FabSwingers.com forum: Please help me

By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx"

I’d pictured your husband out grafting daily to provide for you, and you struggling to do what is probably a couple hours light work, and give myself a reality check

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

If you find the answer, let me know!

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

This is it now. You can never leave. Everything you do from now on will be one handed - no, not like that…while you scroll through the Lounge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to get stuff done before I come online otherwise I simply do not do it haha.

The hours can fly by if I am engaged and interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx"

Advertise for a cuck, and have them do the chores.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"This is it now. You can never leave. Everything you do from now on will be one handed - no, not like that…while you scroll through the Lounge. "

Bit like hotel California

fook showing my age again

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"I have to get stuff done before I come online otherwise I simply do not do it haha.

The hours can fly by if I am engaged and interested."

Best advice today, thank you, lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx

I’d pictured your husband out grafting daily to provide for you, and you struggling to do what is probably a couple hours light work, and give myself a reality check "

Always one isn’t there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put the phone down now before you get truly sucked into the rabbit hole of fab.

Only allow yourself to pick it back up on the completion of tasks.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx

I’d pictured your husband out grafting daily to provide for you, and you struggling to do what is probably a couple hours light work, and give myself a reality check "

Look at you with your trolling based on assumptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is such a distraction! Especially the forums! The absolute best kind of distraction but it doesn’t help when you’ve got stuff that needs to be done haha.

I’ve still not figured out the balance

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

Make a list.

Do a job.

Cross it off.

Have a break.

Do a job etc.

Don't think, just do 1 job at a time.

As long as you do 1, you're winning.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to get stuff done before I come online otherwise I simply do not do it haha.

The hours can fly by if I am engaged and interested.

Best advice today, thank you, lol xx"

Hahah welcome.

I have already done what I was going to do apart the dog walk.

I will get that done now then I can engage as much as I like

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx

I’d pictured your husband out grafting daily to provide for you, and you struggling to do what is probably a couple hours light work, and give myself a reality check

Always one isn’t there

But sadly he is correct, think i have the simptoms of an addict. Coffee , FAB and eastenders x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the day and continue to play, leave the other stuff for tomorrow

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"Enjoy the day and continue to play, leave the other stuff for tomorrow

This, yes good advice, going to make another coffee x

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"Put the phone down now before you get truly sucked into the rabbit hole of fab.

Only allow yourself to pick it back up on the completion of tasks. "

Too late, the rabbit hole has pulled me in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx

I’d pictured your husband out grafting daily to provide for you, and you struggling to do what is probably a couple hours light work, and give myself a reality check

Always one isn’t there

Well…. If it’s not him it’s the other one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But sadly he is correct"

Do the ironing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put the phone down now before you get truly sucked into the rabbit hole of fab.

Only allow yourself to pick it back up on the completion of tasks.

Too late, the rabbit hole has pulled me in x "

That’s it, you’re doomed to spend the day scrolling and typing. With the occasional bean flick when the urge grabs.

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By *irjamesMan
over a year ago

Warrington

Certainly a place that lures you in, if only you could get paid for the endless hours haha

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I have a todo list calendar. Each day can have one or more tasks and I stick to it.

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Starting this thread was a mistake, i feel i have a responsabilty to monitor it and send responses.

The ironing can wait ! X

But i did put my coffee cup in the dishwasher so thats one step towards a more productive day

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd love a kick up the bum & some motivation.

Welcome to the forums OP.

3rd coffee on the go hopefully that'll work.

Mrs

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx

Advertise for a cuck, and have them do the chores.

I’m not sure you understand what cuckolding is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx

Advertise for a cuck, and have them do the chores.

I’m not sure you understand what cuckolding is."

I did say cuck and not bull. Wait, can't you do that?

Should've said s****?

Ahhh I'm far too sweet and innocent.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Start your day again. Take the batteries out of your electric gentleman, open the windows, put the phone down, tv off and do job number 1.

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"Start your day again. Take the batteries out of your electric gentleman, open the windows, put the phone down, tv off and do job number 1. "

Electric gentleman, just spat my coffee out. Going to use that in a sentance today, lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Welcome to the forum

I'm an Olympic standard procrastinator. The best way to motivate me to doing any sort of task is either give me a deadline or call me and tell me you'll be round in an hour

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Start your day again. Take the batteries out of your electric gentleman, open the windows, put the phone down, tv off and do job number 1.

