before and a lot of women don’t perceive those changes to be positive. Not only are they dealing with the biggest lifestyle change to ever happen to a person, a massive hormone drop that affects their mental state and the million and one things that now need doing to keep the smallest person in the world alive, their bodies are very different. Lemme explain what a mum bod really is shall I? Giving birth vaginally means your vagina is so stretched that in many cases it tears or has to be cut and stitched. Those of you who understand basic female anatomy will then realise that simply having a piss becomes the second most painful thing to do, ever. Your labia can be stretched so much in some cases it never goes back to its former size. If you have a caesarean section you’re getting a big scar right across your stomach. Your boobs fill with milk, shrink after breastfeeding and rarely end up the same as before. They can be saggy, flat, covered in stretch marks or have other noticeable changes. Your stomach will likely have stretch marks and pockets of fat that don’t ever disappear. Sometimes your hips and thighs get them. Imagine then living with these permanent changes and having to accept that your body will never match the perfection shoved down your throat on insta, fb, tv, magazines, billboards, etc. Get your head round all that then imagine a subculture of men online who try and manipulate women’s insecurities to get their dicks wet. ‘Oh I love mumbods’ (oh, someone actually finds me attractive, that’s really nice of him)
Better with an explanation I’ll grant you but I’ll stand by my "I hear ya, but it’s possibly a little bit disingenuous to think that men can’t appreciate the femininity and body of a woman who’s been through that for what it is, and not always playing on the insecurities of women who think they have to conform to the media “ideal”. It kind of suggests that once a woman has given birth then as her body changes as you’ve outlined, they can no longer be sexy or appealing to men? Isn’t that just a bit anti-feminist? | |||
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" The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Ah fuck it, it’s Tuesday and my tummy is rumbling so I’ll bite and explain the vom. Regardless of what the dadbod crew will have you believe, carrying and then giving birth to a child or children will change a woman’s body beyond her control. A lot of women then have bodies that are noticeably different to what they were before and a lot of women don’t perceive those changes to be positive. Not only are they dealing with the biggest lifestyle change to ever happen to a person, a massive hormone drop that affects their mental state and the million and one things that now need doing to keep the smallest person in the world alive, their bodies are very different. Lemme explain what a mum bod really is shall I? Giving birth vaginally means your vagina is so stretched that in many cases it tears or has to be cut and stitched. Those of you who understand basic female anatomy will then realise that simply having a piss becomes the second most painful thing to do, ever. Your labia can be stretched so much in some cases it never goes back to its former size. If you have a caesarean section you’re getting a big scar right across your stomach. Your boobs fill with milk, shrink after breastfeeding and rarely end up the same as before. They can be saggy, flat, covered in stretch marks or have other noticeable changes. Your stomach will likely have stretch marks and pockets of fat that don’t ever disappear. Sometimes your hips and thighs get them. Imagine then living with these permanent changes and having to accept that your body will never match the perfection shoved down your throat on insta, fb, tv, magazines, billboards, etc. Get your head round all that then imagine a subculture of men online who try and manipulate women’s insecurities to get their dicks wet. ‘Oh I love mumbods’ (oh, someone actually finds me attractive, that’s really nice of him)
Better with an explanation I’ll grant you but I’ll stand by my
I hear ya, but it’s possibly a little bit disingenuous to think that men can’t appreciate the femininity and body of a woman who’s been through that for what it is, and not always playing on the insecurities of women who think they have to conform to the media “ideal”.
It kind of suggests that once a woman has given birth then as her body changes as you’ve outlined, they can no longer be sexy or appealing to men?
