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Lube and the menopause

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By *pecifically1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have a friend who is going through the menopause and is struggling with lube drying out quickly. It is making sex painful for her as her partner doesn't seem to notice.

I am sure there are ladies on Fab who suffer from the same ..any advice on what she can try. KY is proving fruitless...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Im not looking forward to the menopause......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is going through the menopause and is struggling with lube drying out quickly. It is making sex painful for her as her partner doesn't seem to notice.

I am sure there are ladies on Fab who suffer from the same ..any advice on what she can try. KY is proving fruitless..."

A trip to the doctor may get better results as they may have more alternatives.

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By *pecifically1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I have a friend who is going through the menopause and is struggling with lube drying out quickly. It is making sex painful for her as her partner doesn't seem to notice.

I am sure there are ladies on Fab who suffer from the same ..any advice on what she can try. KY is proving fruitless...

A trip to the doctor may get better results as they may have more alternatives."

she has tried that...the stuff he suggested smells of antisceptic apparenty and costs £14 for a little bottle...not available on the nhs.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend who is going through the menopause and is struggling with lube drying out quickly. It is making sex painful for her as her partner doesn't seem to notice.

I am sure there are ladies on Fab who suffer from the same ..any advice on what she can try. KY is proving fruitless...

A trip to the doctor may get better results as they may have more alternatives.

she has tried that...the stuff he suggested smells of antisceptic apparenty and costs £14 for a little bottle...not available on the nhs....."

But its more likley to work than KY which you say already is infective?

If cost is an issue try lard it is natural, doesn't smell of antiseptic and is cheap.

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By *pecifically1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I have a friend who is going through the menopause and is struggling with lube drying out quickly. It is making sex painful for her as her partner doesn't seem to notice.

I am sure there are ladies on Fab who suffer from the same ..any advice on what she can try. KY is proving fruitless...

A trip to the doctor may get better results as they may have more alternatives.

she has tried that...the stuff he suggested smells of antisceptic apparenty and costs £14 for a little bottle...not available on the nhs.....

But its more likley to work than KY which you say already is infective?

If cost is an issue try lard it is natural, doesn't smell of antiseptic and is cheap. "

it doesn't work..she dries with that too

not sure lard will do much for her sense of passion.....lol

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

lard

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Lard!!?? Really?? Bit of a passion killer that aint it? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if shes menopausal then baby oil as she doesnt need to use condoms

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By *pecifically1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Lard!!?? Really?? Bit of a passion killer that aint it? Lol "

not just me that thought that then..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry - but that just brings back images of Last Tango in Paris

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

To be honest drying up wasnt a problem take HRT or use vagifem (estradiol) 10mg or 25mg.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"if shes menopausal then baby oil as she doesnt need to use condoms "

LOL really why is that ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lard!!?? Really?? Bit of a passion killer that aint it? Lol "

It would be for me but its cheap and if cost is an issue like it seems to be its an alternative to KY.

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By *pecifically1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"To be honest drying up wasnt a problem take HRT or use vagifem (estradiol) 10mg or 25mg. "

she can't take HRT for medical reasons..i suggested that

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands


"Lard!!?? Really?? Bit of a passion killer that aint it? Lol

not just me that thought that then..lol"

I, for one, would NOT like lard on my bits!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was about a new rock band

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if shes menopausal then baby oil as she doesnt need to use condoms

LOL really why is that ?? "

Oooh let's all go bareback

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By *pecifically1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I thought this was about a new rock band "

hey what a great name.....start a band....

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By *pecifically1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"if shes menopausal then baby oil as she doesnt need to use condoms

LOL really why is that ??

Oooh let's all go bareback "

lol...bareback isn't a problem..she's vanilla...one partner for last 10 years.....

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"To be honest drying up wasnt a problem take HRT or use vagifem (estradiol) 10mg or 25mg.

she can't take HRT for medical reasons..i suggested that"

well if doctor told her no HRT he would have given her an alternative. vagifem the pessaries are fine no they wont let me use HRT anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her gp can prescribe her an estrogen cream that would help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was an inquiry for a vannila lady who doesnt play and was only with her hubby so oops if its not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Her gp can prescribe her an estrogen cream that would help! "

The cream stings my skin and causes a reaction.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

maybe a silicon based lube would be better...the water based ones do disappear very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if shes menopausal then baby oil as she doesnt need to use condoms "

She will if she is still having periods

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By *pecifically1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"maybe a silicon based lube would be better...the water based ones do disappear very quickly "

can you suggest any?

I love KY, does me for all occassions..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a Silicone based lubricant as opposed to a water based lubricant as it will not dry out, Silicone is a more effective alternative to water based lubricants because silicone lube stays slippery for longer without having to add water, but it doesn't come with many of the negative consequences that oil based lube does. Unlike oil, silicone lubricants are safe to use with latex condoms because they don’t break down the material. They are also ideal for anyone with sensitive skin because silicone lube is less likely to cause skin irritation than even water based lube. Water based lube dries out if water is not reapplied and it has a sticky, tacky feeling when left dry on the skin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i suggest ID Millennium..it's a silicone based lube and ultra slippy..never dries up!

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