Electric gentleman, just spat my coffee out. Going to use that in a sentance today, lol x "

A suivre

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London | Belfast | currently Preston

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx"

The trick is to start very small and get the ball going. Once you are up doing something small, you can move up to a bigger task.

If you try with the big task first, you feel overwhelmed. That's why you routinely work out in the morning. There is no additional health benefit to do it early, but once you start with a pro-active day it's easier to keep it going than to have a lazy morning and pretend like you do things later in the day (you won't). The more used you are to being lazy, the more difficult it is to do stuff, the more time of your day you spend laying on your couch watching stuff, the less you get done in the day.

I know from myself. I have days when I want a lazy morning, and then that transitions into a very boring, very unproductive day and I get nothing done. Do that a few days in a row, and I end up living like a slob because I procrastrinate everything.

But once I start getting to annoyed by dirty plates in the sink or clothes everywhere, I start taking care of that, and suddenly I end up cleaning everything up, do some boat work, go out for groceries and collect parcels, build a barn, bring peace to the middle east and find inevitable proof for deities.

Unfortunately I use paper plates at the moment.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Set an alarm to go off every hour and do something for 15 minutes, fill the washing machine, do an online shop, pick up dog mess, etc. You’ll eventually get through the tasks.

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx

The trick is to start very small and get the ball going. Once you are up doing something small, you can move up to a bigger task.

Unfortunately I use paper plates at the moment.

This is all very heavy, made me feel guilty, but i do need to catch up on three episodes of corry ,so glad i am not a taxi driver x

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"Set an alarm to go off every hour and do something for 15 minutes, fill the washing machine, do an online shop, pick up dog mess, etc. You’ll eventually get through the tasks.

Oooo, online shop, good call x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it for another day x

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By *aissez-faireMan
over a year ago

Right behind you…. Boo

"Set an alarm to go off every hour and do something for 15 minutes, fill the washing machine, do an online shop, pick up dog mess, etc. You’ll eventually get through the tasks.

This. A little Fabbing can be the reward for achieving something.

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Dog sorted, my day has started xx

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"Set an alarm to go off every hour and do something for 15 minutes, fill the washing machine, do an online shop, pick up dog mess, etc. You’ll eventually get through the tasks.

This is what I like to do. It really helps me

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I set an alarm on alexa and when it goes off i get up and do at least 10 minutes. Then i repeat the cycle until everything is done.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

The op has gone. Must have got to the dog doody by now.

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"The op has gone. Must have got to the dog doody by now. "

Im back, the dog do is sorted

, now looking at big pile of washing (still yuck) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"New to the forums, coffee cup is full, curled up on the sofa,catching up on eastenders and he has gone to work.

Big stack of ironing, need to go out to the shop and dog do to clean up.

But im stuck playing on here, my motivation has ran away.

How do you kick your self up the bum to get on with the day ? Or do i just leave it all till later or even better and do it tommorow ?

Love you all and quite enjoying FAB xx"

I usually continue on here until a call reminds me I should have done something or a moment of recollection throws me into a blind panic of productivity.

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Ironing is done, time for anther coffee , yey x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ironing is done, time for anther coffee , yey x"

I think you need a local FB to come round with hubby is away ;-p .. they could even help you out .. :+p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flying through it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When *

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Ironing is done, time for anther coffee , yey x"

Woohoo! We're on a long car journey so I can waste time on here guilt free today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay!

Bollicks to the real world!

Just 5 more minutes.

You do know you can get re runs of old Eastenders on Drama channel?

Charity's Bad Influence Emporium is always ooen for business!

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

"Stay!

Bollicks to the real world!

Just 5 more minutes.

You do know you can get re runs of old Eastenders on Drama channel?

Charity's Bad Influence Emporium is always ooen for business! "

Just 5 more minutes, i need a FAB patch or gum x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m invested in the outcome.

Did the jobs get finished?

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By *inacolada3 OP Couple
over a year ago

kettering

Lol, thank you for your interest.

Yes all jobs done and a little lippy on, he will be home soon and got to keep him sweet x

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