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" Funnily enough, a lot of women don’t see being attractive to men as a priority "And yet here they all are on a fuck site with their tits and arses out
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" Funnily enough, a lot of women don’t see being attractive to men as a priority
And yet here they all are on a fuck site with their tits and arses out
But that’s not the point of the original post though, or not how I interpreted it anyway. I think the OP has been given a rough time a little bit unfairly (across the thread in general) "Maybe they’re doing it because reasons Dan. Who knows. Who cares. My tedtalk was aimed at pt who called me out for doing a . If the op got a hard time then welcome to the internet! | |||
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"It's just not that authentic because it comes from dad bod, which is just a dumb attempt to steal mummy tummy without doing any of the work. pt" Which came first? The mum or the dad? Maybe they both came at the same time? It's important to know these things. No really it is. | |||
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"All of the above makes me realise we all have likes and dislikes and others judge us on them ! Give op a break and answer! . Go on then... answer lol People aren't sure what exactly it is. It's not judging him (or any tastes he might have), it's a quibble with the term. pt What is it you want answering? I'll see if I can help . Have you forgotten your own quibble lol? I'm asking for *you* to respond to him. Sure I think ok you can comment on people's responses, but you can't really tell people how to make them. Few people have 'answered' this one - ie in the way you want - I think because what is there to say? The voms were a bit OTT, but there is always a bomb squad getting at everyone it seems to me. It does feel a bit like you are damned to post here whatever you do sometimes! pt Only damned if your face doesn't fit. Some get away with posting all kinds of shite. As for the OP there's nothing wrong with the thread, people post about preferences all the time. " There... Its the story of life. | |||
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"Some people just can't stop from pissing on others fire works. " Yep 'I don't like a term you used to express a sexual interest and rather than just walk away from it I'll tell you all about why I don't like it' | |||
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" Funnily enough, a lot of women don’t see being attractive to men as a priority
And yet here they all are on a fuck site with their tits and arses out
But that’s not the point of the original post though, or not how I interpreted it anyway. I think the OP has been given a rough time a little bit unfairly (across the thread in general)
Maybe they’re doing it because reasons Dan. Who knows. Who cares. My tedtalk was aimed at pt who called me out for doing a . If the op got a hard time then welcome to the internet!
". Good longer post, but I've got to say now that I didn't intend to 'call you out' - I actually forgot who even made the vom and didn't look back. I just said in passing that the voms struck me as a bit 'OTT' (and it still does tbh, despite your inarguable description) but I went on to say that this 'mom bod' term (if it even is a term) will mean different things to different people (maybe even just 'milf' to a 25yo into 'older' - which is fine...) and people will post how they feel!!! As you did, and did better again since. 'Mom bod' is clearly an ambiguous term hopefully meant in a fully positive sense, and you chose to take the side of it you find unattractive. I personally don't remotely care if you do that.. But this is a thing (and it comes up all the time): it does feel shitty when you make a particular type of thread and people immediately go counter and OTT on it. It *is* the internet, but the internet isn't always great in this respect. Should other people then automatically go after the people who do that? No, that often (though not always) seems a bit daft to me - I think it's often better just to post something positive (if you feel it) and to address the balance then to drop more bombs. And that was the entire point of my post! Great longer post though fc, you just didn't need to do it only to respond to me - it was worth doing anyway! pt | |||
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"Surely it is "mum bods" ? Why are we all turning American?" I did mean to put "mum bods" but with how Fast i type it does happend quite often | |||
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"What's a "mum bod"???" Urban dictionary: A body type that is not obese nor severely overweight but also not too muscular or skinny. Women who have these bodies are typically 5-20 pounds overweight but in the right places. A mom bod typically has thick thighs, a soft and plump but also small stomach, and a big but not excessive butt. Women with mom bods also have good facial structure too. | |||
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"What's a "mum bod"??? Urban dictionary: A body type that is not obese nor severely overweight but also not too muscular or skinny. Women who have these bodies are typically 5-20 pounds overweight but in the right places. A mom bod typically has thick thighs, a soft and plump but also small stomach, and a big but not excessive butt. Women with mom bods also have good facial structure too." Urban Dictionary is a wiki, so this would have been written by 'some guy'. It's certain someone's idea of a 'milf' though! (mother I'd like to fuck) In this world where porn in King, all older women are mums. Because that's what women do. It's fucking dumb of course (and likely offensive to many for a number of different reasons), but that's what it is. Guys, would you fuck these desperate old lookers with kids who are looking for cock? You know, 30 up maybe? No mention of scars in this definition - it's just a little more jiggle in the same sexy places as the 20yo model. Why do I assume these women are built like a models? Because most women could fit this definition right across their adult lives! So 'mum bods' must specifically be milfs. pt | |||
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"What defines a mom bod? " a mom bod is a body which has lived and given life so is allowed to be different from the way the fashion industry wants women to look. give me a mom bod anyway | |||
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"What defines a mom bod? a mom bod is a body which has lived and given life so is allowed to be different from the way the fashion industry wants women to look. give me a mom bod anyway "Are women who aren't mothers allowed the same privilege? | |||
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"What defines a mom bod? a mom bod is a body which has lived and given life so is allowed to be different from the way the fashion industry wants women to look. give me a mom bod anyway
Are women who aren't mothers allowed the same privilege?". It's the elephant in the room for me. I think that many fabbers are so intent on loving our imperfections they can miss these (sometimes rude) logical anomalies sometimes. 'Mom bod' logically has to = 'milf' to me. Which is probably why we don't typically use it on Fab, as milf itself does that trick, and so does 'mummy tummy' for the most common of the mother's body issues too. And all the age and size threads clear up all the rest of it. pt | |||
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